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[zxcvbnm1]

As a 19 year old punter myself I'm curious to know what punters and WGs think of teenage punters. I know that there aren't many of us and that we make up less than 5% of punters, so I'd like to know what people think.

Personally I decided to use an escort for the first time last year, as I had never even come close to having sex before. My first experience was not very good due to nerves, I have had better experiences with her since though. I have since slept with 3 other girls, 2 being WGs.

Guys, did you use escorts when you were 19? Do you wish you had done?
Girls, do you see teenage clients? If not, why not? If you do, would you say your experiences have been quite different when compared with older clients?

[porker paul]

I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

[ptrleeds]

I'd not recommend it.

Somehow it doesnt feel right to start punting before you've had a longer, significant, real life partner.
but I wont stop anyone, given you are all free to do as yo please (I realize the contradition...).

My reasoning would be: Learn to Forge real relationships before you go into punting.

[zxcvbnm1]

I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

I'd not recommend it.

Somehow it doesnt feel right to start punting before you've had a longer, significant, real life partner.
but I wont stop anyone, given you are all free to do as yo please (I realize the contradition...).

My reasoning would be: Learn to Forge real relationships before you go into punting.

I'm completely useless at chatting up girls so escorts are the only place where I can get sex sadly.

[Thepacifist]

The 1st time i saw a WG i was 18 and in Amsterdam. Some of them asked for ID, some didn't. One said i was nice but too young for her, but i saw her if not the next year a couple after. My advice is don't worry about what other people think of you, worry about yourself and enjoy yourself. For me it was fun meeting sexy young woman but who were older then me. You're only young once, eventually real life catches up what with the mortgage, bills, blah blah blah. It's no fun but it's reality. So either start saving now or use what 'disposable' income you have to treat yourself while you still can. As a young punter i felt and still feel a responsability to prove that i wasn't and aren't some drunk lout but instead, a gentleman. I suggest you do the same.

Edited by Thepacifist, 26 February 2012 - 18:35.

[busencumen]

i suggest they stick to social networking lol

[smiths]

As a 19 year old punter myself I'm curious to know what punters and WGs think of teenage punters. I know that there aren't many of us and that we make up less than 5% of punters, so I'd like to know what people think. Personally I decided to use an escort for the first time last year, as I had never even come close to having sex before. My first experience was not very good due to nerves, I have had better experiences with her since though. I have since slept with 3 other girls, 2 being WGs. Guys, did you use escorts when you were 19? Do you wish you had done? Girls, do you see teenage clients? If not, why not? If you do, would you say your experiences have been quite different when compared with older clients?

I started punting when i was 19 myself, i had girlfriends but enjoyed and still enjoy no strings sex where all i need is the money required. Punting wont ever match a loving relationship but if you only want sex then its the easy option over pulling, but i would advise pulling as well at your age. It can also be an expensive pastime of course but so is pulling.

[Coventrypunter]

they are old enough to get drunk, die for their country and get married. So why not?
not sure that that many kids of that age would have the income to sustain this as a hobby tho.

[Sylver]

I wouldn't dream of telling anyone else what to do.. For me personally I am glad I didn't punt until I was in my late 20's... At 19 I was out on the pull and getting drunk if my addled brain recalls rightly.

[Auldyin]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

[Barney Gumble]

I started way way to young, in my early teens but was over 6ft and looked much older than my years.
I would have to admit that after nearly 30 years of punting there are Pluses and minus to starting so young.
The plus would be that the pressure to pull on a night out was taken away by my new found hobby, knowing that If I had the cash to satisfy my urges made me enjoy my nights out without the added angst of wondering whether Sharon or Tracy would live up to their reputation.

It also taught me to be much more comfortable with the opposite sex and made me a decent lover (hopefully)

The minus would be that girlfriends in my early years of dating were too shy to compete with the experienced professionals I was seeing.

Barney gumble

[MK_Bonnie]

I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

Why do you punt then??? xox

[SpoksEyebrows]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

My question is, how is that relevant to punting when the two are continents appart in terms of what they offer? Unless you are suggesting this young man is deluding himself.

