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Do any of you long-term punters find that the increasingly sexy dress sense of a large number of women (tight tops, amount of cleavage and leg on display) makes you wonder "Is she a WG", or "Is she up for it?" I know I do, and, although I know that the answer is almost certainly "No" to both questions, it can be something of a distraction at times.

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Do any of you long-term punters find that the increasingly sexy dress sense of a large number of women (tight tops, amount of cleavage and leg on display) makes you wonder "Is she a WG", or "Is she up for it?" I know I do, and, although I know that the answer is almost certainly "No" to both questions, it can be something of a distraction at times.

Fantasic. Most of the time I don't wear tight tops nor display much leg, whilst plenty of non-WGs go out dressed exactly as you describe. It's scarily amusing how some chaps assume women must be "up for it" because of the way they dress, or look. It's not necessarily always that way!

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Fantasic. Most of the time I don't wear tight tops nor display much leg, whilst plenty of non-WGs go out dressed exactly as you describe. It's scarily amusing how some chaps assume women must be "up for it" because of the way they dress, or look. It's not necessarily always that way!

Guys, surely you know by now that women dress to please themselves first and foremost (in whatever way they happen to dress?) Don't they? :confused:;)

To answer the OP's question, I do find myself in the course of daily life looking at how a wide range of ladies (in terms of age and physical attractiveness) dress and look. I take an interest in fashion too and just love looking (hopefully not obviously perving!) but I would never assume a woman was 'up for it' just based on how she dresses.

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If women truly understood what perverts we are they would all wear burkas.

And they would not bend over right in front of you.

Very often woman who dress provocatively have low sex drives and quite prudish

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I did say that the answer was almost certainly no...

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I did say that the answer was almost certainly no...

Without wishing to generalise, I think that the provocatively dressed WGs were a much more common phenomenen in the days when the street scene flourished as the girls needed to make themselves easily identifiable. As Strawberry says, ladies who work from their own premises or, in particular, those who do out calls to private residences or hotels have a tendency towards dressing down if anything so that they don't draw excessive attention to themselves.

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Do any of you long-term punters find that the increasingly sexy dress sense of a large number of women (tight tops, amount of cleavage and leg on display) makes you wonder "Is she a WG", or "Is she up for it?" I know I do, and, although I know that the answer is almost certainly "No" to both questions, it can be something of a distraction at times.

Come on, if you see a guy in a well cut suit does not mean he is a millionnaire! Also, have you been to a bar where girls normally meet before going clubbing? Or Soho for that matter? You see lots of girls with almost nothing on them, crossing the streets in the freezing cold heading to God knows where. What gives a girl that she is on the 'fishing' is the eye contact she will make with everyone, or clinging onto every single guy for a drink or whatever. There are plenty of WG who go out just for a cuppa, nothing more and plenty of Office girls behaving like they Porn Stars in training. The 'trick' is not to stereotype or generalise a rule. We are all different.

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Without wishing to generalise, I think that the provocatively dressed WGs were a much more common phenomenen in the days when the street scene flourished as the girls needed to make themselves easily identifiable. As Strawberry says, ladies who work from their own premises or, in particular, those who do out calls to private residences or hotels have a tendency towards dressing down if anything so that they don't draw excessive attention to themselves.

You just nailed it LOL!

As an erotic masseuse doing outcalls I dress extremely plain and conservative as I don't want anybody to know what I'm up to. It's funny because I keep seeing all this girls going out clubbing dressed like porn stars and I think Oh my god! how can they dress like that????? Well they dress like that because they WANT the attention badly. Also because of peer pressure. There's this fashion trend that has been going on for the last years of women having to look like street hookers or cheap porn stars. You just have to look at celebrities the way they dress. Normally the women in the sex industry we don't want ANY attention upon ourselves so we try to keep it as low key as possible (unless we're a porn star or a street hooker and we have to "dress the part").

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I think there's a very wide gap between a woman wanting to look sexy and her being "up for it". Women can want to look sexy for all kinds of reasons - self-esteem, impressing their peers, attracting male attention or just plain out for a giggle being four that spring to mind. These days, "tarty" is just one of many looks available for women to choose from, and if I see a woman dressed provocatively, if anything I'd be inclined to assume she is neither a WG nor particularly "up for it". Certainly wanting to attract male attention is not the same thing as being "up for it" at all, although it's true that historically, that's a distinction some High Court judges have had trouble understanding.

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I think there's a very wide gap between a woman wanting to look sexy and her being "up for it". Women can want to look sexy for all kinds of reasons

I always assumed provocatively dressed girls most definitely are up for it, just not necessarily with every random guy drooling over them.

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I always assumed provocatively dressed girls most definitely are up for it, just not necessarily with every random guy drooling over them.

I like to dress well and when I go out to a night club I'll admit I like to get dressed-up and show off. I am however learning that this especially as as single female means, that quite a few men will assume I'm out to pull someone. When I go out I'm generally out to listen to good music, in like-minded company and have a jolly good dance. What is happening is that I'm finding myself being 'owned' by a male all evening before making excuses and leaving.

I now have one of two options;

Go out dressed in clothes that obscure my figure

Be very rude to all males that approach me

Since I enjoy male platonic company and am not averse to people being friendly I am left with one choice;

Buy a load of frumpy, baggy trousers with matching blouses however men could be attracted to my face so I guess I also need a paper bag.

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I like to dress well and when I go out to a night club I'll admit I like to get dressed-up and show off. I am however learning that this especially as as single female means, that quite a few men will assume I'm out to pull someone. When I go out I'm generally out to listen to good music, in like-minded company and have a jolly good dance. What is happening is that I'm finding myself being 'owned' by a male all evening before making excuses and leaving.

I now have one of two options;

Go out dressed in clothes that obscure my figure

Be very rude to all males that approach me

Since I enjoy male platonic company and am not averse to people being friendly I am left with one choice;

Buy a load of frumpy, baggy trousers with matching blouses however men could be attracted to my face so I guess I also need a paper bag.

Try those Starbucks bags, they're pretty sturdy ;)

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You could try telling them you normally charge for your company but this is your night out after a busy week so shagging is out of the question :lol:

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I sometimes go out in a rugby shirt because I'm aware that blokes two and three times bigger than I am see this and know I'm about to twat them, and therefore they give me a wide-berth and a lot of respec'. That's the great thing about men. Even as a bloke myself, I realise my brothers are all so abjectly stupid that I can manipulate them with ease, simply by dressing a certain way. Next.

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