The Dean

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Does anyone else want to tell everyone about the beautiful lady they have just spent am amazing hour with, when she is a real stunner and well out of your league, and you want to boast........but you know you really should keep this to yourself.

Has anyone told a close friend and wished they hadn't?

Am really interested if this is a lonely hobby you have to keep secret, or can it be shared in real life not just on punternet

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Does anyone else want to tell everyone about the beautiful lady they have just spent am amazing hour with, when she is a real stunner and well out of your league, and you want to boast........but you know you really should keep this to yourself.

Has anyone told a close friend and wished they hadn't?

Am really interested if this is a lonely hobby you have to keep secret, or can it be shared in real life not just on punternet

Isnt that what Punternet is for?

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Does anyone else want to tell everyone about the beautiful lady they have just spent am amazing hour with, when she is a real stunner and well out of your league, and you want to boast........but you know you really should keep this to yourself.

Has anyone told a close friend and wished they hadn't?

Am really interested if this is a lonely hobby you have to keep secret, or can it be shared in real life not just on punternet

IMO, there is nothing to 'boast' about in saying you shagged a stunner in paid sex.

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For me, there are two golden rules.

Rule One - Tell nobody.

Rule Two - Never, ever, break rule one.

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I will take my secret with me to my grave, I will tell no one I punt!!

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For me, there are two golden rules.

Rule One - Tell nobody.

Rule Two - Never, ever, break rule one.

Yes but what does one do when you are away with the lads and punting. There is one guy in our group who is a bit of a woman and our fear is that when we get home the ladies ply him with drink and he talks like a canary.We have no proof yet, but the silly bugger could cause a lot of trouble.;)

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I have a select group of close mates who know abt it and punt themselves so I tell them.Its not really a case of boasting ,I will mention it if it was really good or a shocker!

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I wouldnt tell every tom, dick, and harry...only my closest friends. If you go places like Amsterdam and you see each other go into one of the red rooms, then there shouldnt be a problem saying you went to see a WG here.

It's not really boasting either, just saying you saw a girl (describe her) and you had good time.

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I have a select group of close mates who know abt it and punt themselves so I tell them.Its not really a case of boasting ,I will mention it if it was really good or a shocker!

Yes perhaps I was being a bit pedantic when rejecting the idea of boasting. Certainly, if you have had a fantastic punt with interesting twists and turns, its only natural that you would want to share the experience with someone who you know well and will keep their trap shut.! I am no different .;)

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Yes but what does one do when you are away with the lads and punting. There is one guy in our group who is a bit of a woman and our fear is that when we get home the ladies ply him with drink and he talks like a canary.We have no proof yet, but the silly bugger could cause a lot of trouble.;)

Punting, for me, is a solo activity ( escort excepted, of course ). I fully adhere to matrix's philosophy, because your friends of today may not necessarily be your friends of tomorrow.

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Punting, for me, is a solo activity ( escort excepted, of course ). I fully adhere to matrix's philosophy, because your friends of today may not necessarily be your friends of tomorrow.

Yes but the punt on an 'away trip' is a highlight and a great talking point. You know yourself you can get endless hours of fun over a few beers planning and discussing how its going to be pulled off. Like most things the fun is often in the expectation of the event ! We have had some good laughs.

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The same goes at this end. Occassionally I get taken to beautiful places and lovely restaurants, with amazing food and I would love to tell my Mum or friends how much I enjoyed the experience, but have to keep it to myself.

It is the worse thing about the job, having to keep secrets.

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I will take my secret with me to my grave, I will tell no one I punt!!

I think that's sensible.

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The same goes at this end. Occassionally I get taken to beautiful places and lovely restaurants, with amazing food and I would love to tell my Mum or friends how much I enjoyed the experience, but have to keep it to myself.

It is the worse thing about the job, having to keep secrets.

