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Ever Filed To Rise T O The Occassion

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I have never had any problems rising to the occassion when punting until my last punt two weeks ago. She was a touring escort, a looker and I cant fault her performance. She was genuinely concerned, I was embarressed, and I am a bit concerned about my next punt.

I'm just trying to find out how often this happened to other punters.

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I haven't had a punt where I didn't rise, but I did have one or two where it gave up 5 minutes in, twice in a row and only the third round was steady. I attributed it to being tired/stressed.

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It first happened to me on a two day stay-over in Bangkok, after I had parted with the money for bar-fine, hotel room etc. etc. I then put it down to tiredness from the 13 hour flight and jet lag.

Then it happened to be when I had paid for time with a stunning looking blonde East European lady. I thought to myself if you cannot rise to the occasion with this naked ready and in front of you, something is very wrong.

Since then, a 1/4 dose of a famous blue product beginning with V has prevented any repeat problems. Use very sparingly, it is very powerful stuff.

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It happened to me once a few years ago with a black Afro-Caribbean lady.She tried everything to get me going including her lying on the bed naked with a vibrator in position and buzzing- a sight I will always fondly remember.

When this didn't work she got a bit nasty and told me to come back after taking Viagra as I obviously had the problem and she didn't. She had my £150 and I had not done anything- so she was right -I did have a problem and she didn't. I didn't go back to see her again but I did try Viagra on prescription as I didn't want this to become a permanent thing. I am physically very fit but my problem is anxiety , anxiety that once I had failed it would happen again.A very small dose of Viagra works for me. I am now taking one quarter of a pill and it works every time.

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Yep, it's happened to me for the first time recently as well. Absolutely stunning girl which made it even worse. She was was fantastic about it - and blamed it all on those nasty condoms. Just had to laugh it off! I was very stressed at the time. Has not happened since.

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There is only one reason I have had the same issue and that is alcohol.Silly really but on a few occasions where I may of had a few too many,I have then gone to see a girl and it just doesnt happen.My own fault and Ive always apologised to the girl.Suffice to say I dont wish to repeat those episodes! Alcohol in moderation before a punt is ok and can possibly help but not in excess.On the same note Ive found alcohol can sometimes make me last too long to the point no matter how sexy the wg is or what she does I cant hit the finish line..bizarre and Im not sure why it happens.I never usually booze before or even during a punt (unless offered:) ) but these wrere spur of the moment decisions on a night out

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Alcohol does play a big part in limp ones but also stress and then stressing about it too much. Next punt go along and try to forget that is happened, take a nice relaxing showering and a lesuirely day so you are not too worked up Good luck ;)

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I have never had any problems rising to the occassion when punting until my last punt two weeks ago. She was a touring escort, a looker and I cant fault her performance. She was genuinely concerned, I was embarressed, and I am a bit concerned about my next punt.

I'm just trying to find out how often this happened to other punters.

Only couldnt rise once in my punting life so far.

The girl was young, very pretty, had a good body and was very pleasant - couldnt say anything bad about her at all.

However once we got naked and started I just didnt find her at all sexy ??!

Bizarre really - I wasnt tired, stressed, or at all anxious, in fact I was very horny..........she just didnt 'do it for me' sexually, in any way at all, despite all her positive points - too 'girl next door' type for me I guess.......that, or a lack of 'chemistry' between us.

Several times in the past, though rarely more recently as I'm now more experienced and usually avoid this due to more careful wg selection, I've been aroused at the beginning of a punt and then lost it due to either the girl having a really bad attitude, being very inept technique-wise, or both.

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I'm still dealing with anxiety. It can be very [extremley] frustrating when you are a stallion when flying solo but not when you put a woman in the equation, gorgious or otherwise. The usual "gear" helps but I'm hoping to work through it at a steady pace and get off the gear.

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Does V help against those days when one is over excited (such as too hot a lady!) and finishing too early?

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Does V help against those days when one is over excited (such as too hot a lady!) and finishing too early?

This happens to me both with wg's and civilian girls...too horny the first time around and blow my load v quickly.the 2nd time I can last much longer.Sometimes I try to 'switch off' my emotions of enjoying the experience while having sex with a girl,in order to last a bit longer but where's the fun in that! :blink:

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I did once fail to rise to the occasion. I think it was because I felt too self-conscious. The room had blinds that didn't completely cover the windows and since it was above a busy street and overlooked by other buildings it didn't feel like as private a retreat as I would have liked.

The lady tried a few minutes of oral stimulation and when that failed to deliver she asked me to leave. I can't remember her exact words but it was something like "I'm very good at what I do and I don't want to waste my skills on someone who doesn't appreciate them". She gave me a partial refund. She was very polite about it all and remained friendly as I dressed and made ready to leave; in fact, I think it wasn't until I was out of the door that I appreciated she had effectively thrown me out.

Obviously that is a lady I won't be seeing again but it seems she must have kept my number as a little while ago I got a text from her updating some of her details that she must have sent round to everyone in her contact book.

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The lady tried a few minutes of oral stimulation and when that failed to deliver she asked me to leave. I can't remember her exact words but it was something like "I'm very good at what I do and I don't want to waste my skills on someone who doesn't appreciate them". She gave me a partial refund. She was very polite about it all

hmmmmm not so sure about the polite bit lol It maybe the case that it was impossible to get you going but even then a good wg surely would have some other weapons in her armoury.Asking you to leave because she is the best thing since sliced bread is a bit of a joke!

