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Time Wasters On The Other Site

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In the last few months I have sent emails to girls on you know where.On each occasion I have supplied my phone number(not my home number/mobile number obviously but my `punting` phone number).

So far i`ve had one automated reply saying she`s on holiday(why join the site and then go on holiday?)

Another asking me to contact via a different email address....which I did and they want me to join their site via credit card..no fucking chance.Now getting daily spam emails from them..they don`t seem to understand the word`unsubscribe` :angry:

And another who emails me at say 8.50 pm saying she`s available at 9.00pm..what`s the point when she hasn`t given me a number or address?

The rest just haven`t bothered replying.

Why do they bother?

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Why do they bother?

At a guess you're contacting a fair number of the more recent profiles with ladies with little or no feedback? A fair number of those are private gallery sellers, or sometimes... at least I suspect... guys putting on a profile for "fun".

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In the last few months I have sent emails to girls on you know where.On each occasion I have supplied my phone number(not my home number/mobile number obviously but my `punting` phone number).

So far i`ve had one automated reply saying she`s on holiday(why join the site and then go on holiday?)

Another asking me to contact via a different email address....which I did and they want me to join their site via credit card..no fucking chance.Now getting daily spam emails from them..they don`t seem to understand the word`unsubscribe` :angry:

And another who emails me at say 8.50 pm saying she`s available at 9.00pm..what`s the point when she hasn`t given me a number or address?

The rest just haven`t bothered replying.

Why do they bother?

Mate why do you bother??????????

There are over 80000 service providers on there yet you want to come on here winging about a few that haven't replied. Get over it and move on. I could understand if there were only 2 girls on there and non had replied but come on, a dripping tap is more annoying.

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Mate why do you bother??????????

There are over 80000 service providers on there yet you want to come on here winging about a few that haven't replied. Get over it and move on. I could understand if there were only 2 girls on there and non had replied but come on, a dripping tap is more annoying.

Of 20 emails sent,I haven`t had one `proper` reply.Not very good is it....oh,the word you are looking for is `WHINGING/WHINGEING` by the way

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oh,the word you are looking for is `WHINGING/WHINGEING` by the way

And you wondering why no one replies :rolleyes:

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Look for girls that have several feedbacks, at least. Also, if they have a mobile number displaid, they are paying for the privalidge...another sign that they are genuine. It also helps if you, as a punter have feedback, it helps to show that you are genuine too, and you are more likely to get a reply!

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It's not exactly difficult to find someone from the other site really is it....

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It's not exactly difficult to find someone from the other site really is it....

You might have to spell it out :lol: :lol:

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It's not exactly difficult to find someone from the other site really is it....

No...if they have a phone number displayed.

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No...if they have a phone number displayed.

This is risking looking like you are getting ganged up on, having said that I have managed many a punt through ** I would say I have had a 90-95 % success rate, yes there is the odd one that does not reply or just talks bollocks but you just move on to the next one until you get a hit.

Just have a bit of patience.

The above is null and void if you are e-mailing them things like

"Alright darlin how much to fling me man muck up ya tomorrow at 12:00?" :P

Edited by Lincslad

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The above is null and void if you are e-mailing them things like

"Alright darlin how much to fling me man muck up ya tomorrow at 12:00?" :P

On the contrary,all I ask for are contact details,which seems reasonable doesn`t it?

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What town/cities are you searching in?

I want to see this problem area for myself! All I know is that, Where I look, the genuine girls, of which there are many, are obvious to spot!

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... but come on, a dripping tap is more annoying.

Me, I just love watching paint dry...

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To an extent I can sympathize. I am going to a new town next month and yesterday spent about 3 hours looking for real, available and contactable ladies.

I used my usual search criteria, female, incall, escort, owo, cim, 15 mins quickie, within 15 miles of the new postcode.

This gave me 30 or so hits. I then e-mailed 10 of the most attractive (to me) via the site introducing myself, asking the SP if they could text me on my mobile number and I would ring them back.

I have received no replies by text and of the 10 e-mails, 7 remain unread, 1 reply was automatic and 1 was deleted with no reply. 1 reply did contain a telephone number but it did not work.

I rang 5 or 6 other SPs who display numbers, most went straight onto answer machine where I left my details, but have not yet received one reply.

The two SPs I did get through to both said that they didn't do 15 min quickies, despite saying that they did.

End result? Only one possible contact made after hours of ringing and searching the net.

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I'm surprised no one has mentioned the fact that you are expecting these ladies to 'call you!'. If I get a message that gives me the persons phone number then I'm afraid I will not ring it, as that costs me money and my work phone relies on £10 a month to allow me use of taking calls and endless texts. As soon as I start calling people I am in jeopardy of running out of credits and then bringing my expenses up.

You would be better off (when contacting ladies without a number), to tell them you are interested in booking and asking them to give you their number. That way you can ring them. If they don't answer then you also have the added security of not having banded your number about.

I think some of the other guys have given you wise advice too. If you are going for the new girls, please remember they will be getting bombarded by chancers who want to take advantage of their vunerability. When I first joined I had a zillion offers of romance, being someones nanny lol and generally men taking the p*** out of the fact I was not savvy yet. She may just look at your number and feel deflated, as you might just want to get your rocks off when she calls you.

Don't be dishearted, just do more research. 1. Feedback, 2. Pictures consistant 3. phone number on profile 4. Well thought out profile.

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Hi Kate!

