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Foreign Girl From Work Got "personal" With Me. But Then Hinted She Was A W/g 2 Months Later?

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Ok this may sound like the Pot calling the Kettle Black; after all this is Punternet, and yes I have hired the services of W/G Escorts in the past (as well as sleeping with women who were genuinely into me in my own private life).

BUT the most random thing has happened to me where I work in my own personal, private life and I don't know whether to laugh, cry, get angry or forget the whole saga like it never happened.

I work in a place that is choc-o-block full of Eastern Europeans, (Polish, Latvians, Hungarians etc) and we have many guys ogling over the female members of staff BUT most never approach- are too scared to ask out or show interest other than cat calling or admiring from afar.

I spotted several girls that took my interest and decided I would get to know them first (give or take the language barrier/cultural differences as well as other dating issues- like how genuine they were- did they like me for me or my wallet VISA).

One girl who I grew to like- seemed to reciprocate and dare I say started to like me back. (This isn't hard to believe as I'm young myself, I'm good looking, physically fit). Before I get a TL-DR its safe to say we got pretty close both physically and emotionally.

However I DID NOT like "her background story" it sounded fishy, too good to be true, as well as there being logic holes you could drive a bus through about how she supports herself financially.

Anyways through careful observations I started to see cracks in her as a person. She turned up to work late- looked like she'd been drinking and doing drugs and admitted she sleeps less than 3 hours per night. But the real kicker whereby I suspected she was a working girl was her being over flirtatious but holding back everytime I tried making something of it.

But then I saw her riding in the cars of known local PIMPS and getting dropped off all over my town that I knew she must be a W/G.

BTW- I don't Punt locally, I have never told anyone I've used W/G AND I always Punt well over 200 miles away from where I live- so therefore no-one could have known (not even friends) I would've been interested.

Does anyone find it a tad shady that these foreign women use such underhanded tactics to "canvas" potential clients as opposed to letting willing clients go to them?

Just saying.

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Hello people

Ok this may sound like the Pot calling the Kettle Black; after all this is Punternet, and yes I have hired the services of W/G Escorts in the past (as well as sleeping with women who were genuinely into me in my own private life).

BUT the most random thing has happened to me where I work in my own personal, private life and I don't know whether to laugh, cry, get angry or forget the whole saga like it never happened.

I work in a place that is choc-o-block full of Eastern Europeans, (Polish, Latvians, Hungarians etc) and we have many guys ogling over the female members of staff BUT most never approach- are too scared to ask out or show interest other than cat calling or admiring from afar.

I spotted several girls that took my interest and decided I would get to know them first (give or take the language barrier/cultural differences as well as other dating issues- like how genuine they were- did they like me for me or my wallet VISA).

One girl who I grew to like- seemed to reciprocate and dare I say started to like me back. (This isn't hard to believe as I'm young myself, I'm good looking, physically fit). Before I get a TL-DR its safe to say we got pretty close both physically and emotionally.

However I DID NOT like "her background story" it sounded fishy, too good to be true, as well as there being logic holes you could drive a bus through about how she supports herself financially.

Anyways through careful observations I started to see cracks in her as a person. She turned up to work late- looked like she'd been drinking and doing drugs and admitted she sleeps less than 3 hours per night. But the real kicker whereby I suspected she was a working girl was her being over flirtatious but holding back everytime I tried making something of it.

But then I saw her riding in the cars of known local PIMPS and getting dropped off all over my town that I knew she must be a W/G.

BTW- I don't Punt locally, I have never told anyone I've used W/G AND I always Punt well over 200 miles away from where I live- so therefore no-one could have known (not even friends) I would've been interested.

Does anyone find it a tad shady that these foreign women use such underhanded tactics to "canvas" potential clients as opposed to letting willing clients go to them?

Just saying.

Has it never occured to you she was simply just being nice, that she didn't want you as a client - but as a friend?or that she does fancy you, but is holding back for other reasons?She has a second job and possibly doesn't have the time nor energy for a relationship.

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Has it never occured to you she was simply just being nice, that she didn't want you as a client - but as a friend?or that she does fancy you, but is holding back for other reasons?She has a second job and possibly doesn't have the time nor energy for a relationship.

I'd go with that BUT. Our friendship and sharing stories were all based on (her) fabricated lies.

