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Share Your Views: Why Do People Pay Sex? And What Are The Risks Of Sex That Is Being Paid For( Whether From Sex Worker Or From Transactional Relation

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Share your views: why do people pay sex? And what are the risks of sex that is being paid for( whether from sex worker or from transactional relationship) in spreading HIV?

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Share your views: why do people pay sex? And what are the risks of sex that is being paid for( whether from sex worker or from transactional relationship) in spreading HIV?

as long as we practise safer sex, which I certainly always do, the risk of catching/spreading HIV is tiny.

I believe people pay for sex because paying for sex is sexy, and sexy is good :)

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I'm always a little wary of questions like this, particularly when they are written in such academic terminology ('transactional relation'?) by someone who has only been a member about six weeks. Is this just casual interest, or is there a sub-text here? I would wish to know before I give a considered response.

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I'm always a little wary of questions like this, particularly when they are written in such academic terminology ('transactional relation'?) by someone who has only been a member about six weeks. Is this just casual interest, or is there a sub-text here? I would wish to know before I give a considered response.

This must be the longest topic title ever here ;)

Whatever the OP's interest, I hope for his/her sake it's not academic research as he/she could merely look at the many threads here that already address the generic questions of "why pay for sex?" and "what are the health risks of paid for sex?"

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Because i have a high sex drive, and the cost doesnt work out much different to going out on the pull. And the chances of pulling a beautiful fit woman is sort of rare, some men just cant pull them at all.

So paying for it is much better in various ways.

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I would first like to know what the difference actually is between paid for sex and a "transactional" relationship. Sorry but that has to be the funniest way of saying the guys is paying for it anyway.

Its all the same..

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If you want a proper answer you have to ask the right question. Can we have a better title in the forum, something like:

"Share your views: Compare and contrast the major motivation for people or persons to engage in purchasing sexual intercourse. And what are the risks of sex, sexual relations, foreplay and/or any non-sexual but pleasurable interpersonal bodily functions being paid for in money, goods or services either now or in the future ( whether from sex worker or from transactional relationships) in spreading HIV? Your answer should consist of no more than 3500 words, and is due by 5pm on the 1st February. This answer counts towards 20% of your final exam grade.

I'm with Tony, it sounds like someone's researching for a pseudo-academic paper that will either make it into the tabloids or be used to lobby politicians. If so, it's not fair to try to catch people out by not disclosing this up front.

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Share your views: why do people pay sex? And what are the risks of sex that is being paid for( whether from sex worker or from transactional relationship) in spreading HIV?

I do it because I need sex, I get a chance to have sex with a girl I wouldn't normally stand a chance with, not because I'm ugly or anything,it's just that not may teenage girls are interested in 40 somethings, I get to fulfill my fantasy/ies(Schoolgirl in particular) and shag a young, good looking girl.

I get to do things that my real girlfriend won't do ( you can guess what)!

Then there is the excitement of fucking a stranger and walking away, it used to be that I liked the seedy side of it, I used to pick girls up off the street in Soho and Whitechapel years ago, all it was, was the sex and the seedy girls ,pay them, fuck them, I had a few girls in back alleys in Soho with people walking by in sight of us,they couldn't see us as the ally was always dark,the things I did in the 80's!!!!!

Now, it seems to me,I don't need the seedy bit, the girls I see now can be described as Ladies because most are exactly that, OK they do it for the money but, my view is, they offer something that I need, I'm glad they do it and in away I'm grateful to them, I get to have a bloody good time whilst the girl has to put up with me doing naughty things to her just for a few quid, OK it suits us both but, I'm happy they do it!

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I'm always a little wary of questions like this, particularly when they are written in such academic terminology ('transactional relation'?) by someone who has only been a member about six weeks. Is this just casual interest, or is there a sub-text here? I would wish to know before I give a considered response.

The question just poped in my head and I came up with the topic, its not for "casual intrest" or a research, just for people to share their opinions on this issue, I believe different people do things for a reason, also are there anys risks involved that we ignore....

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Well I started in the last year of my previous relationship because all we did was argue and I was getting depressed and sex was always out of the question between us at that point.

My confidence was badly shaken by her (she had a poisonous tongue) and I couldn't go out and look for someone so I found what I needed in escorts.

Now Im single I find that it's just easier and I also realised some of the girls available are beyond anything I could hope to pull normally. I find my confidence is still on the mend too and I'm not sure if I even want a normal relationship anymore after what I went through, so I guess escorts are my only option for the time being.

Even if I did have another relationship, I don't know if I would stop, because I find it quite exhilirating and sexy, paying for sex and getting what I want there and then with no emotional games.

I'm not sure about the risks; I wear protection and all that but I've read conflicting information about how safe the sex industry is.

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The question just poped in my head and I came up with the topic, its not for "casual intrest" or a research, just for people to share their opinions on this issue, I believe different people do things for a reason, also are there anys risks involved that we ignore....

