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Anal Play - Slippery Slope?

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I've always shied away from anal play on myself, but been quite happy to indulge with willing WGs though, and get quite a thrill from inserting a digit to pretty lady's poop chute.

I was introduced to rimming a year or two ago, and found it very pleasant, and the incredible Shanelle off of St Albans added a finger into proceedings, which at the time was quite welcome. I've had the finger a couple of times since, and it's been rather painful, until i went for a FBSM with Erica in Ealing, who gave me a first rate prostate massage and handjob with me on all fours. Truly sensational.

The other day I was alone in a hotel room, watching porn on my laptop (obviously) and decided to lube up with body lotion and insert a finger in my butt. It went in so easily i then slipped in a second, and that together with some stroking of my member produced a wonderfully intense orgasm.

Need anal insertion always be so hit and miss? Definitely think that you can't have too much lubrication, and that you have to be in a certain frame of mind to enjoy. I am seriously thinking of having some alone time with something the size of two fingers - or bigger. Is this a dangerous game to play?

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Only if the wife catches you, having said that if it was mine she'd probably join in with the fun ;-)

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There is nothing wrong in enjoying some back door action. I would certainly encourage you to experiment with a butt plug or find a lady who offers a strap on service. I have enjoyed many of these services which have resulted in some mind blowing experiences!!

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I've been rimmed and had the finger stuck in and was unexpectedly enjoyable. I want to try anal only because I can and maybe should but not because I'm that interested. I think I'm on my B list of things to do now.

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I am seriously thinking of having some alone time with something the size of two fingers - or bigger. Is this a dangerous game to play?

The size of a penis maybe? Is this the slippery slope you speak of? :D

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The size of a penis maybe? Is this the slippery slope you speak of? :D

Nowt wrong with a little bi-curiousity!

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Nowt wrong with a little bi-curiousity!

Doesn't have to be bi, there's plenty of anal fun with butt plugs, strap ons and other toys. I personally love anal play, alone or with a partner.

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The size of a penis maybe? Is this the slippery slope you speak of? :D

hehe - i think i was being deliberately, provocatively vague.

No, I certainly had something inanimate in mind. Butt plugs are a nice idea, but I can't visualise going and buying one. I was thinking of some household object, as in my addled mind, it's easier to explain to my wife why there is aerosol sticking out of my arse than why i bought a butt plug...

Q: How might i broach the subject of this with my other half (we have a strictly vanilla occasional sex life). Something like: "Darling, would you mind shoving your middle finger up my arse while I'm on top of you? It's clean, honest!"

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I've always shied away from anal play on myself, but been quite happy to indulge with willing WGs though, and get quite a thrill from inserting a digit to pretty lady's poop chute.

I was introduced to rimming a year or two ago, and found it very pleasant, and the incredible Shanelle off of St Albans added a finger into proceedings, which at the time was quite welcome. I've had the finger a couple of times since, and it's been rather painful, until i went for a FBSM with Erica in Ealing, who gave me a first rate prostate massage and handjob with me on all fours. Truly sensational.

The other day I was alone in a hotel room, watching porn on my laptop (obviously) and decided to lube up with body lotion and insert a finger in my butt. It went in so easily i then slipped in a second, and that together with some stroking of my member produced a wonderfully intense orgasm.

Need anal insertion always be so hit and miss? Definitely think that you can't have too much lubrication, and that you have to be in a certain frame of mind to enjoy. I am seriously thinking of having some alone time with something the size of two fingers - or bigger. Is this a dangerous game to play?

Well it's each to his own as they say, not my cup of tea but I wouldn't knock it because I haven't tried it.

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anal for women is very pleasurable so I guess, as you have described, can be for a man. Just can't get past that thought of where though :blink:

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Is this a dangerous game to play?

Not as long as you remember to wash your hands thoroughly before preparing food for yourself or others. :lol:

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Q: How might i broach the subject of this with my other half (we have a strictly vanilla occasional sex life). Something like: "Darling, would you mind shoving your middle finger up my arse while I'm on top of you? It's clean, honest!"

If she's typical of her sex, "there'll be an 40 quid in this week's housekeeping for you" should do it.

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Go for it if it is something you enjoy. I had an ex who really got off on it and I was happy to indulge her. It's something I enjoy, but not enough to pay a premium.

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An ex-GF, many years ago, encouraged me to butt-fuck her in the shower once.... it was nice at the time, but I have never been tempted to try it since as there are too many possible consequences from what I have heard, and I would not fancy being covered in faeces, particularly if I am paying, and indeed an extra 40 for the privilege!