I cannot go into details as it would be a give away. But lets just say that not one thing she mentioned in her conversations with me are true everything from her housing arrangements, financial situation, her family being in the UK, who she lives with, has all been confirmed by either me, a co-worker or even a Manager as false.

Also I have no "Cash Flow" of my own and I'm sure what she makes is far, far, far greater than what I make (not to mention she gets Money from her day job as well that pays the same as me).

My bet is she told me a story to come across as less threatening and the reason shes holding back is she wants me to punt with her.

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But the real kicker whereby I suspected she was a working girl was her being over flirtatious but holding back everytime I tried making something of it.

From your point of view every woman working a job is a WG then... lol... :lol: She's your co-worker and because of THAT she's holding back. Looks like a normal girl to me who wants to keep her job.

Some women we flirt because we like the attention, but it doesn't mean anything to us most of the time.

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My bet is she told me a story to come across as less threatening and the reason shes holding back is she wants me to punt with her.

You wished. Keep dreaming buddy.

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I'd go with that BUT. Our friendship and sharing stories were all based on (her) fabricated lies.

I cannot go into details as it would be a give away. But lets just say that not one thing she mentioned in her conversations with me are true everything from her housing arrangements, financial situation, her family being in the UK, who she lives with, has all been confirmed by either me, a co-worker or even a Manager as false.

Also I have no "Cash Flow" of my own and I'm sure what she makes is far, far, far greater than what I make (not to mention she gets Money from her day job as well that pays the same as me).

My bet is she told me a story to come across as less threatening and the reason shes holding back is she wants me to punt with her.

She probably lied because she didn't want you to know, and then her story fell apart a little. I'll tell you something about me. Since becoming an Escort/WG(whatever you wish to call it) I've met men in my outside life that I've really fancied. I've even flirted with them, but often held back because I either didn't want to tell them what I do do as it wouldn't be discrete, or because I don't want to be involved since it does make things difficult if I have a lot of evening or weekend bookings and he works 9-5. Other times I've been put on the spot by associates, and my story has come over as a bit weak. One or two who know about my job, and are attracted to me but not me them have gone on to say "Well could I book you?perhaps for 'mates rates'" and have been extremely confused when I've said "No thank you". I've also known guys I'm very physically attracted to, but won't get involved with because they are attached. I could quite easily say "Please book me" but I won't. Basically I don't want to mix or blur the boundaries in that way, it just wouldn't be fair and certainly wouldn't feel 'right'.

My point is that she might not want you as a client, it's not generally a WGs way to approach potential clients by being friends first. In fact the opposite is usually true.

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Well, if she IS a WG, there's a very good chance she doesn't want everyone at her work to know about it.

Housing arrangements/who she lives with? Well, if she's living in a working flat, then perhaps she doesn't want people to know her address in case they know what goes on in there?

Financial situation? Well, if she tells everyone she's making all this extra money, they'll wonder where she gets it from, and reach the same conclusion you have, thus exposing her other career.

If you ever get into a relationship with a WG who you didn't meet during a punt, I would expect there is a very good chance she would wait until she was very sure of you before letting you know about her second career.

And this is assuming she really IS a WG. If I assumed every girl who got flirty with me but held back from going further was a WG, I'd have gotten a lot of slaps for saying "are you a WG by any chance?"

See where it goes. Alternatively, if you're going to go around spying on the girl, trying to pick holes in everything she says and accusing her of being "underhand" for trying to be friendly while trying to stop her (possible) second career being exposed, maybe you should just let someone else get close to her?

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Prostitutes talking to men outside of work? I've never heard of such a shocking thing before! :o RedAlertTourist, go get a beer from the fridge and chill out.

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I'd go with that BUT. Our friendship and sharing stories were all based on (her) fabricated lies.

I cannot go into details as it would be a give away. But lets just say that not one thing she mentioned in her conversations with me are true everything from her housing arrangements, financial situation, her family being in the UK, who she lives with, has all been confirmed by either me, a co-worker or even a Manager as false.

Also I have no "Cash Flow" of my own and I'm sure what she makes is far, far, far greater than what I make (not to mention she gets Money from her day job as well that pays the same as me).