Punting when you are this young can offer a much needed release from all the pressures imposed by youth and can teach you much about women as well as providing the necessary experience to make an informed choice about a future partner. Turning this on its head makes sense in this respect. Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

[Holly Rude]

My question is, how is that relevant to punting when the two are continents appart in terms of what they offer? Unless you are suggesting this young man is deluding himself.

Punting when you are this young can offer a much needed release from all the pressures imposed by youth and can teach you much about women as well as providing the necessary experience to make an informed choice about a future partner. Turning this on its head makes sense in this respect. Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

Very Well put SpoksEyebrows

And to the op - I think your post was very mature and eloquently phrased. I think you know exactly what you're doing and when the time is right for you to be settling down I think you would be more likely to be faithful for some reason.

x
Holly

[MinxyLydia]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

Surely that could be said of ALL men that punt?!
very narrow minded view!

[Vin DaLoo]

Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

Well said.

[Lynn]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

I think most of us know that paying a lady can have very little to do with whether a guy can pull or not.

The internet and button clicking ease with which a young man can get almost instant pleasure and satisfaction
is to blame for many young guys spending their cash on wgs. Many young men in their late teens and early twenties
are still living with mum and dad and have ample spending money.

[zxcvbnm1]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

I'm shy and a bit awkward around girls. I feel a lot more comfortable around WGs.

[SpoksEyebrows]

I think most of us know that paying a lady can have very little to do with whether a guy can pull or not.

The internet and button clicking ease with which a young man can get almost instant pleasure and satisfaction
is to blame for many young guys spending their cash on wgs. Many young men in their late teens and early twenties
are still living with mum and dad and have ample spending money.

True, and let's face it they could do a lot worse with their time and money, like binge drinking and getting into drugs etc. much of which I see resulting from the subconscious build-up unsatisfied sexual frustrations. It seems that society is more than happy to see us spend our money on meaningless shite so long as a huge lump of it helps to fill the states coffers.

[porker paul]

Why do you punt then??? xox

As I have said before, on various threads, I like variety, and, in case you can't tell, I am older than 19!!

[Sweexy]

Personally, I do not enjoy the nightclub / heavy drinking scene which as far as im aware is pretty much the only place you are likely to pull for a 1 night stand for people of my age range. (Please correct me if i'm missing something here?)

So basically I don't see why I should miss out on sex just because I'm currently single.

As a younger punter myself, I always make an effort to dress smartly and conduct myself as a gentleman. I think it's a shame many WG's don't like to see under 25's (I have read 1 profile that said no under 35's!) but I totally respect their decision and can see their reasons for it and as such wouldn't contact them.

I don't really see how punting as a straight guy is any different to the thousands of gay men who use Grindr to hook up with stangers? No one seems to have a problem with that.

[pooter]

Get as much sex as you can,you never know whats round the corner, "falling in love" is much more harmful short and longterm than promiscuity. Its getting married at 19 that is usually a seriously bad idea. At least with a wg, you are having sex when sober.

[nntt]

I guess ultimately you cannot live another person's life, so in that respect it is hard to make generalisations.

Age isn't always a signal of experience, I am proof of that.

However, personally speaking I was just too young at 19 and actually into my 20's. Sex played zero part of my thoughts or life, for better or worse some may argue. So my feeling is 19 is just too young, you have no maturity/experience for a situation which could be emotionally confusing. However, I do accept people do differ.

[willstewart]

I wish I had started punting a lot younger.

I've never been one for chatting to girls in pubs and clubs - never really been that great at walking up to someone and taking it from there, assuming I can hear them over the music anyway.
I've had chances where a girl makes it obvious she's interested but I've gone all shy or cautious which probably gave her the impression I wasn't interested and she moved on.
I've never been keen on going with girls I work with (don't want to mix business/pleasure) although I might for the right one. This decreases your social circle especially if you go out with work colleagues a lot and most of the time, they're with a partner so you can't get a wingman etc.

I feel I've missed out on loads. Sure I've been with various girls but not really enough in my opinion to get a more rounded sexual knowledge.
I always feel far more confident after sleeping with a girl and this would have come in very useful when I was younger instead of nerves kicking in all the time which cost me opportunities. Having sex with a 19yo girl who looks like a model really does boost your confidence - just knowing I've been naked etc with someone far hotter than most girls in a club/pub really gives you an edge confidence wise.

