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A Question For The Girls

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Okay, this is a question for the female members of the forum. I assume you have to be a fairly 'hard boiled' person, and not at all wet behind the ears to escort successfully in the first place, but has working in this field changed or confirmed your opinion of men in general? If it confirmed it, did it confirm it in a good way or a bad way? And if it changed, did your opinion of men become more favourable, or more scathing?

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Okay, this is a question for the female members of the forum. I assume you have to be a fairly 'hard boiled' person, and not at all wet behind the ears to escort successfully in the first place, but has working in this field changed or confirmed your opinion of men in general? If it confirmed it, did it confirm it in a good way or a bad way? And if it changed, did your opinion of men become more favourable, or more scathing?

Great question !!

Looking forward to reading the hopefully brutally honest replies

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Always been a head strong kind of person

Confirmed

From a very young age this (then) lil blonde thing knew that all men were sleeze balls and trying to get into her panties. Now I am older I do not see them as sleeze balls but a very good living.

S x

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Im a man but im going to have a stab here.

From what i can gather from my mates, men say one thing to their friends, and are completely the opposite when with someone of the opposite sex. The put this bravado on with their mates, talk about thier sex lives and act like the tough guy so to speak. Ive seen those same guys when their gf is present and they're the total opposite and turn into love sick puppies at times.

Hard to explain what im trying to say really, but i bet WG's can see past the tough, "all i want a women for is sex" image once they are actually with them and realise alot of this is just an act

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Now I am older I do not see them as sleeze balls

... but we're still trying to get into your panties :D !

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Im a man but im going to have a stab here.

From what i can gather from my mates, men say one thing to their friends, and are completely the opposite when with someone of the opposite sex. The put this bravado on with their mates, talk about thier sex lives and act like the tough guy so to speak. Ive seen those same guys when their gf is present and they're the total opposite and turn into love sick puppies at times.

Hard to explain what im trying to say really, but i bet WG's can see past the tough, "all i want a women for is sex" image once they are actually with them and realise alot of this is just an act

You know what, this is something I've really noticed down the years and is PARTICULARLY and HIGHLY EVIDENT amongst public school boys.

They'll talk about women in the crudest most unpleasant and disrespectful fashion possible, when theyre not around, but if theyre with their girlfriends youd think they were choirboys awed by and meek in the presence of the Virgin Mary !!

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Always been a head strong kind of person

Confirmed

From a very young age this (then) lil blonde thing knew that all men were sleeze balls and trying to get into her panties. Now I am older I do not see them as sleeze balls but a very good living.

S x

Sabrina is that REALLY all you see men as ??!!............I mean......really ??!!

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... but we're still trying to get into your panties :D !

Yeah but as a teenager those dirty old men in their 30s are not so old and dirty now :)

S x

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As a man what I've had confirmed is that for the right price women can take an active part of sex. No "headaches" when there is cash on the line. Your partner has gone off sex once shes "got her feet under the table". I'm not complaining about WG's at least it's honest, money then sex. Partners, sex until they get comfortable.

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Sabrina is that REALLY all you see men as ??!!............I mean......really ??!!

??? Of course! I have my SO for the lovely dovely stuff and other men as a means to replenishing my bank account.

Sorry what was it exactly you wanted me to say, I do the job for the love of it and nothing more??

I whore for the cash! Some of course I have much affection for an look forward to seeing again, I do enjoy the company of many men, but lets face it take the cash out the equation and I would only be fucking my SO!

S x

And here is me thinking you were looking forward to hopefully brutally honest replies :P

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And here is me thinking you were looking forward to hopefully brutally honest replies :P

I was, to be honest. I like to live in reality. I hate fakeness, pretension and platitudes. I just think it's an interesting topic to discuss, because, based on this board (and not only this board, everyday life as well), you could easily get the impression that men and women don't like each other at all! Whereas, I genuinely like women. Yes, I am trying to get in their pants, but I've always had female friends. It's just of interest to me whether the nature of this work really affects your perception of the opposite sex, because many 'civilian' women have a pretty tawdry view of the opposite sex; does escorting confirm their worst suspicions, or challenge them? For example, in terms of your significant other, does it change your relationship and perception of him? Are your relationships with men in 'civilian' life, both platonic and sexual, affected in any way? Edited by wakeup

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I was, to be honest. I like to live in reality. I hate fakeness, pretension and platitudes. I just think it's an interesting topic to discuss, because, based on this board (and not only this board, everyday life as well), you could easily get the impression that men and women don't like each other at all! Whereas, I genuinely like women. Yes, I am trying to get in their pants, but I've always had female friends. It's just of interest to me whether the nature of this work really affects your perception of the opposite sex, because many 'civilian' women have a pretty tawdry view of the opposite sex; does escorting confirm their worst suspicions, or challenge them?

