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[size="5"]i saw this girl called Sophia before christmas she came to my house from an outcall agency that i think is based in milton keynes but i am not sure exactly where it is based, anyway we did all the normal things and sophia asked me out as she was left at mine while the driver had gone to pick up another girl in wellingborugh and had asked her if she felt safe being left with me and she said she did so he left her with me.

anyway we got chatting and she asked me out she is 21 by the way and i am 43, and we swapped numbers, and then we started texting each other, and she lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, she text me all the lovely dovey things and lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, and asked to borrow some money £475 for her rent, which i have evidence of on my phone from the texts and i have emailed the agency to get the address but so far they have not reply as i want to send a legal letter to the agency for attention of the girl concerned , i am wondering is there anyway i can force the agency to give me there address so i can continue legal proceedings cos if i dont get it off the girl i will be asking if i can take the agency for it, i dont see why she should get away with this and people need to be aware as she has probably done it to someone else before. and she needs stopping in her tracks, if anyone would like to send me a message i will tell you the agency name and that, the money i lent i cant afford to lose so i am going to do anything i can to get it back, she is currently still working for the agency as i called them last night and asked if she was working, and they said she was working and she had told me she couldnt make it to be with me because she had a family problems.

oh yeah and i also got another person to call to see if she was working and she asked for even more money then saying that bailiffs where around and if i paid £100 it all would be clear, of course i did not do it after find that out

she also has lied to me about being in a car accident, and where she is from and that, i mean where i lent her the money was in a street in hinckley called charles street please please someone help

i also feel that you should all know about it as she is giving girls and agencies a bad name and she needs stopping as soon as possible, i dont want anyone else to go through this

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[size="5"]i saw this girl called Sophia before christmas she came to my house from an outcall agency that i think is based in milton keynes but i am not sure exactly where it is based, anyway we did all the normal things and sophia asked me out as she was left at mine while the driver had gone to pick up another girl in wellingborugh and had asked her if she felt safe being left with me and she said she did so he left her with me.

anyway we got chatting and she asked me out she is 21 by the way and i am 43, and we swapped numbers, and then we started texting each other, and she lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, she text me all the lovely dovey things and lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, and asked to borrow some money £475 for her rent, which i have evidence of on my phone from the texts and i have emailed the agency to get the address but so far they have not reply as i want to send a legal letter to the agency for attention of the girl concerned , i am wondering is there anyway i can force the agency to give me there address so i can continue legal proceedings cos if i dont get it off the girl i will be asking if i can take the agency for it, i dont see why she should get away with this and people need to be aware as she has probably done it to someone else before. and she needs stopping in her tracks, if anyone would like to send me a message i will tell you the agency name and that, the money i lent i cant afford to lose so i am going to do anything i can to get it back, she is currently still working for the agency as i called them last night and asked if she was working, and they said she was working and she had told me she couldnt make it to be with me because she had a family problems.

oh yeah and i also got another person to call to see if she was working and she asked for even more money then saying that bailiffs where around and if i paid £100 it all would be clear, of course i did not do it after find that out

she also has lied to me about being in a car accident, and where she is from and that, i mean where i lent her the money was in a street in hinckley called charles street please please someone help

i also feel that you should all know about it as she is giving girls and agencies a bad name and she needs stopping as soon as possible, i dont want anyone else to go through this

Never lend money you cannot afford to lose, especially to someone for whom you do not have personal details such as name and address.

I doubt you will get your money back.

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[size="5"]i saw this girl called Sophia before christmas she came to my house from an outcall agency that i think is based in milton keynes but i am not sure exactly where it is based, anyway we did all the normal things and sophia asked me out as she was left at mine while the driver had gone to pick up another girl in wellingborugh and had asked her if she felt safe being left with me and she said she did so he left her with me.

anyway we got chatting and she asked me out she is 21 by the way and i am 43, and we swapped numbers, and then we started texting each other, and she lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, she text me all the lovely dovey things and lead me to believe that we were in a relationship, and asked to borrow some money £475 for her rent, which i have evidence of on my phone from the texts and i have emailed the agency to get the address but so far they have not reply as i want to send a legal letter to the agency for attention of the girl concerned , i am wondering is there anyway i can force the agency to give me there address so i can continue legal proceedings cos if i dont get it off the girl i will be asking if i can take the agency for it, i dont see why she should get away with this and people need to be aware as she has probably done it to someone else before. and she needs stopping in her tracks, if anyone would like to send me a message i will tell you the agency name and that, the money i lent i cant afford to lose so i am going to do anything i can to get it back, she is currently still working for the agency as i called them last night and asked if she was working, and they said she was working and she had told me she couldnt make it to be with me because she had a family problems.

oh yeah and i also got another person to call to see if she was working and she asked for even more money then saying that bailiffs where around and if i paid £100 it all would be clear, of course i did not do it after find that out

she also has lied to me about being in a car accident, and where she is from and that, i mean where i lent her the money was in a street in hinckley called charles street please please someone help

i also feel that you should all know about it as she is giving girls and agencies a bad name and she needs stopping as soon as possible, i dont want anyone else to go through this

You are a bit stupid ain't ya

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i dont want anyone else to go through this

I doubt that's very likly! :blink:

Sorry to hear you were had though!

