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Outcalls to your home

An outcall to the home you share with wife/partner   99 members have voted

  1. 1. An outcall to the home you share with wife/partner

    • Have you done it?
      40
    • If you haven't done it, would you consider it?
      22
    • Wouldn't consider it.
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For the married guys really.

Have you had a WG to your home? Even taken her into your marital bed.

For me it's a no no. I wouldn't invite anyone into my home that my wife wouldn't welcome or at least know that I was inviting them. For me it's about respect and would apply to any guest in my home wether it be a WG or not. A boundary too far for me.

That's aside from the increased risk.

However, a lot do so what are your views.

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Total no-no for me.

Actuyally I have only ever done incalls.

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Yes I have done it , once only. I did it for the sheer luxury and devilment. I wanted to get away from the bedroom scenario and do something a bit different. I am lucky to have a very beautiful house and I set up shop in the drawing room and even though I say it myself , I created a cracking atmosphere. Something very sensuous about sex on a thick pile carpet too ! ;)

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You're mad if you're living with someone, I should have known things were getting risky when I was asked, 'Why do you never ring me from your home phone?'

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Yes I have done it , once only. I did it for the sheer luxury and devilment. I wanted to get away from the bedroom scenario and do something a bit different. I am lucky to have a very beautiful house and I set up shop in the drawing room and even though I say it myself , I created a cracking atmosphere. Something very sensuous about sex on a thick pile carpet too ! ;)

Shag pile, was it. ;)

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From the other side of the fence....

I don't feel comfortable visiting married men at home purely due to the possibility of a nasty scene or becoming part of a menage a' trois marital riot ;). No thanks.

In my experience married men usually only invite you to the marital home if Mrs x is away on holiday or whatever! Even then it doesnt quite feel right somehow.

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From the other side of the fence....

I don't feel comfortable visiting married men at home purely due to the possibility of a nasty scene or becoming part of a menage a' trois marital riot ;). No thanks.

In my experience married men usually only invite you to the marital home if Mrs x is away on holiday or whatever! Even then it doesnt quite feel right somehow.

Yes I can understand that. When you are at your incall or in a hotel room, the marital status and circumstances of your client are of no great consequence -- nothing personal,just business. When you are brought into the marital home which carries an immediate sense of family and trust, there must be an uneasy element of being a partner to a crime which must be unsettling. This probably applies more to the mature WG rather than a carefree 20yo ?

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Not married but big no-no..live in a quiet place and neighbours here are very nosey.I stick to incalls!

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Not married but big no-no..live in a quiet place and neighbours here are very nosey.I stick to incalls!

Bring her in,in the boot of the car and reverse up to the front doorway in the dead of night !! ;)

Seiously though if I was single I would like the idea of being able to punt in the comfort of my own home.Main problem would be giving away of your address for many reasons. I doubt too many girls would agree to be collected and taken blindfolded to the house !! ;)

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I've never had a problem with out calls to my place, I'm single, I live in a place that's secure and entry is by buzzer and don't have a problem with neighbours.

However some years ago I was living with my then girl friend who was away for work for a few days, so I booked an out call with a very attractive girl. Unfortunately and unbeknown to the pair of us she lost and ear ring during our activity. My girl friend got back home that night and found the offending ear ring in the bed, as she wore things like Bet Lynch I wasn't able to pass it off as one of hers. ;) Cue end of relationship. In conclusion if I were with a partner then outcalls would be a big no no.

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When with an agency I had many outcalls to marital homes and sometimes the

other half was only out for the evening or at work!!!!!

Although very exciting and naughty.... when I think back to those times it was

extremely foolhardy for both the clients and me.

I was sometimes astounded at how much risk those men were willing to take.

It was usually not until my arrival that I understood the situation ie. he was

not a single man living alone.

These days I only do out calls to a private residence if I know the client and he

has visited me. Of those, none of them have live in partners.

Some clients will have you in their homes when the wife is out or away but will

not use the marital bed. This makes it ok then? ;)

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Bring her in,in the boot of the car and reverse up to the front doorway in the dead of night !! ;)

Seiously though if I was single I would like the idea of being able to punt in the comfort of my own home.Main problem would be giving away of your address for many reasons. I doubt too many girls would agree to be collected and taken blindfolded to the house !! ;)

I could try the boot but im sure they would still be watching from their windows....at night ;)

Giving away my address is my main concern...its unlikely to actually put me at any risk but Im not comfy with it.

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I don't think I would ever consider it. I've just realised that my main concern is risk rather than it showing a lack of respect. ;) ;)

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I refuse point blank to visit anyone's home. Playing away is one thing but doing it in the marital bed or a place where children may be is a definite no.

