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"do only prostitutes understand men then?"

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A rhetorical question asked by Lindilala . However, it got me thinking --- I wonder whether career WGs and indeed regular punters might have something to say on this. Who can have better experience of men in general than a career WG ?? A wife will obviously have a good insight into her husband but as this forum proves, even that relationship has its limitations on knowledge and understanding.

A WG who sees a client regularly over a long period of time must get a pretty good insight into her client. He probably shares a lot of his feelings and views on things with her , much more so than with any other woman [ other than his partner] or perhaps even other men. Intimacy with the same person over a long period of time must have the effect of loosening the tongue ! He might relax and because of her independence and discretion,the guy might open up to her to a very significant degree.

In addtion to the regular, the WG meets more men in private situations , some good some bad, than practically any other woman. This alone must surely give her a unique advantage over other women in society as reagards understanding men.

So girls, after working in the business for a few years, do you think you have a unique insight into men and what makes us tick and guys , particularly those who have regulars, would you say that WGs probably of all women understand men the most ?

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Not in my experience but I can understand your theory. In my experience, the conversation was little different to conversations I have with the girl who cuts my hair. A polite conversation with someone who doesn't know you all that well. It might be different with guys who see a single girl on a regular basis,however.

I do think there are women, which may include prostitutes who perhaps understand and like men ,perhaps really enjoy male company. This is just my opinion,but I have noticed women who have sons, tend to enjoy men a bit more in fact my aunt who was a bra burning feminist with not a good word to say about men, changed big time when her son was born regarding her attitude towards males.

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A rhetorical question asked by Lindilala . However, it got me thinking --- I wonder whether career WGs and indeed regular punters might have something to say on this. Who can have better experience of men in general than a career WG ?? A wife will obviously have a good insight into her husband but as this forum proves, even that relationship has its limitations on knowledge and understanding.

A WG who sees a client regularly over a long period of time must get a pretty good insight into her client. He probably shares a lot of his feelings and views on things with her , much more so than with any other woman [ other than his partner] or perhaps even other men. Intimacy with the same person over a long period of time must have the effect of loosening the tongue ! He might relax and because of her independence and discretion,the guy might open up to her to a very significant degree.

In addtion to the regular, the WG meets more men in private situations , some good some bad, than practically any other woman. This alone must surely give her a unique advantage over other women in society as reagards understanding men.

So girls, after working in the business for a few years, do you think you have a unique insight into men and what makes us tick and guys , particularly those who have regulars, would you say that WGs probably of all women understand men the most ?

Sadly the only insight we get into the way men think is that men view sex as vital in their day as food and air.

Prior to selling myself I always knew men enjoyed sex and probably thought about it a lot more than women. On entering the industry I soon understand that it is a preoccupation and any receptacle will do as long as the balls are empty at the end of it.

I guess women have to think how many straight male escorts are there ? how many female punter sights are there ? how many male strip clubs are there ? how many women are trawling the net daily to review men they have fucked in there lunch break. How many companies making blow up men or real dolls in the male version. I guess this trade made me realise that no matter what he gets at home or how much he gets he will still want more and that most women will not really worry that much about sex if they are not getting enough and I would say that about 1% would actually consider paying for it.

Yes we get to know a lot of secrets but we also get a lot of bullshit. I wouldn't say I understand men anymore than a civvy but I understand that sex for them is a big deal.

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And for females................its a necessary evil......way down on the bottom of page 5 of the list of things they least like to do......!!

Ok, bit of a generalisation......but if one of the girls off here can think of a time when they felt the most horny, sexy, up for it....then multiple by 100 for a guy from between the ages of 13 or so and 40 or so.....ALL THE TIME.........a slight difference?

Men from mars women from some other place...true.....:D

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And for females................its a necessary evil......way down on the bottom of page 5 of the list of things they least like to do......!!

Ok, bit of a generalisation......but if one of the girls off here can think of a time when they felt the most horny, sexy, up for it....then multiple by 100 for a guy from between the ages of 13 or so and 40 or so.....ALL THE TIME.........a slight difference?

Men from mars women from some other place...true.....:cool:

I don't get what you mean. Women enjoy sex : FACT . It is 100 times more important to a man hence 95% (rough guess) of internet sex being geared towards men.

