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Do you tell a WG the truth?

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Lets suppose you are the type of guy that doesn't punt with only intention of fucking the living daylights of young lady and no interest in verbal connection. Let's suppose that you like some kind of interaction more than in the sack, and you talk. Do you tell them as it is, or do you tell them a complete lie / fantasy? If you do, why do you, to safeguard your Anonymity, or are you also buying into a dream of your own?

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Obviously i am not a guy, but a lot of my regulars do chat away about what has been happening in their lives, the holidays they have just been on or booked, the problems they have had with their children of a certain age as they know about my children being regulars. I cant speak for all of course but the majority of men, if they do chat, tend to chat about real stuff, their new car, the wife taking them for everything, how much they miss their kiddies if they are divorced, why they wont get divorced even though they dont love their wives anymore (usually because of the kiddies).

One guy came to see me and was delivered to the door by a prison officer type, he was on day release and was honest about what he was in for, about how much he regretted it and the guilt he felt for his crime etc.

I think guys that who dont want to speak truthfully tend to either not chat much at all or just say "id rather not talk about that if its ok" when posed with a question.

I am truthful with my regulars, they know about my children (not intimate details obviously),about me moving house, about my little problems as they have conversed with me in past bookings and remember what i said.

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Obviously i am not a guy, but a lot of my regulars do chat away about what has been happening in their lives, the holidays they have just been on or booked, the problems they have had with their children of a certain age as they know about my children being regulars. I cant speak for all of course but the majority of men, if they do chat, tend to chat about real stuff, their new car, the wife taking them for everything, how much they miss their kiddies if they are divorced, why they wont get divorced even though they dont love their wives anymore (usually because of the kiddies).

One guy came to see me and was delivered to the door by a prison officer type, he was on day release and was honest about what he was in for, about how much he regretted it and the guilt he felt for his crime etc.

I think guys that who dont want to speak truthfully tend to either not chat much at all or just say "id rather not talk about that if its ok" when posed with a question.

I am truthful with my regulars, they know about my children (not intimate details obviously),about me moving house, about my little problems as they have conversed with me in past bookings and remember what i said.

I meant more about basic truths, like job, status, home location etc.

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If you wanted to protect your anonimity just don't say anything personal. But why would anyone just want to make up a tissue of lies through the punt - I just can't see why someone would want to do this. Surely concentrating on a made up storey detracts from the fun you are there to have.

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If you wanted to protect your anonimity just don't say anything personal. But why would anyone just want to make up a tissue of lies through the punt - I just can't see why someone would want to do this. Surely concentrating on a made up storey detracts from the fun you are there to have.

Maybe, but suppose it was more than a 30minute punt and somekind of verbal intercourse took place, do you tell them you're who you really are, what you do, where you live, or do you assume your punter identity?

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If i meet someone at my place of work for half an hour its unlikely I would give them my life history and tell them where i live!

Surely its perfectly easy to converse pleasently and politely without either lyiny or disclosing things you don't want to about yourself.

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Happy to tell the truth up to a point, i.e. will talk about job, home location etc., but probably without giving enough away that exact details could be deduced (apart from with one regular).

In any event, I'm not sure I could keep up a made-up story for long :confused:

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Lets suppose you are the type of guy that doesn't punt with only intention of fucking the living daylights of young lady and no interest in verbal connection. Let's suppose that you like some kind of interaction more than in the sack, and you talk. Do you tell them as it is, or do you tell them a complete lie / fantasy? If you do, why do you, to safeguard your Anonymity, or are you also buying into a dream of your own?

Def not buying into a dream. Reveal as much about myself as I feel comfortable, same as I would with anyone I'd only just met. A lot of my punts are outcalls anyway, so they can see quite a lot when they walk in the front door. Some people aren't interested. I judge it to an extent by how much they reveal about themselves. I'll often offer such information as may be (both honest and) reassuring, such as no wife in the background who might surprise her. I put a certain amount of info on my profile (honest but selective) as it's nice to have at least a few details of someone you are about to see.

This is not out of some altruistic niceness to the wg - although mostly I hope it's nice as well - it's to establish the sort of connection I want for the punt.

Occasionally a woman is interesting for herself and it's a good foundation. I swap albums of fairly narrowly specific but mutual music taste with one wg, for instance.

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I meant more about basic truths, like job, status, home location etc.

Then you should have stated that in your post shouldnt you.

No matter.

Yes they tell me basic truths, some are very open and honest. They dont tell me the street they live in but lots tell me the town or village.I think its because they can tell i will keep shtum and also because they know i am being honest with them.x

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As i don't see many ladies and am selective about who I do see yes i always tell the truth !

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I tell a version of the truth. I usually use a different name (as do many girls, of course) and that's partly for wanting to be someone different.

I have a family and do this to get the sex I don't get at home and to try new things. I still feel guilty about doing this so using a different identity makes me feel better about it. Maybe some men can lie there with a working girl and talk about family but I can't.

I'm probably quite a 'fluffy' and like to chat but I think both parties should steer clear of personal stuff.

Also, I had a working girl ring me on my mobile by accident - she had got the numbers muddled and was hugely apologetic afterwards - and saying 'No, this isn't Jeff's phone' clearly meant that no one I was with thought anything of it.

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Keeping up a false identity requires a great deal of effort - if I'm relaxing in the arms of a lovely lady, I certainly don't want to be frantically trying to remember my cover story!

No need for more than first name - trade, yes, but employer & job title, no. If you invent a profession, sod's law says that it is exactly that profession's advice she needs NOW!

