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Lara Brooks

Do You Read The Website Before Calling The Lady?

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Men, do you make a point of reading a lady’s website before contacting her or do you simply take down the number then call? I can never understand why some wouldn’t take a few minutes to find out the important information, but just phone up and ask “where are you?”, “how much?” or worse still “what do you look like?”! I find it irritating that all my hard work in coding, writing and maintaining my site counts for nothing if men can’t be bothered to at least spend a couple of minutes reading it. Now I’m not always the most patient person in the world, but if I find a company’s contact details on their website I think it’s only respectful to spend a couple of minutes at least finding out if they sell what I’m after before I phone to ask them.

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I always read it carefully. Surely it's the best way to reduce the risk of disappointment plus calling a lady and asking her the bleeding obvious when it's on her site won't get you off to a good start.

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I always read a lady's website in detail, it can give a good insight into what the lady's like. You've just got to accept that not every punter's perfect.

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What about the ones who ask if you're available at so and so time, you go into discussing your availability and agree an appointment time... then they ask 'Can you tell me what kind of massage you offer ?'.

Some days I get cross with myself at how many appointments I could have had, that after taking time to clarify my service, after they'd booked their appointment, it turns out they were after a naked massage or full service.

If I were less scrupulous, or had a burly bloke in the next room, I could have let them find that out after they'd handed over their money.

All this does is show how many blokes out there aren't aware of places like this, and the care with their pounds and punts that Punternet punters place.

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What about the ones who ask if you're available at so and so time, you go into discussing your availability and agree an appointment time... then they ask 'Can you tell me what kind of massage you offer ?'.

Some days I get cross with myself at how many appointments I could have had, that after taking time to clarify my service, after they'd booked their appointment, it turns out they were after a naked massage or full service.

If I were less scrupulous, or had a burly bloke in the next room, I could have let them find that out after they'd handed over their money.

All this does is show how many blokes out there aren't aware of places like this, and the care with their pounds and punts that Punternet punters place.

That's just guys being stupid. It's obvious you ask the lady about services first then if it sounds right then you ask about availability. Isn't it??? :rolleyes:

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I'd say they're thinking with dick first, it needs sorting so who's gonna do it, ok she is, now then, let's see what's she gonna do with it.

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I'd say they're thinking with dick first, it needs sorting so who's gonna do it, ok she is, now then, let's see what's she gonna do with it.

Sadly, it sounds like this is so true for many would be punters :blink:

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Yes if lady has a website i do check her out, only when ive decided i would like to see her do i phone/email her to discus an appointment time.

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Men, do you make a point of reading a lady’s website before contacting her or do you simply take down the number then call? I can never understand why some wouldn’t take a few minutes to find out the important information, but just phone up and ask “where are you?”, “how much?” or worse still “what do you look like?”! I find it irritating that all my hard work in coding, writing and maintaining my site counts for nothing if men can’t be bothered to at least spend a couple of minutes reading it. Now I’m not always the most patient person in the world, but if I find a company’s contact details on their website I think it’s only respectful to spend a couple of minutes at least finding out if they sell what I’m after before I phone to ask them.

Even if most won't read all info on the website a few will read. Like most people will first start a DVD player and then read the manual only if they cannot get it started. Since your website is your catalogue and even your operating manual you need to have it any way, whether anyone reads it or not. (It is a part of CE certification requirement :D ).

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I'd say they're thinking with dick first, it needs sorting so who's gonna do it, ok she is, now then, let's see what's she gonna do with it.

And the ones who phone up (got number off my site), ask about availability, then ask about services I say I don’t offer, say they want to meet then ask where I am. When I tell them they then say “Where’s that?” and it turns out it’s way out of their punting area. My location is listed twice, my services are on the “Service” page. Why is it so hard for some men to read it, grrr! :rolleyes:

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And the ones who phone up (got number off my site), ask about availability, then ask about services I say I don’t offer, say they want to meet then ask where I am. When I tell them they then say “Where’s that?” and it turns out it’s way out of their punting area. My location is listed twice, my services are on the “Service” page. Why is it so hard for some men to read it, grrr! :rolleyes:

Like most of the punters who've replied I read everything on the website before contacting. In fact I read everything I can: website, That Site profile, FRs, maybe a web search on the name, like to make sure a meeting won't waste either of our time.

