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For The Wgs: Is There Really Such A Thing As A "great Lover"?

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It's a sort of cliche of movies and TV and books -- the guy who is so hot, all women want to pull him, and he's brilliant in bed. Jagger or Russell Brand or whoever. You shag more different kinds of men than anybody on the planet, I figure, so if anybody knows about blokes in bed, it's you. (Personally, I think Russell Brand is a wanker, but then I'm a man.)

On the other hand, the circumstances are different -- the guys who come to see you haven't seduced you, and generally they're expecting YOU to do the work. Some of us are paying you precisely because we're NOT Russell Brand. So maybe you aren't ever getting the brilliant blokes anyway.

So I'm just curious -- does a mind-blowing shag really exist among men? Or are we mostly about the same, with some being more clumsy and clueless than others?

I've been working on my tongue-strengthening exercises, but that's about the limit of what I know to do to make myself "good in bed" -- whatever that means to women. From what I've read, it's so much about atmosphere and subtle feelings to you ladies that there's not much a man can do to make himself a better lover anyway. If he floats your boat, he just got lucky. But I don't really know.

Is there such a thing as a great (male) lover, or is it just another Hollywood myth?

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(First off, I love your sig! The cynics who always search/seek/meet the dregs and then moan about the findings, take heed!)

Great looks don't = great sex.

But as us ladies have the shop frontage, the prettier we make the window, the more immediate attention we get. After the shop frontage, there has to be some kind of product substance that appeals to certain types of customer. That's where we close the deal.

On to the actual...

I met someone who, in my mind was 'Mr Bean' and I don't 'really fancy' Mr Bean or Rowan Atkinson. But he was a lovely cheerful man and I liked him.

Jeezuz Christ, when he kissed me, I felt as if I'd been electrocuted. My knicker regions went crazy and got very very interested indeed. It was sooo brilliant and I still think about it now. He's on my 'I'd Die To Shag Again' list. A lot of punters are, actually, and they don't even know it!

In history, I'd like to shag Henry Miller, Casanova, Earl Rochester and Lord Byron. In that order. Maybe in a week.

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(First off, I love your sig! The cynics who always search/seek/meet the dregs and then moan about the findings, take heed!)

Great looks don't = great sex.

But as us ladies have the shop frontage, the prettier we make the window, the more immediate attention we get. After the shop frontage, there has to be some kind of product substance that appeals to certain types of customer. That's where we close the deal.

On to the actual...

I met someone who, in my mind was 'Mr Bean' and I don't 'really fancy' Mr Bean or Rowan Atkinson. But he was a lovely cheerful man and I liked him.

Jeezuz Christ, when he kissed me, I felt as if I'd been electrocuted. My knicker regions went crazy and got very very interested indeed. It was sooo brilliant and I still think about it now. He's on my 'I'd Die To Shag Again' list. A lot of punters are, actually, and they don't even know it!

In history, I'd like to shag Henry Miller, Casanova, Earl Rochester and Lord Byron. In that order. Maybe in a week.

Ah Dollymopp - you have great taste - Henry Miller is one of my personal all time heroes !!.............similarly, I'm sure Anais Nin would have been wonderful between the sheets.

To the OP I wouldve thought this was obvious, as in our experience, either with sex thats paid for or isnt, there have been women who are phenomenally talented sexually and those who are not and they can be beautiful also or not so beautiful - also chemistry plays a part, sometimes bodies and personalities just fit, sometimes they dont and sometimes if youre lucky enough to experience it theres that indefinable, unidentifiable 'thing', a 'spark' or unexpected 'jolt', that Dollymopp reported experiencing.

There are escorts who are incredibly popular, extremely good at what they do and it almost doesnt seem to matter who you are - you leave them feeling elated, energised, elevated, sated yet hungry for more.

Whats true for some women, I believe can be true for some men also.

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I agree with dolly, looks do not equal personality or chemistry. I think that is one thing a lot of ladies i have worked with learned fairly quickly. It can be surprising that you can have the most fantastic times with someone that you would not expect too or you would not normally say is someone who is your type.

Amazing lovers do exist and the best thing is that they punt too, yeehaa.xx

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It's a sort of cliche of movies and TV and books -- the guy who is so hot, all women want to pull him, and he's brilliant in bed. Jagger or Russell Brand or whoever. You shag more different kinds of men than anybody on the planet, I figure, so if anybody knows about blokes in bed, it's you. (Personally, I think Russell Brand is a wanker, but then I'm a man.)

On the other hand, the circumstances are different -- the guys who come to see you haven't seduced you, and generally they're expecting YOU to do the work. Some of us are paying you precisely because we're NOT Russell Brand. So maybe you aren't ever getting the brilliant blokes anyway.

So I'm just curious -- does a mind-blowing shag really exist among men? Or are we mostly about the same, with some being more clumsy and clueless than others?