Well if you are asking me if in the real world do I trust my SO then the answer would be not on MY life! I know it is inevitable at some stage he will partake in extra curricular sexual activity with another woman (if he has not already), but I will say that I came to that conclusion way before I ever became a whore, the difference is for me, I am in acceptance of that, while the secrecy will make me feel betrayed I still understand more than the average laywoman that need and desire to have sexual relations outside the relationship, and Himbo I KNOW you will be reading this do NOT think that is an open invite for you to do exactly that :P

S x

Footnote: Even tho I would not be having sexual relations with these men outside the financial transaction, do NOT mistake that for lack of enjoyment of some of those transactions, the head might not always be turned on but sometimes the body responds despite that fact :)

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Well if you are asking me if in the real world do I trust my SO then the answer would be not on MY life! I know it is inevitable at some stage he will partake in extra curricular sexual activity with another woman (if he has not already), but I will say that I came to that conclusion way before I ever became a whore, the difference is for me, I am in acceptance of that, while the secrecy will make me feel betrayed I still understand more than the average laywoman that need and desire to have sexual relations outside the relationship, and Himbo I KNOW you will be reading this do NOT think that is an open invite for you to do exactly that :P

This is pretty much what I assumed. I always felt that to do this work, you would have to be in possession of a 'realistic', or perhaps even negative view of men by definition, because it would surely have to shatter the notion that monogamy is a natural state of affairs.
Even tho I would not be having sexual relations with these men outside the financial transaction, do NOT mistake that for lack of enjoyment of some of those transactions, the head might not always be turned on but sometimes the body responds despite that fac
Well, I had noticed from my own experience that some girls were getting considerable pleasure out of it, or else they are superhuman actors...

Thanks for taking the time to reply, be interesting to hear some other perspectives too.

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Well if you are asking me if in the real world do I trust my SO then the answer would be not on MY life! I know it is inevitable at some stage he will partake in extra curricular sexual activity with another woman

(if he has not already)

S x

I know all about cheating.... I've had six very successful marriages!

Sabrina suspects that her boyfriend is cheating on her, so she goes out and buys a gun.

She goes to their apartment that same day, with the gun in hand. Sure enough, when she opens the door, she finds her boyfriend in the arms of a sexy young woman. She points the gun at her boyfriend at stares him down for a moment. Then, suddenly, she's overcome with grief, so she puts the gun up to the side her head.

Her boyfriend screams, "Sweetheart, don't do it..."

The blonde yells back, "Shut up! You're next!

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Okay, this is a question for the female members of the forum. I assume you have to be a fairly 'hard boiled' person, and not at all wet behind the ears to escort successfully in the first place, but has working in this field changed or confirmed your opinion of men in general? If it confirmed it, did it confirm it in a good way or a bad way? And if it changed, did your opinion of men become more favourable, or more scathing?

Many women come to this game with the best of intentions. Some know no different. But they have all got one thing in common, they want fast, easy cash, but en-route they can see a side to men, and to life that changes them for the worse. I think the word often used is 'damaged'. It can happen fast and it often happens without their knowing it.

It's the same for some men too. They think they will simply get easy sex for cash but over time they see another side to women that leaves mental scars, disrespect for the opposite sex and an addiction that they either deny or are unaware of.

Spok.

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Many women come to this game with the best of intentions. Some know no different. But they have all got one thing in common, they want fast, easy cash, but en-route they can see a side to men, and to life that changes them for the worse. I think the word often used is 'damaged'. It can happen fast and it often happens without their knowing it.

It's the same for some men too. They think they will simply get easy sex for cash but over time they see another side to women that leaves mental scars, disrespect for the opposite sex and an addiction that they either deny or are unaware of.

Spok.

or mebbe its red blooded adults who want sex?

or is that too simple?

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Many women come to this game with the best of intentions. Some know no different. But they have all got one thing in common, they want fast, easy cash, but en-route they can see a side to men, and to life that changes them for the worse. I think the word often used is 'damaged'. It can happen fast and it often happens without their knowing it.

It's the same for some men too. They think they will simply get easy sex for cash but over time they see another side to women that leaves mental scars, disrespect for the opposite sex and an addiction that they either deny or are unaware of.

Spok.

Bear in mind this is coming from a relative newbie, so my "damage" as you put it may be yet to come, but personally speaking the only "other side" of women I've seen so far in this grand game of ours is a hell of a lot more honesty, friendlyness, openess and trust than I normally see in my day to day life, for now I'll go with Coventry's assessment of red blooded adults wanting a fun time in pleasant company, the only thing I would add is an old chesnut, namely "do unto others"

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Many women come to this game with the best of intentions. Some know no different. But they have all got one thing in common, they want fast, easy cash, but en-route they can see a side to men, and to life that changes them for the worse. I think the word often used is 'damaged'. It can happen fast and it often happens without their knowing it.

