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1st time expectations

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I would really appreciate some feedback. I recently had a customer who booked a girl (very popular with great reports) and he claims it was his 1st WG experience. He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience. I spoke to the girl in question and she says that she thought he had a good time and nothing was said on the day.

So what should or is the 1st time with a WG like? Should fireworks fly or can the build and anticipation be a bit overwhelming? Your experiences and expectations would be gladly appreciated.

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I doubt there's a general rule, because punters probably have completely different expectations. I didn't know what to expect on my first punt, and the anticipation was definitely overwhelming. It was all over very quickly, which was rather embarrassing, but my fault rather than hers.

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I would really appreciate some feedback. I recently had a customer who booked a girl (very popular with great reports) and he claims it was his 1st WG experience. He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience. I spoke to the girl in question and she says that she thought he had a good time and nothing was said on the day.

So what should or is the 1st time with a WG like? Should fireworks fly or can the build and anticipation be a bit overwhelming? Your experiences and expectations would be gladly appreciated.

My first experience was a disaster but that was back in the dark ages of the late 1960s when free love was supposed to have been in plentiful supply. My share of that came in the next decade but, back to that first experience. I'd phoned up one of those newspaper shop window ads commonly seen in West London in those days. I think it was the "large chest for sale" one. I was directed to an address in Knightsbridge and a quite classy looking mews house near the back of Harrods. It was a freezing cold January day and, being a novice, I needed the Dutch courage provided by two large whiskeys in a nearby pub, thus breaking the golden rule of not drinking alcohol before a punt.

I was sober enough, however and my hopes were raised when an attractive blonde lady in her mid thirties answered the door. She did indeed have a large chest and was just as I'd hoped appearance wise. It all went downhill from there, sadly, as she gave me a few perfunctory strokes down there which succeeded in getting me aroused but, just as I was eagerly anticipating feeling her assets and, hopefully having a good nuzzle, she refused to take her jumper off after I'd requested her to do so. She claimed that it was too cold although the flat was warm enough. She proceeded to apply a condom and sat on me in what I now know to be the cowgirl position.I certainly succeeded in achieving a less than explosive orgasm as I was young and horny at the time but I think I was only with her for about 12 minutes from start to finish.

I suspect that similar experiences might have put some first time punters off for life but I eventually got lucky with a friendly black lady who built up my confidence to the extent that I was able to form a few proper relationships. Punting, however, never lost its potential to thrill and I've always been happy to return to it whenever the need has arisen :eek:

Now, with the wisdom of age, I'm far more discerning and tend to do my homework before taking the plunge. I also believe, that with all the advantages of sites like this one, bad punts should be a rarity these days.

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My first time with a WG was my first time with anyone. All a bit overwhelming and weird, and I left slightly dissappointed. That wasn't down to the lady just that I imagined something different.

I don't feel as a service provider you can second guess what's in someone else's mind (unless they tell you). So I think it's completely unfair for him to complain in this instance.

The gentleman in question should learn from his experience (as we all do) and learn to be more specific in the future, so the experience is what he wants. Although I admit, sometimes it is awkward saying over the phone to someone you've never met that you want "gfe, owo, cim, a-levels" (like ordering off a sex menu), but it's the only way to get what you want.

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He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience.

Did he supply any clues on what he thought it would/should have been like?

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I would really appreciate some feedback. I recently had a customer who booked a girl (very popular with great reports) and he claims it was his 1st WG experience. He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience. I spoke to the girl in question and she says that she thought he had a good time and nothing was said on the day.

So what should or is the 1st time with a WG like? Should fireworks fly or can the build and anticipation be a bit overwhelming? Your experiences and expectations would be gladly appreciated.

Did he say why he was disappointed? Maybe he expected the lady to ask him to marry him at the end of the session. :eek:

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Did he supply any clues on what he thought it would/should have been like?

Not really. What were his expectations if he had nothing to compare it to?? Like I said the girl in question is very popular with great field reports. :eek:

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My first time was entertaining, and very, very quick. After much deliberation after the break up of my marriage, i finally decided to visit a parlour. Got there, nice maid, very nervous, then this crazy woman appeared, dragged me into the room, and had her way with me on the floor, didnt even get to the bed. I have since learned that this is not the norm.In and out in oh about 5 minutes.

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I would really appreciate some feedback. I recently had a customer who booked a girl (very popular with great reports) and he claims it was his 1st WG experience. He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience. I spoke to the girl in question and she says that she thought he had a good time and nothing was said on the day.

So what should or is the 1st time with a WG like? Should fireworks fly or can the build and anticipation be a bit overwhelming? Your experiences and expectations would be gladly appreciated.

The simple fact that you are asking the question attests to the fact that you are already getting right everything you can get right. You can't please all the people all the time, but if you care enough to try then you're doing a pretty good job!