[porker paul]

Get as much sex as you can,you never know whats round the corner, "falling in love" is much more harmful short and longterm than promiscuity. Its getting married at 19 that is usually a seriously bad idea. At least with a wg, you are having sex when sober.

Have you read the "Tales of Xenia" on another thread?

[busencumen]

As I have said before, on various threads, I like variety, and, in case you can't tell, I am older than 19!!

older?? i never would have guessed mr p ! lol . j/k.

[smiths]

Get as much sex as you can,you never know whats round the corner, "falling in love" is much more harmful short and longterm than promiscuity. Its getting married at 19 that is usually a seriously bad idea. At least with a wg, you are having sex when sober.

I agree although would say love can be more harmful rather than is much more harmful, for me love has enriched my life as has punting. Punt and pull is my advice, guaranteed sex and the chance of meeting someone special.

[smiths]

I guess ultimately you cannot live another person's life, so in that respect it is hard to make generalisations. Age isn't always a signal of experience, I am proof of that. However, personally speaking I was just too young at 19 and actually into my 20's. Sex played zero part of my thoughts or life, for better or worse some may argue. So my feeling is 19 is just too young, you have no maturity/experience for a situation which could be emotionally confusing. However, I do accept people do differ.

I imagine sex plays a big part in most 19 year olds lives though, it certainly did in mine at 19 when it, drinking, smoking pot and driving my car like a maniac were my priorities in life. Going by what you say here if 19 is too young to punt due to maturity/experience which could be emotionally confusing then pulling is certainly emotionally confusing as well, which would leave the guy with wanking as his only option. Sow your wild oats as much as you can with as many women as you can is my advice, your only young once.

[Curious Rose]

As a 19 year old punter myself I'm curious to know what punters and WGs think of teenage punters. I know that there aren't many of us and that we make up less than 5% of punters, so I'd like to know what people think.

Personally I decided to use an escort for the first time last year, as I had never even come close to having sex before. My first experience was not very good due to nerves, I have had better experiences with her since though. I have since slept with 3 other girls, 2 being WGs.

Guys, did you use escorts when you were 19? Do you wish you had done?
Girls, do you see teenage clients? If not, why not? If you do, would you say your experiences have been quite different when compared with older clients?

I'm sure you don't mean anything by it, but you might want to avoid the word 'use'. Gives off the wrong vibe.

I've had a couple of clients in the younger age bracket, usually seeking either a confidence-boost or the opportunity to try something that they don't feel they can ask a girlfriend or a one-night-stand for. I'm 22, so I'm more than comfortable seeing someone young, and I don't assume that they'll be immature or emotionally young (I've met 30-somethings and older with all the maturity of a helium balloon.)

[nntt]

I imagine sex plays a big part in most 19 year olds lives though, it certainly did in mine at 19 when it, drinking, smoking pot and driving my car like a maniac were my priorities in life. Going by what you say here if 19 is too young to punt due to maturity/experience which could be emotionally confusing then pulling is certainly emotionally confusing as well, which would leave the guy with wanking as his only option. Sow your wild oats as much as you can with as many women as you can is my advice, your only young once.

See Smiths, never really drank (t total now), never smoked anything and sex was not on my radar at that age, so I understand I'm a bit weird, but just giving a view from my perspective.

[Strawberry]

My opinion on teenagers?As long as they are 18 or over, and make a booking like anyone else would then no problem at all. Unfortunately the majority of contact I've had from 18-21s has been rude, pushy, demanding numerous text or email messages(most of this majority involved refusing call because it would use up their credit, and went on to expect significant discounts, as well as dictate the appointment be as short as poss, filled with as much sex at poss.). The few 18-21s I have had a successful booking with, simply phoned/emailed/sent a couple of simple polite texts and made an appointment without any of this fuss and attitude, and were absolutely lovely clients. Not sure what it is about the remainder, but I've had to put it down to youth I'm afraid.

[Thepacifist]

I'm shy and a bit awkward around girls. I feel a lot more comfortable around WGs.

You don't have to justify yourself to that troll.

