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Well, at the ripe old age of 42 I finally lost my cherry last night.

In the cold light of day I've perhaps got a slight regret at losing it to a working girl but on the whole I feel quite relieved that it's over and done with.

The lady concerned was very nice and did her best to put me as ease and she could certainly talk for England !! Although, in fairness, that did help to fill some awkward silences.

I just need to start planning my next booking.......!!

Cheers

Steve

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Congratulations! Good for you. Now all you need is plenty of practice to make up for lost time!

A close family member waited till his 40s as well. It had become a huge issue - he just never found the right person and then was nervous because he was a virgin... This all melted away in an hour (or less)

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Yeah, I know, sad but true !!

Never been very comfortable going out and trying to find a girlfriend and my virginity was kinda becoming a bit of a millstone round my neck so after a few false starts I decided to take the plunge last night.

I did have a couple of minor gripes.....the lady forgot to bring her lingerie & toys and the 2nd pop was towards the end of the booking and once I'd finished it seemed like she couldn't get out of the room quick enough, but I guess there is no point in dwelling on it.

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Remember, once you pop, you can't stop...

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Well, at the ripe old age of 42 I finally lost my cherry last night.

Steve

Better late than never steve ;), but can you share with us how you taken until now. I would have thought that it is just such a basic thing that curiousity would have killed the cat donkeys years ago ?

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You certainly waited a long time. I gave up waiting on 'the right person' when I was 20 and lost it to a WG then and haven't looked back, don't think I could have ever waited that long!

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I've always been quite shy around the fairer sex and have never been much of a looker. When I was younger I hoped I'd find a girlfriend but as time went by and nothing happened I gave up trying.

I'm quite friendly with a lady I work with who separated from her husband a few years ago but she just seems happy to be good friends at the moment.

As one of the other posters said, once you pop you can't stop and I'm now thinking about making another booking, although it would be with a different escort.

Someone I used to work with out the idea of punting into my head and if he hadn't have suggested it then I'd still be a virgin as it wouldn't have crossed my my mind to go down this path.

I must admit that I thought I'd have some pangs of guilt but at the moment I feel fine about what I've done. I don't think my family would would be happy if they ever found out although I hope they'd understand why they've done it.

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My 1st post, so please go easy on me :D

Good on you Steve, I can relate to your story (to a point). I was a slow starter in life, 22 for me and I'd only ever had sex with 2 women until I was 38 and then discovered the wonderful world of punting. Now up to 27 in the last 3 years (sorry to make it sound like I am "collecting", but I am a bit of a statto!). As previously mentioned, once you pop, you just can't stop. :D

Budget carefully and it's a revelation, it's changed my life for the better, sex-wise anyway, not financially!

And yes, I'm happily married but usual problem of "lack of" due to busy lives and kids combined with a typical bloke's "high sex drive". I'm just very careful and view it as one of life's little pleasures. Equivalent to the wife's spa pampering weekends which she enjoys on a regular basis. Nothing more, nothing less.

Anyway, enough about me, enjoy yourself Steve, more than happy to recommend some ladies in the London area if you PM me. Pretty much everyone I have seen has been great, I've been very lucky in that respect!

David.

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I must admit that I thought I'd have some pangs of guilt but at the moment I feel fine about what I've done. I don't think my family would would be happy if they ever found out although I hope they'd understand why they've done it.

Don't fell guilt. Sex, and even companionship and other things that go along with meeting a WG, are things that everyone needs and if you struggle to find that then there's nothing wrong with paying a nice girl who offers this service to help you out. I have felt guilt too, usually after bad meetings (thinking why did I pay for that, what would my family think etc.) but ultimately, we're not doing anything wrong, just meeting our needs.

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I'm quite friendly with a lady I work with who separated from her husband a few years ago but she just seems happy to be good friends at the moment.

Get some more practise with escorts, try asking them how they like their reverse oral and then get a little more friendly with the lady you work with.

After all having sex is the friendlest thing you can do with someone. The sexual world is now your oyster. Next thing is you'll be swinging. With your lady friend. :(

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Well done Steve, it must have been such a nervous process!