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I'm married and tried an outcall to my house just the once when the wife and kids were away for a week (just to see what it was like really).

We used the spare room, but to be honest I didn't enjoy it. It just felt all wrong.

Never again.

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I am surprised at the risks some blokes take on these outcalls.

I saw a delightful young WG in my hotel a couple of weeks ago in the North West. She had only been doing it part time for a few weeks (she also has a full-time job) and was offering outcalls only.

She told me that her very first booking was to a guys house and his partner came home and caught them in the act. She admitted that the ensuing scene was "not very pleasant". She also seemed very matter of fact about it though and certainly hadn't let it put her off.

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Done it twice when the wife was abroad but did not use the marital bedroom. Just as well! On one occasion the girl concerned, whom I knew very well over a long period started her period during the night and flooded! It was off to the laundrette in the morning as the blanket was too big for the domestic washing machine.

The other time was even more crazy as I gave a Canadian girl (anyone remember Elaine?) and her small child a lift from North Wales to Heathrow on her way home. Her little boy had been baby sat by the North Wales punter's daughters while she toured England doing outcalls booked as a result of her posting on Escorttalk, a pre-punternet message board, (ostensibly marketing North American Indian Art) returning to Wales between visits. Anyway, we finished up with both of them staying the night at my house and I joined her for part of the night (with the little boy in a different room). After dropping her at the airport next day I spent quite some time cleaning baby fingerprints off glass table tops and other shiny surfaces.

That was 11 years ago. I haven't tried it since and don't think I will again.

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Argh! Just reminded me of an overnight at a punter's house where we were watched over by a massive smiling photo of him with wife and kiddies! ;)

....And another at his house where, after the appt was over, he excitedly showed me all of the clothes he had just bought for his baby.... that was due in a few weeks. I politely looked but wow I felt particularly guilty and harlot-like after this one ;)

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As with many aspects of this hobby if it works for you and the ladies are happy to visit your home do it, however speaking for myself I have only ever done in calls, but being single I suppose I could arrange to do out calls but I find travelling to an establishment is part of the adventure and fun as well as seeing new places, after all I would probably never of seen some of England's cultural highlights like the walls (from the outside) of Bedford prison, the concrete and roundabouts of Mk or the urban decay of Sheffield without being an in call punter:D

Thinking about it if I got a work from home job, supermarket internet shopping delivered to my door, and escort outcall services I would never need to leave the house again:cool:;)

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tend to agree with RM Man. I have done it, but only with regular & trustworthy girls that I know well & they know the situation too in terms of venue. There is definetely an element of a line being crossed, but if I wasn't prepared to cross the rubicon I would never have started doing this in the first place!

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As with many aspects of this hobby if it works for you and the ladies are happy to visit your home do it, however speaking for myself I have only ever done in calls, but being single I suppose I could arrange to do out calls but I find travelling to an establishment is part of the adventure and fun as well as seeing new places, after all I would probably never of seen some of England's cultural highlights like the walls (from the outside) of Bedford prison, the concrete and roundabouts of Mk or the urban decay of Sheffield without being an in call punter:D

Thinking about it if I got a work from home job, supermarket internet shopping delivered to my door, and escort outcall services I would never need to leave the house again:cool:;)

Same here. I'm single, but I'd not have a WG come to my flat. I did do it about 7 years back, but it was a little weird. I had a great balcony onto the Thames, and she seemed more interested in the views than the bedroom fun ;) Incalls ensure I get a proper pampering. Besides, I can walk to most of the places I visit within 90 minutes, and it's a great way to see London.

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I have done it, i did worry about the neighbours. I now do incalls, although my other half is going away for a week, and starting to think about doing it again (could be a daytime visit)

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I used to do it regularly, and i never worried about the neighbours. Why should I? If a woman visits my home in the day, she could be a friend or business associate, right? ;)

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...for the sheer luxury and devilment...

What he said... except I haven't actually done it - it's a raging fantasy that I've had for some time. I'll probably never do it, as it feels so risky and there's so much at stake.

Actually, reading all of your responses, I feel a wee bit cold and callous, as I don't consider it any worse breach of boundary - guess I just think that me punting anywhere would be about the same to my partner.

wurd

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...not a chance; i'd never even consider it!

Outcalls to a hotel are fine...you can add your own personal touches and have the added benefits of not having to meticulously tidy up and/or frantically search for lost items and/or a tell-tale locks of hair! Lol

...as for using the marital bed i see that as ultimately disrespectful...

Nik

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