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I absolutely read the website in great detail and try and form a picture of what the lady will be like. There are so many beautiful escorts out there that looks alone do not really help me decide who to go with. I have chosen a couple of girls because they had quirky things or interesting things on their websites. In other cases I have eliminated girls becuase there were things I did not like. (I was about to book a girl through ** when I noticed that in her private gallery she had a pic of her having unprotected sex - glad I noticed that). I also like to speak to the lady on the phone beforehand - it helps to get a feeling of what to expect

So Lara - don't give up on us. There are people out there who read the site. Use it as a filter for the right sort of guys. If they do not do you the courtesy of reading your site they are unliely to treat you with the respect you deserve.

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A post script to my previous reply:-

Lara - now taken a look at your website and read it in detail. I love the latin - a classy touch that is sure to sort the men from the boys. In all seriousness the sort of quirky thing that would make me want to check you out if I was ever in your area.

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I always read the website carefully. But I continue to be amazed how many websites dont give (or at least make it difficult to find) important information such as location. The website is vital, if I cannot easily find the info I need then I move on. I can't be bothered to phone up and ask for details that should be on the website.

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I've had phone calls from guys in Birmingham, and Leeds thinking I'm just around the corner from them probably because I'm listed as 'in the north'. I suppose so compared to Southend. I do think not everyone clicks through listings to your website - some guys will ring from details on reviews. Do you have any directory entries with just a few stats and phone number on it?

I often will ask were they've seen my details, website etc so ascertain what information they've already seen but usually I only get "on the internet".

I've given up worrying about it, if a chap wants to see you he'll take the time to get the revelant details.

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Men, do you make a point of reading a lady’s website before contacting her or do you simply take down the number then call? I can never understand why some wouldn’t take a few minutes to find out the important information, but just phone up and ask “where are you?”, “how much?” or worse still “what do you look like?”! I find it irritating that all my hard work in coding, writing and maintaining my site counts for nothing if men can’t be bothered to at least spend a couple of minutes reading it. Now I’m not always the most patient person in the world, but if I find a company’s contact details on their website I think it’s only respectful to spend a couple of minutes at least finding out if they sell what I’m after before I phone to ask them.

I absolutely take time and effort in scrutinising a lady's website before arranging a booking.

Not only that, I'd also search for independent reviews/field reports on her service, to check if she really is as good as she looks/sounds.

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Absolutely, to my mind at least there's too much at stake to risk going in blind, that and it's simple courtesy to make use of the website the lady has taken the time and effort to make to imform you what is and more importantly is not on offer to find out so you don't cause offence by asking for the latter either before or during your time together.

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I always read it at least 3 times,check feedback,pics,look at location map this puts you in the right area but not on the doorstep,its easy really.Whats the point of writing it if nobody reads it.

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I'm guessing Lara that you are getting so many "I read every word" replies that we are a self selecting, unrepresentative sample on here. The whole reason we are here is because we like reading and writing about our hobby. Therefore it stands to reason that we devour every word on the websites of the girls we are considering visiting.

I'm am sure that there is another whole different group of punters out there ( the good looking ones with social lives and manners :lol::P:D ) who just don't have the time or inclination to read a WGs website properly or waste their lives away posting on an internet forum B) .

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Men, do you make a point of reading a lady’s website before contacting her or do you simply take down the number then call? I can never understand why some wouldn’t take a few minutes to find out the important information, but just phone up and ask “where are you?”, “how much?” or worse still “what do you look like?”! I find it irritating that all my hard work in coding, writing and maintaining my site counts for nothing if men can’t be bothered to at least spend a couple of minutes reading it. Now I’m not always the most patient person in the world, but if I find a company’s contact details on their website I think it’s only respectful to spend a couple of minutes at least finding out if they sell what I’m after before I phone to ask them.

Hi Lara,

I always like to do as much research as I can before ringing someone and the internet makes it so easy, the questions above are more what you would ask if contacting someone from a newspaper ad or card in a newsagent's window.

