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How Long Have You Kept It Secret?

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In a moment of boredom today it dawned on me that its been around 2 and a half year since I first cheated on the wife and saw a WG. Got me wondering how long people go on holding their punting secret from their spouse partner? Wonder if there is anyone who has had their silver punting anniversary and their partner still does not know. Think it would be hard to find a golden anniversary punter but thought I would ask the question. I appreciate that there are some who are open about what they do (and good on them) but to those that are not, how long have you kept it secret?

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was a punter before i met miss laine and we've been married 27 years and engaged for a year before that.so have kept it secret for 28 years and hope to take it with me to the grave.

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Was a punter for several years before I met Mrs P, been together about 9 years, and after taking a break for a few years, resumed punting again - in total about 13-14 years for my 'secret.'

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I started just after my 40th birthday......so 12 years now.

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About 8 to 9 years. Since I am still not out and batting I don't know how many more years I could continue without her knowing. But now a days I make it a point to tell her in advance that I am going to a massage parlour for a sensuous massage before going, especially in home town since I am scared that if I get caught in a police raid, it is her who I will finally call to bail me out. I haven't told what else happens between us in the room as it is between "two consenting adults!

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(checks pulse, checks head foe embedded frying pan, checks testicles stil lattached) Yup, still a secret. It's simple, if we are still married, we are keeping the secret.

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Been punting 23 years.Gave it a rest when I met my missus (and we were at it like rabbits) but soon after we got married I got the " itch" again and have continued 20 odd years. Used to feel terribly guilty about it, don't now.

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13 or so years all the while in longterm relationships

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In a moment of boredom today it dawned on me that its been around 2 and a half year since I first cheated on the wife and saw a WG.

It's not really cheating is it ;) . About 7 years for me with no problems so far, touch wood.

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Nothing against guys that do it, but personally i couldnt. I would feel guilty, and what happens if you catch something? Hard to explain away

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I started just after my 40th birthday......so 12 years now.

Same here

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Since I started my fantasy world of punting fifteen months ago.

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I would like to add a qestion mark to the question:

How long? Have you kept it Secret?

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Coming up for 28 years now. I've no reason to think Mrs Bloom has tolerantly decided to let sleeping dogs lie. She really doesn't know.

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i first used the services of a wg (street girls) over 18years ago, i was in early 20s and used to pass them all the time in glasgow. One night i decided to try my luck and opted for some fun in a local city hotel car park. quite mechanical but it sowed a seed in my brain that i could actually enjoy this type of fun. seen many street girls over the next few years before moving into the world of escorts and flat girls. never looked back since, looking to meet 1 or 2 ladies a month these days

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Around 9 years me. Some of the best experiences of my life. Auntie hasn't a clue and that's the way it will stay God willing.

Uncle Pokey

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Nearly 25 years me and I'm quite sure that Mrs. Jack hasn't got a clue as to what I've been up to (crosses his fingers!!).

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wow just adding up in my head the amout of punting experience all the guys above have collectively :o

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my last girlfriend found out about 10 days after we first met, she read all my emails and facebook messages first time my back was turned (but knew that I don't do with while I'm with a girlfreind, from before). Needless to say i'm a little more careful now about my messages on line.

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The incumbent Mrs Dong has no idea - 6 yrs and counting. The previous Mrs Dong of 8 years I assume did not know or it wouldn't have been 8 yrs, Mrs Dong previous to that one, is the one that got away - she used to come and join in (for around 3 yrs) B)

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For me, been married since 1977, started punting about 1995. Relatively easy to keep it secret as I only really punt when I'm travelling away on business.

Did have an affair in the late 80's which was discovered - dicey time!

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19 years not out. One dropped catch about 4 years ago when I went a bit OTT and the cash withdrawals were noticed - had to plead guilty to betting, kept my head down for 3 months then gently started again. Best hobby in the world!

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