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Is A Wg A Sex Addict?

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i was thinking about sex addiction and wondered about this if a working girl is a sex addict?

If they are having sex so many times in the week then do they get addicted to the sex? Im not saying in a kind of way that they love all the sex and they are complete nymphos No not in that sort of way, its work and I understand that most of the time they dont really like the sex and its meaningless sex but what im trying to find out is when they have this job do they get addicted to the Sex? cos say if they have sex 5 times a day every day then maybe they would end up a sex addict?

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i was thinking about sex addiction and wondered about this if a working girl is a sex addict?

If they are having sex so many times in the week then do they get addicted to the sex? Im not saying in a kind of way that they love all the sex and they are complete nymphos No not in that sort of way, its work and I understand that most of the time they dont really like the sex and its meaningless sex but what im trying to find out is when they have this job do they get addicted to the Sex? cos say if they have sex 5 times a day every day then maybe they would end up a sex addict?

probably more a money addict

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its work and I understand that most of the time they dont really like the sex and

So how do you get addicted to something you dont really like ?

Another pointless thread showing lack of understanding of the SP

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So how do you get addicted to something you dont really like ?

Another pointless thread showing lack of understanding of the SP

simple by having lots of it.

I smoke and im addicted to smoking I dont really like it in fact I hate it but im addicted to it so you can be addicted to some thing you dont like

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Seriously???

No chance, if they were, they would give it away...;)

S

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AFAIK, women may or may not be sex addict, but at least all of them irrespective of age are overly addicted to handbags, clothes & teddy bears, even the ugly ones !!

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AFAIK, women may or may not be sex addict, but at least all of them irrespective of age are overly addicted to handbags, clothes & teddy bears, even the ugly ones !!

I was with you right up until the teddy bears...

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It could become a habit I guess.

Why doesn't anyone ask about orgasm addicts?

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It could become a habit I guess.

Why doesn't anyone ask about orgasm addicts?

:D I feel an old punk song coming on

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Seriously???

No chance, if they were, they would give it away...;)

S

And why does that follow? Surely logic says that if a WG were addicted to sex to the exclusion of all else then she would charge for it, it being her only means of making an income?

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AFAIK, women may or may not be sex addict, but at least all of them irrespective of age are overly addicted to handbags, clothes & teddy bears, even the ugly ones !!

I'm an ugly one (I must be, I'm over 25), and have surprisingly little interest in handbags, clothes or teddy bears.

Especially teddy bears.

Maybe I'm not a woman.

*checks bollocks*

FFS. :rolleyes:

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simple by having lots of it.

I smoke and im addicted to smoking I dont really like it in fact I hate it but im addicted to it so you can be addicted to some thing you dont like

Punters don't have addictive substances in them?

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AFAIK, women may or may not be sex addict, but at least all of them irrespective of age are overly addicted to handbags, clothes & teddy bears, even the ugly ones !!

Hey, what do you mean "all"?! :angry: Don’t count me in this. I have far more interesting things to spend my money on than handbags, clothes and soft toys. I like practical things more than decorations, and get more excited walking round the local builders’ merchants than browsing for shoes. Tsk!

i was thinking about sex addiction and wondered about this if a working girl is a sex addict?

If they are having sex so many times in the week then do they get addicted to the sex? Im not saying in a kind of way that they love all the sex and they are complete nymphos No not in that sort of way, its work and I understand that most of the time they dont really like the sex and its meaningless sex but what im trying to find out is when they have this job do they get addicted to the Sex? cos say if they have sex 5 times a day every day then maybe they would end up a sex addict?

Well, not having sex “5 times a day every day” I can’t really comment. Overall I have about the same amount as I would when in a healthy relationship and I certainly don’t class myself as anything more than a woman with a “normal, healthy” libido after 10 years of escorting so it’s not turned me into a addict. When I’m in a new relationship, where I fancy the pants off my BF, love his personality, and if the sex is great I’m up for more, but not to the point of not being able to get on with day to day things. Couldn’t possibly speak for other ladies however as we’re all different.

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A WG I know did say she was becoming a sex addict and wanting it more and more but it's the only time I have heard of that. I would hope though that they are sex addicts. Otherwise can you imagine how tedious it would become having to entertain punters and put on a show when its simply boring you to death? Mind you I guess many wives are in the same boat.

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AFAIK, women may or may not be sex addict, but at least all of them irrespective of age are overly addicted to handbags, clothes & teddy bears, even the ugly ones !!

I took this to mean even addicted to ugly teddy bears not ugly women being addicted to teddy bears but everyone else seems to have taken it the other way... Clarify? Lol

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One rather wonders if the opposite might be the case; that the relentless daily engagement in sex offered professionally (often with those not considered by the WG to be either attractive or proficient) might in time dull the enthusiasm for sex for even the most libidinous. While I imagine that variation in this respect among WGs is as great as it is among women of other professions (though there is perhaps a tendency among people to be drawn into professions that they think they might enjoy), I kind of suspect that the question 'Does being a WG eventually dull one's enthusiasm for sex?' might produce more interesting answers. I don't claim to have any answers to this question and wait with interest for those with relevant experience to provide these.

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Habing just returned from a two year break I would say the answer to the OP's question is yes in my case. I've been missing work like you wouldn't believe and can't wait to get back to it again.

The whole time I've been away, I've thought none stop about it and constantly looking for ways I could get back sooner. And no I don't care what some of you guys say.. Its not all about the money, for me thats just the cherry on the cake!

