Inspire

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Hi,

Just decided to put a few past passing thoughts into one post. Please let me know whether you think these acts/topics are general okay or not, as the case maybe.

1)Topic of conversation, is it okay to ask the WG, how she got into this business and how long she has been in it (and related questions)? The reason Id ask is because its something Id be interested to know. Doubt for not asking, would be her reasons for doing the work might be due to some form of desperation and therefore not something she wants to be asked about.

2)Is it acceptable to have a covered blow job, but still want to finish with CIM. The CIM would be just that, head back, tongue ready begging for the CUM. Porn star style. No need for sucking the cock, as that ruins the point of having covered BJ in first place. (Anyone ideal for this service in Milton Keynes, let me know).

3)I love the contrast of mouth (bj) to pussy (shagging) and vice versa. Is it acceptable to ask or expect to be swapping from suck to fuck and vice versa?

4)Dictating the meeting, quite often the girl requests the guy to lie on the bed and it goes from there. Is it okay to just take more control from the off and request where you want the WG from the start, ie maybe her lying face down on the bed, or getting on her knees to start fondling/sucking etc

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Inspire

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Inspire, obviously I can only speak for myself so...

1. This is a very common question I’m asked and I don’t mind it. I do think though that you shouldn’t ask any questions you wouldn’t mind answering yourself, so if you ask why she’s in the business you should be prepared to say why you’re a punter. Don’t ask loads of personal questions if you are cagey yourself, there needs to be balance.

2. Sounds fine to me. I don’t offer OWO but rather like it when a man comes in my mouth with a condom on, and would be happy to do what you’re suggesting.

3. No harm in asking. I don’t like it as I’m not into the taste of pussy juice, even my own.

4. It’s your time and if you want things to happen in a certain way at a certain pace then it’s best to discuss this with the lady. If a client of mine had a clear idea of what he wanted from the booking I’d prefer to know in advance rather than have orders barked at me and being bossed about too much during the booking (but then I’m on the dominant side of neutral with clients, so don’t like too much “do this, do that”). There are ways of steering a lady without being a bossy wotsit though aren’t there :)

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1)It's a question I've always batted away without answering. Why the interest, what benefit would it give you during the session ?

2)So it's OK passing your germs, but you don't want hers ! (for want of a better phrase)

3)OK in private sex and rather nice, but with an escort only safe if your cock stays perfectly hard during each bout of oral, otherwise new condom on each time for penetration... distracting ?

4)Domineering aren't you... not a bad thing at all, but as Lara says, best you let the lady know to start with, not just spring it upon... but added in with your other questions, makes me wonder just how it is you think of working ladies.

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1. If you want to ask that question, I'd suggest asking first 'are you alright with me asking personal questions?' and then telling her that even if she agrees, you won't be offended at all if she prefers not to answer. I personally am an open book and am happy to chat about just about anything, but not all ladies feel that way and you could make things awkward if she doesn't want to answer.

Also - are you sure you want to know? My answer is always that I was broke, and felt like a change, and figured if I didn't like it I just wouldn't do it again. But some ladies might answer that they were desperate, or have a story about having a family member (or even a child) to support. Would that kind of answer make you unhappy? If you ask personal questions you may get personal answers so make sure you're prepared for that.

2. This to me sounds like you are being very selfish - you assume that you are at risk of catching something from the lady, and you can't possibly take that risk, but she should happily swallow your cum despite knowing nothing about you and your health record? Personally if I had the choice of unprotected sexual contact with another escort or a punter, I would take the escort as her health is her livelyhood and she can probably be trusted to have taken care of it. I don't offer OWO or CIM, but if I did I would be offended by being asked for this.

3. I would say it's completely acceptable to ask this, but as long as you aren't offended if she says no. I'm bisexual and love the taste of other women's pussy - but tasting my own just doesn't feel quite right. Also safe sex recommendations are to change the condom between oral and regular sex - I'm not entirely strict with that as long as I don't think I've been sucking for too long and I'm confident I haven't snagged the condom with my teeth, but I wouldn't be happy with repeated swapping between the two as it seems like it's asking for trouble so I would want to change the condom I think, which would detract from the session.

