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What Is Your Speciality?

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This is a question I am asked time and time again and the same question makes me squirm in my seat every time. I mean what exactly do you want to hear? Everyone is different, so how do you know which of the things that you do is going to tick the box?

I hate the question asking which is your favourite position too. I had a boyfriend briefly about 2 years ago who only liked cowgirl and although I enjoy the position, when it is the ONLY position, it starts to get rather boring. Should I say which position I fancy at that moment, or end up always having to do the same thing? Am I allowed to say I like variety, or is that not really answering the question?

Can kissing be a speciality?

I don't know, it just feels very much like being in an interview, when you're being asked, "Why would you be good for this company?" and your mind goes blank and you feel slightly stupid and I clam up. Why can't you just look at the feedback and get the gist from that lol.

Is it laziness on your part? Hmmm... I quite like that idea. I'll blame you for making me dumb founded lol.

Any suggestions on how to answer this question will be most welcome.

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This is a question I am asked time and time again and the same question makes me squirm in my seat every time. I mean what exactly do you want to hear? Everyone is different, so how do you know which of the things that you do is going to tick the box?

I hate the question asking which is your favourite position too. I had a boyfriend briefly about 2 years ago who only liked cowgirl and although I enjoy the position, when it is the ONLY position, it starts to get rather boring. Should I say which position I fancy at that moment, or end up always having to do the same thing? Am I allowed to say I like variety, or is that not really answering the question?

Can kissing be a speciality?

I don't know, it just feels very much like being in an interview, when you're being asked, "Why would you be good for this company?" and your mind goes blank and you feel slightly stupid and I clam up. Why can't you just look at the feedback and get the gist from that lol.

Is it laziness on your part? Hmmm... I quite like that idea. I'll blame you for making me dumb founded lol.

Any suggestions on how to answer this question will be most welcome.

Possibly something along the lines of "these are the services I offer - and I'm superb at all of them"? ;)

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just say , " I specialise in men "

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Possibly something along the lines of "these are the services I offer - and I'm superb at all of them"? ;)

It's the 'I'm superb at all of them' bit I would have a problem saying. I've never been very good at accepting compliments and am much worse and blowing my own trumpet and what if I say I'm great and something and they get all excited about it just to feel disappointed as the way I do it isn't the way they like it? I hate inflating expectations, it puts me on edge and then I stop enjoying it. I'm so much happier when someone has looked at my FRs or fB and said they like the sound of me.

Maybe some things are not so easy to get used to?

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just say , " I specialise in men "

I like that one, but do you think it would work?

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I like that one, but do you think it would work?

Yes Kate, It means you know all there is to know about men . You confidently know what a man is coming to visit you for. It would work for me anyway , giving me confidence the wg knows what she is doing, so I don't have to think too much.

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I like that one, but do you think it would work?

Actually it struck me as like a line out of a movie starring Mae West or Zsa Zsa Gabor or someone! :D

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Yes Kate, It means you know all there is to know about men . You confidently know what a man is coming to visit you for. It would work for me anyway , giving me confidence the wg knows what she is doing, so I don't have to think too much.

I just tried it out on Tony. I am awaiting the response lol. Fingers crossed. I do like it though, it sounds rather quick witted and as you say confident, without me having to start babbling and side stepping while trying not to sound up my own arse.

Cheers!

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Actually it struck me as like a line out of a movie starring Mae West or Zsa Zsa Gabor or someone! :D

Tony , Is that a gun in your pocket or are you ...... ? :D

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Tony , Is that a gun in your pocket or are you ...... ? :D

Oh no dahleenk, you are mistakink me for somevone else.

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If BillGoldberg's thread on Thai Clean Ups is anything to go by Kate, being western, you could always reply "throwing the bog roll at you afterwards" :D .

It might not have the desired effect though ;) .

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Can kissing be a speciality?

Absolutely!

I'd book a girl that is a great kisser everytime.

I wish that I never have to see another WG who doesn't put any effort into kissing, but somehow I doubt this is going to happen. Great kissing makes for great sex, imo.

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If BillGoldberg's thread on Thai Clean Ups is anything to go by Kate, being western, you could always reply "throwing the bog roll at you afterwards" :D .

It might not have the desired effect though ;) .

I am sure, most likely it wil be the opposite and bring the desired effect, lol! He might rather see a feisty playful British to have a loo roll fight with, then subservient oriental who irons his shoe laces, washes his knackers, and sings a kind of "pillow talk" story in unknown eastern dialect. ;-)

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I am sure, most likely it wil be the opposite and bring the desired effect, lol! He might rather see a feisty playful British to have a loo roll fight with, then subservient oriental who irons his shoe laces, washes his knackers, and sings a kind of "pillow talk" story in unknown eastern dialect. ;-)

Thank you Xenia, for bringing me joy and laughter here in my snowed-in house :lol:

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I think if anyone asked me that, I would put the phone down. I do. If anyone is a 'tick the boxes' type of call, I think that it would be a mechanical exp from their side, and he's mentally ticking up boxes, did that, did that. How awful, how unerotic. It's like paint by numbers, sex by numbers. What's your speciality? As if you're a circus pony, doing tricks. Ugh.

