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Bumped Into An Ex-escort At Work - How To Respond?

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About ten years ago I used to visit this escort in Stoke. I haven't been to Stoke in years, but for work last week I visited our company's office there for a meeting.

Low and behold that I saw her in the meeting room, as a financial controller lol.

I don't think she recognised me, but I knew it was her after a while. Of course, I said nothing or brought anything up, but what is the best way to respond to this? I'm usually based in southern England, and don't travel to the Midlands often, so probably I won't see her much.

But how common is it for escorts to have "normal" jobs?

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About ten years ago I used to visit this escort in Stoke. I haven't been to Stoke in years, but for work last week I visited our company's office there for a meeting.

Low and behold that I saw her in the meeting room, as a financial controller lol.

I don't think she recognised me, but I knew it was her after a while. Of course, I said nothing or brought anything up, but what is the best way to respond to this? I'm usually based in southern England, and don't travel to the Midlands often, so probably I won't see her much.

But how common is it for escorts to have "normal" jobs?

You do nothing. You say nothing. You behave as if that was the very first time you set eyes on her.

What alternatives do you imagine there are? Do you seriously contemplate casually sidling up to her and saying "hi [insert former WG name], remember me?"...? Or perhaps casually mentioning to her boss "of course, I knew [insert name] in her last job..."?

Unless she initiates the topic, you leave well alone. I can't believe you had to ask.

Oh, to answer your last question, lots of WGs have "normal" jobs. I could staff a small audit department with the accountants (fully or part qualified) I've met punting.

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You do nothing. You say nothing. You behave as if that was the very first time you set eyes on her.

What alternatives do you imagine there are? Do you seriously contemplate casually sidling up to her and saying "hi [insert former WG name], remember me?"...? Or perhaps casually mentioning to her boss "of course, I knew [insert name] in her last job..."?

Unless she initiates the topic, you leave well alone. I can't believe you had to ask.

Oh, to answer your last question, lots of WGs have "normal" jobs. I could staff a small audit department with the accountants (fully or part qualified) I've met punting.

Couldn't put it any better myself.

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Leave her be. I am sure leaving the industry was hard enough for her and for her to have become what appears to be successful in her chosen field then she must applauded (not publicly of course).

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Leave her be. I am sure leaving the industry was hard enough for her and for her to have become what appears to be successful in her chosen field then she must applauded (not publicly of course).

As above. Don't say anything as it's simply not required nor appropriate, and yes escorts do have 'normal' jobs. Shock Horror. Although a couple of days ago a 'nice' man did tell me to get a 'proper job'(he disagreed with my quote for an outcall to his distant town).

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About ten years ago I used to visit this escort in Stoke. I haven't been to Stoke in years, but for work last week I visited our company's office there for a meeting.

Low and behold that I saw her in the meeting room, as a financial controller lol.

I don't think she recognised me, but I knew it was her after a while. Of course, I said nothing or brought anything up, but what is the best way to respond to this? I'm usually based in southern England, and don't travel to the Midlands often, so probably I won't see her much.

But how common is it for escorts to have "normal" jobs?

Like everyone else has said do absolutely nothing it just wouldn't be fair for her. It is common to have a normal job, I have one.

Shelly

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Like everyone else has said do absolutely nothing it just wouldn't be fair for her. It is common to have a normal job, I have one.

Shelly

Out of the 4 wg friends I have (including myself) 3 of us also have regular jobs. It's not at all uncommon.

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You could use your insider knowledge to black mail her into syphoning off company funds in your direction.

To fuel a life of excess and debauchery.

Sooner or later you may both get found out, loose your jobs and do a bit of time,

so probably better to do as everyone else suggests and keep sch tum..... ;)

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As others have said forget about it.

I presume you have things in your past you wouldn't want to become public knowledge, including your use of prostitutes I assume.

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I’m surprised that no one’s mentioned the vexatious nature of your post – your slipping in of the little clues without appearing to really give the game away. “...... ten years ago I used to visit this escort in Stoke ...... last week I visited our company's office there for a meeting ...... I saw her in the meeting room, as a financial controller lol.” Love the lol by the way – nice touch.