My bet is she told me a story to come across as less threatening and the reason shes holding back is she wants me to punt with her.

I think the point you seem to be missing here is that she has lied to you. And if that is the case, is it any basis for a relationship? And it seems strange that you think that she is doing all this to get you to punt with her? Why would she, she has possibly got a pimp delivering her about at night, so she's in the money no doubt. Perhaps she does want to be a friend so it may be better just to ask her to be open about what she wants, and what she does at night, without assuming anything or insinuating it.

Having met a few EE WGs it seems they all have a cover story, and I take most of what they say with a pinch of salt. But in reality its no different that a salesman telling a 'third-party story' to make something more appealing to a customer/buyer. However I am always wary of EEs who have moved to this country for work full-time, as I think many have hidden agendas and are often loyal to no-one except their homeland and fellow country folk. Tread carefully !

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Perhaps she does want to be a friend so it may be better just to ask her to be open about what she wants, and what she does at night, without assuming anything or insinuating it.

If some guy whom I casually know openly asked me "what do you want, and what you do through the night?", I would asume he is either incredibly rude ill mannered person at he best, or just a complete imbecile. Not sure which is worst, as both conditions are incurable.

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If some guy whom I casually know openly asked me "what do you want, and what you do through the night?", I would asume he is either incredibly rude ill mannered person at he best, or just a complete imbecile. Not sure which is worst, as both conditions are incurable.

Obviously, I would recommend the use of tact :blink: - I could plausibly pull it off without causing upset, but I don’t have to! :)

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Hello people

Ok this may sound like the Pot calling the Kettle Black; after all this is Punternet, and yes I have hired the services of W/G Escorts in the past :o (as well as sleeping with women who were genuinely into me in my own private life) B) . Genuinely into you, okay so you can pull or pay, your a man of some style.

BUT the most random (and yet plausible, because Im attractive, remember?) thing has happened to me where I work in my own personal, private life (so not in your other life then?)and I don't know whether to laugh (at what?), cry(at what?), get angry(at what?) or forget the whole saga like it never happened (what happened?, what happened??!)

I work in a place that is choc-o-block full of Eastern Europeans (So theres bound to be one, unlike a choc-o-block with uk girls), (Polish, Latvians, Hungarians etc-yes but ARE THEY girls or men?) and we have many guys ogling over the female members of staff (The European ones?)(or just the Eastern Europeans?)BUT most (but not I) never approach (cowards) are too scared to ask out (typical) or show interest other than cat calling or admiring from afar.(tsk!)

I spotted several girls that took my interest and decided I would get to know them first (give or take the language barrier/cultural differences as well as other dating issues- like how genuine they were- did they like me for me or my wallet VISA). I can answer that for you by listeing to this guy who works there too "Also I have no "Cash Flow" of my own and I'm sure what she makes is far, far, far (but not far, far, far, far?)greater than what I make (not to mention she gets Money from her day job as well that pays the same as me)-which is the one job we are sure about, right? .

One girl who I grew to like (just one?)- seemed to reciprocate and dare I say (im guessing you will) started to like me back (you did). (This isn't hard to believe :huh: as I'm young myself, I'm good looking, physically fit and modest too surely?)- Thats right, you told us you dont always have to pay. Before I get a TL-DR its safe to say (dare you?)we got pretty close both physically and emotionally (you did).

However (theres more?)I DID NOT like "her background story" it sounded fishy, too good to be true, as well as there being logic holes you could drive a bus through about how she supports herself financially. (she earns the same as you, whats her spending habits like? Does she spend alot on Working Men, like you?)

Anyways through careful observations (like how many Working Men she has seen)I started to see cracks in her as a person (but not her story). She turned up to work late- looked like she'd been drinking and doing drugs and admitted she sleeps less than 3 hours per night (every single night? Or just the nights shes been drinking and doing drugs? (what sort of WGs do you see by the way?) What caused her to crack and confess, sorry admit, to only ever sleeping for 3 hours per night?. But the real kicker whereby I suspected she was a working girl (and not why the hell are my employers still paying the sleep deprived junkie the same wage as ME???) was her being over flirtatious (by what measure? All the other Eastern Europeans who chat you up at work, or just the unpaid conquests who came over and flirted with you first of all?) but holding back everytime I tried making something of it.

