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I arranged to meet a local indy that i found on the other site 3 weeks ago. She had more than 25 positive comments and everything looked fine.

When i arrived she seemed disorganised, but she explained that she has just moved in. She made some excuse that we couldn't use the bedroom would I mind if we stayed in the living room? That was fine with me and she asked me to undress for a massage. At this point she asked for the payment. 

We were chatting a little when the phone rings, she apologised and answered it telling the caller that they have the wrong number. She then began and after a few minutes stops, telling me that she's just realised that the caller was her new landlord and she should call him back. Apparently he is in the area and his heading over to collect rent. She's very flustered and asks me to leave and she'll call me when the coast is clear. 

15min later I get a text saying that he is insisting on doing fire safety checks etc and will be at least an hour. After apologising a few times over text and telling me that she'll refund my money soon, it goes quiet. She texts me the following day to say shes had to leave town due to a family problem and she will refund my payment soon. I have only heard from her once since despite several calls and texts.

I'm not exactly sure what to do, it certainly feels like i've been scammed. I've considered posting bad FRs and giving her name out here, but I guess part of me still thinks this might get resolved. It just seems strange to me that someone with apparently a good rep would do this for £100...

I'm sorry for the wall of text, but any advise would be welcomed.

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Well I am no punting expert but I think that you have been had, 100% :angry:

I would name & shame in the hope that no one else gets caught the same way but I don't see you ever getting your £100 back, sorry :(

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Yeah, I think you've been taken too. Unless anybody can think of a plausible way that "Hi, this is your landlord" / "Sorry, you've got the wrong number" can go?

Unless she suddenly remembered that he was the only person she'd given that specific fake name to or something. [/wild assumptions]

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You've been duped. Name and shame!!!!!!!!. She wasn't scared to dupe you so name and shame to prevent other punters from falling into the same trap.

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No landlord can insist on a short notice visit unless it is a hastily agreed and a bit iffy

tenancy arrangement between the tenant and flat owner..... or a real emergency.

Yes I agree you have probably been had. She said she had to leave town? Can you check that,

she may still be in that flat and you did say it was local. I know I should not suggest this

but try using a different simcard and make another appointment with her while disguising your

voice. See if she welcomes you back to that same flat.

When I rented my work place my then landlord would phone me and ask if it was convenient to call at a certain

date and time. He would never turn up unexpected which was great as I could relax without worry when working.

Unfortunately as we all know.... there are many cheats and liars doing this work and the only consolation is that

they will never make real money as they can not possibly build up a bank of regular clients.

Edited by ADELE

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Thank you for the replies. I guess I knew from early on that I'd been scammed, but I wanted to give her a good chance to redeem herself... I had considered some undercover work as suggested.

She is an indy based in Loughborough. You can find her profiles on ** under:

Naughty Nat 4 U

Double Troubles

This was my first time booking an Indy, and after this I think I'll be sticking to agencies from now on...

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I would never ever answer the phone during an appointment! I don't even have my phone turned on, once a gentleman has arrived, and even if I forgot to turn it off I would simply never answer it. All of my attention is on my man, for the duration of the time we spend together.

This woman has no professionalism and is well out of order, in my opinion, and yes you should spread the word I say! And that's from me, an independent escort... (but one who takes pride in her work)... I am so sorry this happened to you.

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This was my first time booking an Indy, and after this I think I'll be sticking to agencies from now on...

Don't do that. There are plenty of good Indies all over the country. Have a look at the FR's on here & do some research. I bet someone can recommend a few where you are to start you looking :D

Get neg feedback left on ** asap. Hopefully it will save the next person from getting ripped off :angry:

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Don't do that. There are plenty of good Indies all over the country. Have a look at the FR's on here & do some research. I bet someone can recommend a few where you are to start you looking :D

Get neg feedback left on ** asap. Hopefully it will save the next person from getting ripped off :angry:

I agree, I have seen several indes from ** and never had a problem.

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Don't do that. There are plenty of good Indies all over the country. Have a look at the FR's on here & do some research. I bet someone can recommend a few where you are to start you looking :D

I know you're right, there are plenty of great Indy girls out there. I'm just concerned that you have no come back should something like this happen, other than just bend over and take it...

She had positive FRs on both ** and this site...

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other than just bend over and take it...

You'd pay extra for that :lol:

Ask for recomendations on here and you will be well looked after :D

Edited by NOMIS1968

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She is an indy based in Loughborough. You can find her profiles on ** under:

Naughty Nat 4 U

Double Troubles

I have named and shamed. I will post negative FRs on ** and here this evening when I return from work

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I arranged to meet a local indy that i found on the other site 3 weeks ago. She had more than 25 positive comments and everything looked fine.

My suspicion is that a lot of profiles on the other site are controlled by "pimps". THe positive comments may not relate to that girl at all but a previous "occupier" of the profile.

Sadly, you have been well and truly scammed. She won't confirm the booking so you won't be able to leave a rating and if the worst comes to the worst, she won't allow access to her feedback.

Jack

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Sadly, you have been well and truly scammed. She won't confirm the booking so you won't be able to leave a rating and if the worst comes to the worst, she won't allow access to her feedback.

You're correct there, I've found i cannot post a rating or FR as there is no confirmed booking. I have reported the incident to the site in the hope that they might ban ban the user, but i'm not sure if this will be successful. I also tried to post an FR here, but it looks like the system is backed up as i received a message saying the message inbox was full.

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Sorry to hear you've had problems and are £100 out of pocket.

That said, did you make your decision based on that postage stamp photo? I note the lady has no phone number listed, and generally the feedback is pretty good, but that said, I would have passed her by as the profile is too scant on detail.

Dont dismiss all indies just because this went wrong, as the majority are honest and give good service. You should file a negative report, which with her no show report, will at least alert others. Hope the next punt is more successful.

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Sounds like a total scam, If this had happened to me I would of expected a full refund, no service no money!

Or I'd put my feet up, have a cup of tea and meet the landlord. :rolleyes:

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