Now, unless you have no moral compass whatsoever you knew full well the answer to your question before you posted and just seem to want to raise a bit of salacious gossip. Suppose the said lady still has a prurient interest in her former profession and lurks on here from time to time. She reads this and immediately recognises herself. What pressure do you now imagine she’ll feel she’s under?

A totally reprehensible post in my opinion!

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As others have said forget about it.

I presume you have things in your past you wouldn't want to become public knowledge, including your use of prostitutes I assume.

Quick question.

Why would you feel the need to say anything? Would have thought most chaps would like to keep their own discretion too, and of course it could be construed as harassment in the workplace.

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I would say the lady seems highly qualified for the position as financial controller - she obviously has excellent people skills, sound

cash management principles, and has grasped the fundamentals of double entry.

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but what is the best way to respond to this?

Tricky one this, needs careful handling IMHO, but if I were you I would do something along the lines of - Wait until there is a reasonable audience present, preferably 6 or more but you would be the best judge of that, and address her thus "Do you know what luv, when you were renting out your crutch in [insert appropriate location here] you gave me the best blowjob and swallow I've ever had, and I'm sorry that I underpaid you once, so here [slap down a nice new crisp £20 note in front of her, making sure it is in plain view of all present of course] is what I owe you".

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Tricky one this, needs careful handling IMHO, but if I were you I would do something along the lines of - Wait until there is a reasonable audience present, preferably 6 or more but you would be the best judge of that, and address her thus "Do you know what luv, when you were renting out your crutch in [insert appropriate location here] you gave me the best blowjob and swallow I've ever had, and I'm sorry that I underpaid you once, so here [slap down a nice new crisp £20 note in front of her, making sure it is in plain view of all present of course] is what I owe you".

I'd be really pissed off if I managed to get away with underpaying an escort over 10 years ago and she turned up at work. What's the chances of that? Sod's law that she'll recognise you and ask for the £20. I'd be looking for a new job pronto before she gets the chance.

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Quick question.

Why would you feel the need to say anything? Would have thought most chaps would like to keep their own discretion too, and of course it could be construed as harassment in the workplace.

Absolutely, there's been threads on here before about WG's/Punters seeing each other in public, ignoring each other and carrying on with their day to day business. There's no difference in this case, and after giving this some thought I'm a bit surprised the OP has raised the topic.

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I think the advice to ignore is sound. But worth airing so those new to these boards know the etiquette,

May be worth checking she is no longer active if you intend to punt during your stoke visits cos meeting her in a parlour may be harder to deny.

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I wonder if she recognised you, but was polite enough to play it cool?

Or do all punters look the same? ;)

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If you cant make don't destroy, say nothing to her and no one.

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I wonder if she recognised you, but was polite enough to play it cool?

Or do all punters look the same? ;)

The more I think about this posting, the more unlikely it seems to me that she will even remember you.

In her career as a prossy, she's likely to have have shagged so many more punters than you have shagged WG's, and I don't think that WG's savour and relive their work encounters with punters for the purposes of masturbation like punters do. So therefore I think she forgot you within half an hour of meeting you, when she was sucking off the next client she had.

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You should let it go, what the girl did or didn't do in her past life is nothing to do with you, respect the fact that she did what she did and has now stopped, she had her reasons.

Don't forget, it may not even be her,ever considered you might be wrong?

Best advise is to LET IT GO.

If it really is her, give her a break!!

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"Of course, I said nothing or brought anything up, but what is the best way to respond to this"

think you knew the answer to this one before you asked.

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There's some very good advice in this thread about letting sleeping dogs lie....

How would YOU feel if the roles were reversed and you were recognised by a WG who remembered you as a habitual punter? It's horrible having something back to haunt you.

Not an nice situation. I would think most people who post on this board - both sexes - have done or are still doing things they regret now or may regret at some future point, but at the time the situation they were in warranted it.

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Say nothing...act like you have never met her before.

What if it was the other way around?

You are out having dinner with your wife and/or family. A WG who you used see regularly spots you across the restaurant. Would you want her to come over to your table and introduce herself?

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Who's to say she isn't still a WG? Regardless, you shouldn't mention it and I don't know why you'd even contemplate mentioning it. I'm sure there'd be a large amount of people in your company who'd look down upon you for using WG's so even for selfish reasons it'd be better off not mentioning it.

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