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Just got back from an aborted overnight, mainly my fault for terminating it early, worries back at home meant I would rather be in my own bed.

Besides that things where going great, Started at 7 & was supposed to be a 14 hr booking. Went out for dinner,in the middle of which had a call from Mrs saying a few problems with kids (they where away on holiday) thought I had soughted that out and felt I could focus on the booking in hand, back to room, lots of chat, a lengthy session of fun then a bit more chat. was around midnight by now. Asked the lady if anything particular on tv she wanted to watch as I was flicking, she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over. Was hoping to go again after a breather,a bit disapointed but thought fair enough always the morning.She falls almost instantly asleep,Decided I cannot sleep things on my mind so decide to wake her up,I say I think best I go home, how about another hour of fun and I will leave her with the rest of the night to herself, a refund never crossed my mind. Doesn't seem happy, tells me how she has had little sleep last few days... bookings everynight, some waking her at 4.00am for some action ect. A bit of persuading on my part ensues and she finally (relucatntly) agrees . just give me a few mins to wake up she asks, Fair enough. Seems to take a while, so nudge her again...ok I am awake she says firmly...what you want to do?... get the feeling I am in the wrong, decide to forget it and leave.

1stly and I am not oppossed to the lady getting a good 6hrs or more sleep on a booking, what is a reasonablle time to let a lady get to sleep

is it my problem if she has had a a lack of sleep previously

and finally am I out of order waking her up regardless of the time, just to get a bit more moneys worth out of a booking that as gone tits up, even though she would end up with more sleep time in the long run

thanks for listening

going to bed (will probaly regret this in morning)

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I had the complete opposite to your experience. The same 14 hour overnighter, but the lady did not want to sleep at all.

She had slept during the day in preparation for the booking. I was shattered but she was full of life and we had sex several times through the evening and night with just a few breaks to chat and watch TV, and a trip to the bar for a couple of drinks earlier on.

That was my one and only overnight booking as it was just too long.

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... she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over....

Sounds like the ideal GFE :P

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Just got back from an aborted overnight...

Well? Did you turn into a pumpkin or didn't you?

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Sounds like the ideal GFE :P

You took the words out of my mouth! ROFL!

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In my experience, ladies on overnights fall into 2 categories, either they will stay awake drinking red bulls all night to keep themselves from falling asleep, or they fall asleep as soon as they can and blame the bottle of wine that we shared over dinner!

For me, some fun before dinner, some more fun before sleep, and a final round in the morning and I'm happy.

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I've never had an overnighter but it bugs me a little when I hear about guys that want some action all night long. I mean no normal human being can function without proper sleep.

1) It is not her fault that you had to aboer the overnight appointment.

2) IMO it is rude and very ungentlemanly to wake her up for sex - she is not a vending machine.

I understand that midnight may be early(ish) for you and it is for me too, but there can't have been much excitment going on if she fell asleep.

I think if I ever had an overnight I would ban the TV and put on some music instead, be prepared to talk to her and have a proper conversation, between foreplay, sex and anything else that may occur.

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Well the overnight was going well from 7pm till midnight, which makes me think did you and the escort have any ground rukles, like at what time would either want to go to sleep, and what was expected in the morning etc.

Overnights dont just happpen, someone has to make a suggestion of what they think and the other either agrees, or says what they think it should be, and some sort of formula is worked out.

As you were pre-paired to cut the booking short, as you wanted to go home, i think the escort was within her rights to say no, wait till the morning for another sexual liason, as she had fullfilled her agreement in having sex with you a few times that evening.

Maybe a less tired escort would have been more sympathetic, and given you part of the money back. or offered an hour at some later date, but either way it was you had called the end of the booking.

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I've never had an overnighter but it bugs me a little when I hear about guys that want some action all night long. I mean no normal human being can function without proper sleep.

1) It is not her fault that you had to aboer the overnight appointment.

