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Physical 'flaws' a turn-on or turn-off?

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With usual caveat of 'no oil-painting myself', was surprised at number of wgs met over years who were less-than-physically perfect but still appealing. Remarkable number astigmatic...perhaps helped with job? Thought cute in glasses. Several had very bad scars, one lady's a result of car accident as teenager. Most surprising was lady who looked truly gorgeous in photos (not heavily photoshopped either) but artfully disguised her disability. And no, it wasn't Heather M. Enjoyed time with every one and thankful for diversity. But do any 'imperfections' put anyone off? Personally would rather encounter inverted nipples than some of the terrible boob jobs out there. (Apologies if examples or language has offended anyone).

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With usual caveat of 'no oil-painting myself', was surprised at number of wgs met over years who were less-than-physically perfect but still appealing. Remarkable number astigmatic...perhaps helped with job? Thought cute in glasses. Several had very bad scars, one lady's a result of car accident as teenager. Most surprising was lady who looked truly gorgeous in photos (not heavily photoshopped either) but artfully disguised her disability. And no, it wasn't Heather M. Enjoyed time with every one and thankful for diversity. But do any 'imperfections' put anyone off? Personally would rather encounter inverted nipples than some of the terrible boob jobs out there. (Apologies if examples or language has offended anyone).

We had a 'lady' with an inverted penis once. Clients seemed to like 'her' she got over 30 positive field reports. 'She' also had a scar on her neck from her adams apple removal, again the clients didn't seem to bat an eyelid.

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People sometimes say two heads are better than one, but I always find it a bit of a turn off.

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With usual caveat of 'no oil-painting myself', was surprised at number of wgs met over years who were less-than-physically perfect but still appealing. Remarkable number astigmatic...perhaps helped with job? Thought cute in glasses. Several had very bad scars, one lady's a result of car accident as teenager. Most surprising was lady who looked truly gorgeous in photos (not heavily photoshopped either) but artfully disguised her disability. And no, it wasn't Heather M. Enjoyed time with every one and thankful for diversity. But do any 'imperfections' put anyone off? Personally would rather encounter inverted nipples than some of the terrible boob jobs out there. (Apologies if examples or language has offended anyone).

Think beauty is in the eye of the beholder what one person wont mind another will. If a girl has a physical imperfection but has amazing sex appeal and bags of self confidence I would think most guys would overlook the rest.

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With usual caveat of 'no oil-painting myself', was surprised at number of wgs met over years who were less-than-physically perfect but still appealing. Remarkable number astigmatic...perhaps helped with job? Thought cute in glasses. Several had very bad scars, one lady's a result of car accident as teenager. Most surprising was lady who looked truly gorgeous in photos (not heavily photoshopped either) but artfully disguised her disability. And no, it wasn't Heather M. Enjoyed time with every one and thankful for diversity. But do any 'imperfections' put anyone off? Personally would rather encounter inverted nipples than some of the terrible boob jobs out there. (Apologies if examples or language has offended anyone).

IMO, absolute physical perfection can actually detract from the sexual attractivness of the girl. I know that sounds sort of contradictory but pure beauty and sexiness do not necessarily go in hand. Individuality , aka imperfection, can be very sexy indeed provided it is not overwhelming of course.You might see a girl with a reasonably plain face but with killer bum and legs who will hit that spot that winds you in the stomach ! Really attractive features can wipe out imperfections elsewhere and leave you with a very sexy gal ! :(

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IMO, absolute physical perfection can actually detract from the sexual attractivness of the girl. I know that sounds sort of contradictory but pure beauty and sexiness do not necessarily go in hand. Individuality , aka imperfection, can be very sexy indeed provided it is not overwhelming of course.You might see a girl with a reasonably plain face but with killer bum and legs who will hit that spot that winds you in the stomach ! Really attractive features can wipe out imperfections elsewhere and leave you with a very sexy gal ! :(

I think the most gorgeous escort thread proved that ! How many times have you read a field report that states 'wow' and thought what she is an total munter ?

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Punters can look like they want to and that's why we are paying. It surprises me somewhat how average looking most of the women who sell sex are. How somebody can pay to have sex with somebody ordinary and very overweight surprises me. I think there may be more in it for them than us.

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IMO, absolute physical perfection can actually detract from the sexual attractivness of the girl. I know that sounds sort of contradictory but pure beauty and sexiness do not necessarily go in hand.

Agree, too beautiful with perfect proportions and I would rather look at her and photograph her than have sex. The pleasure I get from looking overwhelms my lust factor.

Little boobs big nipples, big boobs little nipples, big bum little boobs and visa versa much more sexy.

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Punters can look like they want to and that's why we are paying. It surprises me somewhat how average looking most of the women who sell sex are. How somebody can pay to have sex with somebody ordinary and very overweight surprises me. I think there may be more in it for them than us.

Swings & roundabouts, you know. One man's "very overweight" is another man's heapin' helpin'. I don't criticize another punter's preferences unless they're for underage girls.

And let's face it, some punters aren't very particular, if they only want access to what's between her legs for half an hour.