I don't think it's something I could keep secret. Infact I know it's not. All of my friends and family know what I do, why i do it and how much I enjoy it. None of them have any problem with it and I'm often asked about my latest ventures! ;)

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I don't think it's something I could keep secret. Infact I know it's not. All of my friends and family know what I do, why i do it and how much I enjoy it. None of them have any problem with it and I'm often asked about my latest ventures! ;)

I wish I could do that, but I have another job that I also love dearly, which is in conflict to this one. I also have a teenage son and I really would rather he didn't know, as it may just change our relationship. My Mum has only ever slept with 3 men in her life and married 2 of them. She is also very opinionated and no way would she approve, so for me, it's a matter of keeping secrets and enjoying it while I can.

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I kind of like having this as my own little (well not very little) secret. I get any desire to talk about it out of my system by coming on here.

I also am well aware that any info about my punting activities has the power to end my marriage if it falls into the wrong hands. I trust no-one enough to not give it away, albeit mainly by mistake rather than design.

Trust no-one is my motto here I am afraid !

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I have twice had blokes tell me abiut the few punts they have had in glowing terms, and yes it hard not to say "well actually Ive been punting since 1974..."

but I dont

when its out of the bag -its out

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I have twice had blokes tell me abiut the few punts they have had in glowing terms, and yes it hard not to say "well actually Ive been punting since 1974..."

but I dont

when its out of the bag -its out

Yes, the punting is only discussed among the same small group who punt together. The defence I suppose is the old cold war strategy 'MAD' -- mutually assured destruction !!

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I know a guy at Uni, 24 years old, who spent 6 months in Thailand.

He says he was at a Thai Kickboxing club, but he stayed in the heart of the red light district of Phucket.

He has talked of the sex industry, but says he never tried it.

I reckon he did, and would like to talk to him about punting, but you can never be sure and I don't know if he would look down on me if he knew that I was a punter.

I'd like to tell others of the beautifull girls I've met, but with the stigma attached, it's hard to know how others will take it.

I guess I have to take the approach that society wants, sweep it under the rug and pretend it doesn't happen ;)

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I know a guy at Uni, 24 years old, who spent 6 months in Thailand.

He says he was at a Thai Kickboxing club, but he stayed in the heart of the red light district of Phucket.

He has talked of the sex industry, but says he never tried it.

I reckon he did, and would like to talk to him about punting, but you can never be sure and I don't know if he would look down on me if he knew that I was a punter.

I'd like to tell others of the beautifull girls I've met, but with the stigma attached, it's hard to know how others will take it.

I guess I have to take the approach that society wants, sweep it under the rug and pretend it doesn't happen ;)

I wonder if I did discuss punting with other guys generally, would many or any of them 'look down' on me.? Probably just my own state of mind on this but I would be surprised if many would so re-act ?

Have any of the guys here experienced revulsion from another guy when you have told him you have punted ?

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Does anyone else want to tell everyone about the beautiful lady they have just spent am amazing hour with, when she is a real stunner and well out of your league, and you want to boast........but you know you really should keep this to yourself.

Has anyone told a close friend and wished they hadn't?

Am really interested if this is a lonely hobby you have to keep secret, or can it be shared in real life not just on punternet

You will never do yourself any harm by keeping totally shtum about it. But once you tell someone, you can never undo it. It may seem like a good idea at the time to discuss it with someone, but things like that can become easy to regret.

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You will never do yourself any harm by keeping totally shtum about it. But once you tell someone, you can never undo it. It may seem like a good idea at the time to discuss it with someone, but things like that can become easy to regret.

This is the philosphy I follow. You do meet some interesting people and learn things that you'd like to share with your real life, but you have to keep them separate...

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No I don't think so, I may be single and have less to loose but I do not think friends and family would understand. I am quite a private person and like to be discrete, and as others have said once said you can't take it back.

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I always was worried that I would let the cat out the bag and tell someone when I was drunk or something. Fact is I rationalised it and thought I've never told anybody about the last good bit of porn I'd wanked over, so why would I talk about punting also. I think we know what the masses think of this hobby and I would not want to be associated of any of the negative side of it.

However some stories of stuff that's happened on punts has been too good to keep to myself. So I modify the story to start "This girl I was shagging years ago did this......." When the fact was it was probably just a few months ago.

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New to punting (only seen 2 ladies a few times each) & I will never tell anyone. To me it is my 'dirty little secret' and a rather nice one to have.

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