2) IMO it is rude and very ungentlemanly to wake her up for sex - she is not a vending machine.

I understand that midnight may be early(ish) for you and it is for me too, but there can't have been much excitment going on if she fell asleep.

I think if I ever had an overnight I would ban the TV and put on some music instead, be prepared to talk to her and have a proper conversation, between foreplay, sex and anything else that may occur.

Just to be clear.

1) I never said it was her fault, and it wasn't

2) fair enough, but would it have been rude to just leave ( as I had too), with out telling her.

and finally, she didn't fall asleep, she told me she was going to sleep. I wasn't after an allnight sex session, and if I was going to be there till the morning and nothing on my mind, I would have probably just droped off to sleep my self and waited till the morning for anything else. But has I had to wake her to tell her that I thought it best I left, didn't see anything wrong in asking for "a bit more" before I did, obviously she didn't share that veiw and I repected that.

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Just to be clear.

1) I never said it was her fault, and it wasn't

2) fair enough, but would it have been rude to just leave ( as I had too), with out telling her.

and finally, she didn't fall asleep, she told me she was going to sleep. I wasn't after an allnight sex session, and if I was going to be there till the morning and nothing on my mind, I would have probably just droped off to sleep my self and waited till the morning for anything else. But has I had to wake her to tell her that I thought it best I left, didn't see anything wrong in asking for "a bit more" before I did, obviously she didn't share that veiw and I repected that.

Well you didn't and don't respect it cos you have resorted to moaning about it on here.

You say that if you had nothing on your mind you would have also dropped off to sleep and waited until the morning for some more action - so you are sort of implying that that is what you would normally do. So the fact that YOU had things on your mind and YOU had to leave was to blame and I don't think it is fair for you to complain about not getting a bit more before you left. It is just one of those things I guess.

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Beats me how this can be defended by anyone -

Regardless how many wad is involved -

If a girl accepts an overnight booking, then she should be prepared to be requested for her services for the duration of the appointment and not insist on an 8hr kip if it happens to be night-time.

In our opinion, the above is totally unacceptable for a 'professional' worker that has agreed in advance, their time-scale and payment.

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Beats me how this can be defended by anyone -

Regardless how many wad is involved -

If a girl accepts an overnight booking, then she should be prepared to be requested for her services for the duration of the appointment and not insist on an 8hr kip if it happens to be night-time.

In our opinion, the above is totally unacceptable for a 'professional' worker that has agreed in advance, their time-scale and payment.

I disagree. An overnight, from what I have read does not mean that the lady may be called upon at any hour in the middle of night while she is sleeping, for sex. However, I do feel that rather than "rolling over and going to sleep" she could have offered a more friendly service by at least offering to cuddle up to the gent or having a conversation with him about his woes.

This is probably why I have never indulged in an overnight appointment. Seems like poor value for money to me.

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This is probably why I have never indulged in an overnight appointment. Seems like poor value for money to me.

And the above instance is exactly why many more like your good self consider overnighters as poor value.

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Just got back from an aborted overnight, mainly my fault for terminating it early, worries back at home meant I would rather be in my own bed.

Besides that things where going great, Started at 7 & was supposed to be a 14 hr booking. Went out for dinner,in the middle of which had a call from Mrs saying a few problems with kids (they where away on holiday) thought I had soughted that out and felt I could focus on the booking in hand, back to room, lots of chat, a lengthy session of fun then a bit more chat. was around midnight by now. Asked the lady if anything particular on tv she wanted to watch as I was flicking, she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over. Was hoping to go again after a breather,a bit disapointed but thought fair enough always the morning.She falls almost instantly asleep,Decided I cannot sleep things on my mind so decide to wake her up,I say I think best I go home, how about another hour of fun and I will leave her with the rest of the night to herself, a refund never crossed my mind. Doesn't seem happy, tells me how she has had little sleep last few days... bookings everynight, some waking her at 4.00am for some action ect. A bit of persuading on my part ensues and she finally (relucatntly) agrees . just give me a few mins to wake up she asks, Fair enough. Seems to take a while, so nudge her again...ok I am awake she says firmly...what you want to do?... get the feeling I am in the wrong, decide to forget it and leave.