I do not believe that such a totally ridiculous topic could just 'pop into it’?

Plus, If its not for "casual intrest" or a research' then pray tell us what your real interest in it is?

You may want people to share their opinions, but there must a reason why so tell us.

Consider your title :

"Why do people pay sex ? Doesn’t make sense - did you miss a word out?

And What Are The Risks Of Sex That Is Being Paid For( Whether From Sex Worker Or From Transactional Relation" Doesn’t make sense & not plain English

What difference does it make if its paid for or not? How can the risk be any different?

Maybe you are African? And maybe wanted relate the answers with this PDF on the topic ???

I really am surprised anyone has even attempted to respond to your twaddle in any serious fashion!

Edited by puntaprima

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Well I pay for sex because I'm completely incapable of getting women to have sex with me for free, and I don't see why I should be denied something that most normal people of my age do just because I'm some sort of social retard that can't speak to girls. In fact sometimes I wonder if it's not the sex I'm paying for, but just the chance to spend some time alone with a nice girl, because my most memorable punts have been the ones where I just really get along with the girl and would leave just as satisfied whether we had sex or not. There are a couple of occasions where I've actually had to be reminded by the girl that I'm paying for my time and should probably get on with the sex... This probably fits in with the fact that the one time I have had a relationship since I started punting, I had absolutely no desire to punt.

Safety? Well, I've worn a condom every time I've had sex with a WG, and every one of them has expected me to do so. In contrast, within the last year or so at least two of my mates have confessed to having unprotected sex with random girls they've met out in town that night. I think it's fairly clear who's taking the risks, and it isn't me. If anything, punting has made me even more aware of how important it is to be safe while having sex.

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Given the extensive body of literature documenting the impact of sex workers on the spread of HIV (globally), what a fucking pointless question to ask on a punting forum. You cannot possibly be interested in the answer simply because if you had half a brain, you would realise this is the last place you'd look for it. You might get insight into the question "do punters care if they contribute to the spread of HIV?" but that is neither what you asked nor the same thing. If you are an academic looking for fodder for a study of this issue then it won't be a very good or useful one if you can't construct a better question than that. You've asked a question that is answerable (with any degree of accuracy) by epidemiologists to a bunch of blokes who pay for a shag. Duuuuh.

As for why do people pay for sex, duuuuuh again? Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can.

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I do not believe that such a totally ridiculous topic could just 'pop into it’?

Plus, If its not for "casual intrest" or a research' then pray tell us what your real interest in it is?

You may want people to share their opinions, but there must a reason why so tell us.

Consider your title :

"Why do people pay sex ? Doesn’t make sense - did you miss a word out?

And What Are The Risks Of Sex That Is Being Paid For( Whether From Sex Worker Or From Transactional Relation" Doesn’t make sense & not plain English

What difference does it make if its paid for or not? How can the risk be any different?

Maybe you are African? And maybe wanted relate the answers with this PDF on the topic ???

I really am surprised anyone has even attempted to respond to your twaddle in any serious fashion!

I tried editing and correcting my errors but I couldn't so I left the topic that way, maybe I should clarify a bit more what I meant was "Share Your Views: Why Do People Pay For Sex ? And What Are The Risks Of The Sex That Is Being Paid For( Whether From A Sex Worker "WG" Or From A Transactional Relation )" I suppose missing For, The & A in the sentence confused you even more...when everybody else understood the topic. Most people have also contributed sensibly and honestly to the topic regardless of the mistake which wasn't really my fault because I couldn't edit the topic after writing it....

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I pay for it cos i wanna have sex with attractive women.

Also, i find the fact i am paying for it adds to the frisson.

risks. well i may be hit by a bus tomorrow.

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The question just poped in my head and I came up with the topic, its not for "casual intrest" or a research, just for people to share their opinions on this issue, I believe different people do things for a reason, also are there anys risks involved that we ignore....

I am confident that yours is a serious and well-intentioned query so I will try to answer it with all the honesty and candor it surely deserves:

(Courtesy of The Beach Boys, in response to Connie Francis' own plaintive query 'Why do Girls Fall In Love?')

Baby said you had to be a lover

One way or the other

Nobody wins without once giving in

So don’t cry now , don’t cry now

Love is just a game you played in high school

Girls know how to be cruel

Most of the time girls are cruel to be kind

So don’t cry now , don’t cry now

And we try to be cool as we dance in a crowded room

At the end of the day , makin’ love to a paper moon

She said , boys do fall in love , they make time

They get love on a saturday night

And she said , hearts beat as they dance

In the street to a radio , oh

Boys fall in love

Baby knows I like to be excited

No one wants to fight it

It’s getting late so I’ll just demonstrate

Don’t cry now , don’t cry now

And we try to be cool as we dance in a crowded room

At the end of the day , makin’ love to a paper moon

And she said , boys do fall in love , they make love

They get love on a saturday night

And she said , hearts beat as they dance

In the street to a radio , oh

Oh , boys do fall in love ,they make time (they make time)

They get love on a saturday night

And she said , hearts beat as they dance

In the street to a radio

Oh, boys fall in love

Boys, boys , oh , boys , boys , boys , oh

Boys, boys , boys , oh

Boys, boys , boys , boys

Boys do fall in love , etc (fade out)

Yeah, I'm just a (very) old 'softie'. :)

Edited by Tiggy 7

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As for why do people pay for sex, duuuuuh again? Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can.