But then I saw her riding in the cars of known local PIMPS (she works for more than one pimp and you know them all, or just the pimps shes been seen with?) and getting dropped off all over my town (how long were you following her for?)that I knew she must be a W/G. (Bitch! Take a photo of her with all these pimps and at these places all over town and show it to your bosses in the morning when she staggers in drunk (- and yet still attractive looking-) and dishelved, shes is getting the same salary as you for godsake!)

BTW- I don't Punt locally (but know all the local pimps in town), I have never told anyone I've used W/G AND I always Punt well over 200 miles away from where I live- so therefore no-one could have known (not even friends (I was just about to ask if you had any)) I would've been interested. Interested in what, her? Maybe she noticed you were following her around town that night? Or saw how much time you were spending looking at her finances. Or maybe you were always staring at her every drug hazed morning she came in to work? Or can you notice her amongst all those Eastern Europeans, but she not notice you?

Does anyone find it a tad shady that these foreign women use such underhanded tactics Such as? Coming to work shit faced and allowing people to follow her, with each and every known pimp in town?to "canvas" potential clients (when, where and how did she do the 1 to 1 canvassing, I missed that bit) as opposed to letting willing clients go to them? (There are unwilling clients in your town, no wonder you go 200miles for your kicks)

Who would go to her she sounds a right f@cking mess? :rolleyes:

Mind you if a colleague of mine was following me around at work, at night, interrogating me on my sleeping habits, checking up on my finances and making sexual remarks when we ALWAYS bump into eachother at the fax machine, I would probably turn to drink too or at least report them to my boss. Though as shes Eastern European she probably thinks your KGB/Stazi which would give anyone a sleepless night.

Just saying.

(Me too) :P

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If some guy whom I casually know openly asked me "what do you want, and what you do through the night?", I would asume he is either incredibly rude ill mannered person at he best, or just a complete imbecile. Not sure which is worst, as both conditions are incurable.

He could of been Autistic, which is also incurable. :huh:

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I'm quite astonished by the ops thinking. I hope your views and assumptions are not typical. I mean all of your concerns are really based on assumptions and guess work as you actually have no facts at all and even if she did do a bit of working on the side, it does not make her void of emotion. She may (until you started acting strange and please do remember that you made the first move on her) have geniunely liked you and was enjoying your company. I think that would be classed as recriprocating, rather than her being one sidedly overly flirtatious towards you. She may well have found holes in your personality when you started to act overly suspicious and decide to back off.

Wgs do often have boyfriends and male friends, like everyone else in the world, they are entitled to being loved and cared for and having alife outside of work. Why you should automatically assume she is trying to get a punt out of you is way beyond me and quite frankly I doubt very much that she was, as she would likely want to keep her two jobs very seperate in order to keep them both.

Perhaps your imagination needs calming down a little? Maybe you have watched too many episodes of Columbo?

I have a feeling you maybe one of those punters that feels the wg should be greatful that you have gone to see her too, believing that all her other clients are pig ugly or ancient. I hate to break the news to you, but it really isn't like that. The majority of men that see wgs are nice looking, respectful and decent men, yep even the older ones and personally I'd rather see a client who was more interested in what I look like than what he looks like and respects that I am a well rounded person and not one dimensional, which seems to be your opinion of wgs.

Maybe a time for some reflection on your actions here?

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Maybe a time for some reflection on your actions here?

I think he is just horny at work all day and doesnt understand how none of ALL those Eastern :wub:European :wub:girls :wub: could possibly not be an escort :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: .

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She probably lied because she didn't want you to know, and then her story fell apart a little. I'll tell you something about me. Since becoming an Escort/WG(whatever you wish to call it) I've met men in my outside life that I've really fancied. I've even flirted with them, but often held back because I either didn't want to tell them what I do do as it wouldn't be discrete, or because I don't want to be involved since it does make things difficult if I have a lot of evening or weekend bookings and he works 9-5. Other times I've been put on the spot by associates, and my story has come over as a bit weak. One or two who know about my job, and are attracted to me but not me them have gone on to say "Well could I book you?perhaps for 'mates rates'" and have been extremely confused when I've said "No thank you". I've also known guys I'm very physically attracted to, but won't get involved with because they are attached. I could quite easily say "Please book me" but I won't. Basically I don't want to mix or blur the boundaries in that way, it just wouldn't be fair and certainly wouldn't feel 'right'.