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I don't get what you mean. Women enjoy sex : FACT . It is 100 times more important to a man hence 95% (rough guess) of internet sex being geared towards men.

I know....sex is unimportant to females..............except in certain circumstances, sure they enjoy it....BUT...its not a huge driving force in their lives!

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So how can women understand what really drives men...............when they can't relate to it........enjoying/pleasure are far removed from having to...must get done.....nothing will distract the guy from getting it!!

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Surely escorts must understand men far more than other women. they still won't understood men completely but would get a better idea of their sex drive and the infinite variety of their sexual likes and dislikes.

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Surely escorts must understand men far more than other women. they still won't understood men completely but would get a better idea of their sex drive and the infinite variety of their sexual likes and dislikes.

Some do...most just do it for money.................how is money related to sex......???!!!!!

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do only prostitutes understand men then?

When I think back to some of the astonishingly frank and open discussions I have had about sex with a couple of my regulars, I have to say that these two certainly understand my sexual desires and needs better than my wife. This is puzzling to me as to why it is so easy to talk about sex to these women than it is to my sife, but I think that my experience can't be uncommon. Certainly my wife has never shown any interest in talking about the mechanics of sex, sexual experimentation and what makes us horny in all the years we have been married. Odd isn't it?

I must say though that it took a while to feel comfortable to discuss sex in such a way with my regs. Most girls I see are a simple one-off and the conversation between rounds tends to be of the "have you got any good holidays planned ?" type :cool:.

That said and done, outside the narrow window of sex (yes, contrary to popular opinion on these boards, there is more to life), there is only so much that the WGs I see know about me and my life. Here, there are many more women (relatives and friends as well as my wife) who I would say understand me, as a fully rounded person, better.

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Some do...most just do it for money.................how is money related to sex......???!!!!!

We understand only that MEN need sex. We of course don't fully understand why because we cannot relate to it fully, even as a hooker having sex day in, day out. Sex and money are related to sex they are possibly the two most destructive things in this world. Money and power can make sex with even the ugliest man very exciting for a women.

I often chatted to my clients about their need for sex despite having met their pretty wives (don't ask) could only liken it to when women need a little ego boost we have a little flirt, buy some gorgeous shoes or just put on some sexy undies for him indoors and compliments, sex or feel good factors are ticked. When a man needs a little attention he has sex with whom ever is available.

I guess it is all part of our make up from men dragging us off by our hair to their caves whilst the ladies happily cooked the dinosaur legs for their men.

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I think mrs divine above is wrong.

I think there are many highy sexed women out there.

If they want sex they just go on the pull. Plenty of blokes ready to do the deed.

But they dont go on about it, so we dont know.

I think the amout of women engagon in extra marital sex is far larger than realised, and I believe the is research that shows many kids are not their fathers children.

Robert Winston says a woman at her fertile period is highly driven to get sex.

so lets kill the idea that women dont want sex. The problem is most dont want sex with me!!!!!!

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I think mrs divine above is wrong.

I think there are many highy sexed women out there.

If they want sex they just go on the pull. Plenty of blokes ready to do the deed.

But they dont go on about it, so we dont know.

I think the amout of women engagon in extra marital sex is far larger than realised, and I believe the is research that shows many kids are not their fathers children.

Robert Winston says a woman at her fertile period is highly driven to get sex.

so lets kill the idea that women dont want sex. The problem is most dont want sex with me!!!!!!

I am talking about women that want sex enough that they will pay a total stranger for it. Extra marital sex for a women is about the 'affair' the attention, the thrill and excitement and possibly the end result of a relationship. For men sex is sex.

Women want sex for very different reasons to men. Please point me in the direction of the millions of sites for straight male escorts servicing these lustful women daily.

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Sadly the only insight we get into the way men think is that men view sex as vital in their day as food and air.

Prior to selling myself I always knew men enjoyed sex and probably thought about it a lot more than women. On entering the industry I soon understand that it is a preoccupation and any receptacle will do as long as the balls are empty at the end of it.

I guess women have to think how many straight male escorts are there ? how many female punter sights are there ? how many male strip clubs are there ? how many women are trawling the net daily to review men they have fucked in there lunch break. How many companies making blow up men or real dolls in the male version. I guess this trade made me realise that no matter what he gets at home or how much he gets he will still want more and that most women will not really worry that much about sex if they are not getting enough and I would say that about 1% would actually consider paying for it.

