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I'm sure many guys have thought about visiting an escort. Equally quite a few ladies have thought about becomming an escort.

I just wondered to both the guys and the girls, what actually made you take your thoughts and inquisitiveness and turn them to a reality?

Looking back has your choice been something you are glad to have made?

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What made the decision? Well, I'd come out of a long relationship and knew I wanted to be single for a time. Became more and more intrigued by the world of escorting when I researched online (thanks PN!) and when I knew I was going to be away from home stuck in a nowhere town for 4 days on business I found a local escort who I knew would alleviate the boredom.

Never looked back since, not a single regret!

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For me it was simple, I spent my whole career working in a male dominated Industry being dragged along as the 'decoration' to many social events. I basically fucked my way through the whole of my career and knew that being female and desired could open more doors for me than any course or tactical move in the work place.

I went along with the boys to a lap dancing club one night and they paid a girl to dance on me whilst they all cheered and salivated. I think it was at this point I realised that I was perhaps wasting my energy fucking my way up the career ladder and instead should just cut out the middle man and earn it from source.

I opened Divine, never intended to be a whore and on the second day the girl let me down. I had 3 x £150.00 clients booked in, I took a deep breath and got on with it. I walked out that day with £900.00 in my pocket and hadn't even broken sweat. I had listened to far less shite than I would in a normal day schmoozing at work and was home in time to have a life.

I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

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I think that there is some truth to the saying that an escort is born not made and I had been thinking about it for years before taking the plunge. From a very young age I was provocative and sexually open.

After moving to Cardiff from a small rural sw town and then promptly losing my job I finally had the excuse to start escorting. I was single and was bored with having one night stands that didn't really get me off and the guys considered me a glorified hole so I thought I should be getting at least one of two things out of sex, an orgasm or money, preferably both.

Since then I have created me own business which is still growing and I am very proud of what I have achieved knowing that not alot of 23 year olds have sucessfully done what I have.

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For me it was simple, I spent my whole career working in a male dominated Industry being dragged along as the 'decoration' to many social events. I basically fucked my way through the whole of my career and knew that being female and desired could open more doors for me than any course or tactical move in the work place.

I went along with the boys to a lap dancing club one night and they paid a girl to dance on me whilst they all cheered and salivated. I think it was at this point I realised that I was perhaps wasting my energy fucking my way up the career ladder and instead should just cut out the middle man and earn it from source.

I opened Divine, never intended to be a whore and on the second day the girl let me down. I had 3 x £150.00 clients booked in, I took a deep breath and got on with it. I walked out that day with £900.00 in my pocket and hadn't even broken sweat. I had listened to far less shite than I would in a normal day schmoozing at work and was home in time to have a life.

I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

Good post DivineMK, open and honest.

I hope there's more like you.

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I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

That's just nasty :cool:

My back has just gone out so thanks for making me laugh

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For me it was simple, I spent my whole career working in a male dominated Industry being dragged along as the 'decoration' to many social events. I basically fucked my way through the whole of my career and knew that being female and desired could open more doors for me than any course or tactical move in the work place.

I went along with the boys to a lap dancing club one night and they paid a girl to dance on me whilst they all cheered and salivated. I think it was at this point I realised that I was perhaps wasting my energy fucking my way up the career ladder and instead should just cut out the middle man and earn it from source.

I opened Divine, never intended to be a whore and on the second day the girl let me down. I had 3 x £150.00 clients booked in, I took a deep breath and got on with it. I walked out that day with £900.00 in my pocket and hadn't even broken sweat. I had listened to far less shite than I would in a normal day schmoozing at work and was home in time to have a life.

I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

And you say you don't have a poor opinion of men ! :cool: Are you as hard as this in civvy street ?

Whilst it is accepted that women become WGs in order to earn money, the same can be said for most jobs/careers.Hopefully, some of the WGs do actually enjoy the company of many of their clients and god forbid, they might even like some of the sex now and again.

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And you say you don't have a poor opinion of men ! :eek: Are you as hard as this in civvy street ?