I'm in the same position but a little younger.

It isn't sad and there isn't nothing to feel guilty about. All the best.

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Steve:

Well done for passing that milestone and passing it with flying colours. Choose your next punts using some thought, as opposed to running freely like a kid in a candy shop for the first time, and enjoy the fruits of your labours!:(

John Strong

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Thanks for everyones comments.

I'm hoping to meet another lady before Christmas, but need to try and save up some money first.

Just out of interest, how regularly, if at all, do guys get tested for STI's ? Whilst everything in my first booking was covered this is something that is at the back of my mind.

Thanks.

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Thanks for everyones comments.

I'm hoping to meet another lady before Christmas, but need to try and save up some money first.

Just out of interest, how regularly, if at all, do guys get tested for STI's ? Whilst everything in my first booking was covered this is something that is at the back of my mind.

Thanks.

ALWAYS do it covered unless you are with a regular partner you can trust is not seeing anyone else.

Depending on how often you punt, i would go to the GUM clinic every 6 months.

But rememeber, you could become infected next time you have sex.

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I like reading posts like this because they contain all the feelings I had before I lost my V card. I was 25 and that was tough enough so hats off to you chaps.

As for getting tested, my doctor recommended an annual MOT. You can go more often if the frequency of your punting appointments is high I guess and obviously go straight away if you have any symptoms.

To be totally honest we get off lightly with tests these days, the first few times I got tested I had to do a "swab" which burned for a day afterwards. We used to say, "you burn, you learn." Now all you have to do (if you have no symptoms) is a urine test and (optional) blood test which are a walk in the park. The people I've come into contact with at the clinic are very nice and do not even bat an eyelid when you mention why you are there.

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Well, at the ripe old age of 42 I finally lost my cherry last night.

In the cold light of day I've perhaps got a slight regret at losing it to a working girl but on the whole I feel quite relieved that it's over and done with.

The lady concerned was very nice and did her best to put me as ease and she could certainly talk for England !! Although, in fairness, that did help to fill some awkward silences.

I just need to start planning my next booking.......!!

Cheers

Steve

Congratulations! 42, I can't believe you waited that long! I though I was bad at 26.

We seem to have a lot of these threads lately... it must be "the season" for this sort of thing, I remember that I finally went through with it two years ago around this time of year.

I wonder what it is about early autumn that encourages late bloomers to pop their cherry :D

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I lost my virginity to a WG. Not one of the best punts mind, but i didnt care i did just want to lose my virginity. Even tho none of my mates ever mentioned it, i felt like it was a burden, and once i had it felt great that i was part of the "club".

Now when conversation turns to sex and partners which they tend to do when in a pub, i can join in rather than hiding away hoping no one asks me

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Well, at the ripe old age of 42 I finally lost my cherry last night.

Well done, Sir!

And, given that, as you surely know, 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of er, life, the world, and everything, you could not have chosen a better time to do it!

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I wonder what it is about early autumn that encourages late bloomers to pop their cherry :D

Having passed yet another spring/summer with lovley ladies out in public showing lots more skin and realising you didn't get any of that. AGAIN. :rolleyes:

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Please don't feel any guilt, even though it may not be something you can share with friends or work colleagues. I hope having this forum to write about it has been good for you too.

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Although it's only been a week it now feels like an eternity !!

With hindsight, I wonder why I got myself so worked up about the booking as I had a couple of sleepless nights beforehand. Never mind, I guess you live & learn and move on.

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Congratulations on doing it- I'm a little younger (33) but I popped my own cherry with a WG a few months ago and haven't looked back since. As you say, a huge millstone gets lifted. Don't feel guilty, whatever you do- just enjoy the relief, and the knowledge that sex isn't so scary after all. For me the great thing was realising that there isn't some Great Big Rulebook of Sex that everyone except you has read- intercourse is natural and easy!

I hope it makes you as enthusiastic as I am! I intend to carry on punting for a bit until I feel able to perform and please a woman in bed to the extent that I can go forth into the big wide world. Hope there's a happy ending for you too.:)

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