kyle1966

How safe are a-levels

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Something I have often thought of trying but at the momet I wouldn't even see a WG who offered it for fear of HIV.

HAs anyone had a "bad safety" experience. Are WG's normally very careful as well.

Obviousy there is always a risk. But is it a great risk.

Please give me your thoughts.

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Let's be clear here that you are not, in fact, worried or seeking to answer the question "How safe are a-levels?" The question you really want to answer is "how safe are condoms when used for a-levels?" because a-levels are 100% safe with a condom that doesn't break. (Well, I am assuming you are not stupid enough to want an answer to the question about how safe a-levels are without a condom. If so, it's "not very.")

My understanding is that when used "properly and consistently", condoms are 98% effective. So there's your answer, I guess. A-levels with a condom are very safe. 98% and even with the other 2%, you then have to have a girl who is HIV+ as a partner (very unlikely) and she has to transmit as a result of that one sexual act (even more unlikely).

Don't lose any sleep over this. If you want to try a-levels, do, and if you really are the worrying type, don't. Not because it's dangerous, but you'll worry anyway and there's no fun in that.

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Something I have often thought of trying but at the momet I wouldn't even see a WG who offered it for fear of HIV.

HAs anyone had a "bad safety" experience. Are WG's normally very careful as well.

Obviousy there is always a risk. But is it a great risk.

Please give me your thoughts.

Mmm. slightly insulting there dont you think!!

I offer alevel and i can assure you that so long as you use a condom you are perfectly safe. Trolley gave good advice.

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Much safer if you do them in a bedroom with the door locked, than if you did them in say...the outside lane of the M25 or something :D

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The one time I've had a condom break was during A levels, caused I think by insufficient lube.

The worrying thing was that I didn't realise it had broken, luckily the lady did and alerted me.

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Something I have often thought of trying but at the momet I wouldn't even see a WG who offered it for fear of HIV.

HAs anyone had a "bad safety" experience. Are WG's normally very careful as well.

Obviousy there is always a risk. But is it a great risk.

Please give me your thoughts.

It is very risky business specially if she has had curry for lunch.

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It is very risky business specially if she has had curry for lunch.
At last, an answer that this question deserves.

I'm afraid the board has experienced a decided paucity of poignant questions lately, no doubt resulting from the welcome addition of quite a few new members who are a bit overly anxious to establish an identity here. Then, again, I am not a great advocate of using the tradesmen's entrance anywhere. Many others may revel in the very thought of it, though.:D

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My understanding is that when used "properly and consistently", condoms are 98% effective. So there's your answer, I guess. A-levels with a condom are very safe. 98% and even with the other 2%, you then have to have a girl who is HIV+ as a partner (very unlikely) and she has to transmit as a result of that one sexual act (even more unlikely).

Even when the condoms used "properly and consistently", (sic) there are much higher chance of theirs breakage during anal, then during vaginal sex because of much tight and dry friction.

Still: the danger to contact STDs during anal, much more for the girl, then for the guy, hence many girls don't provide this service to all the sundry (not just because client got big penis, or can be to rough..though of course those matters also!)

There are some STDs who have a very low rate to pass anally (Gonorrhea, HPV for example), oppose to vaginally, (much higher chance!) but this fact should not be a comforting to anybody!

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What I'd like to know is... can anal sex cause alot of long-term damage to a girls anal passage if she regularly indulges in anal sex?

I've heard all about anal prolapses caused by regular anal sex. Does this eventually end up affecting many women? Or can it lead to haemorrhoids as that, too, can be caused by the straining of the whole anal area?

Sorry if that's a little graphic but I do wonder about the long-term harm it can cause to a woman and is one of the reasons I try and refrain from it.

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everything is safe when condoms are used. :D

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Some parlour girls wont do anal sex cos they believe that it can lead to incontinence. Whether this is true I do not know, but the girls certainly believe it to be the case. There are a few urban myths on this subject, refering to a certain singer who liked going on a summers holiday.

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Not too long ago, I asked a wg for anal. She agreed and opened up a drawer and took out a small jar of petroleum jelly. I enquired as to what she was doing. "For lube, of course!" was the answer. I asked her why she didn't use normal water based lube. "Because i always use this for anal". I told her that oil degrades the condom and so was unsuitable for lubrication. She looked at me blankly. I declined anal.

Just a few weeks ago, same situation, different girl. This time she snapped back at me saying she knew more than I did and it was safe to use petroleum jelly. I declined. She insisted it was ok since "it takes time for the condom to degrade". I still declined.

So is she right? Is it ok to use oil based lubricants, for a short time or not?

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There are a few urban myths on this subject, refering to a certain singer who liked going on a summers holiday.

Madonna takes it up the wrong un? :D

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Not too long ago, I asked a wg for anal. She agreed and opened up a drawer and took out a small jar of petroleum jelly. I enquired as to what she was doing. "For lube, of course!" was the answer. I asked her why she didn't use normal water based lube. "Because i always use this for anal". I told her that oil degrades the condom and so was unsuitable for lubrication. She looked at me blankly. I declined anal.

