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Punters, Do You Love Your Secret?

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One of the things I love about punting is the secret. Although I am often just bursting to talk about my wonderful experience with WG's, I know the only person I'm ever going to discuss it with is the girl herself. I am a respectable husband, father and grandfather; a pillar of society. Those who know me would be horrified I'm sure if they knew of my hobby, and this just adds to the pleasure of my delicious secret. Do other punters feel this way?

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Do other punters feel this way?

Oh yes ! The secrecy and whole cloak and dagger aspect of the "hobby" really adds to the fun of it.

Thank god for punternet though, otherwise I'd burst through needing to talk about some of my experiences (good and bad).

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Ithought one of the points about PN was we shared it on here! This makes it much more enjoyable for me.

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I suppose that's half the fun,I have a good job,I go with WGs, I have a girlfriend and I also shag a married woman from work.

After years of normal living nothing exciting happening,I went with my first WG,felt slightly guilty I must admit, then went with another and enjoyed it and the secret of what I'd been up to.

Then I just started with the woman at work, we'd go to hotels,fuck in the forest even!

All in all I prefer the WGs as I tend to go with East European girls ,mainly because I don't like a lot of conversation when I'm with them,that's not to say that I haven't had a few laughs with some of them but, I just sometimes like the silence!

I don't inwardly gloat about it when I'm with my real girlfriend and even though it sounds silly to say it, I love my girlfriend enormously and always will,it's nothing against her, I think it's the forbidden side of things,It's forbidden to cheat,have anal sex or do unusual or dirty things regarding sex but, that's half the kick, sleeping with a prostitute,having anal sex with her,cumming in her mouth etc....

I love anal fo rinstance but,I've never done it with my girlfriend so,I can do it with prostitutes and I've done it to the woman at work, I suppose yes,I lov emy dirty little secret!

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No - I would much prefer to be able to discuss it like car tyres, beer and telly, much like anything else - not here obviously.

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Ithought one of the points about PN was we shared it on here! This makes it much more enjoyable for me.

I'd prefer it if we lived in a society where such things could be talked about freely.

The reality is clearly different, however I dont feel any particular pressure or stress about keeping this side of my life to myself.

Nobody in my life could ever even imagine I do this, which for me is mildly amusing, particularly when imagining the looks on certain members of family's face if they ever did find out - still pretty sure theyd have an incredibly hard time believing it, unless they were presented with cctv evidence to back it up !

Perhaps the illicit thrill aspect arises for people who view sex as something 'a bit naughty', which I never have done, so I dont get this kind of 'thrill' from the secretive aspects of punting, I just really enjoy punting in a sensualist sense, and the 'newness' of experience with previously 'undiscovered' (well, by me at least) women.

I have to add that I love this site and forum which is a fantastic arena within which to share thoughts, ideas, information and accounts of our experiences in the punting world, without which I'm sure most of us here would be keeping a lot of this sometimes fascinating and often hilarious material 'all bottled up'. !!

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Definitely not.

One of the reasons Punternet is so successful is that we are all dying to tell others, especially other men, about our exploits, and it gives us a safe way to do so. Galahad has found a way to make money out of this basic masculine instinct -- he's a stone fuckin' genius and I wish I had thought of it.

No, to me the secrecy is a huge pain in the ass.

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I wonder how many of us (girels and punters) would still do it if socially acceptable. i.e we like the slightly clandestine world we live in?

I sometimes wonder if the thrill of the taboo is part of the atraction.

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The secrecy doesn't really do much for me, in fact I'd rather I could talk about it with people. I know people who have boasted about punting, and they weren't particularly nice people, which put me off discussing it with them and I'd rather not spill the details to my friends in case they think I'm sad or perverted or whatever. As a young guy, the general attitude would be 'Well why not just go out and pull?' and I'd rather not hear that.

On the other hand, I'd love for them to know the sexual experiences I've had though. As the majority of my sexual life has been spent with WG's, my friends think I'm really inexperienced when it comes to sex and when they're discussing sex I really want to join in and discuss the kind of things I've done and the different women I've slept with. For example, my best friend has slept with about four different girls and talks to me about sex as if I've no idea what it's like, but I've punted with 14 very different girls over the past couple of years so I know a lot more than he thinks.

I enjoy virtually every aspect of punting, the planned ones and the spontaneous ones. I love the thrill of picking a girl, getting in touch, organising things and heading off in the car to find her place or the sauna I'm going to. Heading into the sauna, anxiously anticipating what girls are going to be on and what they look like, picking one and hoping she's as good as she looks and then the actual meeting itself. It's all amazing and I'd love to be able to share that with someone but sadly there's no-one in my life I feel I can discuss it with, other than anonymous people on forums like this one, who most likely don't read my longwinded, rambling posts!

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I once asked a girl, how many people knew she did this, her reply was how many people knew I did this. The answer for both of us was 2. I am single, and my relatives would be surprised if I didnt visit wgs, but I am not open about it. I would prefer if it was all in the open. Mind you,I feel superior to those who dont punt. My life is the richer for it, plus I have done the stagerring home in the rain with a stranger, I am not knocking that either, lifes rich tapestry etc.

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For me the secrecy protects my rep with family and friends but I dont get a kick out of it as such. Being a young guy some of my friends would probably question why I do this when I could just meet a civilian girl and of course I would be judged etc They look down on the use of wg's as being morally wrong blah blah.

More importantly my family are fairly conservative , this is not the sort of thing they would accept lightly lol

However I have maybe 2 or 3 close friends my age who also see wg's...its just one of them things we do and can talk about in the same way you would talk about anything else.

I see wg's simply because I enjoy the sexual nature of the experience and in some cases the GFE side can be great depending on the girl in question, thats it.

