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Room Ambiance

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Something I've noticed, is that different girls have very different ideas about the ambiance of the room. I've had a wide range of different experiences, including:

Lights on full, TV left on.

Lights dimmed (generally I'd have thought that this would be the most normal option).

Girl with stunning body turns up in lingerie, then turns the lights off completely before undressing so that I could barely see her, but had loud soft metal and rap music (think Eminem, not relaxing romantic stuff) playing through her i-pod speakers the whole time. (the room was also freezing cold - I think the window was left open before so that she could smoke probably).

maybe its just me, but it seems that fairly little effort is needed to improve the ambiance of the room - having it at a sensible level of lighting etc, as for me, this adds a lot to the experience. I don't want it pitch dark (I wouldn't have cared at all about the looks of the girl if I did), but at the same time I don't really want it with the lights full on and the TV blaring etc which just feels like no effort has been made at all.

Interestingly the setting of the room ambiance doesn't necessarily reflect on the performance of the girl either.

I'm interested to know what experiences other people have had - and what they prefer.

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To be honest, the one accessory to every WGs room that is ESSENTIAL, IMLTHO, is a Chair or hangars and a hook, to take care of your clothes.

Going in to a bare bones bedroom and having to dump all your clothes on top of your shoes on the floor is not conducive to a good time and makes me think she would prefer to turn 15 minute tricks.

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Something I've noticed, is that different girls have very different ideas about the ambiance of the room. I've had a wide range of different experiences, including: Lights on full, TV left on.

Nothing quite like trying to get romantic with a Ukrainian tv channel blaring away on a cheap tv, or iron bloc pop played on a lap top !

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I must confess that the room isn't something that I've felt too bothered about at the time of the meeting but having read this post, and upon reflection, it's probably affected my mood more than I realised. I've been to the bare bones room as Ghenghis describes and had to dump my clothes on the floor and whilst at the time I've just got on with it looking back I can see that it's not exactly made me feel particularly valued as a customer. On the other hand I've seen a lady who hung my jacket up for me and provided a little basket for my clothes, which magically moved from the bathroom, where I'd discarded them to shower, to the bedroom where I needed them at the end - and I do remember a nice warm feeling of "being looked after". My latest punt was with a lady who had gone to great lengths with herself and with the room which created a lovely sensual ambience, a very nice place to be seduced.

One occasion sticks in my mind - there was a tv on in the bedroom with a porn movie playing and I asked the lady if she'd mind turning it off. She said "Oh thank goodness, yes please!". I wonder if some girls just assume that all blokes like porn.

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Velvet and fleecey bed throws...... lots of cushions and pillows....

feathers and fairy lights... butterflies and sparkly things to see should

you happen to be looking over my shoulder or something lol....

several scented candles burning.... soft lamps lit.....subtle and very

much in the background mood music playing and a hot

woman to warm those hands on...

will that do ?

;)

I always offer the use of hangers/wardrobe/door hooks etc for gents'

clothes but the majority opt for the neat pile on the floor or over the

back of the chair... well at least I try. :rolleyes:

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My last punt turned out to be in a modern flat used solely for the purpose by the lady in question. It was OK but clearly not lived in much - almost as if it was the show flat was being used - and it was a tad sad and grubby too. Obviously not a lot of preparation had taken place and when she started trying to find a matching pair of hold-ups from the stash in one of the kitchen drawers, I did feel my enthusiasm dim somewhat. The bedroom was a state too, obviously a workplace rather than a sleeping place and, overall, none of this helped at all.

Another time I found myself sitting in the lady's sitting room making small talk with the TV on Corrie at the time. That was pretty strange but rescued by the lady being implausibly naughty in the, tiny, bedroom.

Worst was with a lady who had a tiny flat, with a filthy bathroom and a tiny bedroom with no bed linen other than a mattress protector and a bobbly sheet. (and it was her home too!) That punt was the only time I have not had a happy ending and I blame her followed very closely by the surroundings - and it was not cheap either.

For great ambience (and a lot more) visit a certain dark haired lady who resides in the Borough and shares part of her name with a very busty country singer.

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I'm generally not too bothered about the room as stuff like lighting, TV and music can all be changed or switched off.

Having somewhere to put your clothes is quite nice though even just a chair. One girl said to put my clothes on the bed and when I was showering she hung them up for me, which I thought was an excellent touch. Obviously she didn't hang up my socks and pants as that would have indicated OCD.

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A decent bed and clean bedding helps for a start. I recall one place I visited where I could see several old cum stains on the bedspread :eek:

Although I enjoy porn, I tend to find it a bit off putting in the room if it's on TV. Same goes for porn mags with the pages stuck together :eek:

Some good music helps too, it all depends I suppose on what mood you want to create.

If the room is nice and warm, that helps - especially in the current weather.

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Something I've noticed, is that different girls have very different ideas about the ambiance of the room.

I'm interested to know what experiences other people have had - and what they prefer.

The sexiest experience I've had, regarding room ambiance, was with a girl who worked in the very centre of Ipswich. Her place was a tudor oak framed house, in a narrow medieval street. She lead me up some rickety stairs to the attic bedroom, the walls were painted white and there were a multitude of exposed oak beams, that were natural grey/brown colour. The bed was dressed with white lace, the whole room was very light and airy, it was summer and most of the windows were open with a nice breeze, you could hear general "town" noises too. It was very conducive to hot romantic passionate type of sex and that's exactly what happend, it was awesome!

