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Today, I tried to book some time with a WG. The first one never got back to me within about 3-4 hours (Email & text). The second did, then she started to change things with the booking, not once but three times, so I felt she didn't want the booking. If she didn't want the booking, then she should just say so and stop messing punters about. The third WG never got back to me either(Text as per her website instructions). By this time, it was too late to try a late booking, so I had to settle for the local parlour before it closed and the parlour isn't that great to be honest.

I can understand WGs getting annoyed at blokes who don't show up or who cancel last minute. I've never been one of those and if I book, I always turn up. What makes some WGs thinks that courtesy doesn't work both ways? A simple reply would be polite and mean that I have time to make alternative arrangements. One thing's for sure, I'm not going to bother with either of the three I tried to contact today, again. Not my loss to bbe honest.

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Today, I tried to book some time with a WG. The first one never got back to me within about 3-4 hours (Email & text). The second did, then she started to change things with the booking, not once but three times, so I felt she didn't want the booking. If she didn't want the booking, then she should just say so and stop messing punters about. The third WG never got back to me either(Text as per her website instructions). By this time, it was too late to try a late booking, so I had to settle for the local parlour before it closed and the parlour isn't that great to be honest.

I can understand WGs getting annoyed at blokes who don't show up or who cancel last minute. I've never been one of those and if I book, I always turn up. What makes some WGs thinks that courtesy doesn't work both ways? A simple reply would be polite and mean that I have time to make alternative arrangements. One thing's for sure, I'm not going to bother with either of the three I tried to contact today, again. Not my loss to bbe honest.

Well that's alright then. Case closed?

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Thanks for responding.

Nicely done :lol:

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Today, I tried to book some time with a WG. The first one never got back to me within about 3-4 hours (Email & text). The second did, then she started to change things with the booking, not once but three times, so I felt she didn't want the booking. If she didn't want the booking, then she should just say so and stop messing punters about. The third WG never got back to me either(Text as per her website instructions). By this time, it was too late to try a late booking, so I had to settle for the local parlour before it closed and the parlour isn't that great to be honest.

I can understand WGs getting annoyed at blokes who don't show up or who cancel last minute. I've never been one of those and if I book, I always turn up. What makes some WGs thinks that courtesy doesn't work both ways? A simple reply would be polite and mean that I have time to make alternative arrangements. One thing's for sure, I'm not going to bother with either of the three I tried to contact today, again. Not my loss to be honest.

Me wonders what the post is about if its not your loss :unsure:

Only WG's who are guilty of this can answer you and me thinks they might be a little shy in coming forward.

You may be expecting too much with the immediate replies from anyone. You seem to be looking for someone to blame for your lack of organization. Preparation, preparation, preparation. You know it makes sense :rolleyes:

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Today, I tried to book some time with a WG. The first one never got back to me within about 3-4 hours (Email & text). The second did, then she started to change things with the booking, not once but three times, so I felt she didn't want the booking. If she didn't want the booking, then she should just say so and stop messing punters about. The third WG never got back to me either(Text as per her website instructions). By this time, it was too late to try a late booking, so I had to settle for the local parlour before it closed and the parlour isn't that great to be honest.

I can understand WGs getting annoyed at blokes who don't show up or who cancel last minute. I've never been one of those and if I book, I always turn up. What makes some WGs thinks that courtesy doesn't work both ways? A simple reply would be polite and mean that I have time to make alternative arrangements. One thing's for sure, I'm not going to bother with either of the three I tried to contact today, again. Not my loss to bbe honest.

It's rare for me to go online at weekends, (this post is the exception) and my phone is usually off at weekends as I don't tend to work then. I'm probably not alone in this, lot's of women will probably have commitments at weekends. I would have thought that if you wanted to book for a Saturday or Sunday you would have been better doing so in advance, not on the day.

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Today, I tried to book some time with a WG. The first one never got back to me within about 3-4 hours (Email & text). The second did, then she started to change things with the booking, not once but three times, so I felt she didn't want the booking. If she didn't want the booking, then she should just say so and stop messing punters about. The third WG never got back to me either(Text as per her website instructions). By this time, it was too late to try a late booking, so I had to settle for the local parlour before it closed and the parlour isn't that great to be honest.

I can understand WGs getting annoyed at blokes who don't show up or who cancel last minute. I've never been one of those and if I book, I always turn up. What makes some WGs thinks that courtesy doesn't work both ways? A simple reply would be polite and mean that I have time to make alternative arrangements. One thing's for sure, I'm not going to bother with either of the three I tried to contact today, again. Not my loss to bbe honest.

Ok you have 3 scenarios here and the only one you should really have fault with is the middle one, the girl that messed you around!

1st one is not unusual to not get a response within 3-4 hours, most girls are on their backs and not sitting at the computer all day with their fingers on refresh.