And then you come to a regular, and as things progress there really is no point in hiding or not answering, particularly if you've gone away together, with passports to show - each of you knows not to pry too far - the most usual "NO! NO!" if she is serious about her professional ethics, being anything about her other clients! (And, in any case, when I'm enjoying her favours I don't really want to think about yesterday's or tomorrow's lover!)

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Maybe, but suppose it was more than a 30minute punt and somekind of verbal intercourse took place, do you tell them you're who you really are, what you do, where you live, or do you assume your punter identity?

Bit difficult for me. I don't look as if I was born in 1866.

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If you invent a profession, sod's law says that it is exactly that profession's advice she needs NOW!

I find that is one of the few plus points of being an OCTE.

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I can't be bothered to make up fantasy facts. Yes, I say what my job is, what part of the country I'm from and so on. I really don't flatter myself that I'm interesting enough for a lady to want to file it all away and start stalking me! In the early days I did used to gloss over my marital status, but I soon worked out that the girls don't give a toss about that and that they assume a bloke of my age is married anyway. (What I don't do is go into any maudlin crap that my wife doesn't understand me, or, worse, that she does!)

In return a few ladies have admitted they've told me more about themselves than they really meant to - I think I must come across as a good listener - but fortunately I'm very discreet.

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I always find it easier to tell the truth as it is much harder to tell lies. It never fails to amaze me how often a girl I have seen only once will remember details months later. When I started punting nearly 30 years ago I used to make up names etc as I was scared of being blackmailed or extorted but I soon realised that unless your C list celebrity status or above (hard luck Peter Crouch) this will not happen.I have no problems with anyone knowing about my punting. My daughter knows all about it and nags me but I can cope with that.

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I find that is one of the few plus points of being an OCTE.

You sprung that one deliberately!

Ontario Council for Technical Education?

Oregon Council of Teachers of English?

So put me out of my misery?

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So put me out of my misery?

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I can't be bothered to make up fantasy facts. Yes, I say what my job is, what part of the country I'm from and so on. I really don't flatter myself that I'm interesting enough for a lady to want to file it all away and start stalking me! In the early days I did used to gloss over my marital status, but I soon worked out that the girls don't give a toss about that and that they assume a bloke of my age is married anyway. (What I don't do is go into any maudlin crap that my wife doesn't understand me, or, worse, that she does!)

In return a few ladies have admitted they've told me more about themselves than they really meant to - I think I must come across as a good listener - but fortunately I'm very discreet.

Yes I agree, I pretty much follow the same MO. I have never enjoyed telling porkies about myself to make me look extra interesting or successful . Perhaps this has been to my detriment in business as many many guys greatly exaggerate their success as " success breeds success ". I like real things, real experiences. Funnily enough, although paid sex is nearly all fantasy there is something strangely real about it and this I find attracts me.

Provided my identity is not impacted , I prefer to stick to the truth as much as possible and when I suspect I am hearing exaggerated rubbish from a WG it is a real turn off.

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Lets suppose you are the type of guy that doesn't punt with only intention of fucking the living daylights of young lady and no interest in verbal connection. Let's suppose that you like some kind of interaction more than in the sack, and you talk. Do you tell them as it is, or do you tell them a complete lie / fantasy? If you do, why do you, to safeguard your Anonymity, or are you also buying into a dream of your own?

I tend to like to fuck the living daylight out of them but I also enjoy a verbal connection. Previously I did not care what they knew about me. After all I always arranged outcalls so they immediately knew where I lived and that is already a lot of information. Nowadays I tell the truth about myself in abstract terms when asked. When a person is being obviously nosy I tell them jack shit and change the subject. It is normally only the gold diggers who ask too many personal questions but that is rare.

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Lets suppose you are the type of guy that doesn't punt with only intention of fucking the living daylights of young lady and no interest in verbal connection. Let's suppose that you like some kind of interaction more than in the sack, and you talk. Do you tell them as it is, or do you tell them a complete lie / fantasy? If you do, why do you, to safeguard your Anonymity, or are you also buying into a dream of your own?

I always give my real first name even to the receptionist... if the WG asks about me... job, where Im from etc ( some do) I tell the truth..... why lie?? what will i gain???

We all know the girls use 'working names' i never ask a girl their real name, although some have told me about themselves in conversation....... I've no reason to believe they are lying either...

the parlour/escort/agency scene isnt just full of liars and dodgy people you know...............

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I would be economical with the truth, wouldnt tell lies but wouldny want to say too much about myself.

:D

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I tend to be honest, if a little vague, about myself. I'll say which town I'm from and roughly what I do for a living and I'll give my real first name. I'm not an MP or a celebrity and I'm not rich, so even if I did give exact details there wouldn't be much to gain from using it against me. I've toyed with the idea of something obviously fake for a bit of fantasy (secret agent, Batman), but I'd rather be myself.

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I tend to like to fuck the living daylight out of them but I also enjoy a verbal connection. Previously I did not care what they knew about me. After all I always arranged outcalls so they immediately knew where I lived and that is already a lot of information. Nowadays I tell the truth about myself in abstract terms when asked. When a person is being obviously nosy I tell them jack shit and change the subject. It is normally only the gold diggers who ask too many personal questions but that is rare.

Interested. What do you mean by "Abstract" terms? :D

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Where was the jump from making up a different name and background to bigging yourself up. If/When I give a fake name and background it's similar to who I really am, I certainly don't make out that I'm a secret agent or a millionaire.

I'm just trying to separate the punting from the home life doing the same.

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