It's the same for some men too. They think they will simply get easy sex for cash but over time they see another side to women that leaves mental scars, disrespect for the opposite sex and an addiction that they either deny or are unaware of.

Spok.

This Lalas hubby?

Yours damaged in York

S x

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??? Of course! I have my SO for the lovely dovely stuff and other men as a means to replenishing my bank account.

Sorry what was it exactly you wanted me to say, I do the job for the love of it and nothing more??

I whore for the cash! Some of course I have much affection for an look forward to seeing again, I do enjoy the company of many men, but lets face it take the cash out the equation and I would only be fucking my SO!

S x

And here is me thinking you were looking forward to hopefully brutally honest replies :P

No, I'm not at all perturbed by your honesty, but what DOES surprise me is that after however many years youve been in the business, the only conclusion or insight you've gained from your experiences of men is that they are "not sleaze balls but a very good living".............and thats it...........nothing else of interest to report.

Thats what surprises me, not the honesty

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... personally speaking the only "other side" of women I've seen so far in this grand game of ours is a hell of a lot more honesty, friendlyness, openess and trust than I normally see in my day to day life, ...

Same here.

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Bear in mind this is coming from a relative newbie, so my "damage" as you put it may be yet to come, but personally speaking the only "other side" of women I've seen so far in this grand game of ours is a hell of a lot more honesty, friendlyness, openess and trust than I normally see in my day to day life, for now I'll go with Coventry's assessment of red blooded adults wanting a fun time in pleasant company, the only thing I would add is an old chesnut, namely "do unto others"

'Honesty, openess and trust?' Yes but it is profoundly cynical by its very nature because you are paying for it. Don't you see that? Let me put it another way. How many of these girls would even acknowledge you exist outside of a punting arrangement? None. Women (mostly young) want easy money, older (often married) men or men who can't pull, want sex. Hardly a difficult business model but equally not too difficult to see how this could lead you think it is your world where the real honesty lies when in all reality it is nothing more than business as usual.

I do not wish to offend but it's just the way it is.

Spok.

Edited by SpoksEyebrows

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'Honesty, openess and trust?' Yes but it is profoundly cynical by its very nature because you are paying for it. Don't you see that? Let me put it another way. How many of these girls would even acknowledge you exist outside of a punting arrangement? None. Women (mostly young) want easy money, older (often married) men or men who can't pull, want sex. Hardly a difficult business model but equally not too difficult to see how this could lead you think it is your world where the real honesty lies when in all reality it is nothing more than business as usual.

I do not wish to offend but it's just the way it is.

Spok.

Well this doesnt apply to me, and from what I can gather a number of the members of this forum too. What you're suscribing to here is the stereotypical notion of the lonely/sad/loser/unnattractive/frustrated/mid-life crisis ridden media portrayed punter.

I could pull [if I wanted to], am actually approached by women now and again who are obviously interested, I'm young(ish), attractive (according to wgs AND CIVVIES :P ) and have been punting since my 20s anyhow. I punt by choice for the convenience and the lack of hassle/messy emotional entanglements that could arise from affairs/one night stands.

I happily pay for what I see as very satisfying, bs free, clearly boundary-defined sessions of sexual pampering, and not because I dont have a choice but because this IS my choice.

Nor do I see the whole profession and the women involved as cynical, but like myself I see it and them as almost the ultimate example in PRAGMATISM (obviously excluding those who are coerced or trafficked into prostitution).

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No, I'm not at all perturbed by your honesty, but what DOES surprise me is that after however many years youve been in the business, the only conclusion or insight you've gained from your experiences of men is that they are "not sleaze balls but a very good living".............and thats it...........nothing else of interest to report.

Thats what surprises me, not the honesty

Hey thanks for that Bill nice to know someone is doing my thinking for me.

It is not the ONLY conclusion by a long shot, it was the ONLY one I CHOSE to divulge on that particular answer.

S x

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Hey thanks for that Bill nice to know someone is doing my thinking for me.

It is not the ONLY conclusion by a long shot, it was the ONLY one I CHOSE to divulge on that particular answer.

S x

Wouldnt ever profess to do someone elses thinking for them - you stated you were being brutally honest - I took your comment on face value - especially since you claimed you were being brutally honest - I apologise for making the mistake of taking your 'brutally honest' comment at face value. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

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Okay, this is a question for the female members of the forum. I assume you have to be a fairly 'hard boiled' person, and not at all wet behind the ears to escort successfully in the first place, but has working in this field changed or confirmed your opinion of men in general? If it confirmed it, did it confirm it in a good way or a bad way? And if it changed, did your opinion of men become more favourable, or more scathing?

My opinion of men is that a majority have to have different sex partners and find it very hard to be with one woman sexualy. I always enjoy the company of men but the added bonus for me is that I get paid for it and it is no strings attached.

Shelly

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