1stly and I am not oppossed to the lady getting a good 6hrs or more sleep on a booking, what is a reasonablle time to let a lady get to sleep

is it my problem if she has had a a lack of sleep previously

and finally am I out of order waking her up regardless of the time, just to get a bit more moneys worth out of a booking that as gone tits up, even though she would end up with more sleep time in the long run

thanks for listening

going to bed (will probaly regret this in morning)

I suppose thats what JRC always says I dont pay to watch them sleep or eat!

I suppose a lesson from that is just have a 4 hour booking...and if you must another the next morning at 6 am!

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I've never had an overnighter but it bugs me a little when I hear about guys that want some action all night long. I mean no normal human being can function without proper sleep.

1) It is not her fault that you had to aboer the overnight appointment.

2) IMO it is rude and very ungentlemanly to wake her up for sex - she is not a vending machine.

I understand that midnight may be early(ish) for you and it is for me too, but there can't have been much excitment going on if she fell asleep.

I think if I ever had an overnight I would ban the TV and put on some music instead, be prepared to talk to her and have a proper conversation, between foreplay, sex and anything else that may occur.

Woah there pumpkin - not a vending machine ? err sorry Ive booked an overnight and Im wanting to have sex Ill have some sex - sorry but this is an escort booking and if yous paying your dues then you call the shots eh?

maybe im wrong on this or out of turn but its like getting a hell of a lot worse out there in punting land - if i wanted moans and issues then id say that id stay a night with the wife - im looking for hot sex and when i want it and if that is at 2.30am then it is going to be at 2.30 am or it will be taxi for the lady and a prompt refund for lack of service.

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This is the reason I won't book an overnight. I don't know exactly where I'd stand with regards to time to go to sleep, meal-times,etc. I agree that she should be allowed to get a decent sleep, but perhaps it should be discussed when making the booking, and an agreement be made then.

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maybe im wrong on this or out of turn but its like getting a hell of a lot worse out there in punting land -- im looking for hot sex and when i want it and if that is at 2.30am then it is going to be at 2.30 am or it will be taxi for the lady and a prompt refund for lack of service.

Mmmmm! Well it is only my opinion, but in your words, yes, you are wrong and out of turn! I think you'd do better with an inflatable doll.

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Woah there pumpkin - not a vending machine ? err sorry Ive booked an overnight and Im wanting to have sex Ill have some sex - sorry but this is an escort booking and if yous paying your dues then you call the shots eh?

maybe im wrong on this or out of turn but its like getting a hell of a lot worse out there in punting land - if i wanted moans and issues then id say that id stay a night with the wife - im looking for hot sex and when i want it and if that is at 2.30am then it is going to be at 2.30 am or it will be taxi for the lady and a prompt refund for lack of service.

What a bloody revolting attitude.

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Just got back from an aborted overnight, mainly my fault for terminating it early, worries back at home meant I would rather be in my own bed.

Besides that things where going great, Started at 7 & was supposed to be a 14 hr booking. Went out for dinner,in the middle of which had a call from Mrs saying a few problems with kids (they where away on holiday) thought I had soughted that out and felt I could focus on the booking in hand, back to room, lots of chat, a lengthy session of fun then a bit more chat. was around midnight by now. Asked the lady if anything particular on tv she wanted to watch as I was flicking, she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over. Was hoping to go again after a breather,a bit disapointed but thought fair enough always the morning.She falls almost instantly asleep,Decided I cannot sleep things on my mind so decide to wake her up,I say I think best I go home, how about another hour of fun and I will leave her with the rest of the night to herself, a refund never crossed my mind. Doesn't seem happy, tells me how she has had little sleep last few days... bookings everynight, some waking her at 4.00am for some action ect. A bit of persuading on my part ensues and she finally (relucatntly) agrees . just give me a few mins to wake up she asks, Fair enough. Seems to take a while, so nudge her again...ok I am awake she says firmly...what you want to do?... get the feeling I am in the wrong, decide to forget it and leave.