My point is that she might not want you as a client, it's not generally a WGs way to approach potential clients by being friends first. In fact the opposite is usually true.

I'm in that position myself right now. I've met a man that I think is absolutely wonderful, but am keeping him at arms length because of what I am and what I do. I like him a lot, but don't want what I'm doing to hurt him and rather than let him get close and have to lie about my life, I chose to hold back, for the present time anyway.

Maybe this girl really likes the OP and thinks that he can't accept her for what she is, so she creates this whole different identity, one that she thinks he'll find more acceptable. I doubt she is after him as a client.

I have to also say that bugs me a bit too. Why do some guys automatically assume that just because your a working girl, you view all men as potential clients?

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[quote name='Holly Maddison' timestamp='1295702308' post='240570'

Why do some guys automatically assume that just because your a working girl, you view all men as potential clients?

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I have genuinely always thought that is what WGs do think, the only barrier being their personal taste like age or weight?

If its alright can I ask if you mean some men would never go with a working girl, or some men would never stray, and you can tell by just meeting them in your normal life, without them ever knowing what you do in professional life, so they have no potential of being a client?

Or is it a situation like where you work with a guy you like, move on to elsewhere and if you thought it was him trying to make a booking online or on phone, you would decline because you liked him?

Or is it just being able to say anyone you work with, at anytime in normal life can not be considered for anything but friendship or a relationship?

Thats definately not something any office man Ive ever met, married or single, was ever able to do.

Outside of my Escorting I do not walk around looking for clients, in fact I do the opposite. I'm not interested in obtaining clients from my personal life. This is partly to do with discretion, as well as maintaining a line between work as well as private life. Mixing the two is asking for trouble. Just as I'm sure you don't go around looking for work when you finish at 5pm each day, or when out at night in the pub-lining up your mates to pay you for whatever it is you do best. Most WGs actively avoid this. We are not on the prowl and prefer clients to approach us via our advertising. If someone tried to book me who I thought I knew from my personal life, I would be very wary - because as already said mixing personal with business can result in problems for both concerned.

When I'm not seeing clients I walk down the street as detached from work as anyone else does. For some reason men seem to think women are always on the look out for males to entrap. This is definitely not the case.

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Having met a few EE WGs it seems they all have a cover story, and I take most of what they say with a pinch of salt. I am always wary of EEs who have moved to this country for work full-time, as I think many have hidden agendas and are often loyal to no-one except their homeland and fellow country folk. Tread carefully !

Uh huh! Wise words.

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Outside of my Escorting I do not walk around looking for clients, in fact I do the opposite. I'm not interested in obtaining clients from my personal life. This is partly to do with discretion, as well as maintaining a line between work as well as private life. Mixing the two is asking for trouble. Just as I'm sure you don't go around looking for work when you finish at 5pm each day, or when out at night in the pub-lining up your mates to pay you for whatever it is you do best. Most WGs actively avoid this. We are not on the prowl and prefer clients to approach us via our advertising. If someone tried to book me who I thought I knew from my personal life, I would be very wary - because as already said mixing personal with business can result in problems for both concerned.

When I'm not seeing clients I walk down the street as detached from work as anyone else does. For some reason men seem to think women are always on the look out for males to entrap. This is definitely not the case.

Strawberry is absolutely right. We do have a life outside of work (and for a lot of us this is simply a job, albeit an enjoyable one). I'm single and like any other single woman I am interested in men (and the occasional woman) to enjoy within my private life.

One of the reasons I don't look at all men as potential clients is because when working the client is very much in control and I'm for the most part expected to perform for them. In my private life its much different. I can expect a man to give as well as take and can take control from time to time myself.

Most of us when single want that lifetime partner, so why should a working girl be any different?

I've gone the other way a few times, meaning a few clients have pressed so many of my buttons that they stop being clients and become a hell of a lot more.

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Interesting- ive you ever heard about falling in love-maybe not-

but all the same i think she might like you and she doesnt want to tell you about this part of her life,thinking it might hurt your feelings and your relationship.

Dont ask her anything, just play it cool from now and wait to see if she will open up.

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