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I'm addicted...it cant just be me surely...??

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Hi all.

I've been seeing escorts for around 2 years now, and now if i go a week without a 'fix' i get frustrated...i guess that means i'm addicted to the excitement, thrill as fun of punting...

...anyone else feel the same? It cant be just me surely lol ....?!

Nik

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No - it's definitely not just you - but as the frequency of your visits are sure to increase, something called "money" or more accurately - the lack of it - will serve to moderate the amount of visits you're able to make ...

It happened to me and it's a horrible feeling - I don't drink and don't smoke so this is my one real "hobby" :cool:

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Hi all.

I've been seeing escorts for around 2 years now, and now if i go a week without a 'fix' i get frustrated...i guess that means i'm addicted to the excitement, thrill as fun of punting...

...anyone else feel the same? It cant be just me surely lol ....?!

Nik

You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

Thanks for the info. I definitely need to face up to my addiction and do something about it. Do you know if I can claim this on my medical insurance?

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but what a great addiction to have :cool:... and no hangover either lol!

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

The irony was not completely lost

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I'd define it for me at peak as more a very expensive habit than an addiction. An important distinction :cool:

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soapy,

its available only on bupa gold!

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No - it's definitely not just you - but as the frequency of your visits are sure to increase, something called "money" or more accurately - the lack of it - will serve to moderate the amount of visits you're able to make ...

It happened to me and it's a horrible feeling - I don't drink and don't smoke so this is my one real "hobby" :cool:

Oh great, I drink and smoke and punt. :)

Yes, hopelessly addicted. Tried quiting quite a few times.

I'd answer this question fully but I've got a punt booked in less than an hour.....

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

If I had written that I'd have sooooo been done for touting!!!! :cool:

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If I had written that I'd have sooooo been done for touting!!!! :cool:

Surely not Ma'am, BTW how much do you charge for a half hour consultation?

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Surely not Ma'am, BTW how much do you charge for a half hour consultation?

I think she offers a discount for senior citizens :cool:

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Hi all.

i guess that means i'm addicted

There is a self help group called Wankers Anonymous. They are quite helpful.

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I am adicted and just hold on to my sanity by having a one hour punt once a week. An old bachelor mate of mine has moved to Bangkok as he needs a daily fix ( and he is nearly of retirement age ) he can get his fix for about £15 a bang. Bangkok is full of older men with an addiction problem or two- but cheap rates to satisfy the craving.

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

Do you do Group Therapy?

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Hi all.

I've been seeing escorts for around 2 years now, and now if i go a week without a 'fix' i get frustrated...i guess that means i'm addicted to the excitement, thrill as fun of punting...

...anyone else feel the same? It cant be just me surely lol ....?!

Nik

My advice is set yourself a monthly budget and operate within that. It's very easy to get addicted to this game. The trouble with sex is that quite often, the more you get, the more you want.

Also, waiting a few weeks for your next punt can increase the anticipation and hence enjoyment of the next one :cool:.

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If I had written that I'd have sooooo been done for touting!!!! :cool:

ROFL Kate!!!

@ OP

You are not alone. There are gentlemen out there who get into debt due to this addiction.

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ROFL Kate!!!

@ OP

You are not alone. There are gentlemen out there who get into debt due to this addiction.

I used to punt twice a day for about a year - was completely addicted.

I got over it by masturbating more and earning less.

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

Praying on the weak and addicted...do you have no shame :cool: By the way when is Lea back in London?

In response to the thread, yes, it is addictive. I started off one punt a month and I got to a point when I did it twice a day. I knew this wasn't good and started to slow down (if only for my bank balance). I'm now at once every two weeks. However, it's easy to think, when I need a pick-me-up, about breaking this rule. But I try to be good.

Northwinds is right though, set yourself a budget and try to control yourself. You'll appreciate the next punt more if you do.

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If I had written that I'd have sooooo been done for touting!!!! :cool:

You can write what you like about us Kate, I won't tell anyone your touting.

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You're right it is an addiction. We run a self help centre in London, we're open Monday to Friday from 11 am until 8 pm. It's like a drop in centre and we have 2 'experts' working daily. We charge £60 for a half hour consultation.

PM me for more details.

Do you take NHS?

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I had a joke at the OP's expense which was perhaps a little cruel earlier.

However in all seriousness I think for some people it is addiction whether it's the actual sex, the lead up to it, the research or the 'high' upon leaving.

Does your expendable income perhaps influence if you regard it as a hobby or an addiction. Two clients punting say 4 times a week for an hour each visit. The client earning 100k+ a year may view it as a hobby and the client earning 35k a year may see it as an addiction ?

When your spending more on prostitutes than you are on yourself or loved ones be it mortgage, school fees, living costs per month then you need to take a long hard look at yourself and your motives for having sex with prostitutes.

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I had a joke at the OP's expense which was perhaps a little cruel earlier.

However in all seriousness I think for some people it is addiction whether it's the actual sex, the lead up to it, the research or the 'high' upon leaving.

Does your expendable income perhaps influence if you regard it as a hobby or an addiction. Two clients punting say 4 times a week for an hour each visit. The client earning 100k+ a year may view it as a hobby and the client earning 35k a year may see it as an addiction ?

When your spending more on prostitutes than you are on yourself or loved ones be it mortgage, school fees, living costs per month then you need to take a long hard look at yourself and your motives for having sex with prostitutes.

Real and Sound advice!!!

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I had a joke at the OP's expense which was perhaps a little cruel earlier.

However in all seriousness I think for some people it is addiction whether it's the actual sex, the lead up to it, the research or the 'high' upon leaving.

Does your expendable income perhaps influence if you regard it as a hobby or an addiction. Two clients punting say 4 times a week for an hour each visit. The client earning 100k+ a year may view it as a hobby and the client earning 35k a year may see it as an addiction ?

When your spending more on prostitutes than you are on yourself or loved ones be it mortgage, school fees, living costs per month then you need to take a long hard look at yourself and your motives for having sex with prostitutes.

Have tried taking a look at my "Long Hard Self" and realise my addiction needs satisfying NOW.

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I'm with many others on this, I'm definitely addicted too... and not just the punting itself, to researching it, checking forums, etc. as well. I did try to stop but only managed a couple of weeks before withdrawal symptoms set in :(

However I do have it under control, I set a monthly budget that I can afford and stick to it... that pays for a once a week 1hr punt, as long as her rates are reasonable. I suppose I do end up going without things though, but nothing really essential... like a newer laptop, ipad, and various other new stuff... I just prefer to spend my money on punting instead.

The true test of my addiction is going to be when they start raising interest rates ;) that could mean I'll have to lower my budget and I do wonder whether I'll stick to it then... I'll just have to wait and see.

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