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What are your reasons for seeing escorts ?

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The thread 'Does your wife know you do this ?' lead me to think that this could be a very interesting subject, and to hear punters varied reasons for why they choose to pay wgs for their services.

(Apologies if this subject has already been covered on this forum)

Typically the media portray punters as physically unnattractive, emotionally stunted, morally reprehensible, lonely, desperate lost causes with communication problems and a severe inability to engage in long, healthy, loving committed relationships.

Speaking for myself, as someone who is in a loving, long term and sexually active relationship, I continue to see escorts purely because, while being inevitably physically attracted to many other women (there are so many out there), I dont wish to be EMOTIONALLY unfaithful to, and really hurt, and subsequently lose, my partner.

With a wg, you pay for sex, pure and simple, and you leave your deeper emotions at the door. Both parties know the deal and nobody should get too emotionally attached or hurt.

I have a high sex drive and am physically attracted to many many women (most guys here will know what I'm talking about - especially if they've ever walked through the West End of London in the middle of a hot summer's day - its ridiculous - you end up literally salivating like a dog !!)

Your partner can't possibly always be there to satisfy every sexual whim at a moments notice, so for clear and simple, uncomplicated, blissful physical release- I employ the services of some truly lovely escorts - always practicing safely of course.

The vast majority of women just can't and won't understand that the fact you have sex with other women absolutely does not mean that you don't love her, doesnt devalue the attraction you feel for her and doesnt mean that you feel she is inadequate in any way.

Its biology - tell women this and they always say "that's just an excuse" - its not an excuse its a physical, biological and genetic reality that men are generally pre-wired for promiscuity.

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Typically the media portray punters as physically unnattractive, emotionally stunted, morally reprehensible, lonely, desperate lost causes with communication problems and a severe inability to engage in long, healthy, loving committed relationships.

Apart from "lonely", that pretty much sums me up, so I think that answers most of the other questions.

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I agree with that totally. I just want lots of pussy!

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Loneliness...... ;)

Im a single guy, moved to a new area, all friends are married and dont go out. Dont meet girls through work. Never really got the confidence to just walk up to a strange girl in the pub or in the street and chat her up.

Tried the usual options ( internet dating, pubs n clubs, evening courses) and all no joy. Even ended up with freaky psycho stalkers and weirdos for my trouble.

I dont actually just go for the sex. If I did then Id only go for 30 mins, but I go for 1hrs or longer.

I know its not going to cure the situation but does help abit when I do have the rare chance to met non-WGs. And its something to do to ease the loneliness..

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The thread 'Does your wife know you do this ?' lead me to think that this could be a very interesting subject, and to hear punters varied reasons for why they choose to pay wgs for their services.

(Apologies if this subject has already been covered on this forum)

Typically the media portray punters as physically unnattractive, emotionally stunted, morally reprehensible, lonely, desperate lost causes with communication problems and a severe inability to engage in long, healthy, loving committed relationships.

Speaking for myself, as someone who is in a loving, long term and sexually active relationship, I continue to see escorts purely because, while being inevitably physically attracted to many other women (there are so many out there), I dont wish to be EMOTIONALLY unfaithful to, and really hurt, and subsequently lose, my partner.

With a wg, you pay for sex, pure and simple, and you leave your deeper emotions at the door. Both parties know the deal and nobody should get too emotionally attached or hurt.

I have a high sex drive and am physically attracted to many many women (most guys here will know what I'm talking about - especially if they've ever walked through the West End of London in the middle of a hot summer's day - its ridiculous - you end up literally salivating like a dog !!)

Your partner can't possibly always be there to satisfy every sexual whim at a moments notice, so for clear and simple, uncomplicated, blissful physical release- I employ the services of some truly lovely escorts - always practicing safely of course.

The vast majority of women just can't and won't understand that the fact you have sex with other women absolutely does not mean that you don't love her, doesnt devalue the attraction you feel for her and doesnt mean that you feel she is inadequate in any way.

Its biology - tell women this and they always say "that's just an excuse" - its not an excuse its a physical, biological and genetic reality that men are generally pre-wired for promiscuity.

pretty much sopt on.

and its nice to have sex with pretty young girls again!;)

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Just one really. I don't get enough sex with attractive women otherwise.

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The thread 'Does your wife know you do this ?' lead me to think that this could be a very interesting subject, and to hear punters varied reasons for why they choose to pay wgs for their services.

