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I am considering seeing an escort and therefore have a few questions about choice. I would be seeing an escort probably charging between 120-200 an hour from agency, this is what I have looked into and seems like a good start.

When you hear about prostitution it is often degraded and especially women are convinced that no woman would ever choose to do the profession. From my research and general understanding there are women who enjoy providing this service for men and choose to do this because they make more money, enjoy it and find it easy. Is this true and if so how much of prostitution does it cover? Do for example eastern European escorts work here under the beck and call of masters abroad or are they here independently want to make more than they could at home and are happy with their choice? From this I excluded any low end street corner, backstreet dealings etc from this as that is just horrible and wrong with lots of drugs and trafficking. This question is only about mid/high end escorting.

What I suppose I am generally asking is are mid/high level escorts for the most part acting on their own free will and choice doing something they to an extent enjoy(as much as anyone can enjoy a job) and for which they earn decent money?

Thank you for any responses.

This is put to both escorts and punters.

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I am considering seeing an escort and therefore have a few questions about choice. I would be seeing an escort probably charging between 120-200 an hour from agency, this is what I have looked into and seems like a good start.

When you hear about prostitution it is often degraded and especially women are convinced that no woman would ever choose to do the profession. From my research and general understanding there are women who enjoy providing this service for men and choose to do this because they make more money, enjoy it and find it easy. Is this true and if so how much of prostitution does it cover? Do for example eastern European escorts work here under the beck and call of masters abroad or are they here independently want to make more than they could at home and are happy with their choice? From this I excluded any low end street corner, backstreet dealings etc from this as that is just horrible and wrong with lots of drugs and trafficking. This question is only about mid/high end escorting.

What I suppose I am generally asking is are mid/high level escorts for the most part acting on their own free will and choice doing something they to an extent enjoy(as much as anyone can enjoy a job) and for which they earn decent money?

Thank you for any responses.

This is put to both escorts and punters.

Seriously 54 views and no responses?

I ask a legitimate question about WG's amd no one has anything to say???

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Seriously 54 views and no responses?

I ask a legitimate question about WG's amd no one has anything to say???

I'd say yes.

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I'd say yes.

I've been too busy responding to a thread where a chap was upset that 3 ladies didn't seem to want his business. Anyway whilst you can never be 100% sure, it's more likely a higher charging indie is 'independent' - however not always the case.

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I am considering seeing an escort and therefore have a few questions about choice. I would be seeing an escort probably charging between 120-200 an hour from agency, this is what I have looked into and seems like a good start.

When you hear about prostitution it is often degraded and especially women are convinced that no woman would ever choose to do the profession. From my research and general understanding there are women who enjoy providing this service for men and choose to do this because they make more money, enjoy it and find it easy. Is this true and if so how much of prostitution does it cover? Do for example eastern European escorts work here under the beck and call of masters abroad or are they here independently want to make more than they could at home and are happy with their choice? From this I excluded any low end street corner, backstreet dealings etc from this as that is just horrible and wrong with lots of drugs and trafficking. This question is only about mid/high end escorting.

What I suppose I am generally asking is are mid/high level escorts for the most part acting on their own free will and choice doing something they to an extent enjoy(as much as anyone can enjoy a job) and for which they earn decent money?

Thank you for any responses.

This is put to both escorts and punters.

The answer to your questions is yes.

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It's very difficult to be 100% sure about what an escort's personal situation is, which is why we have a problem with the "strict liability" law introduced earlier this year, where it became an offence to promise to pay for sex with a woman who has been co-erced into prostitution whether you know/suspect that or not.

Whilst I would not want to put you off seeing girls from other countries (as that is one of the joys of paying for sex), if you only see British WGs it should at least take the possibility of "traffiking" out of the equation.

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Seriously 54 views and no responses?

Guests usually outnumber members by at least 3 to 1.

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Guests usually outnumber members by at least 3 to 1.

... and the members have, perhaps, exhausted this subject. I hesitate to say search earlier posts because since the change of board format I haven't worked out how to do that myself!

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... and the members have, perhaps, exhausted this subject. I hesitate to say search earlier posts because since the change of board format I haven't worked out how to do that myself!

Did a search on this but hard as the search terms for a discussion on this might not be precise. Anyone know of a previous discussion title?

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I am considering seeing an escort and therefore have a few questions about choice. I would be seeing an escort probably charging between 120-200 an hour from agency, this is what I have looked into and seems like a good start.