2nd one sounds like a time waster you did right to not bother in the end.

3rd one did you specifically say text back??

I know for the 3rd one most girls will not text back if not told to or the time has past as - 1)there is not much point and 2) you might be snuggled up with the Mrs.

Try planning ahead, I would imagine works for most.

S x

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Me wonders what the post is about if its not your loss :unsure:

Only WG's who are guilty of this can answer you and me thinks they might be a little shy in coming forward.

You may be expecting too much with the immediate replies from anyone. You seem to be looking for someone to blame for your lack of organization. Preparation, preparation, preparation. You know it makes sense :rolleyes:

Lets get something straight! How often am I entitled to have a WG check her e-mail, simply to see if I've been gracious enough to send her a message? Given that I'm God's gift to woman-kind (Lou, we haven't yet met, so you'll just have to take me on trust for now!) I'd say about every fifteen minutes, but then, again, I suddenly remember (how could I forget? It was such a wonderful interlude in my otherwise dull life) that I recently spent three hours with a lady, and during that time (and I guess while she was in the bath preparing her delightful body for my lascivious attentions too) her telephone was switched off, as was her PC, so she didn't and couldn't have answered any other grasping punter.

As I come back to the real world, having left her embrace, I rather think that I can expect a lady to check her e-mails once every day (except when she has been honoured by some greedy punter with an over-night) at about 06.00hrs, but not again, unless she gets bored.

Any other suggestions?

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Lets get something straight! How often am I entitled to have a WG check her e-mail, simply to see if I've been gracious enough to send her a message? Given that I'm God's gift to woman-kind (Lou, we haven't yet met, so you'll just have to take me on trust for now!) I'd say about every fifteen minutes, but then, again, I suddenly remember (how could I forget? It was such a wonderful interlude in my otherwise dull life) that I recently spent three hours with a lady, and during that time (and I guess while she was in the bath preparing her delightful body for my lascivious attentions too) her telephone was switched off, as was her PC, so she didn't and couldn't have answered any other grasping punter.

As I come back to the real world, having left her embrace, I rather think that I can expect a lady to check her e-mails once every day (except when she has been honoured by some greedy punter with an over-night) at about 06.00hrs, but not again, unless she gets bored.

Any other suggestions?

IFshe is even working that day, some do take days off to recharge :P

It can take days for me to answer emails if I am not working.

S x

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IFshe is even working that day, some do take days off to recharge :P

It can take days for me to answer emails if I am not working.

S x

To be fair email or texting is not very good if you are wanting a response within an hour or 3. Myself as well as other ladies often have 1,2,3 hour bookings, could be driving too. To set up a short notice booking via these methods also relies on the text/email being delivered. Even in this day and age texts can go astray, signal vary, emails not get through. For instance I have a Blackberry and the forwarding service isn't always instant, plus I don't get delivery from my junk mail folder. So have to wait til I'm next at the pc. I would advise phoning directly leaving a voicemail to call you back if necessary - my VM message actually advises when I'm next free to talk if otherwise engaged, for same day appointments, keep email for advance bookings and texts for any alterations if necessary.

If a lady can't reply then find someone who can, but do give girls a chance!

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Preparation is the key to success and happiness when it comes to meeting and escort. If you make a booking on the day and always hope the girl will get back to you immediately is not a good idea and a recipe for disappointment. Alyays remember the boy scout promise to Be Prepared:)

Cheers

Peter

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Any ladies that i'm interested in seeing i always email the day before so they have enough time to get back to me.

I always have a choice of 3-4 ladies on my list that i wish to see and i'll email them all and the first one to get back to me and arrange a suitable time,i'll go and see.

Find this works out the best i've had situations before where i've ummmed and ahhed trying to decide for half the day and not actually got out to punt as i emailed much too late.

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Rule No 1. Plan and book in advance

Rule No 2. Always follow Rule No 1

If a girl is popular trying to book her for a same day appointment is nit a great idea. All but one of my bookings have been made days in advance. Only 1 was made a few hours before and this was with an agency girl who I had seen twice before.

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Rule No 1. Plan and book in advance

Rule No 2. Always follow Rule No 1

If a girl is popular trying to book her for a same day appointment is nit a great idea. All but one of my bookings have been made days in advance. Only 1 was made a few hours before and this was with an agency girl who I had seen twice before.

I'm probably the least spontaneous person on the planet so I always try to book well in advance - maybe up to a week. Even now I'm still surprised by the number of ladies who don't respond to emails and texts in that time - especially if I've checked their website beforehand and they say they are working. Always amazes me how difficult it can be to get some ladies by their main mode of contact. I can't imagine many plumbers or electricians staying in business if they made it so hard to get hold of them.

Just saying.

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Ok you have 3 scenarios here and the only one you should really have fault with is the middle one, the girl that messed you around!

