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Punting Is Better Than The Alternatives

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I've been in this for some time and retrospectively it would have solved a whole load of issues in my younger days.

Once you get of the the "you've got to pay for it" thinking of those that don't know this hobby there are a whole load of benefits beyond just getting your end away.

Missus goes off sex, I'm there now and been there before with a girlfriend. Nothing worse than having a good looking woman that is with you but won't have sex with you. Now I don't have to feel resentment towards her or have to deal with the indignity of having to beg for it or merely be given a duty fuck.

I'm not so easy to get taken advantage of by a a flirty woman. Honestly, I've had better and she's probably not even in my top 20 women I've been with anyway. Ironically it seems to make them more interested in the fact that they can't play me.

In civvy street I've had some truly horrible looking women, desperate times and I took what I could get. But not a great feeling to be turned down my a minger <_< . If I'd had the choice at the time and someone said, you can have this for free or for a 100 quid or so here's a stunner I would not have believed it.

I've learned so much that I'm much better at sex than I ever thought possible. That's not because I'm deluded (hopefully) just becuase a WG has told me I'm good. Practice makes perfect. Not that the missus cares to find out.

I keep myself in good shape as much as I can, because someone will see.

What benefits have you found?

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No regrets. I'm no longer going to die not knowing what's it's like to have sex with a stunner. No dissapointment not having the chance of a threesome despite asking every girlfriend I've had to try it. In fact if I never had sex again, I know I've had a great innings way above what's possible for most men.

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I'm no longer going to die not knowing what's it's like to have sex with a stunner. No dissapointment not having the chance of a threesome despite asking every girlfriend I've had to try it. In fact if I never had sex again, I know I've had a great innings way above what's possible for most men.

Agree 100%; I used to lie awake at night regretting what I saw as missed opportunities in my youth. I don't do that any more.

Also agree about what getting turned down my a "minger" does for your self-esteem.

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Agree 100%; I used to lie awake at night regretting what I saw as missed opportunities in my youth. I don't do that any more.

Also agree about what getting turned down my a "minger" does for your self-esteem.

But think what wonders it does for hers...lol

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In civvy street I've had some truly horrible looking women, desperate times and I took what I could get. But not a great feeling to be turned down my a minger <_< . If I'd had the choice at the time and someone said, you can have this for free or for a 100 quid or so here's a stunner I would not have believed it.

Sorry, that paragraph just doesn't sit right with me. I'm not sure I'd classify anyone a "minger" or otherwise!

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Punting is much better than the alternatives for a start you go out without with the positive intention of meeting someone to your liking and having a fun time. Now how many lads going out on the pull can say that of an evening? They probably then spend the best part of a £100 or so trying. I love punting and the opportunity it has given me to meet some fantastic girls and experience some amazing situations. For me there is no viable alternative.

Cheers

AL

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Sorry, that paragraph just doesn't sit right with me. I'm not sure I'd classify anyone a "minger" or otherwise!

Yup and that kind of thinking does not get you laid, sure you look like the good fair guy and that's not to say you aren't. But in this game you don't need to play that card. Been there, didn't work.

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Punting is much better than the alternatives for a start you go out without with the positive intention of meeting someone to your liking and having a fun time. Now how many lads going out on the pull can say that of an evening? They probably then spend the best part of a £100 or so trying. I love punting and the opportunity it has given me to meet some fantastic girls and experience some amazing situations. For me there is no viable alternative.

Cheers

AL

Agree 100%

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The great advantage of paying for it is that as long as you've got the cash it's readily available. The big drawback is the professional girl doesn't tolerate any sort of personal relationship with the customer. Outside of work most of them wouldn't cross the road to piss on you to put a fire out. At least with a girlfriend you can see a lot more of her, not just when you're having sex and you can have some emotional connection, and even if they're not that attractive the friendship and emotional support compensates. The trouble is, for me anyway, I might as well try and win the lottery as get a girlfriend. Say what you like about the professionals at least they're willing to allow you to have your wicked way, which is a lot more than can be said for the civilians.

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whats been said above is right on

but also i find the sessions i have had with wg's has been far better than much civvy sex....

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I know lots of WGs that would cross the road to piss on me if I was on fire, but some would charge extra.

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No regrets. I'm no longer going to die not knowing what's it's like to have sex with a stunner. No dissapointment not having the chance of a threesome despite asking every girlfriend I've had to try it. In fact if I never had sex again, I know I've had a great innings way above what's possible for most men.

And thats a big motivator but for me there is no getting away from the missing mutual emotional ingrediedient in the sexual encounters, although frankly I wouldnt punt if it was there.!

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Punting is better than the alternatives, for me, that is. I have friends who have women failing at their feet, for free. I like some of you, have to make big fianical sacrifices and work extra hours to be able to have sex. I'll be honest here and say, since I started punting, I've got very resentful. This is not directed towards the girls I see, but mainly towards my parents, for not giving me better genes to be able to pull women. I would go as far as saying, it's boardline hatered of them and as a penance for them, I rarely visit.

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I know lots of WGs that would cross the road to piss on me if I was on fire, but some would charge extra.

Nice one.

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I have tried much more than I have ever done with Mrs BobJim. I have no regrets (provided I go undetected) and have some great memories. Still have a lot to try - so here's to future days.

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I actually think some people would benefit from punting. I am thinking of these cases that surface in the papers, when a professional man has lost his position through making a pass at one of his patients/customers etc, or even more humiliating rigged up cameras etc.

I dont agree that seeing a wg is better than pulling in a club etc,nothing beats the lunatic excitement of the pick-up. But at least with a wg you are both sober.