Just a few weeks ago, same situation, different girl. This time she snapped back at me saying she knew more than I did and it was safe to use petroleum jelly. I declined. She insisted it was ok since "it takes time for the condom to degrade". I still declined.

So is she right? Is it ok to use oil based lubricants, for a short time or not?

WTF? So that second girl knew that it degrades condoms but used it anyway? Is vaseline some kind of miracle lube for the anus and water-based lubes just don't work as well for some reason?

And that fist girl seems a few sandwiches short of a picnic. Being naive is fair enough given the innuendo surrounding vaseline as a lube...but come on, an escort not knowing that? Wow. At least she (might) know now.

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WTF? So that second girl knew that it degrades condoms but used it anyway? Is vaseline some kind of miracle lube for the anus and water-based lubes just don't work as well for some reason?

And that fist girl seems a few sandwiches short of a picnic. Being naive is fair enough given the innuendo surrounding vaseline as a lube...but come on, an escort not knowing that? Wow. At least she (might) know now.

I'm pretty sure a wg would know more about it than a punter.

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Not too long ago, I asked a wg for anal. She agreed and opened up a drawer and took out a small jar of petroleum jelly. I enquired as to what she was doing. "For lube, of course!" was the answer. I asked her why she didn't use normal water based lube. "Because i always use this for anal". I told her that oil degrades the condom and so was unsuitable for lubrication. She looked at me blankly. I declined anal.

Just a few weeks ago, same situation, different girl. This time she snapped back at me saying she knew more than I did and it was safe to use petroleum jelly. I declined. She insisted it was ok since "it takes time for the condom to degrade". I still declined.

So is she right? Is it ok to use oil based lubricants, for a short time or not?

You are perfectly correct Riker that you should NEVER use oil based anything for any type of lube whether it be for vaginal or anal sex :D

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At last, an answer that this question deserves.

I'm afraid the board has experienced a decided paucity of poignant questions lately, no doubt resulting from the welcome addition of quite a few new members who are a bit overly anxious to establish an identity here. Then, again, I am not a great advocate of using the tradesmen's entrance anywhere. Many others may revel in the very thought of it, though.:D

Think its more likely that we are being plagued by that school holidays... which is rather worrying!!

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Not too long ago, I asked a wg for anal. She agreed and opened up a drawer and took out a small jar of petroleum jelly. I enquired as to what she was doing. "For lube, of course!" was the answer. I asked her why she didn't use normal water based lube. "Because i always use this for anal". I told her that oil degrades the condom and so was unsuitable for lubrication. She looked at me blankly. I declined anal.

Just a few weeks ago, same situation, different girl. This time she snapped back at me saying she knew more than I did and it was safe to use petroleum jelly. I declined. She insisted it was ok since "it takes time for the condom to degrade". I still declined.

So is she right? Is it ok to use oil based lubricants, for a short time or not?

She is most definitely WRONG. Not only does it damage the condom, it is now found to be a significant factor in breast cancers !

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I would never worry about a WG that offers A-levels .

you can get stronger condoms after all.

The only WG i always try to avoided would be one that offered BB.

But at the end of the day i think that there is no such thing as safe Sex ,

only safer Sex .

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I think doing unprotected anal sex, with an essential stranger, is madness. :D

Everybody is free, but is it worth ever having sex with an escort without a condom?

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Madonna takes it up the wrong un? :D

No idea, I was talking about a bloke, who sang "we are going on a summer holiday".

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Even when the condoms used "properly and consistently", (sic) there are much higher chance of theirs breakage during anal, then during vaginal sex because of much tight and dry friction.

Still: the danger to contact STDs during anal, much more for the girl, then for the guy, hence many girls don't provide this service to all the sundry (not just because client got big penis, or can be to rough..though of course those matters also!)

There are some STDs who have a very low rate to pass anally (Gonorrhea, HPV for example), oppose to vaginally, (much higher chance!) but this fact should not be a comforting to anybody!

Dry friction!!! Eeek, Noooo, this is where the dreaded and much maligned on this site bottle of lube comes in, use plenty.

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Some parlour girls wont do anal sex cos they believe that it can lead to incontinence. Whether this is true I do not know, but the girls certainly believe it to be the case. There are a few urban myths on this subject, refering to a certain singer who liked going on a summers holiday.

When you work in a parlour there is always one lady who swears that she knows a gay guy who has to wear a tampon up his bum, or a huge butt plug just to stop the inevitable mess occuring every time he bends over. I dont know wether this is true or not but it possibly scares the shite out of the younger ladies.

The first time i did alevel was about 14 years ago, granted its not every day and i have had long periods where i didnt do it at all but still, my bum is just fine thankyou. I think if you are not careful with the willy size and get fucked hard then you are asking for trouble though.

**(take note all you guys who like to fuck butt hard and fast)**

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everything is safe when condoms are used. :eek:

I'll remember that the next time a wheel comes off my car on the race track and I need to get somewhere safe.

I'll wear a condom from the off and I will be OK.

:D

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