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WGs - reasons for not seeing a client?

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Hi. I'm sure this question has been asked many times before, so this is part me having a moan and me wanting to know. Why do WGs turn away clients?

I ask as I had a bad Friday evening last week. Wanted to see the lovely Greta but she wasn't available until 9.30pm, and given I was very horny after a long, dull afternoon in the office, I decided to chance my luck and ring up a lady from the other (AM) site. Her photo's are lovely and she reminds me of this girl I know. Anyway, I rung her up at 4pm and arranged a booking for 5.30pm (enough but not loads of notice I feel). I do as instructed and ring at 5 to confirm and I get to Bayswater around 5.20pm. I call up to find out exactly where I should go. No answer, so leave a message. No response. I call at 5.30pm. No answer. So leave a messsage to say I've given up. I try my back ups but nobodies available, so I except my fate and go for dinner instead.

So I want to know why I was ignored. I wasn't rude (even when cancelling) but admit I may have been a bit eager. So was that combined with the short notice off-putting? I've only ever had this happen once before in 7 years of puntting but didn't know about PN then. Any thoughts people?

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Hi. I'm sure this question has been asked many times before, so this is part me having a moan and me wanting to know. Why do WGs turn away clients?

I ask as I had a bad Friday evening last week. Wanted to see the lovely Greta but she wasn't available until 9.30pm, and given I was very horny after a long, dull afternoon in the office, I decided to chance my luck and ring up a lady from the other (AM) site. Her photo's are lovely and she reminds me of this girl I know. Anyway, I rung her up at 4pm and arranged a booking for 5.30pm (enough but not loads of notice I feel). I do as instructed and ring at 5 to confirm and I get to Bayswater around 5.20pm. I call up to find out exactly where I should go. No answer, so leave a message. No response. I call at 5.30pm. No answer. So leave a messsage to say I've given up. I try my back ups but nobodies available, so I except my fate and go for dinner instead.

So I want to know why I was ignored. I wasn't rude (even when cancelling) but admit I may have been a bit eager. So was that combined with the short notice off-putting? I've only ever had this happen once before in 7 years of puntting but didn't know about PN then. Any thoughts people?

This is not about you it is about the girl deciding that she has enough to go out with so sod it she will just switch her phone off and go out. Honestly it happens all the time. I am not speaking for all escorts just the majority that I have met. I have had girls call me at 10.30 to say they are 10 mins away knowing they are booked up and then never here from them again. I have girls tell me they will be 10 mins late whilst I keep their booking waiting and then the next call I get is at 3pm from a boyfriend telling me she was abducted by aliens.

In this cash rich industry with very little regulation girls don't have to think past their next booking. It is nothing personal it is the nature of the Industry. Young girls who can earn 100's a day regardless of their business ethics are not really that concerned that you have travelled across London in the rain. She will call you next week when it is quiet and tell you she was taken ill, her mother died, her cat got run over, her phone fell down the loo and you will feel really guilty for posting this as she will do such a good job of the poor female. When really she was out partying all night off her tits, we usually find this out a few days later thanks to facebook or her forgetting what she told us about abduction by aliens.

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Thanks DMK.

I guess I never really thought of it like that. I hindsight it did sounds like she was cooking when I called her. Clearly the prospect of partying with her GFs was more appealing than shagging me. Fair enough but why mess me around? If she'd said she wasn't working that night or was fully booked, then that's totally reasonable and I wouldn't have got offended. But no, she had to string me on.

Anyway, I won't try and see her again and, as someone said to me on Friday, at least I've saved some money for another time.

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Thanks DMK.

I guess I never really thought of it like that. I hindsight it did sounds like she was cooking when I called her. Clearly the prospect of partying with her GFs was more appealing than shagging me. Fair enough but why mess me around? If she'd said she wasn't working that night or was fully booked, then that's totally reasonable and I wouldn't have got offended. But no, she had to string me on.

Anyway, I won't try and see her again and, as someone said to me on Friday, at least I've saved some money for another time.

Hey no worries, over the years I have realised that it is nothing personal. No point even trying to work it out. She probably had every intention of seeing you then something else came up. Most people in business would call and cancel or ask you to call if trying to be subtle but the escort world is very different to real life. I have more respect for the girls that call me and say 'I got totally steamed last night and I have no idea where I have woken up but I am guessing I won't be shagging any punters today for fear of vomiting on them' than the girls that either do not call or come out with the most ridiculous excuses again and again.

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given I was very horny

That is where the problem all starts IMHO, the lady is most probably fully aware that most if not all shortish notice bookings are not going to be made by punters just wanting to pass the time of day or for the want of something better to do, this puts the punter at something of a disadvantage inasmuch as if she is a fairly busy lady and is not exactly living a life of penury, then she can exercise a whim of fancy and just shut up shop as and when she feels like it. Of course it might just be that she had a shorter notice booking of a longer nature (say twice the length of your booking) and decided to take that one in preference to yours.

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My situation is a bit different (which I won't go into), but this has happened to me.

I've sent a message and recieved nothing back.

I understand ladies get jerks contact them and can understand they have to develop a "filter" I guess, but along the way genuine guy will no doubt get caught in that. To not even get a reply I find rude!

I thought should I change my style, but came to the conclusion you can only be yourself, if the lady doesn't reply or whatever, you just have to move on. In my situation sooner or later I will find the right escort to see.

I would love to hear the reasons and situations why the ladies don't reply to or refuse to see a client, however.

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My situation is a bit different (which I won't go into), but this has happened to me.

I've sent a message and recieved nothing back.

I understand ladies get jerks contact them and can understand they have to develop a "filter" I guess, but along the way genuine guy will no doubt get caught in that. To not even get a reply I find rude!

