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Flirting On A Punt

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Do any guys flirt when on a punt ? Has it been successfull ? Do you girls encourage a bit of flirting or are you secretly sticking your two fingers down your throat ?

I think I must be one of the world's worst flirters. When I compliment I think I sound so serious,like giving evidence in a witness box . Otherwise , I think I'll sound like a total sleaze bag !! :o

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I always pay genuine compliements to escorts on their beauty and dress etc. More so than I have ever done with girlfriends or wife. I think it is becuase I feel less inhibited with an escort.

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Same as mercantile. Im forever giving them compliments about how they look, i mean before i started punting i had been with only 2 or 3 nice looking girls (others were average or ugly) but never any beautiful stunners like i have since ive been punting... so, yeah flirting with WG's usually happens with me.

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It might just be me but I don't consider paying compliments as flirting. With a WG i prefer non verbal kind of flirting anyway, a little touch here and there or the right kind of eye contact. I find flirting with a WG and flirting in "real life" to be complete different anyway.

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I flirt like hell!

Not only is it fun and enjoyable, but it also seems to put both parties at ease. I think it also encourages a genuine positive attitude too.

I've seen numerous gents after a stressful days work, and it really does lighten the mood to flirt an tease them a little. Plus, it adds that GFE factor, like the first few times you sleep with a partner and its completely lust-fuelled.

Even if you're not a confident flirter, its a good way to practice your skills, so I'd certainly recommend it :-)

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Why is complimenting someone considered as 'flirting'. Don't we ave this all a bit wrong in these days of fluffy PC, where if you tell a colleague of the opposite (or same I suppose!) sex that you like something they are wearing, it's considered as a 'come-on'. I know all the old jokes about nice dress = nice tits etc but we've gone beyond the bounds of rationality.

It is easier to compliment a stranger though. There I agree. Got me into trouble rcently. A lot.

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I was born to flirt and I love doing it! Most women seem to enjoy it, and it makes me, and them, feel good. :)

In the company of a WG, I find flirting has even more benefits, because I am guaranteed a shag as well, and it makes the whole experience feel more real.

- well, for the time I have paid for, and maybe sevral hours/days afterwards !! ! :P

Perhaps it also makes it easier for the WG to provide a more 'personal' GFE ? :D

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Quite recently I met a gentleman who straight away complimented me by saying I look better than my pictures. I took this with a pinch of salt, as I know I only use the most flattering ones lol and there are very few actual face pics available to be seen, so I wasn't entirely sure what he was judging by. The meeting progressed with him using the word 'wow' almost constantly, which to begin with I thought was a bit cheesy, but half way through I could actually feel myself start to suck it up and playing up to the response.

So... I guess flirting can't be a bad thing and I'm pretty sure he got the best out of me by doing so, even though at the time I wasn't quite conscious of it.

It certainly doesn't do any harm and in some cases you may get a better experience for it, especially if you are being sincere.

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Yeah, flirting does make you both feel better, its always nice when you can really see that the other person fancies you by flirting. Having someone lust over you is amazing, for me it greatly helps my fella down there rise for the occasion especially when the kissing is passionate ;)

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Quite recently I met a gentleman who straight away complimented me by saying I look better than my pictures. I took this with a pinch of salt, as I know I only use the most flattering ones lol and there are very few actual face pics available to be seen, so I wasn't entirely sure what he was judging by. The meeting progressed with him using the word 'wow' almost constantly, which to begin with I thought was a bit cheesy, but half way through I could actually feel myself start to suck it up and playing up to the response.

So... I guess flirting can't be a bad thing and I'm pretty sure he got the best out of me by doing so, even though at the time I wasn't quite conscious of it.

It certainly doesn't do any harm and in some cases you may get a better experience for it, especially if you are being sincere.

Sounds like President Bush and his 'Shock and Awe' tactic in Iraq. He has bombarded you with compliments (instead of explosives and depleted uranium) and you have become compliant.

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Sounds like President Bush and his 'Shock and Awe' tactic in Iraq. He has bombarded you with compliments (instead of explosives and depleted uranium) and you have become compliant.

Now Mr.D being involved in the business must give you an insight into what the girls like and what they feel comfortable with. Surely, if a WG does not find a punter attractive then she is really not that interested in any flirting from him ? Or is it fair to say that as their business is based on their physical appearance and perhaps competition with their peers, that regular stoking of the ego is important and well received ??

My OP was a bit misleading. I dont have any problem nice compilments to a lady but 'flirting' is different in my book. Flirting is acting sexually suggestively and saying things expressley or implicitly in a sexual way, which usually works well in civvy street when both parties are attracted to each other.There is a difference.

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My OP was a bit misleading. I dont have any problem nice compilments to a lady but 'flirting' is different in my book. Flirting is acting sexually suggestively and saying things expressley or implicitly in a sexual way, which usually works well in civvy street when both parties are attracted to each other.There is a difference.

I don't understand the OP or the above!

For example, I said to a wg; "great tits, I bet my cock would look good betweem them", this seems better than asking do you do tit-wanks...? So is that what you class as flirting? I would say not, as we both know she's there for paid sex, I'm just asking if she provides a specific service.

Flirting to me, implies you are trying to pull, i.e. get a non-paid for date, in this case.

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Now Mr.D being involved in the business must give you an insight into what the girls like and what they feel comfortable with. Surely, if a WG does not find a punter attractive then she is really not that interested in any flirting from him ? Or is it fair to say that as their business is based on their physical appearance and perhaps competition with their peers, that regular stoking of the ego is important and well received ??

My OP was a bit misleading. I dont have any problem nice compilments to a lady but 'flirting' is different in my book. Flirting is acting sexually suggestively and saying things expressley or implicitly in a sexual way, which usually works well in civvy street when both parties are attracted to each other.There is a difference.

No, it doesn't have to be limited to sexual suggestion. Have a look at a book called Flirt Coach which shows flirting can be used in different ways, without it necessarily being sexual.

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No, it doesn't have to be limited to sexual suggestion. Have a look at a book called Flirt Coach which shows flirting can be used in different ways, without it necessarily being sexual.

Well said PVC....

It would appear that quite a few on hear may have led very sheltered lives and lives that have sadly lacked the fun of flirting.

And it amazes me how so many think its all about sex and smut ............. but then again it doesn't really ! :lol: :lol:

Everything in life can always be improved and enhanced by reading the appropriate instruction manual B)

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No, it doesn't have to be limited to sexual suggestion. Have a look at a book called Flirt Coach which shows flirting can be used in different ways, without it necessarily being sexual.

+1. I flirt all the time and often not in a 'sexual' way. As the book linked about implies, it's a highly effective business tool.

(And yes, flirting is equally effective when punting... it's a way of having fun, paying compliments, breaking the ice, teasing etc... but maybe you also need the gift of the gab to get away with it. ;))

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