I actually said to text me, but I take your point, its not free. I also offered to ring them back when it was OK to do so.

I did this because I won't have internet access where I am going, so won't be able to pick up any messages, I don't usually do it.

'Don't be dishearted, just do more research. 1. Feedback, 2. Pictures consistant 3. phone number on profile 4. Well thought out profile.'

1. I do look at this 2. Again, yes. 3. Definately and 4. Especially if it is well laid out, spelt correctly, is consistent with the likes list and says something like 'ring me so that we can chat first and get to know each other'.

Hope this helps?

Steve

Are you home yet or still on tour?

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I'm surprised no one has mentioned the fact that you are expecting these ladies to 'call you!'.

Actually,I`m not expecting them to call me,in the emails I send I ask them to email their number to me which costs nothing,other than a few seconds of their time,so I can call them .

As the majority of advertisers don`t provide phone numbers on their profiles (probably less than a third do)how else do you contact them?

Obviously if a number is provided on the profile and I `like` the look of the girl I`ll call her.

Hopefully that answers those who tell me "It's not exactly difficult to find someone from the other site really is it" :rolleyes:

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Hopefully that answers those who tell me "It's not exactly difficult to find someone from the other site really is it" :rolleyes:

No, It doesn't answer the question, really! What would, is if you'd tell us whereabouts in the country you are searching, I want to see what you are "playing" with!

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No, It doesn't answer the question, really! What would, is if you'd tell us whereabouts in the country you are searching, I want to see what you are "playing" with!

Does it matter whereabouts in the country I am?

I`m referring to this sort of thing..see below

To an extent I can sympathize. I am going to a new town next month and yesterday spent about 3 hours looking for real, available and contactable ladies.

I used my usual search criteria, female, incall, escort, owo, cim, 15 mins quickie, within 15 miles of the new postcode.

This gave me 30 or so hits. I then e-mailed 10 of the most attractive (to me) via the site introducing myself, asking the SP if they could text me on my mobile number and I would ring them back.

I have received no replies by text and of the 10 e-mails, 7 remain unread, 1 reply was automatic and 1 was deleted with no reply. 1 reply did contain a telephone number but it did not work.

I rang 5 or 6 other SPs who display numbers, most went straight onto answer machine where I left my details, but have not yet received one reply.

The two SPs I did get through to both said that they didn't do 15 min quickies, despite saying that they did.

End result? Only one possible contact made after hours of ringing and searching the net.

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Does it matter whereabouts in the country I am?

YES!

If you have a wide choice of girls, then we may be able to give you some more help, regarding how to spot the genuine ones. I punt in Norwich and Ispwich, if I needed help, I'd post this so people could see what I had on offer. It would be useful if you did the same!

As it stands, you whinging has a bit of a smell of BS to it....

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Another asking me to contact via a different email address....which I did and they want me to join their site via credit card..no fucking chance.Now getting daily spam emails from them..they don`t seem to understand the word`unsubscribe` :angry:

The `unsubscribe` actually indicates to them that the email is genuine and checked regularly. One for them to sell on to other 'organizations'.

As a matter of interest if you contacted them using Hotmail the scammer would have a good idea of where the computer is geographically that you sent the email from.

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What town/cities are you searching in?

I want to see this problem area for myself! All I know is that, Where I look, the genuine girls, of which there are many, are obvious to spot!

That's not strictly true: it's easy to confidently pick out some girls who are genuine, but it's not easy to spot all of the genuine girls. That is, I would think there must be many genuine girls who any given punter will filter out with his personal criteria for avoiding the fake profiles.

I for one I'm pretty sure I've hit the jackpot on that site more than a few times with girls about whom lots of guys think "she's obviously too good to be true". I don't mean that I think they're some kind of personal secret, just that they were great and that I also strongly suspect they're not doing as well as they should because they will set off a lot of guys' "fake" alarm.

That makes me wonder who I've missed out on. Like many I all but gave up on girls who don't display a number some time ago since the hit rate is so poor. But I wonder what I might have been missing by doing that, and I bet there are "tells" on some of those that I miss.

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YES!

If you have a wide choice of girls, then we may be able to give you some more help, regarding how to spot the genuine ones. I punt in Norwich and Ispwich, if I needed help, I'd post this so people could see what I had on offer. It would be useful if you did the same!

As it stands, you whinging has a bit of a smell of BS to it....

Why is it BS?

Having a `wide choice of girls` is immaterial if you want to see someone specific.

If the only way to contact them is via email,and they don`t reply,well pardon me for whinging.

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Why is it BS?

If you had a genuine gripe, you'd tell us where you punt.

Or even name and shame the timewasters.

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In the last few months I have sent emails to girls on you know where.On each occasion I have supplied my phone number(not my home number/mobile number obviously but my `punting` phone number).

So far i`ve had one automated reply saying she`s on holiday(why join the site and then go on holiday?)

Another asking me to contact via a different email address....which I did and they want me to join their site via credit card..no fucking chance.Now getting daily spam emails from them..they don`t seem to understand the word`unsubscribe` :angry:

And another who emails me at say 8.50 pm saying she`s available at 9.00pm..what`s the point when she hasn`t given me a number or address?

The rest just haven`t bothered replying.

Why do they bother?

Loads of time wasters there but rather easy to spot most of them.

Had a fantastic punt just a couple of days ago with a girl who advertises there. I was gubsmacked at how stunning she was and as for her attitude, well nothing seemed any trouble. Don't ask me who, I am keeping this one quiet.

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