Yes we get to know a lot of secrets but we also get a lot of bullshit. I wouldn't say I understand men anymore than a civvy but I understand that sex for them is a big deal.

You appear to have a rather low opinion of men. Perhaps you should get out a bit more and meet the finer end of the species ! :cool:

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... Please point me in the direction of the millions of sites for straight male escorts servicing these lustful women daily.

They dont need em. they just go to the slug and lettuce on a friday night!

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I have a close male friend (not client) who reckons I must have been a man in a former life.

Do I know men better than my girlfriends who are not in the business?

I'm not sure, but they always seem to come to me for advice when they have a man problem !!

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They dont need em. they just go to the slug and lettuce on a friday night!

You see that is the difference. They do not need it so much that they pay for it. They are going out for the chase, they are looking for something more than a fuck, a fuck is the pay off at the end of the evening it is what is expected of us.

Sex for women involves so much more than it does for men. How many times have you heard women stating they need to nail the new guy in accounts ? How many rapes of men or sexual crimes do you here of committed by women ? This is nothing to do with us being the weaker sex this is because our need for sex is not as basic as filling a hole any hole and despunking. I haven't heard of many women fucking dead bodies or animals but I have heard of a lot of men doing this.

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You appear to have a rather low opinion of men. Perhaps you should get out a bit more and meet the finer end of the species ! :cool:

God no ! I really do not have a low opinion of men. In fact I enjoy male company far more than any female company always have. I was just trying to express that to understand a man you have to realise that sex for him is a very simple act whereas sex for a women is more complex and involves a little more.

Jesus without men and their need for ball emptying where would I be ?

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You see that is the difference. They do not need it so much that they pay for it. They are going out for the chase, they are looking for something more than a fuck, a fuck is the pay off at the end of the evening it is what is expected of us.

Sex for women involves so much more than it does for men. How many times have you heard women stating they need to nail the new guy in accounts ? How many rapes of men or sexual crimes do you here of committed by women ? This is nothing to do with us being the weaker sex this is because our need for sex is not as basic as filling a hole any hole and despunking. I haven't heard of many women fucking dead bodies or animals but I have heard of a lot of men doing this.

Hmmmmmm --- you need more than to get out a bit, Mrs D. ' a lot ' of men fucking dead bodies and animals !! :cool::eek: Where do you get this stuff from ??

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Mr Divine tells me about it.

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Hmmmmmm --- you need more than to get out a bit, Mrs D. ' a lot ' of men fucking dead bodies and animals !! :cool::eek: Where do you get this stuff from ??

I asked Mr D if we should stuff our dog when it dies and he asked me if I thought it would be as pleasant as when he was alive !!!

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God no ! I really do not have a low opinion of men. In fact I enjoy male company far more than any female company always have. I was just trying to express that to understand a man you have to realise that sex for him is a very simple act whereas sex for a women is more complex and involves a little more.

Jesus without men and their need for ball emptying where would I be ?

No,no and no !! Admittedley when it comes to sex we are far less complex than females but to say we are happy to just find a hole,'any hole' is way off the mark for most men--- hence all the research, the discussion. If you look at the views expressed on this forum, huge weight is given to friendliness and attitude which qualities more often than not are deemed more important than physical looks. Any hole most certainly wont do. Men are intelligent, sensitive and caring !! :cool: If you look we are only around the corner !

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one factor to consider is a bloke who shags around is a lad and good on him.

a girl who shags around is a slag.

so, i reckon blokes will dicuss their conquests, girls dont

Tho things may have changed in the last 20 years maybe....

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Mr Divine tells me about it.

I'm going to mount a secret rescue mission to save you --- I'll PM you the the time and co-ordinates later.Dont worry, we'll get you out -- hang in there ,try to stay strong !! :cool:

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one factor to consider is a bloke who shags around is a lad and good on him.

a girl who shags around is a slag.

so, i reckon blokes will dicuss their conquests, girls dont

Tho things may have changed in the last 20 years maybe....

There is still an ocean of difference between wondering if I will get laid on Friday night and booking an escort to shag me for an hour or seeing if I can get my therapist to frig me off when I go for a massage.

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