1st one is not unusual to not get a response within 3-4 hours, most girls are on their backs and not sitting at the computer all day with their fingers on refresh.

2nd one sounds like a time waster you did right to not bother in the end.

3rd one did you specifically say text back??

I know for the 3rd one most girls will not text back if not told to or the time has past as - 1)there is not much point and 2) you might be snuggled up with the Mrs.

Try planning ahead, I would imagine works for most.

S x

First one...she got my message and read it. I have a receipt to that effect.

Second one, you're probably right.

Third one, she got my message too. No, I asked her if she had any appointments left as she had said on her website that she worked Saturdays and would only answer texts. I made it clear that I live alone, so I doubt she'd be so worried about responding.

Here's the quandry, there's a few here making possible excuses for the three WGs, yet if I failed to show, there'd be very little of that in my favour. If I was providing a service (Not sexual, but business), my business would suffer with lapse attitudes. Forgive me for being so forthright, but these WGs are in business, so why is it wrong to expect some decent customer service? :)

I shouldn't be suprised about such double standards in such an untrustworhty business I suppose, where so many lie about their age, size etc.

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Me wonders what the post is about if its not your loss :unsure:

It's about double standards in the industry.

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So the first one, and the third one, also got your message and weren't available at the time you wanted, so didn't respond. <shrugs>

I wonder, what did you actually say?

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Here's the quandry, there's a few here making possible excuses for the three WGs, yet if I failed to show, there'd be very little of that in my favour.

Ahhh you didn't want us to come up with possible reasons? Well, you should have said so.

Ok Then.

What a bunch of complete cows. You're right, mate, you're better off out of that. Their loss, not yours. Daft tarts.

Better?

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First one...she got my message and read it. I have a receipt to that effect.

Second one, you're probably right.

Third one, she got my message too. No, I asked her if she had any appointments left as she had said on her website that she worked Saturdays and would only answer texts. I made it clear that I live alone, so I doubt she'd be so worried about responding.

Here's the quandry, there's a few here making possible excuses for the three WGs, yet if I failed to show, there'd be very little of that in my favour. If I was providing a service (Not sexual, but business), my business would suffer with lapse attitudes. Forgive me for being so forthright, but these WGs are in business, so why is it wrong to expect some decent customer service? :)

I shouldn't be suprised about such double standards in such an untrustworhty business I suppose, where so many lie about their age, size etc.

But they did not fail to show, they did not even make a booking with you!

Well you are right they probably did lie about their age, size etc sounds like you had a lucky escape mate.

S x

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Ahhh you didn't want us to come up with possible reasons? Well, you should have said so.

Ok Then.

What a bunch of complete cows. You're right, mate, you're better off out of that. Their loss, not yours. Daft tarts.

Better?

I wasn't offering "excuses" merely reasons as to why I sometimes find I can't answer emails within a few hours-which therefore might be reasons why the ladies you mention weren't able to respond. Just sharing my experience. If this isn't the case and ladies are ignoring emails then that's up to them how they run their business.

Today I turned my phone off for most of the day, as I was with friends visiting a couple of art galleries. I did have my phone on for callers during the 2 1/2 hour drive back alone, and could hear emails/texts being delivered. Checked them at a loo stop and decided to reply when I got home, sat down at the pc. So a delay of perhaps 3-4 hours. If the drive had been longer I might not has responded until the morning. A whole 12 hour delay. Is that unprofessional?

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It's about double standards in the industry.

You have used "No Responses" as your title instead of

"double standards in the industry."

It does make me wonder if you were as equally clear in your contact emails.

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What a bunch of complete cows. You're right, mate, you're better off out of that. Their loss, not yours. Daft tarts.

Perfect reply. Couldn't have put it better myself

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But they did not fail to show, they did not even make a booking with you!

Well you are right they probably did lie about their age, size etc sounds like you had a lucky escape mate.

S x

I also thought most self-employed people, especially WGs have a choice over whether they accept or respond to work?In fact there is a current thread started on that very subject. Obviously it's good business sense to respond to enquiries, even with a "no thank-you" however there can be other reasons for not doing so - quite legitimate ones too.

Lots of other businesses out there, are terrible with customer service. I've recently dealt with 4 different companies of varying size who don't bother to respond effectively - if at all, regards my actual or potential custom. No excuses but it's not just this industry. Still waiting for the call back regards a large purchase I wish to make locally and it's a week overdue. I'm not having a strop about it but I will chase them up, and if not go online and find someone who can provide what I'm requiring.

Since a booking wasn't made I'm not sure how this was a double standard. I could reel of 100s of times guys have said they'll call on a certain date, after making an enquiry and simply don't. I don't consider them a no-show since an commitment hadn't been made.

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If you want to book a particular lady, plan in advance, not 3 or 4 hours. If you want to arrange something short notice, call them. Simples.

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