(Apologies if this subject has already been covered on this forum)

Typically the media portray punters as physically unnattractive, emotionally stunted, morally reprehensible, lonely, desperate lost causes with communication problems and a severe inability to engage in long, healthy, loving committed relationships.

Speaking for myself, as someone who is in a loving, long term and sexually active relationship, I continue to see escorts purely because, while being inevitably physically attracted to many other women (there are so many out there), I dont wish to be EMOTIONALLY unfaithful to, and really hurt, and subsequently lose, my partner.

With a wg, you pay for sex, pure and simple, and you leave your deeper emotions at the door. Both parties know the deal and nobody should get too emotionally attached or hurt.

I have a high sex drive and am physically attracted to many many women (most guys here will know what I'm talking about - especially if they've ever walked through the West End of London in the middle of a hot summer's day - its ridiculous - you end up literally salivating like a dog !!)

Your partner can't possibly always be there to satisfy every sexual whim at a moments notice, so for clear and simple, uncomplicated, blissful physical release- I employ the services of some truly lovely escorts - always practicing safely of course.

The vast majority of women just can't and won't understand that the fact you have sex with other women absolutely does not mean that you don't love her, doesnt devalue the attraction you feel for her and doesnt mean that you feel she is inadequate in any way.

Its biology - tell women this and they always say "that's just an excuse" - its not an excuse its a physical, biological and genetic reality that men are generally pre-wired for promiscuity.

...couldn't put i better myself!!! Perfect!

Sometimes i get a little bored, and working long shifts, i need more excitement...its not all about the sex, but the aniticipation, thrill, and hopefully the physical pleasure and fulfilment. Meeting someone new, attractive and offers what you dont get at gome too comes into play.

I guess everyone will have their own reasons...

Nik

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We are all allowed one vice, aren't we? Don't drink, don't smoke, no drugs. Wife and kids happy, close knit family and friends, love my job, SW7 home, multiple holidays each year, love living in London.........heck, reckon a kid who grew up piss poor in Africa deserves to enjoy the international array of beautiful ladies London has to offer before I need to buy a Zimmer frame!!:). Life is short, play hard.

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Loneliness...... :)

I dont actually just go for the sex.

Loneliness/ wanting to be loved are the main reasons for me ! yes it is a little fluffy but don't worry i am not mad:o

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Loneliness/ wanting to be loved are the main reasons for me ! yes it is a little fluffy but don't worry i am not mad:o

You don't have to worry about being fluffy any more. Most of the fluffy bashers have gone x

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To gain experience and confidence. I was a virgin up until a couple of months ago. Technically, I think I still am because I haven't managed to ejaculate through intercourse yet.

Ultimately, I want a partner and to start a family but my lack of sexual experience holds me back. I've had girls flirt with me in the past but felt unable to take things any further.

I don't see punting as being a long term thing for me - famous last words!

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You don't have to worry about being fluffy any more. Most of the fluffy bashers have gone x

Yeah, dont bash my fluffy...it bruises easily.... :)

(What actually is the def. of a fluffy? Seems to change with every post?)

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Yeah, dont bash my fluffy...it bruises easily.... :)

(What actually is the def. of a fluffy? Seems to change with every post?)

If you really want the answer to that question then go read the "What is a fluffy" thread started by Kid-A. Very funny.

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I am single and not in a relationship. I have a busy professional life with few opportunities to meet eligible women. So when I am on leave from work, I punt as a treat. I am not a career hobbyist. I enjoy the company of beautiful, talented women. My experiences with WGs, tells me that they are amongst the most intelligent, articulate and personable of all women.

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The short answer:

Because I really enjoy it.

To be able to put the entire outside world on hold and step into a little bubble of pleasure for 1-2 hours where nothing else exists is such a good feeling, to which very few things compare.

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Because of a lack of intimacy in my marriage--not just a lack of sex, but a lack of everyday affections, such as hugs, kisses, even casual cuddling while watching TV on the sofa. A loss of tactile affection in life, that needs replacement, however rarely, even at a price.

Also, the need to be desired. Everyone wants to be fully desired at some point in their life. It's less about pouncing on an escort, and more about an escort pouncing on you, a wonderful feeling--however contrived it might be--that someone desires you.

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I find the whole thing very honest. I've yet to meet a working girl who is nice to me and leads me on purely so that I'll help her move house, fix her computer or listen to her whine on about her boyfriend. I've done enough of that to last a lifetime. This game is much better.