I've been working on my tongue-strengthening exercises, but that's about the limit of what I know to do to make myself "good in bed" -- whatever that means to women. From what I've read, it's so much about atmosphere and subtle feelings to you ladies that there's not much a man can do to make himself a better lover anyway. If he floats your boat, he just got lucky. But I don't really know.

Is there such a thing as a great (male) lover, or is it just another Hollywood myth?

No its not a myth there are some great lovers out there.

Shelly

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I think 'chemistry' is the main ingredient. If I am allowed a small boast (okay, a large one), all my girlfriends have said that I'm a great lay. Now, they could be just saying that to make me happy, but somehow I doubt it. That said, I've had some really crap sex with girls, especially working girls.

With WGs, some simply will not let themselves enjoy it. They are either too tired, not in the mood, in the wrong job, or I guess I'm just not their type. If she won't relax, views you as just another horny guy on a conveyer belt, just a cock and a pair of balls to be de-spunked, you're unlikely to have great sex. If she won't kiss, doesn't like your tongue on her arse or pussy, restricts the positions you can have her in and just wants it all over as soon as possible, what chance do you have of being a great lover?

It is very hard to perform to the best of your capabilities if the lady you are fucking doesn't want you inside her, other than for the money. Sex, even commercial sex, has to have an element of mutual pleasure to be exciting. Without it a man is better off with a blow up doll who never gets impatient or looks like she doesn't want to be there. Only those guys who have rape fantasies or are into humiliation, of themselves or others, could want to fuck in such circumstances.

I can contrast that depressing scenario with the wonderful sessions I had with a masseuse I used to see regularly. We immediately hit it off. She was pretty and looked like my girlfriend at the time. The place she was at only offered a very limited service, clothed handjobs with light touching tolerated by some girls. However, we soon progressed to her taking off her top, then being totally naked. Then we moved onto reverse massage so I could kiss and caress her body all over. This led to French kissing. Then one day I kissed my way down her to bum. I kissed her arse cheeks and went nearer her arsehole, burying my face there. She didn't object so my lips kissed her ring and I started to French kiss her arse in a prolonged rimming session. When she turned onto her back I kissed and caressed her front, kissing her mouth again, sucking and stroking her hard, swollen nipples until I moved south and went down on her. I licked her between her legs, teasing her, making her wait, watching how wet her pussy was becoming, licking along her pussy lips to taste her, before finally settling on her clit and licking and sucking it till I made her cum so hard that she almost suffocated me as her legs clamped together like a vice while she rode her orgasm.

The sex with this girl was great because we 'clicked'. She had a boyfriend who knew nothing of what she got up to at the parlour or with me in particular. She totally understood how exciting it was to cheat, and liked the idea of me fucking my girlfriend when I got home while thinking about our time together. We went a stage further in subsequent visits and she would suck me off. Eventually she let me fuck her and I used to go and see her at her flat until she moved to another area.

What always sticks in my mind is that she said that I shouldn't be paying to do this to her as I made her cum time after time, and that I was a really amazing lover. (She always took the money though!) I always have to keep this in my mind when I have a really disappointing punt with a girl that apparently can't stand the sight of me. Fortunately girls who have slept with me on one night stands have wanted to be there, even if the sex wasn't quite as mind blowing as it could be.

The moral of all this is that it takes two to tango, even if the lady is a hired dancer. If she doesn't want to dance properly, then however good you are at dancing, you're never going to win any competitions.

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It's a sort of cliche of movies and TV and books -- the guy who is so hot, all women want to pull him, and he's brilliant in bed. Jagger or Russell Brand or whoever. You shag more different kinds of men than anybody on the planet, I figure, so if anybody knows about blokes in bed, it's you. (Personally, I think Russell Brand is a wanker, but then I'm a man.)

Youre not alone there - I too cant stand that skinny, lanky, hairy, shouty, pathologically unfunny, so-called 'comedian' Brand - neither can my gf, and any woman I know has expressed extreme displeasure, whenever the unpallatable subject of 'Brand' has unfortunately come up in conversation.

Edited by BillGoldberg

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great lovers are a thing of personal preferences, tastes and chemistry on or at the time of the liasion, someone can be a great lover one time and not so great another then total crap on a return match.

It can of course come predictable which leads to boredom in the bedroom no matter how much you love them.

Of course there are lovers that you simply cannot be in the same room as with out ripping clothes off etc but when it comes to anything other than physical gynastics yawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn city

Thats why I love my wg fun as so much variety there is always something pleasurable and fun and new,

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Thanks, folks. I guess, when I think about it, what I really meant was not "is there a great lover somewhere for YOU" -- of course we've all had great sex at one time or another -- but do these blokes who supposedly can pull any woman really exist AND are they any good?

Sure, Rod Stewart famously could pull them -- so can any rock star, I reckon -- but are they actually good at it as well?

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I saw someone this week for the first time. Initially, I didn't really fancy him but when I moved in for the first kiss I thought wow! He was an amazing kisser. That set everything off on the right foot from thereonin.

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