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Sorry to say this but "SUCKER !!!" and "must have seen you coming" spring to mind

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I doubt that's very likly! :blink:

Sorry to hear you were had though!

Of course its likely.

Have you not heard about the two young ladies from Hastings that are currently facing the courts with dozens of alleged charges? They took loads of clients for a ride. Then there is the Manchester girl that is constantly running off with money, after promising overnights for a fee as ridiculously low as £300. Some of these girls can be very convincing and often get away with praying on lonely gullible men and men that think only with their lower regions. Its easy to see why a man would get carried way and flattered by the attention of a woman years younger than themselves too.

To the OP. Guess your going to have to put this down to experience, but you should name and shame to protect other men from the same scam, you can do that here.

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The title of the post asks for help, but it's not clear what help is being sought, it's only a story?

This looks like a fabrication to me, but perhaps I'm just an old cynic?

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The idea that you can pursue the agency is a non starter in my opinion, and frankly I agree with those who say you have been extremely naive (I have put it more politely than some). Put it down to exprience, learn your lesson, move on...

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Of course its likely.

Have you not heard about the two young ladies from Hastings that are currently facing the courts with dozens of alleged charges? They took loads of clients for a ride. Then there is the Manchester girl that is constantly running off with money, after promising overnights for a fee as ridiculously low as £300. Some of these girls can be very convincing and often get away with praying on lonely gullible men and men that think only with their lower regions. Its easy to see why a man would get carried way and flattered by the attention of a woman years younger than themselves too.

To the OP. Guess your going to have to put this down to experience, but you should name and shame to protect other men from the same scam, you can do that here.

I don't think this is limited to WGs, but a lesson in life in general - as I said above never lend more than you can afford to lose.

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Of course its likely.

Have you not heard about the two young ladies from Hastings that are currently facing the courts with dozens of alleged charges? They took loads of clients for a ride. Then there is the Manchester girl that is constantly running off with money, after promising overnights for a fee as ridiculously low as £300. Some of these girls can be very convincing and often get away with praying on lonely gullible men and men that think only with their lower regions. Its easy to see why a man would get carried way and flattered by the attention of a woman years younger than themselves too.

To the OP. Guess your going to have to put this down to experience, but you should name and shame to protect other men from the same scam, you can do that here.

We can all get conned! I've viewed booking a girl who is totally unresponsive as a con, but I only ever play with money that I can afford to lose and not give two tosses about!

This guy has been ultra-naive in the way it happend and I'm sure his pride was hurt as well as his wallet. I still doubt that many guys would be this stupid, even if they are lonely and longing for female companionship!

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Seems to be a common trend in the short time I've been on this site. I've seen a few punters saying how they got into a relationship with some amazing young girl and there always seems to be something along the lines of "She asked to borrow some money" within days of their relationship starting.

Not saying all WG's are like that as I'm sure they are not, but it does seem to be a common occurrence.

I can't see how you have legal grounds to get the money back when you willingly gave it; it's not like she was offering any service for it or mentioned she would pay it back right?

Is it possible to give her name and agency here? Name and shame so we can all steer clear.

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This guy has been ultra-naive in the way it happend and I'm sure his pride was hurt as well as his wallet.

A WG who you've met once with no address wispers sweet little nothings in your ear and asks to borrow some money. You go ahead thinking err...she's going to give you the money back at some point (?) . But you never hear back from her nor from your money (ta-dam..surprise!). Were you born yesterday or it's just that your pride hurts more than your wallet? Kiss that money goodbye because you never made her sign a receipt. And besides...the agency has nothing to do with what their girls do in their personal lives or their weird deals out of work. They can give her a scolding but she can always say you're lying Only thing you can do is out the girl & agency in all internet forums, but that's about it.

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You've been had and, frankly, you deserve it.

Do you really think a girl if 21 is going to fancy some guy twice her age and ask him out? Get real. She saw you coming and grabbed the opportunity.

Your chances of getting your money back are nil. If you can't afford to lose it, you can't afford to lend it, so you should have kept it in your pocket. there is no way the agency are going to give you her address. As the agency will point out to you, they are not her employers and have no responsibility or liability for her. she is a 'self employed therapist'. The only way to get your money is to take her to the small claims court. for that you need her real name and address and you need her to turn up. Which is not going to happen. And if by some quirk of good fortune yo do manage to get her into a courtroom, what exactly are you going to tell the judge? You will be laughed out of court and will be a laughing stock in the local papers.