When you hear about prostitution it is often degraded and especially women are convinced that no woman would ever choose to do the profession. From my research and general understanding there are women who enjoy providing this service for men and choose to do this because they make more money, enjoy it and find it easy. Is this true and if so how much of prostitution does it cover? Do for example eastern European escorts work here under the beck and call of masters abroad or are they here independently want to make more than they could at home and are happy with their choice? From this I excluded any low end street corner, backstreet dealings etc from this as that is just horrible and wrong with lots of drugs and trafficking. This question is only about mid/high end escorting.

What I suppose I am generally asking is are mid/high level escorts for the most part acting on their own free will and choice doing something they to an extent enjoy(as much as anyone can enjoy a job) and for which they earn decent money?

Thank you for any responses.

This is put to both escorts and punters.

I may have misread your questions. Text is such an emotionless and robotic medium, but I think you could be asking.........

1. Do some foreign girls choose to come here (UK) and become sex workers of their own free will?

2. Are more expensive escorts just as likely to be pimped or abused as cheaper escorts?

Yes and Yes.

Xenia proves the first point. You shouldn't feel you are doing anything wrong, or contributing to sex slavery by seeing a foreign lady. Not all foreign girls are pimped or coerced, but some are of course. Research carefully as with all choices and make your decisions with your head.

Whether you should choose an agency or an independent is entirely your choice. There are pros and cons to both methods of meeting ladies.

To ask if Escorts "enjoy " their work. Yes some do.

True nymphomaniacs - those who really enjoy sex on demand with strangers are exceptionally rare. An honest answer is We escort because we enjoy the rewards of paid sex, both financial and the freedoms it brings, else as raving nymphos we'd simply be giving it away and dragging men off the streets to satiate our nymphotic needs! ........I don't think so somehow!

Any escort who says she enjoys sex with all her clients is lying for the audience.

Enjoying escorting!

I can only speak for myself but I see no reason why these points don't apply to other Independents. - but I'm not speaking for them here. I can only give you my own thoughts as an experienced escort..

As an independent who answers only to herself, I enjoy escorting for several reasons. My working conditions. Because they are self imposed. I impose the best working conditions I possibly can! There isn't another employer in the world who would go that extra mile.;)

I enjoy my total independence. I enjoy escorting because of the financial freedom it brings. I have the absolute freedom to choose when I work, who I work with, how much work I do, and if I work at all. I am my own boss. I control my working life and answer to nobody. Escorting has taken me to La Scala, The Vienna state opera, I've gambled in the Casino at Monte Carlo, stayed in Europes top hotels and stayed on private Yachts in Naples Bay. I 've done 1000 things I couldn't mention or could have dreamed of doing without escorting ......All of my own free will I promise :D ..................................................Of course I bloody well enjoy it!

Escorting is a double edged sword and doesn't suit every personality type.Unless you have the mental strength and strong personality to lead two lives, one as an escort and one as yourself, and to be able to deal with the downside, you could find yourself in deep waters and as some girls find they unable to cope with the stresses which can lead to drugs drink or even suicide.

You shouldn't feel guilty about seeing an escort. If you research thoroughly you will contribute positively to her day.

Enjoy it. She will without doubt enjoy what you bring.

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True nymphomaniacs - those who really enjoy sex on demand with strangers are exceptionally rare. An honest answer is We escort because we enjoy the rewards of paid sex, both financial and the freedoms it brings, else as raving nymphos we'd simply be giving it away and dragging men off the streets to satiate our nymphotic needs! ........I don't think so somehow!

Any escort who says she enjoys sex with all her clients is lying for the audience.

I guess however much one sex knows the other, it is still almost impossible for a man to think like a woman and a woman to think like a man. So, out of interest, how often do you working girls enjoy the sex rather than the just the money or other fringe benefits? I'm not talking exact numbers, just a general idea. And what makes you enjoy the sex? Is as simple as just fancying the man, or can a gorgeous man leave you cold sometimes, just because the situation feels wrong? Is there another reason why some sex with clients hits the spot and some doesn't?

As a reasonably perceptive man I can usually tell when a woman is really enjoying the sex or getting turned on during a massage session. I believe I can tell (though I have no way of proving) when she is simply faking it. It is, of course, extremely obvious when she is not enjoying her job at all. One of the curious things about paying for sex is that I still want the women to enjoy herself, or at the very least, feel comfortable with me inside her and feel she wants to make me happy. Most of the really exciting punts I've had have been with women where we did make a connection and the sex became mutually pleasurable.