4. I would say absolutely yes, as long as you are polite. If a guy starts ordering me around I get quite creeped out as it seems almost sociopathic, definitely feels disrespectful. Asking is always fine - just, as always, respect it if she says no and would rather follow her own routine. Some ladies like to work a certain way as it keeps their boundaries up, even if it seems like a silly thing to care about routine can keep this job comfortable for some ladies :)

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2. Sounds fine to me. I don’t offer OWO but rather like it when a man comes in my mouth with a condom on, and would be happy to do what you’re suggesting.

I think I misinterpreted what you were asking, Inspire. I wouldn't be happy with giving OW then the client taking the condom off just before he came and me taking the cum in my mouth. I do not offer OWO for 3 reasons - the risk of contracting an STI, disliking smeggy/uriney unfresh cocks, and I don't like cum in my mouth.

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Why the interest

Your job is unusual, secretive and taboo. It's inherently interesting.

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1)Topic of conversation, is it okay to ask the WG, how she got into this business and how long she has been in it (and related questions)? The reason Id ask is because its something Id be interested to know. Doubt for not asking, would be her reasons for doing the work might be due to some form of desperation and therefore not something she wants to be asked about.

I think that's very bad form.

2)Is it acceptable to have a covered blow job, but still want to finish with CIM. The CIM would be just that, head back, tongue ready begging for the CUM. Porn star style. No need for sucking the cock, as that ruins the point of having covered BJ in first place. (Anyone ideal for this service in Milton Keynes, let me know).

Seems a strange one to me.

3)I love the contrast of mouth (bj) to pussy (shagging) and vice versa. Is it acceptable to ask or expect to be swapping from suck to fuck and vice versa?

I've had suck, then fuck, and end with suck on occasions.

4)Dictating the meeting, quite often the girl requests the guy to lie on the bed and it goes from there. Is it okay to just take more control from the off and request where you want the WG from the start, ie maybe her lying face down on the bed, or getting on her knees to start fondling/sucking etc

Yes.

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1)It's a question I've always batted away without answering. Why the interest, what benefit would it give you during the session ?

Of course its interesting, and if after a while I realised it was mostly negative reasons women get into this line of work, maybe I would punt.

2)So it's OK passing your germs, but you don't want hers ! (for want of a better phrase)

3)OK in private sex and rather nice, but with an escort only safe if your cock stays perfectly hard during each bout of oral, otherwise new condom on each time for penetration... distracting ?

4)Domineering aren't you... not a bad thing at all, but as Lara says, best you let the lady know to start with, not just spring it upon... but added in with your other questions, makes me wonder just how it is you think of working ladies.

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1)It's a question I've always batted away without answering. Why the interest, what benefit would it give you during the session ?

Of course its interesting, and if after a while I realised it was mostly negative reasons women get into this line of work, maybe I would punt.

2)So it's OK passing your germs, but you don't want hers ! (for want of a better phrase)

Firstly, having OW, and no contact means its a lot less likely I have any such germs assuming safe sex life in general. Secondly, Im the one paying the money. Thirdly, shes a WG willing do do CIM as part of her service, why shouldnt I choose how its done. Fair enough if she doesnt like the way I want the CIM, but why have something against the condom and contact part?

3)OK in private sex and rather nice, but with an escort only safe if your cock stays perfectly hard during each bout of oral, otherwise new condom on each time for penetration... distracting ?

4)Domineering aren't you... not a bad thing at all, but as Lara says, best you let the lady know to start with, not just spring it upon... but added in with your other questions, makes me wonder just how it is you think of working ladies.

Normally too submissive and just lie back, was just exploring the idea of having it a bit more how id want it to go.

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1. If you want to ask that question, I'd suggest asking first 'are you alright with me asking personal questions?' and then telling her that even if she agrees, you won't be offended at all if she prefers not to answer. I personally am an open book and am happy to chat about just about anything, but not all ladies feel that way and you could make things awkward if she doesn't want to answer.