I thought should I change my style, but came to the conclusion you can only be yourself, if the lady doesn't reply or whatever, you just have to move on. In my situation sooner or later I will find the right escort to see.

I would love to hear the reasons and situations why the ladies don't reply to or refuse to see a client, however.

Without seeing your message Nntt it's hard to say.

Each lady has her own way of taking bookings so my advice would be to read her website for info, if she says book in advance and not by text then follow her rules as they are there for a reason.

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Just sounds like for some reason she didn't/couldn't be bothered to see you - and running her business very badly. Could have been anything, but very rude for her not to get in touch.

Question for the guys - if something does come up are you ok with the lady in question texting you?after the appointment time, or before?

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Really looking back I can be a bit of a jerk myself so it is no shock others find that. :P

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Hi. I'm sure this question has been asked many times before, so this is part me having a moan and me wanting to know. Why do WGs turn away clients?

I ask as I had a bad Friday evening last week. Wanted to see the lovely Greta but she wasn't available until 9.30pm, and given I was very horny after a long, dull afternoon in the office, I decided to chance my luck and ring up a lady from the other (AM) site. Her photo's are lovely and she reminds me of this girl I know. Anyway, I rung her up at 4pm and arranged a booking for 5.30pm (enough but not loads of notice I feel). I do as instructed and ring at 5 to confirm and I get to Bayswater around 5.20pm. I call up to find out exactly where I should go. No answer, so leave a message. No response. I call at 5.30pm. No answer. So leave a messsage to say I've given up. I try my back ups but nobodies available, so I except my fate and go for dinner instead.

So I want to know why I was ignored. I wasn't rude (even when cancelling) but admit I may have been a bit eager. So was that combined with the short notice off-putting? I've only ever had this happen once before in 7 years of puntting but didn't know about PN then. Any thoughts people?

Happened to me as well. Truth of it is someone else probably rang her at 5:20pm who was 2 minutes away from her flat so she took that booking and turned her phone off. One punters cash is as good as anothers. Devine's posts sum it up well.

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On the subject of reasons for not seeing clients;

sending lots and lots of sex-chat texts before the appointment

being abusive

sounding drunk

wanting services not on offer

mentioning BB

Are all common reasons not to see a new client for most ladies. Personally I'll usually tell someone I don't wish to see them.

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If I did not wish to see a client, he would know about it straight away. My reason would normally be down to incompatibility or phone manner. Either way, I would either tell the person I'm not available or point him to other directories where he may find what I feel he is seeking.

It is in extremely bad form to switch the phone off AFTER accepting the booking. It only takes a moment to text the person IF something urgent has come up and the booking has to be cancelled.

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....It may also be that soneone else booked just after you, for longer, or even an overnight? Choice...1hr or 3(or 4etc)...???

Id imagine thats fairly common also to a degree, but plain decency should have prevailed and she could have let you know, albeit with a sob story...

I wouldnt take it personally, but it doesnt inspire you for future meets...

Nik

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This is rather odd coincidence but in looking at another thread and then following onto the website I found the girl I was going to see on Friday. On this other site, she was charging £300ph!!! Compared to £150ph I was quoted. Clearly got a booking from the agency and hence I was dropped (as suggested previously). The question is then, why the price difference? Hedging her bets may be? Huge agency fees? Still that's a big discrepancy to have in your rates.

If she was charging that much in the first place, I wouldn't even have picked up the phone.

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This is not about you it is about the girl deciding that she has enough to go out with so sod it she will just switch her phone off and go out. Honestly it happens all the time. I am not speaking for all escorts just the majority that I have met.

Why does it happen all the time? what on earth is wrong with these women? Why do they think going out or whatever is more important than doing what they've agreed to do. OK, sometimes something genuinely more important might come up, but surely they could let the customer know.

Why don't they just walk around with a huge placard saying "I am a nasty rude person"? I've gone ahead with appointments with girls when it would suit me far better to cancel as I don't see why someone should be put out through me being disorganised.

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Question for the guys - if something does come up are you ok with the lady in question texting you?after the appointment time, or before?

Well before would be best ofcourse, especially if you know some travel is involved. Personally I would appreciate a text, it does not need to be overly explicit... not sure what the general feel among guys is though especially those with partners that can pick up their phone.... no safe way to cancel then it seems.

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On the subject of reasons for not seeing clients;

mentioning BB

I dont blame you I friggin hate Big Brother :P

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....

Question for the guys - if something does come up are you ok with the lady in question texting you?after the appointment time, or before?

Yes. Usually once if I don't already know her, but as often as necessary if I do. The ladies I know don't mess about unless there's something seriously wrong.

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Being black is another reason for wgs' not seeing clients!

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Being black is another reason for wgs' not seeing clients!

Here we go. Again. :P

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Here we go. Again. :P

B

Lol....... But it the truth.

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If I did not wish to see a client, he would know about it straight away. My reason would normally be down to incompatibility or phone manner. Either way, I would either tell the person I'm not available or point him to other directories where he may find what I feel he is seeking.

It is in extremely bad form to switch the phone off AFTER accepting the booking. It only takes a moment to text the person IF something urgent has come up and the booking has to be cancelled.

Indian Delight reflects my opinion on the subject.

Also, if you have been told no once, don't bother calling again 3 months later with another name. I personally will put in some detail to my phone telling me not to accept a booking if I have said no, so it won't happen another time.

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Being black is another reason for wgs' not seeing clients!

It doesn't seem to be a reason stated by anyone on the thread as yet though does it. More likely to be 'bad attitude' I think.

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Lol....... But it the truth.

I second that motion your honour :P

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Same thing happens in doctor surgeries and hospitals. l dont understand why people cannot call to say l cannot make it. So much easier now than the days of having to queue at a payphone.

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