Whilst it is accepted that women become WGs in order to earn money, the same can be said for most jobs/careers.Hopefully, some of the WGs do actually enjoy the company of many of their clients and god forbid, they might even like some of the sex now and again.

Where is my poor opinion of men ? I had a lot of sex to get what I wanted, the majority of that sex I enjoyed. What is hard about my approach ? I just got sick of being decorative. I found that I was going to all the right places, getting all the right gifts, drinking the right champagne but come the morning my salary was still the same. This way I still have the sex but I get the hard cash and can take myself to all the right places with the company that I choose.

Look lets be honest here. To be good WG you have to enjoy sex and the company of men but as we all know women can get that anywhere. It is money and money only that make women do this job. Anyone that has a trust fund but actually likes getting fucked is not going to go on the game they are just going to go out and get laid more often.

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For me it was simple, I spent my whole career working in a male dominated Industry being dragged along as the 'decoration' to many social events. I basically fucked my way through the whole of my career and knew that being female and desired could open more doors for me than any course or tactical move in the work place.

I went along with the boys to a lap dancing club one night and they paid a girl to dance on me whilst they all cheered and salivated. I think it was at this point I realised that I was perhaps wasting my energy fucking my way up the career ladder and instead should just cut out the middle man and earn it from source.

I opened Divine, never intended to be a whore and on the second day the girl let me down. I had 3 x £150.00 clients booked in, I took a deep breath and got on with it. I walked out that day with £900.00 in my pocket and hadn't even broken sweat. I had listened to far less shite than I would in a normal day schmoozing at work and was home in time to have a life.

I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

Fantastic truthful and intersting Thank you Divine :eek: x

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Moving on from Divine's post (which has to be respected for I might add), what made me take the plunge was the fact that I wanted to lose my virginity, simple as. If truth be told I was (and still am) a horny young man but wanted to have sex with someone I cared about and who cared about me. For various reasons that didn't happen and I got to a point where I didn't want to wait any longer (I was 22 at the time). So I thought the quickest and best way was to find an escort. So I found an older woman (from another site) and did it.

I have to be honest and say I didn't perform well as I found the whole situation totally overwhelming and very far from the romantic ideal I'd hoped for. However, the easy of it all made me keep seeing another escort for a time until one day the situation wasn't weird at all and I realised the possibilities that this life could offer.

Seven years later, I'm still punting (having had many good experiences and meeting many wonderful ladies) but still find myself slightly regretting that I didn't have that ideal first time (first few times). But that's the way of it I guess. I now can't imagine myself not punting but insist on having that GFE service.

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I have just taken the plunge visiting an escort for the first time. I had been in a 12 year marriage, now divorced, with my ex & kids living in another country. Also lost my job, and then the house with the split etc. So, generally suffering from a little "rejection" ...I have no intention of dating, and there is only so much wanking a man can do. I did have a one-night stand which ended up with me feeling I had just used the poor woman for one thing - which I had. Guilty as charged. Felt like shit.

I can honestly say, that although nerve racking for me at first, the lady was just so mind-numbingly hot and sexy, but more important a kind and intuitive person, that I came out with largest smile on my face, feeling the happiest I'd felt in a long, long time... No guilt. Felt on top of the world. She got well paid, a large tip, and the satisfaction of being truly appreciated for a job well done.

Now that's what I call a win-win.

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Seven years later, I'm still punting (having had many good experiences and meeting many wonderful ladies) but still find myself slightly regretting that I didn't have that ideal first time (first few times). But that's the way of it I guess. I now can't imagine myself not punting but insist on having that GFE service.

For what it's worth JLE I doubt that many people, male or female, have an 'ideal first time'. My own was a civilian encounter in my mid-teens with a girl a few years older than me. It was 2am on a local golf course and we were both pissed as farts. I somehow doubt that she looks back on the encounter with longing and lust :eek:. At least with an escort, you would have been warm and dry and she wouldn't have been disappointed at the lack of a super stud performance LoL.

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Thanks for putting things into perspective NW. However, do you regret it? If nothing else you made me smile.

