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Getting Bored, What Should I Do Now?

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I've been punting for about 7 years, have had a lot of different experiences and tried alot of things from vanilla punts through to a few fairly intense domination sessions with caning, rough deep throat and anal. I've had two girl and lesbian sessions, slept with pregnant escorts, watersports, and done other stuff, including going to FKK.

I'm currently seeing a regular girl, who is up for most things, and having the odd extra punt and Chinese massage places each month.

However I am getting bored of punting, even with good looking and experienced girls I am often mentally staring out of the window. There are a few things I am semi interested in such as parties and going to Thailand but apart from that I can't think of anything I want to do

Advice from more experienced punters or escorts is welcome, should I cut down or stop for a while; try more extreme stuff or something else?

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I really enjoy doing crosswords. Some are really challenging. Yes, try extreme crosswords.

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If you feel you've done it all, you've got two choices,

take a break and get to know yourself better, or have a relationship and get to know someone else.

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Charly, when you're not enjoying it , stop for a while , take a break, come back to it feeling hungry . W.P. :D

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Sounds to me like with everything you've already tried there's only one unexplored path left open to you. Does the term 'pre-op transexual' mean anything to you? ;)

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Sounds like you are getting jaded - I would take a break.

Otherwise, there are still lots of things you could try that you haven't mentioned - gang bangs, bukkake, sploshing, BDSM/switching, hard sports etc. Might not all be your cup of tea but it sounds like there is still a fair bit of the spectrum to explore.

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I've been punting for about 7 years, have had a lot of different experiences and tried alot of things from vanilla punts through to a few fairly intense domination sessions with caning, rough deep throat and anal. I've had two girl and lesbian sessions, slept with pregnant escorts, watersports, and done other stuff, including going to FKK.

I'm currently seeing a regular girl, who is up for most things, and having the odd extra punt and Chinese massage places each month.

However I am getting bored of punting, even with good looking and experienced girls I am often mentally staring out of the window. There are a few things I am semi interested in such as parties and going to Thailand but apart from that I can't think of anything I want to do

Advice from more experienced punters or escorts is welcome, should I cut down or stop for a while; try more extreme stuff or something else?

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, keep your fantasies where they belong, have a wank, give the money to charity and make someone's Christmas.

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Stop feeling sorry for yourself, keep your fantasies where they belong, have a wank, give the money to charity and make someone's Christmas.

You know SpoksEyebrows, you should really get together with Jason King's Sideburns. :lol:

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Have you tried shagging in public? That adds a certain frissant thrill that you might get caught. May I suggest the beaches of Dubai for this activity, I understand they add considerably to the excitement.

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Stop feeling sorry for yourself, keep your fantasies where they belong, have a wank, give the money to charity and make someone's Christmas.

Better still send the money to me every week,i'll carry on punting on your behalf,until you return. :D

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I did see a girl on the other place recently who specialises in turning up at places and giving guys BJs - apparently she did one in some guys open plan office recently (the guy was leaving, so was a bit of sticking it to the man statement.)

I suspect that's the sort of thing that might sound fun, but when push comes to shove most would bottle it.

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Have a break from punting until you find the thought exciting again. In the meantime get yourself another hobby, one that engages you. There are plenty of interesting things to do out there, there's more to life than sex :)

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there's more to life than sex :)

There is? Now I feel insecure!

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There is? Now I feel insecure!

Sure there is! I have a pheasant that needs butchering and firewood to bring in. Plus the washing up needs doing :P

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The comments about taking a break are spot-on. Try new things and savour this time to develop new interests. And Lara, I'll be right along to complete those chores...and I'll shovel the snow as well.

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I've found that watching different types of fetish porn help me, in exploring what does and doesn't turn me on.

I have a number of new ideas that I want to try for next year; I have a nylon fetish and I want girls to dress up for me, I really like this Japenese Nuru massage, that uses slimy gel for a full body-to-body massage, outdoor sex is going to be more on the menu and I want to try ffm and mmf.

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Take a break, recharge the battery, save some money and send all proceeds to Kickball's charity

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I've been punting for about 7 years, have had a lot of different experiences and tried alot of things from vanilla punts through to a few fairly intense domination sessions with caning, rough deep throat and anal. I've had two girl and lesbian sessions, slept with pregnant escorts, watersports, and done other stuff, including going to FKK.

I'm currently seeing a regular girl, who is up for most things, and having the odd extra punt and Chinese massage places each month.

However I am getting bored of punting, even with good looking and experienced girls I am often mentally staring out of the window. There are a few things I am semi interested in such as parties and going to Thailand but apart from that I can't think of anything I want to do

Advice from more experienced punters or escorts is welcome, should I cut down or stop for a while; try more extreme stuff or something else?

Hi Charly,

Like you I have tried a lot of things, but probably not as many as you,and things can get a bit boring after a while.

If you can manage to control your desires, take a break and save some money. Or try the party scene. I find it quite exciting and at the right parties there is always plenty of different ladies to chose from. Give it a go, you might just like it!

Regards,

davidgood

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