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Guys Have you ever dated a woman & then she revealed to you she is a wg?

If so how did you deal with it?

Was it an thing that excited you or were you turned off by that revelation?

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I know the qustion was aimed at the guys but could not resist!

I did date a guy for a couple of weeks, he kept on mentioning prostitutes so thought perhaps he had seen my website and put two and two together.

Not particularly liking not being truthful, I came clean..

The reaction? He thought it was absolutely disgusting and I never saw him again.. The end! <_<

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Funnily enough, I met a girl and after a couple of dates she 'confessed' that she was an escort. Actually, she didn't even confess, I guessed after she made it quite obvious. I can't quite recall if I'd punted or not at that time, but I was perfectly willing to give it a go, but it didn't work out. She did seem quite embarrassed about it, I suppose she was well used to bad reactions from people, but I'd like to think I was reassuring. Not reassuring enough not to get chucked, but there you go.

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Guys Have you ever dated a woman & then she revealed to you she is a wg?

If so how did you deal with it?

Was it an thing that excited you or were you turned off by that revelation?

For any patron of escorts I think it would be a double standard to hold her profession, or former profession, against her.

I know the qustion was aimed at the guys but could not resist!

I did date a guy for a couple of weeks, he kept on mentioning prostitutes so thought perhaps he had seen my website and put two and two together.

Not particularly liking not being truthful, I came clean..

The reaction? He thought it was absolutely disgusting and I never saw him again.. The end! <_<

His loss!

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I scored with a girl, the following morning in her kitchen I found her "escort business cards". At that time I hadn't paid for sex, I had no need to. I guess it made me aware that they were very attractive girls out there willing to exchange their body for cash and it wasn't all about red light districts as I had previously thought. So a positive experience, she was the best shag I had had up till then and maybe opened the door to this hobby which I started a few years later.

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My regular WG dated a guy for several weeks before she told him what she did! He was shocked as he had not met one before- he is in his 20s and has no need to pay for it. He only agreed to carry on the relationship if she supported him- which she does. I reckon he is a toe rag and a loser, but then it's none of my business. I just support him indirectly by paying for one hour a week with his gf.

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In my youth I did have a couple of dates (well, lie-ins!) with a 40-something retired Norwegian hooker. Since then I've not knowingly had a date with an escort, as such, but I didn once treat a sensual masseuse friend to a night of X Factor Live - fetuaring JEdward. I'm still getting therapy for that. :rolleyes:

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How awkward this situation must be! This is why I'm taking a break from relationships/dating til retirement. And by that time I'll most probably be an old woman living in a houseful of cats.

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In my youth I did have a couple of dates (well, lie-ins!) with a 40-something retired Norwegian hooker. Since then I've not knowingly had a date with an escort, as such, but I didn once treat a sensual masseuse friend to a night of X Factor Live - fetuaring JEdward. I'm still getting therapy for that. :rolleyes:

I think you are the one who should have been paid for that encounter Tony if it was an hour of Jedward! :P

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I would never date someone who is/was in the past an escort.

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I would never date someone who is/was in the past an escort.

Twice, each time without knowing in advance she was a wg.

First time was through a personal ad in a straight dating column. We met in the bar of a smart hotel. After some agreeable conversation she said that she could go to bed with me and I could pay her some money. I refused, we chatted for a while afterwards and then parted, never to meet again.

Second time was on holiday. I met an attractive, elegant lady at a cocktail party and arranged to go out with her the next night for dinner. Next day I mentioned this to someone based in the resort, who told me she was a high class call girl. When he said this it had the feeling of truth, from a number of surrounding circumstances. Part of me was shocked, and part was flattered that she would agree to a regular date with me. Under no circumstances would I have been willing to pay her if she tried to turn a date into a business meeting. We met at the time agreed, she was dressed up for a date, but told me that she had to cancel as she had work to do.

So one date was a marketing ploy to get money out of me, and the other was cancelled presumably because she had made an appointment to have sex with another man who was going to pay her.

I will never knowingly date a wg, as I can never be sure if there will be a cash transaction involved somewhere.

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Mee too, it has never crossed my mind to date any of the Wgs I have seen so far!

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I would never date someone who is/was in the past an escort.

How then can you expect any woman to date you after you have seen escorts?

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How then can you expect any woman to date you after you have seen escorts?

Spot on reply, I couldnt agree more.

Though it asks the next question; if you punted when young and have stopped now you're in a relationship, should you ever tell your girlfriend or would that be risking too much if she didnt understand and it damaged your relationship (if she still wanted to be with you that is).

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Spot on reply, I couldnt agree more.

Though it asks the next question; if you punted when young and have stopped now you're in a relationship, should you ever tell your girlfriend or would that be risking too much if she didnt understand and it damaged your relationship (if she still wanted to be with you that is).

I firmly believe that in a relationship, no matter how much you love or adore your girlfriend there are certain secrets you should keep to yourself.

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I firmly believe that in a relationship, no matter how much you love or adore your girlfriend there are certain secrets you should keep to yourself.

I agree, there is no need to reveal all to partners not unless there is some way thats she/he will find out anyway. We all have a past x

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I would never date someone who is/was in the past an escort.

May I ask the reason?

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I am sure I'm not alone among married punters (a term I dislike but use as convenient shorthand) in having thought about issues around this subject. It's very easy for me to say in the abstract but I honestly believe that, were my wife to decide to take up escorting, I would be supportive of her decision, and my main concerns would be for her safety and her health.

Similarly, were I single and started dating a lady who, it turned out, was currently escorting, I hope that it would not influence my attitude towards her. As long as our mutual attraction went beyond the purely physical (it would have to in my case!), and our relationship developed into a strong, committed one, it wouldn't really matter to me whether she was an escort, a secretary or a long distance lorry driver. One thing I know I most certainly wouldn't do is quiz her about the intimacies of her working life, anymore than I probe into what Sheila gossipped about by the water cooler, or what Joe in the Greasy Spoon on the A1 was saying.

As I said, easy to say, but an attitude to which I hope I would be true.

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