A regular WG I see [saw] has started offering A-levels as a new service, and I was unfortunate enough to visit her recently 15 mins after an anal session with another punter! Her arse looked totally different in 69, and I was definitely put off the RO because of her virtually open anus. Not for me I'm afraid and unfortunately I fear I will not see my regular quite so often now. However I do find some WGs [who do not offer A levels] have particularly attractive poo holes, and I have developed a liking for rimming as part of my 69 routine!! :P :P :P

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An ex-GF, many years ago, encouraged me to butt-fuck her in the shower once.... it was nice at the time, but I have never been tempted to try it since as there are too many possible consequences from what I have heard, and I would not fancy being covered in faeces, particularly if I am paying, and indeed an extra 40 for the privilege!

A regular WG I see [saw] has started offering A-levels as a new service, and I was unfortunate enough to visit her recently 15 mins after an anal session with another punter! Her arse looked totally different in 69, and I was definitely put off the RO because of her virtually open anus. Not for me I'm afraid and unfortunately I fear I will not see my regular quite so often now. However I do find some WGs [who do not offer A levels] have particularly attractive poo holes, and I have developed a liking for rimming as part of my 69 routine!! :P :P :P

Rimming is a no no for me!

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one of my regular girls sometimes slips her finger in my bum when i am close to shooting my load and as long as its well lubed i quite enjoy it :rolleyes: she is very clean and i love to give her a good rimming also, but not a fan of rimming done on me !!

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I was thinking of some household object, as in my addled mind, it's easier to explain to my wife why there is aerosol sticking out of my arse than why i bought a butt plug...

Job's a carrot.

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I enjoy anal play (giving not receiving though) and have considered trying rimming with a WT. strangely iv always shyed away from it when it has been on offer. :-)

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I'd always fancied it but never had the pleasure until last week. Had a great session with a lady who was very enthusiastic about AP.

Like the s8d I'd tried a little DIY but engaging the services of a professional was well... enlightening. I thought the array of lube and toyage were for my lady's pleasure. Apparently so, not in the way I had thought.

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I've always shied away from anal play on myself, but been quite happy to indulge with willing WGs though, and get quite a thrill from inserting a digit to pretty lady's poop chute.

I was introduced to rimming a year or two ago, and found it very pleasant, and the incredible Shanelle off of St Albans added a finger into proceedings, which at the time was quite welcome. I've had the finger a couple of times since, and it's been rather painful, until i went for a FBSM with Erica in Ealing, who gave me a first rate prostate massage and handjob with me on all fours. Truly sensational.

One lady I miss very much is Stella Caine who retired a couple of years ago. She wasn't full service but gave awesome nude B2B massage and had an option of a prostate massage afterwards. She seemed to be able to hit the spot perfectly whilst giving HR and a HE - absolutely divine.... sigh....

I'd recommend prostate massage to any guy for sure.

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An ex-GF, many years ago, encouraged me to butt-fuck her in the shower once.... it was nice at the time, but I have never been tempted to try it since as there are too many possible consequences from what I have heard, and I would not fancy being covered in faeces, particularly if I am paying, and indeed an extra 40 for the privilege!

A regular WG I see [saw] has started offering A-levels as a new service, and I was unfortunate enough to visit her recently 15 mins after an anal session with another punter! Her arse looked totally different in 69, and I was definitely put off the RO because of her virtually open anus. Not for me I'm afraid and unfortunately I fear I will not see my regular quite so often now. However I do find some WGs [who do not offer A levels] have particularly attractive poo holes, and I have developed a liking for rimming as part of my 69 routine!! :P :P :P

I can see what you mean but I find a heavily dilated anus a bit of a turn on in a 'car crash' sort of way!

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I can see what you mean but I find a heavily dilated anus a bit of a turn on in a 'car crash' sort of way!

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please explain :)

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car crash.... that really made me hoot with laughter. You know you should not stare at it, and concentrate on the task at hand but you just end up being transfixed by the sight of it!!!

perfect turn of phrase..... sums up my reaction to a gentle sleeving arse to a T

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anal for women is very pleasurable so I guess, as you have described, can be for a man. Just can't get past that thought of where though :blink:

That is a bit of a sweeping statement. Personally I don't get any stimulation from anal and it is the 'mind' that allows me to do it on the odd occasion, as I get excited by the partner I'm with. I would never instigate it though.

Whereas unlike us ladies a gent has a gspot there and that I can understand being pleasurable, as I love mine lol.

Personally I am a bit squeamish about 'anal play' and prefer to keep my digits away. I have considered getting some latex gloves for prostrate massage, but to date have always used a rock chick if asked. I have a strap on too, but it's a bit too big for most guys. I've only used it once and thankfully the guy was very experienced and basically talked me through the hole thing. I quite enjoyed doing that, but then I love doing things for the first time, as it's a new experience.

I don't like having my bum rimmed or fingered either.

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' talked me through the hole thing.'

What a wonderful mispelling Kate!

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