Also - are you sure you want to know? My answer is always that I was broke, and felt like a change, and figured if I didn't like it I just wouldn't do it again. But some ladies might answer that they were desperate, or have a story about having a family member (or even a child) to support. Would that kind of answer make you unhappy? If you ask personal questions you may get personal answers so make sure you're prepared for that. Yes I would be prepared for that, far too many punters kid themselves the women enjoy there work and thats the main reason they do it..

2. This to me sounds like you are being very selfish - you assume that you are at risk of catching something from the lady, and you can't possibly take that risk, but she should happily swallow your cum (((well she could spit)))despite knowing nothing about you and your health record? Personally if I had the choice of unprotected sexual contact with another escort or a punter, I would take the escort as her health is her livelyhood and she can probably be trusted to have taken care of it. I don't offer OWO or CIM, but if I did I would be offended by being asked for this. ((Your not the right person to answer this question as you dont offer the service anyway, noy saying I dont appreiciate your reply, I do.))

3. I would say it's completely acceptable to ask this, but as long as you aren't offended if she says no. I'm bisexual and love the taste of other women's pussy - but tasting my own just doesn't feel quite right. Also safe sex recommendations are to change the condom between oral and regular sex - I'm not entirely strict with that as long as I don't think I've been sucking for too long and I'm confident I haven't snagged the condom with my teeth, but I wouldn't be happy with repeated swapping between the two as it seems like it's asking for trouble so I would want to change the condom I think, which would detract from the session. ((yes fair point, hadnt thought of that, the snagging condom aspect)).

4. I would say absolutely yes, as long as you are polite. If a guy starts ordering me around I get quite creeped out as it seems almost sociopathic, definitely feels disrespectful. Asking is always fine - just, as always, respect it if she says no and would rather follow her own routine. Some ladies like to work a certain way as it keeps their boundaries up, even if it seems like a silly thing to care about routine can keep this job comfortable for some ladies :)

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1)Topic of conversation, is it okay to ask the WG, how she got into this business and how long she has been in it (and related questions)? The reason Id ask is because its something Id be interested to know. Doubt for not asking, would be her reasons for doing the work might be due to some form of desperation and therefore not something she wants to be asked about.

The first rule of Fight Club is, you do not talk about Fight Club.The second rule of Fight Club is, you DO NOT talk about Fight Club.

Having said that, if it comes up in the general convo, go with the flow.

Just don't never ask.

B

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Your not the right person to answer this question as you dont offer the service anyway,

When you wrote the thread, you never mentioned anything in the sense: "The only WGs who provide OWO can answer my question". You are not paying here to dictate, who can or can not post a response to you.

Anyway: I can't see any WG, would agree to your above described requests. Some might echoed the reasons why, which will be similar to the replies which girls above posted. Others just delete email with a thought "not going to put myself through, to deal with another misogynistic idiot, which have not got a slightest idea whatsoever regarding his own desires and how they can be realistically achieved.

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When you wrote the thread, you never mentioned anything in the sense: "The only WGs who provide OWO can answer my question". You are not paying here to dictate, who can or can not post a response to you.

Anyway: I can't see any WG, would agree to your above described requests. Some might echoed the reasons why, which will be similar to the replies which girls above posted. Others just delete email with a thought "not going to put myself through, to deal with another misogynistic idiot, which have not got a slightest idea whatsoever regarding his own desires and how they can be realistically achieved.

Well it kind of makes sense that the question is pointless to any WG who doesnt offer CIM in the first place.

Also, note I thanked her for her response, so your mini quote is taken out of context!

So yourself as a WG who offers CIM, only does so on the terms that the actual cock goes into your mouth. Fair enough. At least we know. Care to let us know your reason for this? Why you wont you suck cock with a condom and let him finish off with a facial and or CIM? What is your own reason for this?