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Thank you for all thoughts so far :( Even though booking/paying for sexual encounter, never regarded women as means to end. More fool me, but if didn't gel or like attitude, would leave. To put bluntly, could never screw just anybody, even if paying for it. Didn't matter whether stunningly beautiful or just average. But I was genuinely impressed by ladies who had what many would regard as physical 'flaws' and love the fact that they had a place in the market despite most men's desires for to kolan.

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Swings & roundabouts, you know. One man's "very overweight" is another man's heapin' helpin'. I don't criticize another punter's preferences unless they're for underage girls.

Yes I suppose so. I wished I'd worded my post differently. I am attracted to women of all sizes and there are some extremely attractive overweight women. Dawn French is a good example and dare I say it but Vanessa Feltz is too. I admire the bigger built ladies who Escort, they appear very confident and must get a lot of satisfaction, which in itself is a turn on. But when I punt I am very shallow and we are given free reign to be like that. Given the choice I will always try and find a Raquel Welch lookalike in her Million Years BC era and it's difficult but maybe doesn't reflect my tastes away from punting.

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You don't look at the mantlepiece when you are poking the fire :eek:

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Punters can look like they want to and that's why we are paying. It surprises me somewhat how average looking most of the women who sell sex are. How somebody can pay to have sex with somebody ordinary and very overweight surprises me. I think there may be more in it for them than us.

To a certain extent it isn't surprising. Like most of the guys I know who punt, I will always seek to book really physically attractive sexy women ( why not ? :eek: ), I am sure there are many men who may not actually feel comfortable in the naked company of a very confident , stunning WG. Beauty and sexual power can be very intimidating to some.Booking and paying for sex is quite a hurdle to jump and many guys find the whole thing quite nerve wracking. On top of that you have 'performance' concerns. Put all these things together and it is understandable why some guys just want to relax and punt with 'their own ' rather than the stunner.

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You don't look at the mantlepiece when you are poking the fire :eek:

Yeah right !!! You dont believe a word of this in Bunnies --- where are your munters ?

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We had a 'lady' with an inverted penis once. Clients seemed to like 'her' she got over 30 positive field reports. 'She' also had a scar on her neck from her adams apple removal, again the clients didn't seem to bat an eyelid.

LOL at Divine :eek:

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You don't look at the mantlepiece when you are poking the fire :eek:

not true of everyone - I can't shag someone I don't find attractive

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Some of the most aesthetically pleasing people can be the most ugly. A hard, cold person who doesn't give a toss about people (paying or otherwise) must have the greatest "deformity" of all.

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With usual caveat of 'no oil-painting myself', was surprised at number of wgs met over years who were less-than-physically perfect but still appealing. Remarkable number astigmatic...perhaps helped with job? Thought cute in glasses. Several had very bad scars, one lady's a result of car accident as teenager. Most surprising was lady who looked truly gorgeous in photos (not heavily photoshopped either) but artfully disguised her disability. And no, it wasn't Heather M. Enjoyed time with every one and thankful for diversity. But do any 'imperfections' put anyone off? Personally would rather encounter inverted nipples than some of the terrible boob jobs out there. (Apologies if examples or language has offended anyone).

And there was me thinking all of us have physical flaws. Even top supermodels are photographed with cellulite.

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Of all the ladies I've punted with, the absolute best of them have usually had what some people might call 'flaws'. Wether it's a lisp, or maybe a little extra weight, or maybe a tattoo I might find a little overwhelming. But what they all have in common is that they all exuded pure sex appeal and desire

On the other hand, I have punted maybe one or two ladies that are what anyone would call absolute physical perfection. And generally these have been the worst punts I've had as the ladies can tend to rely more on their looks than their abilities for business and can be distant and mechanical during a punt.

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I don't see such things as flaws, I think they add character. I also think that "pretty" and "sexy" are two different things. The girl in the office you want to pounce on usually isn't the prettiest one.

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IMO, absolute physical perfection can actually detract from the sexual attractivness of the girl. I know that sounds sort of contradictory but pure beauty and sexiness do not necessarily go in hand. Individuality , aka imperfection, can be very sexy indeed provided it is not overwhelming of course.You might see a girl with a reasonably plain face but with killer bum and legs who will hit that spot that winds you in the stomach ! Really attractive features can wipe out imperfections elsewhere and leave you with a very sexy gal ! :D

Your comment just reminded me of this:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wabi-sabi

... which you might find interesting!

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I have met many kind of ladies, young and old and various

shape and sizes and colour etc and also even disabled girls as well.

All of them have their own uniqueness and beauty and lovely personality etc ..

I love them all :-)

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When you've had many A grade women as I have for a change of pace sometimes I book a "quirky" looking woman. Can be very intresting punts although one woman I did want to send her down to Boots to buy some Immac for her top lip. :D

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There was a girl in Nottingham who had a funny eye. She was beautiful with a great body but so were many others I was punting with at the time. For some reason I returned to her more frequently than all the rest of them.The eye made her stand out even though it did not make her more desirable. Perhaps she thought of herself as not perfect and worked harder to compensate.

I first met her at Ceasers Spa and then she worked as an independent in West Bridgeford. I wonder if she is still working ?

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