Now cynics will say that an enthusiastc WG is just good at acting. I don't believe that for one moment. I, and many other men, are not so stupid or insensitive that we can't tell the difference. It also seems to play into the notion that women only want sex when combined with love. I do believe that there is an emotional element that makes good sex good for women, even in the most casual encounters, but as a man I can't know what it's like to be a woman, any woman, prostitute or civilian.

Obviously women vary and the reasons will vary, but I am always interested in understanding the opposite sex, and have been trying to understand them my whole life. In most areas it's easy. When it comes to sex, it's a lot more complicated.

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I guess however much one sex knows the other, it is still almost impossible for a man to think like a woman and a woman to think like a man. So, out of interest, how often do you working girls enjoy the sex rather than the just the money or other fringe benefits? I'm not talking exact numbers, just a general idea. And what makes you enjoy the sex? Is as simple as just fancying the man, or can a gorgeous man leave you cold sometimes, just because the situation feels wrong? Is there another reason why some sex with clients hits the spot and some doesn't?

As a reasonably perceptive man I can usually tell when a woman is really enjoying the sex or getting turned on during a massage session. I believe I can tell (though I have no way of proving) when she is simply faking it. It is, of course, extremely obvious when she is not enjoying her job at all. One of the curious things about paying for sex is that I still want the women to enjoy herself, or at the very least, feel comfortable with me inside her and feel she wants to make me happy. Most of the really exciting punts I've had have been with women where we did make a connection and the sex became mutually pleasurable.

Now cynics will say that an enthusiastc WG is just good at acting. I don't believe that for one moment. I, and many other men, are not so stupid or insensitive that we can't tell the difference. It also seems to play into the notion that women only want sex when combined with love. I do believe that there is an emotional element that makes good sex good for women, even in the most casual encounters, but as a man I can't know what it's like to be a woman, any woman, prostitute or civilian.

Obviously women vary and the reasons will vary, but I am always interested in understanding the opposite sex, and have been trying to understand them my whole life. In most areas it's easy. When it comes to sex, it's a lot more complicated.

I think you will find(well I do anyway) that an Escort doesn't necessarily have to think a man is gorgeous to really enjoy sex with him. I've found that I have just as many orgasms with men not considered the 'greek-god' ideal, and in fact more than guys who would be considered highly attractive. For myself it's attitude and simply 'how' a man 'is' with me that gets me off. Taking time, being patient and not acting as if you are in a porn film generally go a long way.

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I may have misread your questions. Text is such an emotionless and robotic medium, but I think you could be asking.........

1. Do some foreign girls choose to come here (UK) and become sex workers of their own free will?

2. Are more expensive escorts just as likely to be pimped or abused as cheaper escorts?

Yes and Yes.

Xenia proves the first point. You shouldn't feel you are doing anything wrong, or contributing to sex slavery by seeing a foreign lady. Not all foreign girls are pimped or coerced, but some are of course. Research carefully as with all choices and make your decisions with your head.

Whether you should choose an agency or an independent is entirely your choice. There are pros and cons to both methods of meeting ladies.

To ask if Escorts "enjoy " their work. Yes some do.

True nymphomaniacs - those who really enjoy sex on demand with strangers are exceptionally rare. An honest answer is We escort because we enjoy the rewards of paid sex, both financial and the freedoms it brings, else as raving nymphos we'd simply be giving it away and dragging men off the streets to satiate our nymphotic needs! ........I don't think so somehow!

Any escort who says she enjoys sex with all her clients is lying for the audience.

Enjoying escorting!

I can only speak for myself but I see no reason why these points don't apply to other Independents. - but I'm not speaking for them here. I can only give you my own thoughts as an experienced escort..

As an independent who answers only to herself, I enjoy escorting for several reasons. My working conditions. Because they are self imposed. I impose the best working conditions I possibly can! There isn't another employer in the world who would go that extra mile.;)

I enjoy my total independence. I enjoy escorting because of the financial freedom it brings. I have the absolute freedom to choose when I work, who I work with, how much work I do, and if I work at all. I am my own boss. I control my working life and answer to nobody. Escorting has taken me to La Scala, The Vienna state opera, I've gambled in the Casino at Monte Carlo, stayed in Europes top hotels and stayed on private Yachts in Naples Bay. I 've done 1000 things I couldn't mention or could have dreamed of doing without escorting ......All of my own free will I promise :D ..................................................Of course I bloody well enjoy it!

Escorting is a double edged sword and doesn't suit every personality type.Unless you have the mental strength and strong personality to lead two lives, one as an escort and one as yourself, and to be able to deal with the downside, you could find yourself in deep waters and as some girls find they unable to cope with the stresses which can lead to drugs drink or even suicide.