If a punter wants to be safe, but take advantage of as many services as possible, I think its a very fair question. Note, Im sounding the question out in a public forum before even considering asking a WG for this service.

What was wrong with the other questions? I even know myself of a reason why you are a WG. So what would have been wrong with me asking you in person?

Do you like to dicate the action from the off and have the meeting go exactly as YOU want it?

Hmmm

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I'd like to comment on a couple of things brought up in this thread because not every WG offers the same type of experience(or service as you may like to call it).

I can't remember ever starting off with the chap on the bed, well I can but that was an exception I found a bit odd. For me an appointment starts a little more naturally in the hall or lounge, mutually leading each other on.

Secondly instructions. Well I find scripted meets to often be very odd, more often than not the scripter may change his mind last minute, and of course having instructions can leave a girl wondering which line she's actually on and is it time to move to the next activity. Remember sexy is often spontaneous and if one of you is having to ask "Umm are we ready for step 2yet?" then it could all start to feel a bit wooden(or not!).

Just my thoughts.

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Well it kind of makes sense that the question is pointless to any WG who doesnt offer CIM in the first place.

No, it's not. My point is that I would be offended if a gentleman expected me to do a sex act that would put me at far higher risk than him. Choosing to wear a condom so that you don't catch anything from the nasty, dirty prostitute but still expecting her to have contact with your fluids which could infect her with anything you're carrying, that is unequal. OWO is a risk I don't take because I have concerns about catching (and passing on) an STD - but if I was willing to take the risk then I would expect my clients to be taking an equal risk, rather than taking advantage.

Anyone can have an opinion on wanting to be treated as an equal and with respect.

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Well it kind of makes sense that the question is pointless to any WG who doesnt offer CIM in the first place.

Also, note I thanked her for her response, so your mini quote is taken out of context!

Ok, but why cut off number of people who can respond to you (that is including male members of this forum, only because they don't provide OWO, lol)

So yourself as a WG who offers CIM, only does so on the terms that the actual cock goes into your mouth. Fair enough. At least we know. Care to let us know your reason for this? Why you wont you suck cock with a condom and let him finish off with a facial and or CIM? What is your own reason for this?

I don't have a problem to do it, but I would not accept such request from the punter I have not known before. I had cum shots to my mouth (without penis been in my mouth previosly) while suspended from the cliff, under 8 meters of water, and even once during the skydiving 1500 ft above the ground. However that was a "fantasy cum shot", I had theirs penises in my mouth before bare and unbare. (just not on the particular meetings).

It is very different, then requests from the client, who you have not seen previously: "you suck me with condom, then I whip it off, and you take it all in your mouth..". As other girls aready mentioned, its does come across: your are dirty whore, I don't want your mouth with various bacterias around my dick, but I still want you to consume mine, or spread it around your face.

If a punter wants to be safe, but take advantage of as many services as possible, I think its a very fair question
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Fair enough, but as I said before, I can't see many WG would be that desparate as to go for something as demeaning as you discibed.

What was wrong with the other questions? I even know myself of a reason why you are a WG.

No you don't. Just because I mentioned in CR (when you was present) once,regarding my family financial problems, does not mean that is the entirely reson.

Do you like to dicate the action from the off and have the meeting go exactly as YOU want it?

I don't dictate the action, but I always try to divert the current, if it does not flow my way. ;-)

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Hi,

Just decided to put a few past passing thoughts into one post. Please let me know whether you think these acts/topics are general okay or not, as the case maybe.

1)Topic of conversation, is it okay to ask the WG, how she got into this business and how long she has been in it (and related questions)? The reason Id ask is because its something Id be interested to know. Doubt for not asking, would be her reasons for doing the work might be due to some form of desperation and therefore not something she wants to be asked about.

2)Is it acceptable to have a covered blow job, but still want to finish with CIM. The CIM would be just that, head back, tongue ready begging for the CUM. Porn star style. No need for sucking the cock, as that ruins the point of having covered BJ in first place. (Anyone ideal for this service in Milton Keynes, let me know).