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I think if anyone asked me that, I would put the phone down. I do. If anyone is a 'tick the boxes' type of call, I think that it would be a mechanical exp from their side, and he's mentally ticking up boxes, did that, did that. How awful, how unerotic. It's like paint by numbers, sex by numbers. What's your speciality? As if you're a circus pony, doing tricks. Ugh.

What Dolly said. Bleurghhh.

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I think if anyone asked me that, I would put the phone down. I do. If anyone is a 'tick the boxes' type of call, I think that it would be a mechanical exp from their side, and he's mentally ticking up boxes, did that, did that. How awful, how unerotic. It's like paint by numbers, sex by numbers. What's your speciality? As if you're a circus pony, doing tricks. Ugh.

This is a little like some of the questions on the other site, can be quite subjective depending on the situation. 'Speciality' is a term used by parlours, and with the blurring of the word 'Escort' across the board a lot of chaps used to establishments will often ask this. Now I'm nosy and I've checked out quite a few parlour sites in the name of being inquisitive, the list of specialities is endless and includes lots of things I really enjoy, am known to be good at but not things I'd think I was going out of my way to take part in. Kissing for instance is something I really like, and find it difficult to get going without but I wouldn't say I'm offering that over and above anything else. Also where do you stop with the list since some of the lists I've seen are very long. Speciality often also implies an extra charge, since I have all inclusive fees running off a menu is not really compatible.

Guys who ask me about specialities tend to be those who don't end up visiting me, because they are looking for something different or don't understand why I'm not reeling off the menu. If a chap would like to ask me if I like kissing I'm happy to confirm this.

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Surely you have something you feel you are good at and enjoy doing more than other things?

Maybe its hand jobs, or massage or kissing or squeezing your pc muscle or tie and tease or talking dirty or are you all equally good at everything and equally enjoy or loathe doing all of it.

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Surely you have something you feel you are good at and enjoy doing more than other things?

Maybe its hand jobs, or massage or kissing or squeezing your pc muscle or tie and tease or talking dirty or are you all equally good at everything and equally enjoy or loathe doing all of it.

The OP does mention on her website certain 'specials' she offers (the shared bubble bath sounds particularly attractive!), but I take Strawberry's point, people who ask about specialities are probably looking for something very specific, whereas what most ladies offer is an all-round (a holistic, as it were) quality pleasurable experience. Plus, as I think someone said, highlighting specific skills would open them to crass comments along the lines of "well, if that's your speciality you're not much good at it are you".

I must admit, if someone says they're a qualified masseuse, that's more likely to make me book with them, but I quite understand why the ladies offering a general GFE/ PSE wouldn't particularly want to focus attention on particular specific aspects of that. It's more important, I feel, to know what services that might interest you a lady DOESN'T offer.

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I have the same problem Kate. You could try 'I specialise in seduction'. That normally works for me.

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I think I do have a speciality but would not mention it

here as it would be touting wouldn't it? :rolleyes:

I will say though.... the one thing to kill a session for me is when

a man comes out with the immortal words

" ok then show me what you can do "

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I am sure, most likely it wil be the opposite and bring the desired effect, lol! He might rather see a feisty playful British to have a loo roll fight with, then subservient oriental who irons his shoe laces, washes his knackers, and sings a kind of "pillow talk" story in unknown eastern dialect. ;-)

Heh, especially as many of these subservient orientals may actually be fantasising about wrapping the nicely ironed shoelaces around the clients freshly lathered knackers and pulling tight. Oh and if a factual translation of the pillow talk story was available, perhaps the subject matter might not be what was expected at all :blink: !!

:lol::D

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I think if anyone asked me that, I would put the phone down. I do. If anyone is a 'tick the boxes' type of call, I think that it would be a mechanical exp from their side, and he's mentally ticking up boxes, did that, did that. How awful, how unerotic. It's like paint by numbers, sex by numbers. What's your speciality? As if you're a circus pony, doing tricks. Ugh.

Totally agree Dolly. Your post reminded me of a guy that I had once seen. As he was going down on me (!) he said right, we are now going to

play paint by numbers-(think i've mentioned this on here before lol )or to some effect, and I want you to call out a number 1-4 so I know where to put my tongue. I just couldn't stop laughing and he was deadly serious, saying that I should be taking notice of this! haha x

Anyway, yes when guy's ask about 'speciality' I find it would put you on the spot. I would alway's much appreciate to see a guy that

is more forthcoming than this, and specifically say exactly what he wants. i,e to say something along the lines of, 'I like this, that and that (whatever may be) and thats what we can do if your happy' which is a much better approach and gives you a better indication of what the client wants.

Most guy's do their research on girls so know exactly what you do/don't do, but just want some reasurance/check that you are ok with services with them. If they knew how irritating that sounds 'what is your speciality' i'm sure half would not say it. :-)) xxx

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I am sure, most likely it wil be the opposite and bring the desired effect, lol! He might rather see a feisty playful British to have a loo roll fight with, then subservient oriental who irons his shoe laces, washes his knackers, and sings a kind of "pillow talk" story in unknown eastern dialect. ;-)

LOL @ Xenia ;-)) xxx

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