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The simple fact that you are asking the question attests to the fact that you are already getting right everything you can get right. You can't please all the people all the time, but if you care enough to try then you're doing a pretty good job!

Thank you Trolley. Thats a nice way to look at it :eek:

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even now with quite a few punts under my belt, i am still nervous before a punt. But the first time i was really nrevy.

mebbe it was nerves that spoiled it?

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I think it might be a bit diffferent these days when so many men who may be punting and even civilian virgins have nevertheless seen so much porn.

Might that not mean that a normal, GFE or whatever session provided by the perfectly good WG didn't match what he had come to expect of a sexual encounter, especially with a professional?

Goodness knows what the expectations will be of future punters who have had access to full-on porn from some ridiculously young age and who have seen jst about every service provided seemingly as a matter of course with no discussion involved.

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Since it was his first time it is impossible to know his 'expectations.' If he has spent the previous week watching hard core DVDs maybe he did not get PSE. And if he had been reading girlie 'luv' stories maybe a whole different scenario.

Don't worry - I am certain your WG did a great job - and lets move on from Mr 'didnt get what to expected.'

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A guy once told me his first time with me wasn't what he expected. I asked him why, and he said that my hair wasn't the colour he'd imagined.

:eek:

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Since it was his first time it is impossible to know his 'expectations.' If he has spent the previous week watching hard core DVDs maybe he did not get PSE. And if he had been reading girlie 'luv' stories maybe a whole different scenario.

Don't worry - I am certain your WG did a great job - and lets move on from Mr 'didnt get what to expected.'

So no one else is allowed to post on this thread now you've had a go?????????

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So no one else is allowed to post on this thread now you've had a go?????????

Of course you can woffle on but I doubt there is much creative posting left.

But go on - add something really thought provoking and subsantive instead of wingeing.

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Of course you can woffle on but I doubt there is much creative posting left.

But go on - add something really thought provoking and subsantive instead of wingeing.

Some guys plan their first punt like a bride plans her wedding day. It’s easy to over-think things to the point that you become deflated when you glimpse a stretchmark or find a blackhead or discover a rogue hair growing from her nipple. Imperfection shatters the illusion and blood begins to ebb away.

This reaction is perhaps more common than you realise. I was shagging a 25 year old Polish stunner in doggy when - glancing towards the window - I suddenly noticed that one curtain was longer than the other. It was like sticking a pin in a balloon. I got dressed and left.

Another time, I was shown into the master bedroom by the maid. I immediately noticed that the pillow cases didn’t match. I spun on my heels in disgust and slammed the door as I left.

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Some guys plan their first punt like a bride plans her wedding day. It's easy to over-think things to the point that you become deflated when you glimpse a stretchmark or find a blackhead or discover a rogue hair growing from her nipple. Imperfection shatters the illusion and blood begins to ebb away.

This reaction is perhaps more common than you realise. I was shagging a 25 year old Polish stunner in doggy when - glancing towards the window - I suddenly noticed that one curtain was longer than the other. It was like sticking a pin in a balloon. I got dressed and left.

Another time, I was shown into the master bedroom by the maid. I immediately noticed that the pillow cases didn't match. I spun on my heels in disgust and slammed the door as I left.

But your two examples rfer to post first time punts - and I doubt a guy on his first punt notices curtains and pillow cases.

And I doubt the examples given are of interest to a first time punter.

Move on............

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Move on............

Actually, I'm quite surprised to see you still posting here. I thought you'd moved on to ukpunting.com

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It's kind of like moving house, but popping back every day to see if the new people have put up different net curtains...

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I thought you'd moved on to ukpunting.com

* Anticipates addition to censorship list *

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All I will say is that my first timer client had watched A LOT of porn before visiting me...ooo er.

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back to Teresas point - perhaps therere just some who are born whingers......

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Actually, I'm quite surprised to see you still posting here. I thought you'd moved on to ukpunting.com

It's ok TB your stories went right over his head lol. :eek:

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I would really appreciate some feedback. I recently had a customer who booked a girl (very popular with great reports) and he claims it was his 1st WG experience. He called to complain saying it was not what he thought and he was disappointed with whole experience. I spoke to the girl in question and she says that she thought he had a good time and nothing was said on the day.

So what should or is the 1st time with a WG like? Should fireworks fly or can the build and anticipation be a bit overwhelming? Your experiences and expectations would be gladly appreciated.

The only thing he can compare it to is sex in the civilian world - presumably that is all he knows prior to his paid for liaison. I'm assuming he has experienced this and experienced some emotional feelings for a girlfriend.

What probably disappoints him is having to pay for it and then when the time is up off he goes. No emotional bond or attachment, just sexual gratification and emptiness afterwards.

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