Think of it as an expensive lesson in common sense and move on.

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The title of the post asks for help, but it's not clear what help is being sought, it's only a story?

This looks like a fabrication to me, but perhaps I'm just an old cynic?

i still have the text messages so i have proof

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Seems to be a common trend in the short time I've been on this site. I've seen a few punters saying how they got into a relationship with some amazing young girl and there always seems to be something along the lines of "She asked to borrow some money" within days of their relationship starting.

Not saying all WG's are like that as I'm sure they are not, but it does seem to be a common occurrence.

I can't see how you have legal grounds to get the money back when you willingly gave it; it's not like she was offering any service for it or mentioned she would pay it back right?

Is it possible to give her name and agency here? Name and shame so we can all steer clear.

ok her working name is sophia and the agency is foxy kittens if i am allowed to do that here. if not then sorry in advance!

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This guy has been ultra-naive in the way it happend and I'm sure his pride was hurt as well as his wallet. I still doubt that many guys would be this stupid, even if they are lonely and longing for female companionship!

KId A, unfortunately it's not as rare as you think. Contrary to popular belief the men who see escorts are often decent human beings and do fall for the sob stories which they hear ie. I'm about to lose my house, my bf is a bastard, my children need shoes and clothes ... the list goes on and on. I've met men who have had to move homes, lost thousands, been conned out of allsorts in the name of coming to the rescue.

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with all due respect mr floss.............you are an idiot

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KId A, unfortunately it's not as rare as you think. Contrary to popular belief the men who see escorts are often decent human beings and do fall for the sob stories which they hear ie. I'm about to lose my house, my bf is a bastard, my children need shoes and clothes ... the list goes on and on. I've met men who have had to move homes, lost thousands, been conned out of allsorts in the name of coming to the rescue.

And here's rub: that all may be true. :unsure:

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ok her working name is sophia and the agency is foxy kittens if i am allowed to do that here. if not then sorry in advance!

I don't see a Sophia in their gallery. Perhaps she's gone into hiding lol.

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And here's rub: that all may be true. :unsure:

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Bacchus, in some cases it may be true and somebody who has spent intimate time and obviously isn't on the breadline is probably more likely to be lending a hand. The problem is sorting those who are in genuine need and pointing them in the right direction, from those who will take a client for a sucker. It's really sad when it happens but as others have said, if you can't afford to give it away don't lend it out.

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As others have said, it's absolutely nothing to do with the agency. You don't know this girl's name or address so you're not going to have much joy suing her even if you had the evidence to bring a successful claim in the County Court.

Forget about it - and move on. By all means write a Field Report in relation to your vist and warn others.

Do remember though that if you pay an escort to come to your house for an hour, exchange a few texts and then lend her money - YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP.

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You've been had and, frankly, you deserve it.

Do you really think a girl if 21 is going to fancy some guy twice her age and ask him out? Get real. She saw you coming and grabbed the opportunity.

Your chances of getting your money back are nil. If you can't afford to lose it, you can't afford to lend it, so you should have kept it in your pocket. there is no way the agency are going to give you her address. As the agency will point out to you, they are not her employers and have no responsibility or liability for her. she is a 'self employed therapist'. The only way to get your money is to take her to the small claims court. for that you need her real name and address and you need her to turn up. Which is not going to happen. And if by some quirk of good fortune yo do manage to get her into a courtroom, what exactly are you going to tell the judge? You will be laughed out of court and will be a laughing stock in the local papers.

Think of it as an expensive lesson in common sense and move on.

By the way when I was 21 I had a thing for men twice my age, but I didn't ask to borrow money from them in fact I was fiercely independent.

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I don't think the girl is giving her agency a bad name, but you're most certainly giving punters a bad name.

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As others have said, it's absolutely nothing to do with the agency. You don't know this girl's name or address so you're not going to have much joy suing her even if you had the evidence to bring a successful claim in the County Court.

If you file a claim with the court to begin civil proceedings the court can have the agency reveal her address or contact details so she can be served with a summons. You don't need the information upfront. But if you keep asking the agency yourself I think you may be at risk of being accused of stalking and get in trouble. It's not clear what contract she has broken from what you wrote as she asked for money for nothing very specific in return and you agreed, so civil court may not be for you. But ask a lawyer. You may be better going to the Police to report her as a fraudster. If they have a number of complaints they may be interested in pursuing her, or they may not. Either way, you won't lose much more than pride by going to the Police, but you'll have to pay more money to go after her yourself, money which you likely won't see again.

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... I forgot to say, sorry you got conned. You're not the first, most of us get conned by someone at some point in our lives. Try to laugh it off and put it down to experience if you can.

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