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Thanks for putting things into perspective NW. However, do you regret it? If nothing else you made me smile.

I don't regret it in the slightest now JLE, but it was over 30 years ago (fuck, how did that happen?). Time has a habit of placing things in perspective ;). At the time, I certainly remember thinking 'was that really worth all the fuss people make of it'. Fortunately, things improved (slowly) over the years. I wish I'd been able to have as much sex in my teens and twenties as I have now in my forties though :eek:.

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Sadly the only insight we get into the way men think is that men view sex as vital in their day as food and air.

Prior to selling myself I always knew men enjoyed sex and probably thought about it a lot more than women. On entering the industry I soon understand that it is a preoccupation and any receptacle will do as long as the balls are empty at the end of it.

For me it was simple, I spent my whole career working in a male dominated Industry being dragged along as the 'decoration' to many social events. I basically fucked my way through the whole of my career and knew that being female and desired could open more doors for me than any course or tactical move in the work place.

I understand I am in the minority though as most girls start this because they love sex, can't get enough of men old enough to be their great grandfathers fucking them and could listen to the sparkling wit and intriguing conversations all day.

Where is my poor opinion of men ? I had a lot of sex to get what I wanted, the majority of that sex I enjoyed. What is hard about my approach ? I just got sick of being decorative.

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From a reading of your posts, I think your experience 'pre whoredom days' was one where you felt men you worked with did not value you as a person for the work you did and the potential you might bring to the business in your own right but instead were content to merely use your beauty to 'decorate ' them and to selfishly further their own interests.

You deduced however that you could play them at their own game and manipulate these men with sexual favours so that you could get what you wanted from them and also get them to open doors to you that otherwise might be shut.

You appear to believe that once a man is horny he is prepared to empty his load into any available hole or receptacle , perhaps even animals !:eek:

If I have interpreted the above correctly, the implication is that you feel that men are totally indiscriminate in their choice of women when seeking sex and that due to their pre-occupation with getting their rocks off, their brain and judgement in civvy street desserts them when faced with a sexually manipulative woman.

In my view , men do not show up well in any of the above points --- hence my feeling that you do not hold men in general in high esteem.I have no doubt that you like the company of some men and would enjoy sex with them--- only damn Mr.D keeps getting in the way. And No, I have no interest whatsover in shoving or indeed watching you shove a cactus plant up his bum !! ;)

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I'm sure many guys have thought about visiting an escort. Equally quite a few ladies have thought about becoming an escort.

I just wondered to both the guys and the girls, what actually made you take your thoughts and inquisitiveness and turn them to a reality?

Looking back has your choice been something you are glad to have made?

nntt, I'll say it clear;

I'll state my case of which I'm certain.

I've lived a life that's full -

I've traveled each and every highway.

And more, much more than this,

I did it my way.

Regrets? I've had a few,

But then again, too few to mention.

I did what I had to do

And saw it through without exemption.

I planned each charted course -

Each careful step along the byway,

And more, much more than this,

I did it my way.

Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew,

When I bit off more than I could chew,

But through it all, when there was doubt,

I ate it up and spit it out.

I faced it all and I stood tall

And did it my way.

I've loved, I've laughed and cried,

I've had my fill - my share of losing.

But now, as tears subside,

I find it all so amusing.

To think I did all that,

And may I say, not in a shy way -

Oh no. Oh no, not me.

I did it my way.

For what is an escort? What has she got?

If not herself - Then she has naught.

To say the things she truly feels

And not the words of one who kneels.

The record shows I took the blows

And did it my way.

Yes, it was my way.

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....what actually made you take your thoughts and inquisitiveness and turn them to a reality?

Just a week before, I had taken the first steps on doing something very positive with my life, so I started visiting ladies partly as a reward to myself, and partly to use future visits as motivation to stay on the path I had just chosen.

Was I glad I made the choice? Yes, in both cases.