However, most people like to talk to a lady first and you have to start somewhere. Even if it is asking the bleeding obvious. I know you will get timewasting w**kers but with a little bitof patience you should be able to secure some more customers.

Regards,

davidgood

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I've found a lot of guys spend and evening searching the net, store a few numbers then have to ask the questions to remind themselves who they are ringing later on. Also with so many websites.magazines pinching details now, you never really know where they got your number from in the first place.

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From the phone calls I get I would presume that an awful lot of people don't read the information on the website.

Edited by Joanna Manchester

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I've had phone calls from guys in Birmingham, and Leeds thinking I'm just around the corner from them probably because I'm listed as 'in the north'. I suppose so compared to Southend. I do think not everyone clicks through listings to your website - some guys will ring from details on reviews. Do you have any directory entries with just a few stats and phone number on it?

I often will ask were they've seen my details, website etc so ascertain what information they've already seen but usually I only get "on the internet".

I've given up worrying about it, if a chap wants to see you he'll take the time to get the revelant details.

I do get calls from men who have seen a listing somewhere I’m not even aware of, and the details are years out of date. That I can understand, but what I don’t get is this sort of scenario:

Me: may I ask where you found my contact details?

Him: on the internet

Me: was it my personal website?

Him: yes. I’m on it now

Me: great! Have you had a chance to read through it?

Him: No, I’ve only just clicked on it and got your number. Where are you? How much is it?

:rolleyes:

I'm guessing Lara that you are getting so many "I read every word" replies that we are a self selecting, unrepresentative sample on here. The whole reason we are here is because we like reading and writing about our hobby. Therefore it stands to reason that we devour every word on the websites of the girls we are considering visiting...

I think you have a very good point there. Clearly the men who phone for details aren’t frequenters of PN :P

...However, most people like to talk to a lady first and you have to start somewhere. Even if it is asking the bleeding obvious...

That I can understand. I just wish then that men would say something along the lines of, “I’ve read through your website and just wanted to double check a few details with you. Do you still offer XYZ and is the price still £*** for an hour?” That way it’s obvious he’s taken the trouble to read the site, yet is getting a feel for me by chatting too. We’re both happy then.

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However, most people like to talk to a lady first and you have to start somewhere. Even if it is asking the bleeding obvious. I know you will get timewasting w**kers but with a little bitof patience you should be able to secure some more customers.

Bless. I'm pretty sure Lara isn't wringing her hands in desperation for more custom. What I suspect she (like I) would like is to stop having to waste any more of her valuable time answering the phone to the sort of numpties that haven't even bothered to establish who or where she is before dialling and then get irate when politely directed to her website.

Nobody minds a genuine enquiry or confirming services/information that someone has already taken the time to avail themselves of, especially if the caller is plainly not in an appropriate situation to read the whole shebang. What f*cks us off is putting a great deal of time and effort into providing information, then answering the work phone only to be asked 'Now, which one are you?' or similar. It's even on Page One of How To Get Your Number Blacklisted ;).

I've been asked to do outcalls in Newcastle in an hour's time, for services I don't provide and for same day/half hour bookings when I don't offer them; none of these would be particularly galling as isolated questions but when it is abundantly clear from the callers tone that we're all just interchangeable twats on legs as far as he's concerned, he shouldn't be offended when the response is less than encouraging (hanging up, for example).

Incredible though it may be to some, we are not looking to convert every single contact we receive into an appointment and I think this often gets forgotten in the constant assertions that we should really be doing everything we can to see as many punters as is humanly possible per day, week or whatever. Some of us rate quality over quantity.

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Yes its one of my pet hates!

I always ask the guys "How did you get my number?" and its usually the net :rolleyes:

Then the usual "So which one are you?" " Where are you?" " What do you do?" and "How much?"

I let them ask all the silly questions without replying and then say "Soooo you didn't bother to read my site then?" and refer them back to it ;)

IMO this seperates the wheat from the chaff and if guys think I am snotty coz they can't be arsed reading my pages that I write to make things easier for both of us then should I be arsed???????? LOL!

I love it when a lovely polite guy who has clearly read my site calls me and yes clarifying stuff is fine :D

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