I do wonder though if some wg's are made nervous when they encounter a nervous/very shy client who is a bit stiff so to speak(not down below though :blink: )

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Happened to me once, a few years ago, when I had young children. The lady wanted to wipe me down with a Johnsons baby wipe but the smell of those baby wipes and the association with changing my son's nappies using them did something in my brain and turned me right off so I couldn't perform.

In a non-WG situation it also happened, I had met a woman when travelling and when she visited the UK some time later I took her to a nice country house hotel for a long weekend together. She was completely wild and it was a shagfest of a weekend but on the final morning of our trip after maybe 8 or 9 pops I simply couldn't manage another erection, despite her best efforts. I saw her a couple of times again after that but the memory of my failure played round and round in my brain and that worry becomes self-fulfilling.

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This happens to me both with wg's and civilian girls...too horny the first time around and blow my load v quickly.the 2nd time I can last much longer.Sometimes I try to 'switch off' my emotions of enjoying the experience while having sex with a girl,in order to last a bit longer but where's the fun in that! :blink:

On a recent punt, I blew it in a BJ in just 10 seconds. I was still hard after cleanup, she tried it again and I only lasted 30 seconds then. Still hard after cleanup, so to avoid disappointment, I asked for a ride instead and I lasted much much longer.

I think I could have lasted much longer though if I hadn't blown it twice in less than 3 minutes. And it seems all the ladies insist on starting with a BJ first.

Which is why I wonder if V would help here. Getting hard hasn't been so much of a problem when punting.

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OK, it's 11pm on a Saturday evening, I've been busy all day and I'm feeling a little mischievous.

Typos are typos, but they can be hilarious.

Anyone remember Tom Sharpe's novel 'The Throwback'? I think that's the one.

The 'hero' attacked his penis with a cheese grater.

The title of this thread reminded me of it - "Ever Filed (sic) to rise to the occasion?".

F*ck me ... if you have to file it you've got a serious problem!

Ignore me - it's late.

Edited by Givethemaninch

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Happened on my very first punt. Not sure why but part way though, it just went into hiding and wasn't going to come out and play. It took over a day before there was life down there again.

Fortunately my second punt went rather better. If not I don't think I would have punted ever again.

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Reading through the posts - everyone admits to failing to rise - just the "once".

"Yes, Officer. It's a fair cop, but it's the first time I have ever done anything like this...."

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Reading through the posts - everyone admits to failing to rise - just the "once".

"Yes, Officer. It's a fair cop, but it's the first time I have ever done anything like this...."

None of us are sex machines, we have good days and bad days. I compare it to running; there are days when my running comes easy and the miles flow by. On other days, due to tiredness, work pressure, anxiety or even biorhythms, no matter how much I want to run, I can't. I don't fall into a pit of depression - I accept that today is not the day, but tomorrow will be.

Same with sex; I've had occassions when I've started well but had to drop out part way through, and even times when I've even failed to trouble the scoroer at all.

Thankfully, I don't get paranoid about it - I enjoy I am able to do on the day, knowing that I will soon be back attempting to break my personal best.

What I'm saying guys is don't let a failure get into your head. It happens to us all at some point.

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Reading through the posts - everyone admits to failing to rise - just the "once".

"Yes, Officer. It's a fair cop, but it's the first time I have ever done anything like this...."

I think you are confusing punting as people's only sex life.

But when it comes to punts, I make damn sure I'm in a state to get it up as £150 isnt cheap for a failure. I can do just that at home with my partner for free (and it has happened more than once).

Keeping it up and hard for a reasonable amount of time is another story though.

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I was always worried about it when I first started punting, but in over 100 punts I was always on duty. As soon as shes naked I'm ready. However with girlfriends it's happened a few times, tired or not in the mood. Puntings exciting however banging the same girl for years on end takes some work.

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it happens every time to me and i dont like it. I feel like I have failed and Im also going to have Sex Therapy about this issue.

I noted some woman say that Im crap in bed just because I cant come. So what do you think? am I crap in bed?

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I have never had any problems rising to the occassion when punting until my last punt two weeks ago. She was a touring escort, a looker and I cant fault her performance. She was genuinely concerned, I was embarressed, and I am a bit concerned about my next punt.

I'm just trying to find out how often this happened to other punters.

Certainly happens to me on occassion, i just go in for some DFK or RO instead. Sometimes my cock wont play ball, such is life.

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happened to me once or twice while punting, never during civvie life though, and it happened over 10 years ago when I first started punting

one wg was English, young, pretty, pleasant, good body, obviously educated

however her HJ and BJ technique did absolutely nothing for me and besides that I found her oddly unsexy, despite her pleasing physical appearance

gave up after about 20 mins

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Yes it happens to us all sooner or later - with girlfriend or WG. I've always managed to get it up with WGs, but sometimes things go south very quickly.

'Chemistry' is important - literally sometimes - for me some women just naturally emit a powerful aphrodisiac and some don't and this may be quite a subliminal effect on occasions.

The sense of smell is much more important than some of us realise.

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