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I'm an ugly one (I must be, I'm over 25), and have surprisingly little interest in handbags, clothes or teddy bears.

Especially teddy bears.

Maybe I'm not a woman.

*checks bollocks*

FFS. :rolleyes:

Nooo..I meant ugly teddy bears..Women don't look ugly to me...

One of the girls' whom I met last year, favourite stuffed toy was an awful looking green frog, something which I never understood!

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I Actually raised this subject a few weeks ago, and it got very heated, in the end that discussion was closed, in my opinion girls that do this job regularly, have to have a very high sex drive and in my opinion could be described as nymphos, if you consider the number of guys they see I have never heard any of them say I have seen to many men today! its not something they can pretend to like its a natural ability that not all women are able to have, you men that have wife’s that are always having a headache will understand these girls are in the sex industry because they love sex and need to have it a lot I know lots of girls with husbands and boy friends doing this work they are not desperate for cash no woman especially in this country is desperate for cash obviously the extra cash comes in handy, but thy basically love the attention of men People normally chose the profession they enjoy and that suits their character very few are forced

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I’ll answer your points from my perspective (and sorry if it bursts anyone’s bubble)…

...in my opinion girls that do this job regularly, have to have a very high sex drive and in my opinion could be described as nymphos...

I don’t agree. Maybe they do and maybe they don’t have high sex drives. But what they definitely have to have is a high tolerance to strangers they probably wouldn’t fuck if they were the ones doing the choosing.

...if you consider the number of guys they see I have never heard any of them say I have seen to many men today!...

Of course they’re unlikely to tell you, a punter, that they hate what they do or they really couldn’t tolerate another client that day. You’ll only ever really know the truth about this industry from ex WGs who have nothing to lose by bursting a few bubbles, or from ladies who post on forums under pseudonyms. Not every lady sees multiple men every day of every week, so as I’ve already said, the numbers of times I have sex is probably no more than I would if in a good relationship. The only difference is that it’s with various men rather than one partner.

...its not something they can pretend to like...

Of course we can pretend to like it. We are paid to give clients a good time as well as the illusion that we think they’re sex gods. I would say that it would be difficult for a lady to do this job if she hated sex or sex with men she didn’t fancy, but for ladies who can override the “I really don’t fancy him and he presses all the wrong buttons sexually” thoughts and get on with it are the ones likely to succeed in this business I reckon. You have to be able to find something, anything positive in a stranger to do this.

...these girls are in the sex industry because they love sex and need to have it a lot...

Not necessarily. We can enjoy sex without needing lots of it. I’m more into quality over quantity myself and am more than capable of “switching it on” when I have a client whether my libido is at rock bottom or sky high. It’s just easier when the libido is higher that’s all.

...I know lots of girls with husbands and boy friends doing this work they are not desperate for cash no woman especially in this country is desperate for cash obviously the extra cash comes in handy, but thy basically love the attention of men...

Women are WGs for lots of reasons though. Just because they don’t need the money doesn’t mean they don’t want more of it. Consider all the very wealthy people who still work because (partly) they feel they can never have too much money. What about the variety of sexual partners? It’s not just men who like it. What about the ego side of things too? The thrill of being considered so attractive that men are willing to pay to touch them, and the pride in doing the job so well that they actually return? It feels good to be desired, and the more it happens the more it’s reinforced that we are attractive. In an ageist society (especially if you’re female), for this to happen as we get older gives it even more validity. What about the social element; meeting lots of interesting men? Eating out in nice restaurants? Flexible working hours, good work/life balance.

I think it’s too easy for men to only consider the sex and money side of the attraction of this industry and it’s far more complex than that.

...People normally chose the profession they enjoy and that suits their character very few are forced

I do agree with you there. But it is too easy to get trapped in a job though don't you think. I know lots of people in other fields who would rather do something else but can't because of family/commuting/financial pressure etc.

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:rolleyes:

T-R-O-L-L

Yep, that's right, we luuuuurve sex and can't get enough of it, if I could get five in me at once, I would love it, in fact, I don't want to get paid any more, just SHAG ME PLEASE MEN, SHAG ME.

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I am not a sex addict but have a very high sex drive. More's the point I am pathalogically unfaithful so I love being single and an escort.

If I was trolling bars every night looking for sex I would get a reputation, and probably become an alcholic!

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You can become addicted to going to the gym, or long distance running simply because the chemicals stimulated in the brain by these activities. It isn't common but it happens.

I would say that for the very busiest of escorts 3 things can happen,

1. Over exposure to men can put the girls off men.

2. They can take it or leave it and it doesn't effect them much.

3. They develop strong cravings for sex if they have gone without for a while. (hard to know if this wouldn't be the case regardless of their profession)

Who can say how many fall into each catagory? Since there is such a huge difference in sexual appetite of individuals surely it is hard to judge.

As to someone saying that they have never heard a WG say that they have seen too many men today - I have heard this. Generally the more expensive girls see less men and if there is a particularly cheap and attractive escort they can become overworked. They either burn out or raise the prices eventually.

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...if I could get five in me at once, I would love it, in fact, I don't want to get paid any more, just SHAG ME PLEASE MEN, SHAG ME.

Trollop ;):D

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Trollop ;):D

Pa-hahahaha! Guilty :)

(Just to clarify, I wasn't calling your good self a troll, was referring to the berk of a post above yours that you took the time to deconstruct. I am definitely a trollop though.... We all are, we're WG's remember, so we must be :rolleyes: )

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