blueruin

Fat punters?

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Hi All,

My first post after lurking for a few months, I'm pretty new to the punting scene my only previous experience was a week in Hong Kong where I proved to be very popular with the Filipino girls in bars (for a price of course :P).

Point is I'm in my late 30's and divorced but I'd kinda let myself go and piled on the pounds while married. I'm 6ft2 and 20 stone. Now I'm very close to booking a punt however always a bit concerned on the lady's reaction when my fat ass turns up at their door.

6 months of dieting and gym may do a lot to improve my confidence on this, but dont think I can wait that long. :D And the thing is I like slim women.

HK was easy as the girls always saw what they were getting upfront so I didn't need to worry.

So my question probably to the bigger boned members of this board is have you ever found this a problem? have you turned up expecting a good time to be faced with a less than warm reception because of your size?

Cheers in Advance

Blue

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It wouldn't hurt for you to mention your reservations with the lady in question, at the booking stage, a txt or email may be easier, and less awkward for you both.

I don't think many would have a problem, with your size.

Good luck.

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I am a good 20 stone and have been this size since I was late teens (I am now 41). I have never had a problem with many many punts and sensual massages (and I love flirting too!).

If you have inner confidence you exude this and any meeting with a WG will be perfectly fine. Lots of us are overweight - if you are clean and fresh who's going to complain?

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I'm of a similar size to yourself and have had some very good punts with girls considerably smaller than me. I think as long as you're clean, polite and friendly then you'll be fine.

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I really don't think you need worry about it or mention it. I've never had anyone tell me that they were large and would be surprised if anyone did. In fact the only thing that ever gets mentioned is size of willy if they are a bit on the small side or bragging if they are big. It's really not a problem.

I'm not slim, so I'm not what you are looking for, but I can only assume that the clients that call me are typical of clients that would book them too.

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I've had guy's mention that they are on the large side and ask if that's ok, I think it's sweet and thoughtful. Of course it's never a problem but I do know one or two ladies that won't see big guy's, more for me I say :P

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having spent years up and down in size I do not see a problem with build myself

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Hi there Blueruin and welcome to the board.

I'm 5ft 8 and just under 18 stone - by no means slender! I've never had a problem during a punt. I've never felt the need to mention it when booking a punt nor to feel embarrassed by it during one.

I don't think you should worry about it since your 6ft 2 height means you probably carry the weight quite well. I've always wanted to be taller than I am as I do believe a lot of ladies like taller guys so I'm pretty envious of you in that respect!

I have come across a few profiles on adu1tw0rk where the lady says she does not want to see anyone who is obese and that is their decision and their right and I guess we should be thankful that they mention it on their profile rather than take the booking and give a bad service when a larger guy turns up.

Anyway, since you are worried about it, I think you should mention it and if the lady is a professional and genuinely doesn't find that unattractive, she should be able to lay your worries to rest.

Good luck!

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Hi All,

My first post after lurking for a few months, I'm pretty new to the punting scene my only previous experience was a week in Hong Kong where I proved to be very popular with the Filipino girls in bars (for a price of course :P).

Point is I'm in my late 30's and divorced but I'd kinda let myself go and piled on the pounds while married. I'm 6ft2 and 20 stone. Now I'm very close to booking a punt however always a bit concerned on the lady's reaction when my fat ass turns up at their door.

6 months of dieting and gym may do a lot to improve my confidence on this, but dont think I can wait that long. :D And the thing is I like slim women.

HK was easy as the girls always saw what they were getting upfront so I didn't need to worry.

So my question probably to the bigger boned members of this board is have you ever found this a problem? have you turned up expecting a good time to be faced with a less than warm reception because of your size?

Cheers in Advance

Blue

I would suggest you to go to a brothel like club classique in loughborough. You need not book in advance. Once there Manager calls all girls to see you one by one. She their reactions at seeing you and select the one you feel was comfortable with your size. As you build up confidence start with indies.

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Hi All,

My first post after lurking for a few months, I'm pretty new to the punting scene my only previous experience was a week in Hong Kong where I proved to be very popular with the Filipino girls in bars (for a price of course :P).