You shouldn't feel guilty about seeing an escort. If you research thoroughly you will contribute positively to her day.

Enjoy it. She will without doubt enjoy what you bring.

So as long as I go with a decent agency or independent then in all likely hood they are out of free will and choice and may enjoy it aswell (I mean enjoy it in general not indvidual experiences).

As an analogy how does this compare: I could buy shoes or clothers that were made by child labour but if I buy from a decent retailer at a reasonable price this very unlikely?

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Wasn't there a song about you? I've been to Georgia and California etc etc?

Its a tiny bit like that for a happy succesful escort yes . I think my lucky stars I'm in that group!

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I am considering seeing an escort and therefore have a few questions about choice. I would be seeing an escort probably charging between 120-200 an hour from agency, this is what I have looked into and seems like a good start. When you hear about prostitution it is often degraded and especially women are convinced that no woman would ever choose to do the profession. From my research and general understanding there are women who enjoy providing this service for men and choose to do this because they make more money, enjoy it and find it easy. Is this true and if so how much of prostitution does it cover? Do for example eastern European escorts work here under the beck and call of masters abroad or are they here independently want to make more than they could at home and are happy with their choice? From this I excluded any low end street corner, backstreet dealings etc from this as that is just horrible and wrong with lots of drugs and trafficking. This question is only about mid/high end escorting.What I suppose I am generally asking is are mid/high level escorts for the most part acting on their own free will and choice doing something they to an extent enjoy(as much as anyone can enjoy a job) and for which they earn decent money?Thank you for any responses.This is put to both escorts and punters.

I cant comment for anyone else, only myself. But as an independent escort (non agency)i do enjoy my job, i get to meet some wonderful people, have some amazing sex and get paid for it :D . I can set my own hours and as Helen said I impose my own working conditions so i ensure that they are fantastic !

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So as long as I go with a decent agency or independent then in all likely hood they are out of free will and choice and may enjoy it aswell (I mean enjoy it in general not indvidual experiences).

As an analogy how does this compare: I could buy shoes or clothers that were made by child labour but if I buy from a decent retailer at a reasonable price this very unlikely?

I'm not sure about the analogy! Big retailers are notorious for putting the screws on suppliers to provide cheaper and cheaper goods. Its always the lowest on the ladder who suffer when this happens! Usually the Worker!

What is a decent agency or decent Independent? Even a so called independent can be trafficked or pimped. A glittering website means nothing. A large agency can deliberately or unwittingly employ tafficked or pimped girls.

I know a lot of the men who use messageboards are thoroughly decent people who would be happy to advice you if not on an actual choice, on the best ways to avoid any problems.

I have absolutely no experience of agencies so can offer no advice, but I wouldn't write them off as a source of contact. A lot of girls who are now respected independents started at agencies.

I bet there are lots of chaps in your area who have lots of advice regarding agencies.

Why not re-post with a clearer statement. Have a think about what you actually want to know, and ask again in the information forum.

Let them know what area you are in, what you are seeking and what your concerns are. I'm sure someone will help.

Is it a moral issue or is it the fear of falling foul of the trafficking laws.

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I'm not sure about the analogy! Big retailers are notorious for putting the screws on suppliers to provide cheaper and cheaper goods. Its always the lowest on the ladder who suffer when this happens! Usually the Worker!

What is a decent agency or decent Independent? Even a so called independent can be trafficked or pimped. A glittering website means nothing. A large agency can deliberately or unwittingly employ tafficked or pimped girls.

I know a lot of the men who use messageboards are thoroughly decent people who would be happy to advice you if not on an actual choice, on the best ways to avoid any problems.

I have absolutely no experience of agencies so can offer no advice, but I wouldn't write them off as a source of contact. A lot of girls who are now respected independents started at agencies.

I bet there are lots of chaps in your area who have lots of advice regarding agencies.

Why not re-post with a clearer statement. Have a think about what you actually want to know, and ask again in the information forum.

Let them know what area you are in, what you are seeking and what your concerns are. I'm sure someone will help.

Is it a moral issue or is it the fear of falling foul of the trafficking laws.

It's a moral issue, I would want to do what I can to ensure that anyone I was with was doing this out of choice, if that choice is for money, enjoyment, control over their working enviroment etc doesnt matter as long as they are making the choice and are happy with it (happy as you can expect anyone to be doing a job).

Currently looking at HoD and Bunnies agencies and they seem to all be above board and have great reviews and comments from people. I dont expect certainty in this but at the very least trying to do the right thing and if possible doing it.

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