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From a reading of your posts, I think your experience 'pre whoredom days' was one where you felt men you worked with did not value you as a person for the work you did and the potential you might bring to the business in your own right but instead were content to merely use your beauty to 'decorate ' them and to selfishly further their own interests.

You deduced however that you could play them at their own game and manipulate these men with sexual favours so that you could get what you wanted from them and also get them to open doors to you that otherwise might be shut.

You appear to believe that once a man is horny he is prepared to empty his load into any available hole or receptacle , perhaps even animals !;)

If I have interpreted the above correctly, the implication is that you feel that men are totally indiscriminate in their choice of women when seeking sex and that due to their pre-occupation with getting their rocks off, their brain and judgement in civvy street desserts them when faced with a sexually manipulative woman.

In my view , men do not show up well in any of the above points --- hence my feeling that you do not hold men in general in high esteem.I have no doubt that you like the company of some men and would enjoy sex with them--- only damn Mr.D keeps getting in the way. And No, I have no interest whatsover in shoving or indeed watching you shove a cactus plant up his bum !! :(

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article145635.ece

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I just wondered to both the guys and the girls, what actually made you take your thoughts and inquisitiveness and turn them to a reality?

Inspired by Brooke Magnolia or whatever her name is.

Looking back has your choice been something you are glad to have made?

Yes it's triffic but I think i'm getting addicted and more perverted.

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I spent over a year thinking about my first punt,it might have been shorter if the escort i was going to see last year had not cancelled two and half hours before i was gong to see her.What finally made up my mind,was i read something and it reminded me of me plus it upset me too,so i found a escort i liked the look of and sound of on a website and then booked to see her.It was one of the best discussions i have every made and im so glad i did it,i will be seeing her for the 3rd time next month.:eek:

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Combination of curiousity and being in a broken relationship but didn't want baggage of affair (at the time). Initially was like baby-steps...pre-web days so mainly very occasional walk-ups and parlours. Despite dodgy reps, there were some pleasing encounters, which only improved once internet appeared.

Regrets? Very few. The good times (and there were some simply fantastic ones) outweighed the bad. With hindsight, even the cost (a small fortune) was worth every penny//pound, and wouldn't trade for the memories or experiences.

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From a reading of your posts, I think your experience 'pre whoredom days' was one where you felt men you worked with did not value you as a person for the work you did and the potential you might bring to the business in your own right but instead were content to merely use your beauty to 'decorate ' them and to selfishly further their own interests.

You deduced however that you could play them at their own game and manipulate these men with sexual favours so that you could get what you wanted from them and also get them to open doors to you that otherwise might be shut.

You appear to believe that once a man is horny he is prepared to empty his load into any available hole or receptacle , perhaps even animals !:eek:

If I have interpreted the above correctly, the implication is that you feel that men are totally indiscriminate in their choice of women when seeking sex and that due to their pre-occupation with getting their rocks off, their brain and judgement in civvy street desserts them when faced with a sexually manipulative woman.

In my view , men do not show up well in any of the above points --- hence my feeling that you do not hold men in general in high esteem.I have no doubt that you like the company of some men and would enjoy sex with them--- only damn Mr.D keeps getting in the way. And No, I have no interest whatsover in shoving or indeed watching you shove a cactus plant up his bum !! ;)

Originally Posted by ander23t

Hi all,

I thought of making this topic to list the known masseuses who provide rimming - I am particularly not interested in prostate massage but I definitely like rimming, so, do you guys know any in London who provide such services?

I know Carmen, a mature brazilian lady in Earls Court, who charges £60 for an hour. However, she's definitely not beautiful, although her rimming is quite good.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but in any case, not being funny, if she provides a good service for what sounds like a reasonable price does it really matter what her face looks like when it's buried hafway up your jacksy?

So men are fussy where they put it ? taken from the deightful rimming thread !

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I was in a job that was paying to survive not to live, I had just taken out a BIG loan to have a bit of fun for a change, single and on a dating website I received a message from a guy that was offering me his services, I replied that I would be interested in providing not receiving services and started working that week.

I handed my notice in a couple of weeks after when I was turning too much cash down during office hours.

S x

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