3)I love the contrast of mouth (bj) to pussy (shagging) and vice versa. Is it acceptable to ask or expect to be swapping from suck to fuck and vice versa?

4)Dictating the meeting, quite often the girl requests the guy to lie on the bed and it goes from there. Is it okay to just take more control from the off and request where you want the WG from the start, ie maybe her lying face down on the bed, or getting on her knees to start fondling/sucking etc

Thanks

Inspire

1. depends on the Wg in question, my history in terms of why I started doing this is already on the open forum so I don't mind answering it, but for some it crosses the Wg/punter line.

As long as you don't mind the personal questions in return, i.e do you have wife, kids etc...

2. I would be rather offended if you asked me this, as you are implying that I have something, while asking me to trust that you don't. but I don't offer CIM so is irrelevant to me personally.

3. Don't have an issue with this as I don't mind the taste of myself, or other women.

4. You are paying to have a good time, and in that respect if asked in an appropriate manner I don't see this being an issue with any WG.

By appropriate I mean if you ask rather than demand...

Can we start with you on your knees? I find it sexy when you lay on your front with you butt in the air, can you lay like that for me...

rather than...

Get on your front arse in the air, you need to get on your knees...

if you see what I mean.

Tammy

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No, it's not. My point is that I would be offended if a gentleman expected me to do a sex act that would put me at far higher risk than him. Choosing to wear a condom so that you don't catch anything from the nasty, dirty prostitute but still expecting her to have contact with your fluids which could infect her with anything you're carrying, that is unequal. OWO is a risk I don't take because I have concerns about catching (and passing on) an STD - but if I was willing to take the risk then I would expect my clients to be taking an equal risk, rather than taking advantage.

Anyone can have an opinion on wanting to be treated as an equal and with respect.

Why should the punter take equal risk and pay money on top. IMO thats unequal.

Also, assuming he "thinks" he is STI free and wants to stay that way. Assuming the girl offers CIM, its a service she is willing to provide for the money anyway regardless of the risks she is facing. I think its wrong she should say, while I provide the service but only if your willing to risk catching an STI from me, which lets face it is slightly more likely given she offers CIM in the first place. That in itself is a step above just normal OWO.

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4. You are paying to have a good time, and in that respect if asked in an appropriate manner I don't see this being an issue with any WG.

By appropriate I mean if you ask rather than demand...

Can we start with you on your knees? I find it sexy when you lay on your front with you butt in the air, can you lay like that for me...

rather than...

Get on your front arse in the air, you need to get on your knees...

if you see what I mean.

Tammy

For the record, Id certainly be more on the polite side.

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No you don't. Just because I mentioned in CR (when you was present) once,regarding my family financial problems, does not mean that is the entirely reson.

I said "a reason" not the whole reason.

For the record, I don't think Id actually request the covered blow job then CIM.

Its borderline anyway, the idea of CIM is great, then after Id cum, Im not bothered whether id actually done it or not, or somethimes wish hadnt done it. The thought of doing it and the women wanting it, whether she gets it or not is enough.

Let's face it, most women don't actually like it, which is difficult to hide completely and for me peronally a slight turn off.

Sure, if there is a WG in or around MK who does love CIM and would be disappointed it went in a condom, let me know. I won't hold my breath though.

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I said "a reason" not the whole reason.

For the record, I don't think Id actually request the covered blow job then CIM.

Its borderline anyway, the idea of CIM is great, then after Id cum, Im not bothered whether id actually done it or not, or somethimes wish hadnt done it. The thought of doing it and the women wanting it, whether she gets it or not is enough.

Let's face it, most women don't actually like it, which is difficult to hide completely and for me peronally a slight turn off.

Sure, if there is a WG in or around MK who does love CIM and would be disappointed it went in a condom, let me know. I won't hold my breath though.

Why should someone who is prepared to take the risk be offended by someone who is not prepared to take the risk? The latter is actually a better propostion from the point of view of risk.

Personally I love OWO.

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