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I've had the pleasure of meeting and dining with some other punters on this Board. These opportunities are rather special as one can freely discuss one's own issues without being embarrased.

In a sense therefore I do love my secret - perhaps that should be secrets.

Uncle Pokey

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I would say yes, I do like the secret!

It amuses me when friends and work mates read FHM and the like and get excited about pictures of girls. I quite often think to myself, that I had sex with a better looking girl that week and just smile. They can go for a wank over there mag (not that there's anything wrong with that),but I'll go and see a hot WG :D

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It's not so much the secrecy, it's more the chance to escape reality for a couple of hours...

Having jumped back into the scene recently, I'd forgotten how much I enjoyed just 'switching off real life' for a time, behind closed doors, I could forget work, forget what colour I'm painting the living room, forget what I need to buy my g/f for her birthday, just totally tune out of life.

I reported on my recent encounter, I mentioned that once through the door it could have been day, night, up, down or just about any time in the world, reality was left behind and it's great to just dump that for a while before hopping back into reality, sure it costs a few quid , but what price escapism?

I've shared what I do with a close male friend, he loves the thought of doing something similar himself, sadly he lacks the stones and fears his wife will cut off his soft and danglies, but he doesn't think it's a bad thing, he just wishes he had the opportunity, I keep telling him one day I'll get him a birthday gift he won't forget :)

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I love the thrill of secrecy. That is the part of the fun..

We only live once.. live the way we wanted to be ..

I don't want to live my life for other people's opinions

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It's nobody elses business except mine and if my sex life is of major interest to others I feel very sorry for them. I'm not meeting women with horns or pointed tails and if anything I feel far more secretive about aspects of my employ rather than my sex life.

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I would say yes, I do like the secret!

It amuses me when friends and work mates read FHM and the like and get excited about pictures of girls. I quite often think to myself, that I had sex with a better looking girl that week and just smile. They can go for a wank over there mag (not that there's anything wrong with that),but I'll go and see a hot WG :D

Spot on, Kid A, I have friends that spend vast amounts of time, effort and money trawling bars and night clubs to get laid. They sometimes get lucky but normally end up with the desperate ones or those too drunk to know or care what's happening to them. I keep my secret to myself, punting is far more cost effective in the long run !

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I wish I could talk about it like any other hobby. If it were not for all the ignorant negativity about it. It would make a much more intresting conversation about what you did last weekend. I know there are a lot of men that are curious about the scene and I'd be happy to give some advice if I could. Also there are many funny stories of stuff that's happened during punting I can't share. It's a secret worth keeping though.

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Spot on, Kid A, I have friends that spend vast amounts of time, effort and money trawling bars and night clubs to get laid. They sometimes get lucky but normally end up with the desperate ones or those too drunk to know or care what's happening to them. I keep my secret to myself, punting is far more cost effective in the long run !

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I agree punting is very cost effective and more safe than one night stands ;) also atleast you know you will get a result at the end :D

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A former work colleague told me about his fantastic night out at a lap dancing club.Spent £120!!!!.I asked if he got a shag at the end of it.."Oh no...but I had a few private dances,and they kissed me on the cheek` :blink:

If only I could have had the nerve to tell him a few days earlier I had two punts with two different girls and had 4 loads swallowed for less :D

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A former work colleague told me about his fantastic night out at a lap dancing club.Spent £120!!!!.I asked if he got a shag at the end of it.."Oh no...but I had a few private dances,and they kissed me on the cheek` :blink:

If only I could have had the nerve to tell him a few days earlier I had two punts with two different girls and had 4 loads swallowed for less :D

Strip Clubs, terrible value for money. :D

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The secrecy is powerful. I wish i could talk about it to friends but it is better they remain oblivious. The more erotic thing i find is from meeting so many ladies who don't do punting exclusively and have other jobs is how many women are secretly escorting.

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When I started this hobby I had a pal that I used to go on punting weekends with. That was great, we'd book into a hotel and try to pick up a couple of girls; sometimes we'd get lucky, other times we'd be lazy, or unlucky, and have to order company from an agency. But it stopped when he gave up punting. We are still mates but at the moment he has no plans to resume the hobby, so I don't talk about it.

I would like to be able to tell someone about the wonderful sexy women I spend time with. It would be good to have another pal to take on punting weekends, but I have to be discreet because most of my friends are my wife's friends as well. So I have loads of fun on my "business trips" but the only person who knows about them is me B)

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Grinning at all of that.

I was accused of being too much "cloak n dagger" at some points.

But then agencies quit, and girls move around. And some of our key agreements (codewords in mails and messages) came in right handy to re-establish contact with some regulars. Mainly to establish the fact that the other side of the comms (mail, txt) realy is (or represents) who they claim to be.

Codewords are easy things to remember, and are agree upon only person-t0-person with regulars that I really want to meet again.

It serves both sides to really ensure we are who we claim to be, whether MSN, mail or text.

Funny cases where someone hijacked a mail or phone, or a kid enters MSN, or a lady needed to swicht agency or mailproviders.

No matching codeword in reply means no more contact.

It happned on at least one suspicious occasion that the codeword was missing. nuf said.

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Spot on, Kid A, I have friends that spend vast amounts of time, effort and money trawling bars and night clubs to get laid. They sometimes get lucky but normally end up with the desperate ones or those too drunk to know or care what's happening to them. I keep my secret to myself, punting is far more cost effective in the long run !

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I keep it a secret but like you don't like the alternative that you describe, which I know many men have, and I'm sure it does cost less and avoids emotion and heartbreak. There are many reasons why I will always keep it secret, the main one being the hurt it would cause family if they knew, especially as one of my family is a vicar.

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