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My First Punt - Guys, Are These Feelings Normal?

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I've been lurking here for a few months and finally plucked up the courage to go for my first punt. I was nervous as hell but I ended up spending a very enjoyable hour with one of the ladies who posts on here.

Now here's the thing, I've been married for 16 years and love my wife, and apart from our differences in the bedroom department we have a great relationship. So, in the time leading up to the punt I was expecting to feel some guilt or regret afterwards, but quite the opposite happened, I didn't have any of these feelings. In fact, walking back to the car I found myself thinking about my next punt. So is this normal or am I just a heartless bastard?

How did you guys feel after your first time?

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You are a heartless bastard

welcome to the club!

remember, what the eye doesn't see the heart doesn't grieve over.

Edited by Coventrypunter

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Firecrest, you are not a heartless bastard necessarily.

I think your reaction is just the same as my own having crossed the Rubicon so to speak. The only difference is it took me 28 years to reach the position you have found yourself in.

My advice is to just be extremely discrete with your punting, choose your ladies with care, treat them well, don't pay more than around £130 PH but basically ENJOY

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If you love your wife, clearly you are not heartless.

If it makes you feel any better, go ahead and accuse your cock of being a right bastard. But it's not going to take a blind bit of notice anyway, is it?

If you were really hoping to feel guilty, never mind, you'll get over that.

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Hi

I've been lurking here for a few months and finally plucked up the courage to go for my first punt. I was nervous as hell but I ended up spending a very enjoyable hour with one of the ladies who posts on here.

Now here's the thing, I've been married for 16 years and love my wife, and apart from our differences in the bedroom department we have a great relationship. So, in the time leading up to the punt I was expecting to feel some guilt or regret afterwards, but quite the opposite happened, I didn't have any of these feelings. In fact, walking back to the car I found myself thinking about my next punt. So is this normal or am I just a heartless bastard?

How did you guys feel after your first time?

just as you did - curiosity sated, sexually satisfied and looking forward to the next punt with a complete absence of guilt - which has always been the case since (except for the bad punts and then its only a case of 'guilt' as in regretting wasted money that could have been better spent - on my gf/myself/a better punt)

Edited by BillGoldberg

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Firecrest, You are buying sex not love,you like to have sex with girls,sometimes you like to re-live your youth,you like to do things you either wish you had done when you were younger or you didn't want to do these things with your lovely gilrfriend/wife so,with respect to the WGs out there,you can do your most deepest perversions with a paid for WG.

As I say it's not love it's sex pure and simple,not saying it's right regarding your wife but unfortubately, it seems some men just can't help themselves,what red blooded man in his middle age seeing a young lady walking down the road with a tight pair of jeans on, her breast jiggling up and down cos she hasn't got a bra on doesn't want to fuck the arse off off her if he could, even if she's young enough to be his daughter, I have certainly had sex with girls younger than my daughter?

Sorry for this but, Women seem to have more control than us guys,and anyway, aren't Women fantastic WGs or not?

Just be careful and remember to treat both the WGs and you wife well.

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Hi

I've been lurking here for a few months and finally plucked up the courage to go for my first punt. I was nervous as hell but I ended up spending a very enjoyable hour with one of the ladies who posts on here.

Now here's the thing, I've been married for 16 years and love my wife, and apart from our differences in the bedroom department we have a great relationship. So, in the time leading up to the punt I was expecting to feel some guilt or regret afterwards, but quite the opposite happened, I didn't have any of these feelings. In fact, walking back to the car I found myself thinking about my next punt. So is this normal or am I just a heartless bastard?

How did you guys feel after your first time?

Sounds familiar. And two years later we broke up. Beginning of the end I think.

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Hi

I've been lurking here for a few months and finally plucked up the courage to go for my first punt. I was nervous as hell but I ended up spending a very enjoyable hour with one of the ladies who posts on here.

