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Extras Protocol?

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There's another thread currently active that got me wondering.

I can never decide what is the most effective/efficient way of discussing extras with a customer. Having mainly been parlour based, I haven't always been able to have a discussion with the customer prior to meeting them.

What is worse? Having all intimacy interupted for a moment to discuss the extra charges? Being presented with a long (and intimidating list) of services + charges upon arrival? Or being told at the end of the service that the fee is more than you initially expected?

It feels too clinical to have that kind of discussion, when you are trying to offer a natural GFE. Opinions?

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Up front give the man a printed list of extras on offer together with cost.

I can then point to what I would like, hand over the cash and ENJOY

Thats the way I prefer to do business.

It avoids the embassesment of me asking for something the wg doesn't do

Also everything is clear to both parties

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I would think if you are going to charge for extra's its best to let them know up front. Or you could set your price so you dont have to charge for extra's it saves a lot of hassle and the guys know what to expect.

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There's another thread currently active that got me wondering.

I can never decide what is the most effective/efficient way of discussing extras with a customer. Having mainly been parlour based, I haven't always been able to have a discussion with the customer prior to meeting them.

What is worse? Having all intimacy interupted for a moment to discuss the extra charges? Being presented with a long (and intimidating list) of services + charges upon arrival? Or being told at the end of the service that the fee is more than you initially expected?

It feels too clinical to have that kind of discussion, when you are trying to offer a natural GFE. Opinions?

forget extras. they are outmoded concept in this day and age. Set your prices at a decent level that are all in. charge extra for extreme stuff like anal and watersports. but kissing, owo(if you do it) ro etc should be in the main fee.

If i see a menu of extras on a website or adultwank page i dont bother with that lady. sorry.

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forget extras. they are outmoded concept in this day and age. Set your prices at a decent level that are all in. charge extra for extreme stuff like anal and watersports. but kissing, owo(if you do it) ro etc should be in the main fee.

If i see a menu of extras on a website or adultwank page i dont bother with that lady. sorry.

I agree. I can see why they have extras in a parlour but if you are an independent escort it should be a set fee. One independent escort I recently filmed in Leeds even included anal in her hourly fee, but she did have a liking for anal sex.

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I agree an indie should be all in, possible extras anal and watersports. So if you normally charge extra for OWO and CIM for example just add it to your upfront fee.

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When I have worked independantly, I have never added an additional charge for an extra service advertised. When I first started escorting, I was told that the extra's policy was the main difference from parlour work, and I've always hung on to that advice.

However, as I stated in the OP, its different in a parlour. To me, the protocol varies with every customer, as you have to find the appropriate time/manner to bring it up. I just wondered how guys felt about it all?

What's been your best/worst 'extras' experience?

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Well, Carmen, I suggest you get yourself a website and on it you can list what you will and (more importantly) will not do with a client. So much easier, I find, when 'shopping around'. I find it makes it easier to contact the WG also if her email address is on the website.

Personally, I prefer that the charge is all-in. No hidden extras.

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not sure about the posts here that say parlours charge extras. I can think of some in MK, london and brum that dont, except for anal.

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For me it's simple.

If the girl charges extras, I find another girl.

I've seen £10 for kissing, £20 for owo, £30 for cim and £50 for anal, all as individual services which could, if you were daft enough to pay, add £110 to the cost of a punt.

The sooner punters avoid ladies like this, the sooner the message will sink in and an all inclusive price prevail.

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For me it's simple.

If the girl charges extras, I find another girl.

I've seen £10 for kissing, £20 for owo, £30 for cim and £50 for anal, all as individual services which could, if you were daft enough to pay, add £110 to the cost of a punt.

The sooner punters avoid ladies like this, the sooner the message will sink in and an all inclusive price prevail.

mebbe there should be a section in the FR reports to say if extras were charged and for what...

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If you want to charge for extras then for me the best way would be to smile whilst describing them and offer them as if you really wanted to deliver them, not as if you were reciting a list of pizza toppings. Then you only get what you want (for any given punter) and the punter may actually be persuaded to pay for more than he'd initially intended.

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forget extras. they are outmoded concept in this day and age. Set your prices at a decent level that are all in. charge extra for extreme stuff like anal and watersports. but kissing, owo(if you do it) ro etc should be in the main fee.

If i see a menu of extras on a website or adultwank page i dont bother with that lady. sorry.

I agree here totally.x

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not sure about the posts here that say parlours charge extras. I can think of some in MK, london and brum that dont, except for anal.

Exactly, Madam beckys charges NO extra's other than for Alevel. If the lady provides it, its in with the basic price,no messing around.x

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I've never worked out whether extras should be charged by the hour or once for the whole punt. For instance, if you spend 3 hours with a girl, want anal in each of those hours and she charges £100 per hour and £50 extra for anal, are you paying £150 per hour (£450 for 3 hours) or £150 for the first hour and then £100 per hour thereafter (£350 for 3 hours).

I've emailed a few girls who charge extras and the response on how they charge extras varies i.e. some say pay once others say pay by the hour. Needless to say, so far I have not been to see any ladies who charge extras and don't think I will be doing so.

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I've never worked out whether extras should be charged by the hour or once for the whole punt. For instance, if you spend 3 hours with a girl, want anal in each of those hours and she charges £100 per hour and £50 extra for anal, are you paying £150 per hour (£450 for 3 hours) or £150 for the first hour and then £100 per hour thereafter (£350 for 3 hours).