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For me room ambience is very important. I don't think it can make a bad punt better, but it can make a good punt exceptional. Sadly many girls don't bother and many who do get it wrong (too dark is the usual complaint). I've only visited a few girls where they truly got it right.

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Entered a house where the stench of dog was so overpowering that I found it hard to avoid retching. I turned round made an excuse and left. Cannot abide anything that gives out a fragrance, candles, those plug-in things &c. I really do not want to return home with all my clothes smelling like the a scented candle. Lights, music, heat or cold are easy to alter on request, a really grotty environment is harder to deal with.

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To be honest, the one accessory to every WGs room that is ESSENTIAL, IMLTHO, is a Chair or hangars and a hook, to take care of your clothes.

Going in to a bare bones bedroom and having to dump all your clothes on top of your shoes on the floor is not conducive to a good time and makes me think she would prefer to turn 15 minute tricks.

I instinctively do that too... I'm not sure why putting them on your shoes make a difference though :unsure:

Anyway, back to the OP... I generally don't mind the room ambiance too much but the only place I've ever walked away from was because they had no bed sheets :o:angry: I'm not sure where my line is... but no bed sheets definitely crosses it!

Other than that I have a slight preference for a wooden bed over a metal one, as long as it's in good working order ;) I don't think I've ever been to a place that I thought was cold... if anything they tend to err on the side of being slightly too hot for my taste. I've no real preference between bare working flat vs obviously lived in places... but the last place I went, she obviously had all the chocolates from other punters thrown haphazardly in a pile on a bedside table... it would be better to hide those away.

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…I've seen a lady who hung my jacket up for me and provided a little basket for my clothes, which magically moved from the bathroom, where I'd discarded them to shower, to the bedroom where I needed them at the end…

That’s a nice touch. I wouldn’t want to handle a client’s clothes unless he was there though in case a wallet fell out. I’d be paranoid of looking like a pick-pocket! :unsure:

I always offer the use of hangers/wardrobe/door hooks etc for gents'

clothes but the majority opt for the neat pile on the floor or over the

back of the chair... well at least I try. :rolleyes:

You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink ;)

A decent bed and clean bedding helps for a start. I recall one place I visited where I could see several old cum stains on the bedspread :eek:

Although I enjoy porn, I tend to find it a bit off putting in the room if it's on TV. Same goes for porn mags with the pages stuck together :eek:

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You paint such a delightful picture, LOL.

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For me, a place to put your clothes, the room is clean and warm, bed reasonably comfy and that there is a good shower. I like the lights on too.

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To be honest, the one accessory to every WGs room that is ESSENTIAL, IMLTHO, is a Chair or hangars and a hook, to take care of your clothes.

Going in to a bare bones bedroom and having to dump all your clothes on top of your shoes on the floor is not conducive to a good time and makes me think she would prefer to turn 15 minute tricks.

I forgot this when posting - but it i a very good point. Some (many) rooms don't seem to have anywhere available to put your clothes other than the floor, which isn't really ideal.

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For me, a place to put your clothes, the room is clean and warm, bed reasonably comfy and that there is a good shower. I like the lights on too.

but not flourescent tubes, as i got in 1 brum parlour.

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I'm surprised no-one has mentioned mirrors yet.

As others have said above, Ghenghis' point is a very good one. I'm not a fan of drawn dark curtains on a daytime visit, I prefer blinds that let some light through.

Probably above all the above considerations comes cleanliness and the availability of a shower, and please none of that fake air freshener stuff, no "fragrance" is infinitely preferable to that chemical warfare stuff.

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I like the lights on too.

Ditto, I like to savour what I see :)

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no squeaky beds please!

and deffo mirrors.

not sure if free standing ones or screwed to the wall.

i reckon a big un alongside the bed is about best.

never seen a ceiling one yet tho. anyone got one?

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no squeaky beds please!

and deffo mirrors.

not sure if free standing ones or screwed to the wall.

i reckon a big un alongside the bed is about best.

never seen a ceiling one yet tho. anyone got one?

I've seen a ceiling one in Bangkok - never in the UK though.

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Only once been offered porn. More precisely, lady fumbled with the remote for 5 mins and then apologised it was taking her so long to get porn on. I was baffled - what's the point in watching strangers having sex when that's exactly what you're doing yourself?

Agree with above posts about temperature - that's the key element.

Erotic photos on the wall do make some difference though - kind of remind you why you're there :unsure:

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One thing that worried me in a regular place and I was amazed I had not picked up on earlier, was noticing that a towel on the bed scrunched up in a pretty shape was shaken out and laid on the bed for me to lie on, then at the end of the punt, it was picked up and scrunched up in the same shape and placed on the bed ready for the next customer, ugh!

Not a regular haunt anymore.

Candles, soft lighting, a thoughtfully placed mirror, and a good shower are the extras I appreciate and help make me choose where I punt.

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One thing that worried me in a regular place and I was amazed I had not picked up on earlier, was noticing that a towel on the bed scrunched up in a pretty shape was shaken out and laid on the bed for me to lie on, then at the end of the punt, it was picked up and scrunched up in the same shape and placed on the bed ready for the next customer, ugh!

Not a regular haunt anymore.

Euuurgh... How many times did you go to that place before you noticed? I wonder how many places do this when nobody is looking?

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I have updated our bedding, got some nice cd,s instead of the radio and now have scented candles in all the rooms, just small changes but a lot of guys have commented that the candles give the room a really nice cosy feel..and smell nice of course lol.

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