1stly and I am not oppossed to the lady getting a good 6hrs or more sleep on a booking, what is a reasonablle time to let a lady get to sleep

is it my problem if she has had a a lack of sleep previously

and finally am I out of order waking her up regardless of the time, just to get a bit more moneys worth out of a booking that as gone tits up, even though she would end up with more sleep time in the long run

thanks for listening

going to bed (will probaly regret this in morning)

There are no "rules" for overnighters and it can vary considerably from one girl to the next. I've had some that just want or seem to believe they have to offer non stop sex and others that, and one in particular comes to mind that said something like "don't you ever sleep".:D

Think I've mentioned this before and in general I've found itto be the case and works for me, that is most of my overnight bookings with an Agency girl are for Sunday nights, as it seems that the girls don't tend to be busy on a Saturday night and they go out clubbing till the early hours, this means that they sleep for most of Sunday daytime and are raring to go by 8pm.

Thats my theory.:o

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Well you didn't and don't respect it cos you have resorted to moaning about it on here.

You say that if you had nothing on your mind you would have also dropped off to sleep and waited until the morning for some more action - so you are sort of implying that that is what you would normally do. So the fact that YOU had things on your mind and YOU had to leave was to blame and I don't think it is fair for you to complain about not getting a bit more before you left. It is just one of those things I guess.

Last time I am going to even respond to you, thanks for the help but think I can do with out Mr Fluffy's Fluffier Uncle's advice when he can't even be botherd to read the whole post

I stated what had happend with out even suggesting I was the injured party(yep was dissapointed, who wouldn't cutting short halway through any length of booking )

then asked 3 questions, hoping to get more understanding how a o/nite booking should proceed, which hopefully will help me choose more wisely the next time,however unlikely that will be now (or at least ask more/better questions of the lady beforehand)

thought it was a discussion board not a moaning board. The wife would have done if I wanted a good moan.

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An overnight with someone who has 'things' on their mind, especially of the wifery variety is not conducive to a successful liaison. He has however taken up a large part of her evening. Suddenly being told "I've things to do, so shag me now for 1 hour and I'll clear off" is highly unlikely to make a lady feel very sexy.

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Just got back from an aborted overnight, mainly my fault for terminating it early, worries back at home meant I would rather be in my own bed.

Besides that things where going great, Started at 7 & was supposed to be a 14 hr booking. Went out for dinner,in the middle of which had a call from Mrs saying a few problems with kids (they where away on holiday) thought I had soughted that out and felt I could focus on the booking in hand, back to room, lots of chat, a lengthy session of fun then a bit more chat. was around midnight by now. Asked the lady if anything particular on tv she wanted to watch as I was flicking, she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over. Was hoping to go again after a breather,a bit disapointed but thought fair enough always the morning.She falls almost instantly asleep,Decided I cannot sleep things on my mind so decide to wake her up,I say I think best I go home, how about another hour of fun and I will leave her with the rest of the night to herself, a refund never crossed my mind. Doesn't seem happy, tells me how she has had little sleep last few days... bookings everynight, some waking her at 4.00am for some action ect. A bit of persuading on my part ensues and she finally (relucatntly) agrees . just give me a few mins to wake up she asks, Fair enough. Seems to take a while, so nudge her again...ok I am awake she says firmly...what you want to do?... get the feeling I am in the wrong, decide to forget it and leave.