I'm surprised there hasn't been a thread before now on this common hazard of paid-for sex. The reason why dogs lick punters' balls reamains a mystery, but I guess it must be some sort of scent they pick up.

Still, I wish they wouldn't keep doing that, it's enough to make me give up the hobby. Stupid bloody mutts, why can't they just go and lick their own balls for a change?

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Well, speaking as a "transactional relation", I do it because I like it............... I get some strange base satisfaction from cumming inside a lady's mouth and/or other orifices. I believe you may find some clue in the fact that the sex drive of men is fairly well documented over centuries - even in the bible......hence the existence of the Magdalene woman

re: hiv............I tend to practice safe sex so don't consider it much of an issue

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If all these wankers stopped analyzing and prosthelytizing about P4P and just went out and paid some hot Thai girl to fuck and suck their tiny brains out, they would find that life was a whole lot less complicated and stressful, but a whole lot more fun !!

They might even enjoy life ? :P

" Just do it !"

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If all these wankers stopped analyzing and prosthelytizing about P4P and just went out and paid some hot Thai girl to fuck and suck their tiny brains out, they would find that life was a whole lot less complicated and stressful, but a whole lot more fun !!

They might even enjoy life ? :P

" Just do it !"

Hear hear !!!!

Hasnt this topic been done to death several times already anyway ?....and recently too ?

I have a high sex drive which I wouldnt expect any one partner to cater for and so I enjoy sexual congress with a variety of attractive, skilled (and yes, usually Thai) women, with little complication, and am happy to pay for the ease, pleasure and convenience of the whole deal.

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If all these wankers stopped analyzing and prosthelytizing about P4P and just went out and paid some hot Thai girl to fuck and suck their tiny brains out, they would find that life was a whole lot less complicated and stressful, but a whole lot more fun !!

They might even enjoy life ? :P

" Just do it !"

Exactly what I am doing at the moment and will be doing for the next 3 months :D

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If all these wankers stopped analyzing and prosthelytizing about P4P and just went out and paid some hot Thai girl to fuck and suck their tiny brains out, they would find that life was a whole lot less complicated and stressful, but a whole lot more fun !!

They might even enjoy life ? :P

" Just do it !"

I think it is about time for G to add another board to this Forum, entitled 'The Childrens' Hour', where schoolyard questions could be swapped back and forth between giggling lads aged 18-80. Dirty word games could be played ('wink, wink, nudge, nudge') and silly question contests and puerile polls could be shared regularly, for the merriment of all. Of course, girls could join in, too, but they would have to dress as 'school dinner' serving wenches and flash their frilly knickers to gain admittance. The Mods would be expected to be very stern, though, and spank their bottoms when they get too naughty. Debauchery or acts involving carnal knowledge would NOT be tolerated. That stuff is for adults! :rolleyes: Edited by Tiggy 7

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It makes more sense to ask why people charge for sex!

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Just came across a topic that said " tonight on BBC3 at 9.00pm there's a programme on oral cancer " the illness "ORAL CANCER" seems to be on a big increase, the big issue here is that "ORAL SEX/OWO" is to be blamed for this outcome.

Also some say " alot of medical journals blame oral cancer which is on the increase on cunnilingus as being identified as a possible contributing factor"

Personally from alot of reviews, FR's and post I've read here or other sites people pay for sex with working girls and engage in activities such as

OWO/ORAL SEX with some of this ladies, then I suppose practise "safe sex" by wearing a CD. But the big question here is "how safe ??" or "WHAT ARE THE RISK OF SEX THAT IS BEING PAID FOR BY A PUNTER ???" I suppose paid for sex or like the topic says transactional relationship are similar, because your paying to have a good time but what are the risk involved with this transactions or good time your having ??

The topic makes sence to me if only some people can think sensibly and contribute, I suppose those opposing this topic are like drug dealers making money from their trade or drug addicts refusing to accept that their addiction is bad or a RISK to their health. maybe there are working girls, pimps and punters on this thread scared of the truth and have refused to accept it....

I suggest some of us here should goggle "ORAL CANCER", STD and STI and the possibility of contacting them even if your protected....then I suppose this thread will not be only for 18-80 yrs old folks or a tales by mooon light story thread......

Think think folks, play safe and stay healthy :)

Edited by ezokes

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