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But think what wonders it does for hers...lol

Haha! Touché

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And thats a big motivator but for me there is no getting away from the missing mutual emotional ingrediedient in the sexual encounters, although frankly I wouldnt punt if it was there.!

Here's a really crass analogy for you, but valid I think.

Punting is like buying one of those Ferrari Track Experiences for £80, where you get to drive a rev-limited F355 round a circuit for four or five laps whilst wearing a crash helmet, with an instructor next to you calling the shots.

A long term relationship should be like owning the Ferrari, having it in your garage available anytime, being familiar with it's handling, responsible for its upkeep, but being able to enjoy it at your leisure.

Apologies to Swiss Tony LOL

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If I was a man with a high sex drive, (rather than a woman with one!), I would definately punt. The lady of your choice, at a location of your choice, and at a time of your choice, and sober so I can enjoy it, hurrah!

As a single woman with a high sex drive I used to use Gumtree before they banned it for those services. Plentyoffish was too random and my sex life was suffering. Then, when I was selling one of my houses, I found out that one of my tenants was a working girl. I thought she was an architect. Turns out she was, but worked from home a couple of days a week and did "naughtiness" on the side. Savilles were a bit surprised at finding her Cross in the spare bedroom on a viewing.

Once I realised "normal" women escorted I dabbed my toe in the water and the rest is history.... Much better to be an escort than trying to pull in clubs every night of the week!

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The great advantage of paying for it is that as long as you've got the cash it's readily available. The big drawback is the professional girl doesn't tolerate any sort of personal relationship with the customer. Outside of work most of them wouldn't cross the road to piss on you to put a fire out. At least with a girlfriend you can see a lot more of her, not just when you're having sex and you can have some emotional connection, and even if they're not that attractive the friendship and emotional support compensates. The trouble is, for me anyway, I might as well try and win the lottery as get a girlfriend. Say what you like about the professionals at least they're willing to allow you to have your wicked way, which is a lot more than can be said for the civilians.

Me too, I'd love to be in a normal relationship, and would be very happy with, for want of a better term, an average woman of around my own age (50's), but that's not going to happen. At least when punting, I can choose a pretty twentysomething, which never happened to me in the real world, and enjoy the fantasy.

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Well for me the alternatives are 1. getting divorced or 2. having an affair. I am fortunate that women find me attractive and have never found it difficult to pull. I have thought about a divorce but my marriage is about so much more than making love, I have very nearly had an affair on a few occasions - I have even got as far as phone sex and a few dates with one very beautiful younger lady but it is too close to home. I am lucky enough have pulled several times whilst travelling on business.

So for me spending time with a working girl is the best way to keep my marriage going and not having an affair and the disastrous consequences that can have.

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Puntings stopped me having at least two affairs so far. When those ladies got me interested and a bit horny I'd just go and sort it out with a better looking WG.

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No regrets. I'm no longer going to die not knowing what's it's like to have sex with a stunner.

likewise - whatever happens for the rest of my life, I know I can honestly look back and say I've had great sex with some truely stunning beautiful women - ok I've had to pay for it but I've had such gorgeous women performing all sorts of sex acts on me and with me - something totally out of my league and reach in 'normal life' - that I'll never have regrets at what 'could have been'

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The best thing about it is that it is hassle free.

The second thing is that I can actually enjoy the sex without worrying about failing to impress the opposite sex. It is not a test. It is not an evaluation. Here is a professional girlfriend

whose only aim is to give pleasure. No blabbering about special feelings, emotions, ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands etc. Bladi blah da blah...

The third thing is that the professional ladies are actually cleaner. I know it sounds weird. But, put it this way, the professional ladies actually do take shower before sex. My girlfriends

used to offer sex at the end of a nightout without shower or after a dinner. Having sex with a woman who has not brushed her teeth after a meal, whose fanny is not fresh, who smells a bit of smoke.

Now that I have experience with professional ladies, I cannot understand how I used to take this shit.

Punting is expensive, no doubt about that. But, really, over long term, girlfriends are not cheap. And there is a lot of hassle.

With punting, I choose the time, send an email, agree on a date&time. On the day, I groom myself, take a hot bath, clean myself to death, and go and have sex with a lady that is right out of bath.

No hassle, no baggage.

I am not proud of punting. I just wish ordinary girls could know the quality of experience that one can enjoy with professional ladies.

Maybe then they would be a bit nicer to their partners.

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The best thing about it is that it is hassle free.

The second thing is that I can actually enjoy the sex without worrying about failing to impress the opposite sex. It is not a test. It is not an evaluation. Here is a professional girlfriend

whose only aim is to give pleasure. No blabbering about special feelings, emotions, ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands etc. Bladi blah da blah...

The third thing is that the professional ladies are actually cleaner. I know it sounds weird. But, put it this way, the professional ladies actually do take shower before sex. My girlfriends

used to offer sex at the end of a nightout without shower or after a dinner. Having sex with a woman who has not brushed her teeth after a meal, whose fanny is not fresh, I don't know why but this really made me giggle who smells a bit of smoke.

Now that I have experience with professional ladies, I cannot understand how I used to take this shit.

Punting is expensive, no doubt about that. But, really, over long term, girlfriends are not cheap. And there is a lot of hassle.

With punting, I choose the time, send an email, agree on a date&time. On the day, I groom myself, take a hot bath, clean myself to death, and go and have sex with a lady that is right out of bath.

No hassle, no baggage.

I am not proud of punting. I just wish ordinary girls could know the quality of experience that one can enjoy with professional ladies.

Maybe then they would be a bit nicer to their partners. Got a feeling you may get few less than gentle resposes to this lol

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