I don't think that Wg who accepts 3 hours booking, going to calculate how many times during 3 hours you going to do insertion in her bum, at certain intervals of the booking hours and charge accordingly?

I am very surprised you even got a replies to your query about it. Is it just me, or some posts on this forum getting sillier and sillier?

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I don't think that Wg who accepts 3 hours booking, going to calculate how many times during 3 hours you going to do insertion in her bum, at certain intervals of the booking hours and charge accordingly?

I am very surprised you even got a replies to your query about it. Is it just me, or some posts on this forum getting sillier and sillier?

Of course it’s not silly Xenia. If a lady charges £150 for the first hour with, say £60 extra for anal and then charges £100 for the next hour, then if you wait til the second hour before ‘inserting in her bum’ as you say then you only pay £40 extra. Simple innit?

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Of course it’s not silly Xenia. If a lady charges £150 for the first hour with, say £60 extra for anal and then charges £100 for the next hour, then if you wait til the second hour before ‘inserting in her bum’ as you say then you only pay £40 extra. Simple innit?

LOL: Don't start me on it. Guys who count how many "analisation" they can have during the time they pay for, don't book for 3 hours or longer. (considereing that 2-3 hours rates its usually vastly reduced in comparassion of payment for every hour).

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LOL: Don't start me on it. Guys who count how many "analisation" they can have during the time they pay for, don't book for 3 hours or longer. (considereing that 2-3 hours rates its usually vastly reduced in comparassion of payment for every hour).

Analisation - love it! You have such a way with words Xenia!!!

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not sure about the posts here that say parlours charge extras. I can think of some in MK, london and brum that dont, except for anal.

True, but up In the Manc parlours the extras are wider, I saw Savannah once at The Wonder Lounge, did a half hour, It was shock and awe, she was a real pro, did some things to my body that I was not prepared for, put me up her bum without asking me, and finally made sure I shot In her mouth. And then getting dressed she asked me how much I would pay. :o

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Excuse my ignorance (I've rarely punted in parlours over the years) but why is there generally a distinction between indies being typically all in and parlours having more of a menu pricing system?

WGs (usually indies) often have that disclaimer about "you are paying for my time/companionship, anything else that happens between us is purely as consenting adults", so it doesn't make sense to me but I'm obviously missing something?!? :unsure:

The menu system puts me right off. I think the only time I've paid extra in a parlour was for fisting which seemed fair enough. At the very least, if the lady makes it clear up front on her site what are the extras and costs, you can compare across service providers.

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Excuse my ignorance (I've rarely punted in parlours over the years) but why is there generally a distinction between indies being typically all in and parlours having more of a menu pricing system?

pvcman,

There isn’t a distinction between indies (all-in) and parlours (menu system), there is only a distinction between good parlours and bad. Good parlours have an all-in service, whereas some old style brothels will try to fleece the punter once he is in the room. I’ve had girls halt the action mid-stream to start bargaining for more money. Is there a quicker way to ruin the mood and ensure a punter will never return? It's diabolical!

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Of course it’s not silly Xenia. If a lady charges £150 for the first hour with, say £60 extra for anal and then charges £100 for the next hour, then if you wait til the second hour before ‘inserting in her bum’ as you say then you only pay £40 extra. Simple innit?

If she charges £150/hr plus another £50 for "analisation" and you have booked her for three hours, if she charged you £450 + £150 you would be getting a bum deal. :)

However, if she charged £150 for the first hour, and £100 per hour after the first hour, then maybe you could negotiate a discount for "analisation" during the second hour only.

If she did charge £50 for each back door visit, she might also charge per inch. ;)

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There isn’t a distinction between indies (all-in) and parlours (menu system), there is only a distinction between good parlours and bad. Good parlours have an all-in service, whereas some old style brothels will try to fleece the punter once he is in the room.

Its got to be said that I'm a little insulted by this comment. Firstly, I have worked at what I believe to be two of the best parlours in the country, both of which incorporated an extras policy. Secondly, rates are notably different in the north and south, hence why it would seem that extra charges are more common in the north. In essence, an extras policy can actually save the punter money. A customer that prefers a basic GFE experience, would probably not be inclined to partake in CIM and A-Levels, and so why should he pay an all-in fee for services that he does not desire?

I'd also like to stress that my OP was not a personal request for advice, as I have not been working for the past 12months. I was simply commenting on a subject that customers frequently complain about in reports, and wondered if there is fool-proof way to please everybody, when an extras policy IS incorporated.

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I'd also like to stress that my OP was not a personal request for advice, as I have not been working for the past 12months.

Don't I know it Carmen, with you sat firmly at the top of my to-see list for much longer than that period ;). God loves a trier though :) .

As far as menus go, I dislike them. I am fine with specialized services being extra and when they are, I like it to be clear on the website beforehand and for the lady/maid to get all of the negotiation out of the way before the punt starts. Charging extra for things I regard as basics e.g kissing and OWO puts me right off.

Last year, I had a yen to revisit my first ever wg, who by this time was working at Temptations which mentioned nothing about extras on it's website. I duly booked and turned up with the expected £150 fee in my pocket for an hour of fun. When I met the lady again, she asked what services I required and I brightly answered CIM, only to be told that this would cost £190 !!!! Spotting my nonplussed face, the girl quickly added that I could have the same service for 30 mins for "only" £100. As I didn't have enough on me for the full hour, I grudgingly went for the 30 mins, which somewhat took the shine off of the encounter for me.

To this date, I have no idea what algorithm Temptations used to calculate the fees I was quoted. I've never been "tempted" to revisit though.

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