Point is I'm in my late 30's and divorced but I'd kinda let myself go and piled on the pounds while married. I'm 6ft2 and 20 stone. Now I'm very close to booking a punt however always a bit concerned on the lady's reaction when my fat ass turns up at their door.

6 months of dieting and gym may do a lot to improve my confidence on this, but dont think I can wait that long. :D And the thing is I like slim women.

HK was easy as the girls always saw what they were getting upfront so I didn't need to worry.

So my question probably to the bigger boned members of this board is have you ever found this a problem? have you turned up expecting a good time to be faced with a less than warm reception because of your size?

Cheers in Advance

Blue

Personally there are many reasons I would refuse to see a client. Most are behaviour based. I don't think I'd count overnourishment as something I would refuse a client for if you are clean polite and can tie your own shoelaces ( Intellect test - not the abiliity to see or reach your feet. )

Unless of course he was grossly O/W. 6 ft 2 and 20 stone is just a well looked after guy.

You will be fine. A bit of weight is one of the easier things we have to deal with. You should be thinking about yourself and your health weight wise and not what others will think about your physical shape.

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Worry not, big boy Blue. Being clean and polite is the main thing. and anyway whilst you probably are a bit... beefy, you're not in the super large league are you?

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If a girl looks at a man and thinks "He is fat", she is the one with a problem. If she thinks that he is dirty or rude then that is a justifyable reason to be concerned.

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Hi Blue,

As the ladies say it isn't really an issue to many of them.

However, your BMI is a little worrying. If you did lose a bit of weight you would feel so much better and be a healthier chap.

Everyone has a choice in life and it would be great if you lost some weight.

All the best.

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No worries. I had the same concerns. The ladies see all sorts. Cleanliness and courtesy are the big issues, as they've said.

It's more of a hassle for me than for them -- with some smaller women I feel as if I'm going to suffocate or squash them.

Wouldn't mind finding a tall, broad-shouldered sturdy WG who had the strength to match, but I doubt there's much demand for them.

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Wow, I didn't realize how many big guys there are on here that are regular punters.

At 6ft and 11 1/2 stone, now I'm getting a better understanding of why the girls I see like me so much.

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Wow, I didn't realize how many big guys there are on here that are regular punters.

At 6ft and 11 1/2 stone, now I'm getting a better understanding of why the girls I see like me so much.

Yer reckon,more like they know you are a nice earn as you make long bookings and are clean and well dressed.

A couple of my most regular guys are a little larger in girth and personality, and we shag like rabbits when they comes visiting.

Dont let your size stop you from having fun, if a girl gives you a nasty look then just turn on your heels and walk with your wad as most ladies i feel wouldnt care so long as you are clean, those that do are just silly.

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Wow, I didn't realize how many big guys there are on here that are regular punters.

At 6ft and 11 1/2 stone, now I'm getting a better understanding of why the girls I see like me so much.

what makes you think that? you are not serious in suggesting they like you MORE than larger guys? surely no-one could be that arrogant or stupid? could they?

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Thanks for all the positive feedback, I may get round to a booking yet and maybe even a field report. :(

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Wow, I didn't realize how many big guys there are on here that are regular punters.

At 6ft and 11 1/2 stone, now I'm getting a better understanding of why the girls I see like me so much.

I bet soon they will be paying you for sex, you are obviously such a catch. :(

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I am a big man. 54 inch chest,23 inch neck and over 20 stone but in 30 years of punting I have never had a girl even mention my weight. Nor has anybody commented on my old body. The only refusals have been due to my beard and these were both in the far east.

In all aspects of life most problems about being big are usually in the fat persons mind not the minds of other people. Think of yourself with confidence and others will do the same.

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I'm a big guy and im going to see the same escort for the 3rd time tomorrow,my weight is not an issue at all and since i have been seeing her my weight as dropped,shes been good for me all round.

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I'm 6ft2 and 20 stone.

Prop or Hooker? :(

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Wow, I didn't realize how many big guys there are on here that are regular punters.

At 6ft and 11 1/2 stone, now I'm getting a better understanding of why the girls I see like me so much.

Or perhaps it's that winning personality of yours :(.

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Prop or Hooker? :(

He's the same size as Phil Vickery

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