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I am single and not in a relationship. I have a busy professional life with few opportunities to meet eligible women. So when I am on leave from work, I punt as a treat. I am not a career hobbyist. I enjoy the company of beautiful, talented women. My experiences with WGs, tells me that they are amongst the most intelligent, articulate and personable of all women.

Thats my thoughts in a nutshell and also getting a gf and keeping one is not an easy task. I have had countless girlfriends and one nighters but you don't really feel fulfilled. Those are fun for a time but a lot of the time you feel you are wasting time and effort. Why not see a girl who you find sexually attractive rather then trying to find "the one". Escorts give you that fantasy dimension. I sorta prescribe to the old adage of girls are like parking spaces, all the good ones are taken and to find someone you connect with does not just happen overnight so why not just skip all that and have fun.

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The short answer:

Because I really enjoy it.

To be able to put the entire outside world on hold and step into a little bubble of pleasure for 1-2 hours where nothing else exists is such a good feeling, to which very few things compare.

aaaaaah, Elsewhere, I like that !! :)

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The thread 'Does your wife know you do this ?' lead me to think that this could be a very interesting subject, and to hear punters varied reasons for why they choose to pay wgs for their services.

(Apologies if this subject has already been covered on this forum)

Typically the media portray punters as physically unnattractive, emotionally stunted, morally reprehensible, lonely, desperate lost causes with communication problems and a severe inability to engage in long, healthy, loving committed relationships.

Speaking for myself, as someone who is in a loving, long term and sexually active relationship, I continue to see escorts purely because, while being inevitably physically attracted to many other women (there are so many out there), I dont wish to be EMOTIONALLY unfaithful to, and really hurt, and subsequently lose, my partner.

With a wg, you pay for sex, pure and simple, and you leave your deeper emotions at the door. Both parties know the deal and nobody should get too emotionally attached or hurt.

I have a high sex drive and am physically attracted to many many women (most guys here will know what I'm talking about - especially if they've ever walked through the West End of London in the middle of a hot summer's day - its ridiculous - you end up literally salivating like a dog !!)

Your partner can't possibly always be there to satisfy every sexual whim at a moments notice, so for clear and simple, uncomplicated, blissful physical release- I employ the services of some truly lovely escorts - always practicing safely of course.

The vast majority of women just can't and won't understand that the fact you have sex with other women absolutely does not mean that you don't love her, doesnt devalue the attraction you feel for her and doesnt mean that you feel she is inadequate in any way.

Its biology - tell women this and they always say "that's just an excuse" - its not an excuse its a physical, biological and genetic reality that men are generally pre-wired for promiscuity.

I have never needed to punt but felt extremely horny and just could not get enough of different young naked girls and having variety sex. Not much is left to imagination so I punt less and differently. I can't see myself ever stopping but getting a lot more selective and less frequent that before. Of course that is still a lot more frequent that many other punters :P

As for women you are in relationship with, I have never come accross one that would accept me seeing WGs. I have fucked up a few of those as they fail to understand my needs :) . No doubt I will fuck up other relationships in future but I don't care. I can't go through life feeling miserable. I did not ask to have these urges, I was born with them.

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My wife got sick and couldn't have sex any more. It wasn't something lethal, and of course I am supportive, but I was going nuts from the lack of sex -- and I don't mean I was just horny, I was depressed at the prospect of never having sex again. After a long period of uncertainty and reading what WGs had to say on this board, I went for it. It was one of the best things I ever did.

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i read somewhere that the actor Charlie Sheen was asked why he wasted money on paying for sex when he could get it for free.. he replied that he wasn't paying them for the sex; rather, he was paying them to leave afterwards.

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i read somewhere that the actor Charlie Sheen was asked why he wasted money on paying for sex when he could get it for free.. he replied that he wasn't paying them for the sex; rather, he was paying them to leave afterwards.

Spot on!!!

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I am single, in an ideal world I would have a shag every day, punting fills the void. I wonder why someone who lives a life of astonishing sexual opportunity like a famous actor, or multi-millionaire, visits hookers.

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I was still a virgin at the age 41 and i found out last year that Dorset as a healthy escort scene and as i had been ill and was isolated and out of the loop from the rest of the world,the only way i could see any chance of losing my virginity was seeing a escort.It was the best thing i have ever done,i love the sex and spending time with this sexy,kind & classy lady for one afternoon a month.Plus i don't hate the word virgin anymore and i can now see the film THE 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN too,its also made me a better person.

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