Now here's the thing, I've been married for 16 years and love my wife, and apart from our differences in the bedroom department we have a great relationship. So, in the time leading up to the punt I was expecting to feel some guilt or regret afterwards, but quite the opposite happened, I didn't have any of these feelings. In fact, walking back to the car I found myself thinking about my next punt. So is this normal or am I just a heartless bastard?

How did you guys feel after your first time?

I think those feelings are quite common. The first time I did it, I felt a bit of guilt but soon got over it. I haven't really felt any guilt in the years since that I have punted whilst married.

One very small piece of advice to a relative newcomer here, as a married punter just don't get involved in any of the threads with LindiLala (regular posters will know what I mean ;)) It won't make any difference to whether you feel guilty or not but might take years off your life...

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Pretty much describes my feelings - only 18 months in, but still enjoying the punting and planning

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Never felt any guilt, Firecrest. That is because there is no emotional element to what I am doing. Sex is a leisure activity. Keep punting, you'll have some great experiences (and a few crap ones!)

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Had my first punt a couple of months back and I thought I'd have some feelings of guilt, but it was the complete opposite, I was glad that I'd taken the plunge.

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When you give your partner genital warts you might feel guilty ;)

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Pvcman, I was just going to compliment you on another thread, regarding the meeting of youur wife.It was a nice little story.You came across as a decent bloke.

Then you had a cheap dig at me.

OP, I am in a relationship which has lasted a bit longer than yours. We are still in love.if he saw an escort I'd be heartbroken. My life as I know it would be a sham.I'd want to know why and how he could do it.if you love your wife, you would not be on here discussing a separate life with people who will only encourage you more. Think on:)

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When you give your partner genital warts you might feel guilty ;)

Yeah, when she gets HIV and dies and you're standing at the graveside with your kids asking, 'Dad, why did mummy have to die so soon?' Then you'll start to have regrets.

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But seriously Firecrest, it is not uncommon for some punters will go through several distinct stages in their punting careers:

1. This is fantastic: beautiful girls, brilliant sex! Why didn’t I do this years ago?

2. Although the sex is good, it feels a bit shallow and meaningless.

3. If I book longer appointments and get to know the ‘real’ girl then it will be more meaningful.

4. She wants me to stop seeing her now. She says I’m a stalker.

5. I accept that punting is not real life. The girl is acting. What the Hell – no strings attached sex with gorgeous girls. Punting is fantastic!

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Pvcman, I was just going to compliment you on another thread, regarding the meeting of youur wife.It was a nice little story.You came across as a decent bloke.

Then you had a cheap dig at me.

OP, I am in a relationship which has lasted a bit longer than yours. We are still in love.if he saw an escort I'd be heartbroken. My life as I know it would be a sham.I'd want to know why and how he could do it.if you love your wife, you would not be on here discussing a separate life with people who will only encourage you more. Think on:)

Lindilala, that's nice of you to say you think I am a decent bloke - I am, but I'm far from perfect obviously. BTW, I do love my wife, maybe not quite as much as in the early days and I know you will never comprehend it, but I still do love her. My comments on the other thread weren't a cheap dig, it was supposed to be in jest. Even if I'm critical of someone here, I try to be constructive as I tried to illustrate with an earlier post to you:

Hey, does that mean WE WIN??? :P

I believe many people here, whether they agree or totally disagree with your stance that married men who say it isn't cheating' are wrong, understand the argument. However, it's just that you seem so keen to pursue it over such a long period of time. Many of the regular posters here such as Helen, Lou4Fun, Sabrina, Xenia (and not just the ladies) have contributed on so many different topics, whereas your agenda is a rather slim one. You've made your point repeatedly, now time to move along surely???

My point was and still is, that you have made your point over and over again for a year, it's time to move on to something else if you want to keep contributing here (and everyone else too, come to that.) ;)

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Yeah, when she gets HIV and dies and you're standing at the graveside with your kids asking, 'Dad, why did mummy have to die so soon?' Then you'll start to have regrets.

!!!! :blink:

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