[C Bolt]

My question is, how is that relevant to punting when the two are continents appart in terms of what they offer? Unless you are suggesting this young man is deluding himself.

Punting when you are this young can offer a much needed release from all the pressures imposed by youth and can teach you much about women as well as providing the necessary experience to make an informed choice about a future partner. Turning this on its head makes sense in this respect. Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

A very good post.

[Annabel Squires]

My opinion on teenagers?As long as they are 18 or over, and make a booking like anyone else would then no problem at all. Unfortunately the majority of contact I've had from 18-21s has been rude, pushy, demanding numerous text or email messages(most of this majority involved refusing call because it would use up their credit, and went on to expect significant discounts, as well as dictate the appointment be as short as poss, filled with as much sex at poss.). The few 18-21s I have had a successful booking with, simply phoned/emailed/sent a couple of simple polite texts and made an appointment without any of this fuss and attitude, and were absolutely lovely clients. Not sure what it is about the remainder, but I've had to put it down to youth I'm afraid.

That's my experience too. I also find a lot more of them ask for freebies or discounts because they assume because they are closer to my age that I should want to sleep with them for free or very little. I get the 'I've only got a bit of my student loan left'. When I say no they ask if I just want to hang out with them or be their friend.

Polite ones really are the exception.

[willstewart]

I'm shy and a bit awkward around girls. I feel a lot more comfortable around WGs.

I sometimes have that problem. There are some girls I can easily talk to about most things yet you say something you find inoffensive to another and she takes major offence and that's it. This makes me cautious in case I do or say the wrong thing and offend her so I come across as not overly friendly or however I'm perceived.
With a WG, you're there for sex, she knows you're there for sex and once naked, it's a bit late to be all shy as there are no real barriers between you and it's a lot easier to be open with her and in turn my confidence increases.

[zxcvbnm1]

My opinion on teenagers?As long as they are 18 or over, and make a booking like anyone else would then no problem at all. Unfortunately the majority of contact I've had from 18-21s has been rude, pushy, demanding numerous text or email messages(most of this majority involved refusing call because it would use up their credit, and went on to expect significant discounts, as well as dictate the appointment be as short as poss, filled with as much sex at poss.). The few 18-21s I have had a successful booking with, simply phoned/emailed/sent a couple of simple polite texts and made an appointment without any of this fuss and attitude, and were absolutely lovely clients. Not sure what it is about the remainder, but I've had to put it down to youth I'm afraid.

That's my experience too. I also find a lot more of them ask for freebies or discounts because they assume because they are closer to my age that I should want to sleep with them for free or very little. I get the 'I've only got a bit of my student loan left'. When I say no they ask if I just want to hang out with them or be their friend.

Polite ones really are the exception.

Yeah a couple of the WGs I see have said that they do not normally enjoy seeing guys of my age. One told me that younger clients act like they are doing the girls a favour by sleeping with them. A lot of guys my age aren't very emotionally mature and don't realise that how much a WG enjoys her time with a client is dependent on a number of factors, not just looks.

[MinxyLydia]

I take potential clients on face value, I judge if I want to see them from their emails/texts/phone conversation. If they sound like pratts then I don't see them whatever age. I have had a few younger clients who have been adorable.

i think there is a lot more honour in a man (whatever age) who decides to see a WG rather than pick up a girl (probably pissed in a club) or charm a girl into having sex when he has no intention of a long term relationship with her or simply does not want to put the leg work in asking someone out, taking her for dinner etc.

Not being able to pull is no reason at all!

Added to that I think a shy inexperienced man can get a lot out of seeing a WG and would rather make nay sex mistakes with a WG than on some girl who may tell all her mates and end up being laughed at.

As long as a young man doesn't exclude 'normal' social activities and just focus on WGs there are no problems. I do think long term it isn't particularly healthy for a young man to have escorts as his only female interaction.

[Vin DaLoo]

I've had chances where a girl makes it obvious she's interested but I've gone all shy or cautious which probably gave her the impression I wasn't interested and she moved on.

Jeez tell me about it; I can remember a situation as a 19yo student and virgin, when an attractive girl (an ex of a mate) invited me back for coffee and asked questions such as "so, have you got a girlfriend then?". In hindsight, she may as well have had "Fuck Me Now!" tattooed on her forehead (subsequently confirmed when she met up with said mate and related the evening's non-events).