1stly and I am not oppossed to the lady getting a good 6hrs or more sleep on a booking, what is a reasonablle time to let a lady get to sleep

is it my problem if she has had a a lack of sleep previously

and finally am I out of order waking her up regardless of the time, just to get a bit more moneys worth out of a booking that as gone tits up, even though she would end up with more sleep time in the long run

thanks for listening

going to bed (will probaly regret this in morning)

Not an expert on overnights having only done two.

However, most peoples bodies work on the normal 24 hour clock. If a punter wants sex thru ' the night or at any time during the night then he needs IMO to communicate this clearly to the girl in advance and plan things accordingly as otherwise, like it or not the girl will presume the usual 24 hr pattern will apply.

I think it advisable to try and start of with some fun before you go out to dinner -- I doubt if there would be any prob with that. Drinks,dinner and wine, back to the venue for more fun--- no probs whatsoever. Relax after food, booze and sex and start to watch TV --major problems !! That smacks of the end of proceedings for the evening and in your case you would have prob been ok with this, having the morning session to look forward to. Things dont go according top plan and you want to break the pattern by waking her up from her slumber to have your early morning session early and thereby get your VFM. Very difficult to do at the best of times but maybe either the evening didnt go aswell as you thought or you approached her too abruptly ---I dunno. General rule I would have thought is once the sleeping starts, next station is before breakfast !

Problem is that overnights dont really have VFM as the overriding theme !

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What a bloody revolting attitude.

Lady, I'll second your motion, then belt round the back, and vote for it! You are 101% right.

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I've never had an overnighter but it bugs me a little when I hear about guys that want some action all night long. I mean no normal human being can function without proper sleep.

1) It is not her fault that you had to aboer the overnight appointment.

2) IMO it is rude and very ungentlemanly to wake her up for sex - she is not a vending machine.

I understand that midnight may be early(ish) for you and it is for me too, but there can't have been much excitment going on if she fell asleep.

I think if I ever had an overnight I would ban the TV and put on some music instead, be prepared to talk to her and have a proper conversation, between foreplay, sex and anything else that may occur.

Tell that to some of our doctors and nurses.

Just one of the myriad reasons why overnights are a complete and utter waste of time and money.

*puts hand firmly on wallet whilst sucking air through teeth*

Those who accept overnight bookings should be prepared to be drilled as often as is required.

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Just got back from an aborted overnight, mainly my fault for terminating it early, worries back at home meant I would rather be in my own bed. Besides that things where going great, Started at 7 & was supposed to be a 14 hr booking. Went out for dinner,in the middle of which had a call from Mrs saying a few problems with kids (they where away on holiday) thought I had soughted that out and felt I could focus on the booking in hand, back to room, lots of chat, a lengthy session of fun then a bit more chat. was around midnight by now. Asked the lady if anything particular on tv she wanted to watch as I was flicking, she says it gone midnight, time I was asleep and turns off light and rolls over. Was hoping to go again after a breather,a bit disapointed but thought fair enough always the morning.She falls almost instantly asleep,Decided I cannot sleep things on my mind so decide to wake her up,I say I think best I go home, how about another hour of fun and I will leave her with the rest of the night to herself, a refund never crossed my mind. Doesn't seem happy, tells me how she has had little sleep last few days... bookings everynight, some waking her at 4.00am for some action ect. A bit of persuading on my part ensues and she finally (relucatntly) agrees . just give me a few mins to wake up she asks, Fair enough. Seems to take a while, so nudge her again...ok I am awake she says firmly...what you want to do?... get the feeling I am in the wrong, decide to forget it and leave.

1stly and I am not oppossed to the lady getting a good 6hrs or more sleep on a booking, what is a reasonablle time to let a lady get to sleep

is it my problem if she has had a a lack of sleep previously

and finally am I out of order waking her up regardless of the time, just to get a bit more moneys worth out of a booking that as gone tits up, even though she would end up with more sleep time in the long run

thanks for listening

going to bed (will probaly regret this in morning)

I do not understand this. The wife and kids weren't even there. So why did you feel compelled to go home?

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