Things like this used to bug me so much I would lay awake at night kicking myself - Punting helped me get over it

[Lucy7]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

This statement implies to me that men who seek out sexual favours from us naughty ladies have to pay for it, as they can not get it else where.
That is not the case.

Many a gentleman will still seek something more than he is already getting at home or out on the pull, because he can and because he wants to.
If he has the available funds to do so as well, the paid sex scene can be his oyster!

Don't forget us naughty ladies do things that some wives/girlfriends may never do

Lucy

[busencumen]

ffs ! why don't they concentrate on football !! lol. (and studies !!)j/k.

[SpoksEyebrows]

This statement implies to me that men who seek out sexual favours from us naughty ladies have to pay for it, as they can not get it else where.
That is not the case.

Many a gentleman will still seek something more than he is already getting at home or out on the pull, because he can and because he wants to.
If he has the available funds to do so as well, the paid sex scene can be his oyster!

Don't forget us naughty ladies do things that some wives/girlfriends may never do

Lucy

Some truth in that but essentially what a punt offers is convenience and the bringing down of barriers that otherwise prevent us from getting the type of girls we want. I can peruse the websites and find whatever type appeals to me at that time and know that all I have to do is pick up the phone and she's mine. And yes they also do many of the things wags don't.

There is also the immediacy of it all, I can book up and be with my desired choice within a very short time (usually) without any hassle at all. I do not need to put on any pretense and I can be myself without any negative repercussions. Perfect and potentially very addictive.

Edited by SpoksEyebrows, 27 February 2012 - 15:20.

[Sweexy]

Jeez tell me about it; I can remember a situation as a 19yo student and virgin, when an attractive girl (an ex of a mate) invited me back for coffee and asked questions such as "so, have you got a girlfriend then?". In hindsight, she may as well have had "Fuck Me Now!" tattooed on her forehead (subsequently confirmed when she met up with said mate and related the evening's non-events).

Things like this used to bug me so much I would lay awake at night kicking myself - Punting helped me get over it

I know exactly what you mean, it's like every fibre of your body is screaming "go for it!" but some bizzarre mechanism in your brain over rules you and makes you back off. So frustrating..

[Vin DaLoo]

I know exactly what you mean, it's like every fibre of your body is screaming "go for it!" but some bizzarre mechanism in your brain over rules you and makes you back off. So frustrating..

I think what held me back was that she insisted in showing me a whole photo album of her with her last ex-bf (not my mate), and I felt I didn't compare very favourably.

Also I had had probably my first ever knock-back only a few months previously (it makes me cringe thinking about it even now) which utterly destroyed my confidence. After that I tended not to make a move unless I had a signed affidavit, in blood, in advance, that I was not going to be rejected.

[Vin DaLoo]

This statement implies to me that men who seek out sexual favours from us naughty ladies have to pay for it, as they can not get it else where.
That is not the case

Indeed, for those that hold that view I have two words: "Hugh" and "Grant"

[Lucy7]

Indeed, for those that hold that view I have two words: "Hugh" and "Grant"

I wish I had thought of that!

[MissCupcakesx]

Really op- XYZ, I personally take people as I find. It does not matter whether the client is 18 or 80- if he is respectful as an individual that is all the matters.

[raylondoner]

Should be seen but not heard

[No Expert]

I'm only 18 myself and will be having my first punt soon. Came out of a long term (long term at 18 is 3 years, hah) relationship just after Christmas and the breakup hurt so I wasn't ready to go back into the hunt for a girlfriend. I'm still not ready for going out and trying to 'pull' but thought punting would be a new experience, want to see how it goes and what the ladies are like.

[Danish Pia]

My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

What a horrible thing to say Your compassion for the human race went away there somewhere I reckon!

To the OP, personally I do not see anybody under 30 years of age. It is not so much because of the behaviour of that particular age group but mainly because I simply feel too old and have children and it just does not sit right with me. Occasionally the odd one has slipped through ( I am not going to tell them to leave at the door) and I often find that I end up mothering clients aged between 20-25 of age.