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The only time i feel like visiting it a girl is when feeling horny maybe once a wk min but if i "knock one out" the feeling goes and the days in between i wont even think of wgs or visit any websites like this or agencies etc. Not sure if i'l always be like this but it only occured to me today..

Maybe its y iv only visited 2 wgs!

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Not sure if i'l always be like this

Lets hope not. If symptoms persist then purchase a chastity belt.

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It sounds to me like you are totally dominated by your cock. If he feels horny then he tells you to see a WG. You need to take control of your body don't let him tell you what to do and when to go see a WG. You decide!

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It sounds to me like you are totally dominated by your cock. If he feels horny then he tells you to see a WG. You need to take control of your body don't let him tell you what to do and when to go see a WG. You decide!

.....and the problem is ??????....... :unsure:

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The only time i feel like visiting it a girl is when feeling horny maybe once a wk min but if i "knock one out" the feeling goes and the days in between i wont even think of wgs or visit any websites like this or agencies etc. Not sure if i'l always be like this but it only occured to me today..

Maybe its y iv only visited 2 wgs!

Liken it to the satiation of hunger, most of the time you can cook for yourself but occasionally it's nice to dine out.

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The only time i feel like visiting it a girl is when feeling horny maybe once a wk min but if i "knock one out" the feeling goes and the days in between i wont even think of wgs or visit any websites like this or agencies etc. Not sure if i'l always be like this but it only occured to me today..

Maybe its y iv only visited 2 wgs!

I'm exactly the same... was going frantic until i had an impulsive punt on Monday and all the urges just completely drained away! (excuse the pun)

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Yeah, I'm the same too - I try and moderate punting by 'knocking one out', but when i do 'dine out' i have mixed feelings of pleasure and shame.

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The only thing that stops me punting more is lack of funds/being sensible with money. Wanking dulls the urges for about 15 mins afterwards, but that's about it!

I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

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I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

and?

yer a bloke. thats how it works!

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The only thing that stops me punting more is lack of funds/being sensible with money. Wanking dulls the urges for about 15 mins afterwards, but that's about it!

I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

I share your 'problem" Kid A and have done since I was about 10 or 11 (seriously!)I'm 43 now and still feel the same although I can't do it like I used to and feel like I'm past my peak, sadly.

Of course, it's all down to different levels of sex drive and it's always surprised me how much it can differ between individulas. I worked for many years at heathrow where it's awash with pretty girls and over the years it was amazing to see how each of my work colleagues reacted to them. Some would barely notice when we would walk past a girl worthy of any catwalk or centrefold and others would be going insane at the sight of any reasonably attractive girl we saw.I have known one or two men who have only slept with their wives (we all worked together for such a long time that we all became very familiar), several who have only been with 4 or 5 girls and very few who had been with ten or more. I've known at least two men in their 40's who we suspected might still be virgins and one 40 year old who definitely was. He was a personal friend of mine and I'd known him since he was 18 and as far as I'm aware he is still a virgin a 42. he was aware of my hobby and we had many discussions about it and despite providing him with as much info and advice as I could he still couldn't summons up the courage to go through with it despite being interested. Shame, eh?

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He was a personal friend of mine and I'd known him since he was 18 and as far as I'm aware he is still a virgin a 42. he was aware of my hobby and we had many discussions about it and despite providing him with as much info and advice as I could he still couldn't summons up the courage to go through with it despite being interested. Shame, eh?

Yes it is a shame! I have a similar friend who has admited to me that he is a virgin. I do wonder if the problem is watching porn and thinking that they can't perform like that!? I've tried explaining that that is only one of many ways to have sex and that you can be passive and leave everything to the girl or go for a more sensual and affectionate approach with more emphasis on foreplay and kissing and cuddling, but it's all been to no avail!

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Yes it is a shame! I have a similar friend who has admited to me that he is a virgin. I do wonder if the problem is watching porn and thinking that they can't perform like that!? I've tried explaining that that is only one of many ways to have sex and that you can be passive and leave everything to the girl or go for a more sensual and affectionate approach with more emphasis on foreplay and kissing and cuddling, but it's all been to no avail!

I've also got a 40+ friend that's a virgin and too shy or scared to do anything about it. I thought about taking him to a massage parlour after a night out. Apart from get an erection, it's not like he'd have to do anything. He could just lie there and the girl would do the rest.

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The only time i feel like visiting it a girl is when feeling horny maybe once a wk min but if i "knock one out" the feeling goes and the days in between i wont even think of wgs or visit any websites like this or agencies etc. Not sure if i'l always be like this but it only occured to me today..

Maybe its y iv only visited 2 wgs!

Lol this thread did make me giggle, it's kind of cute haha.

If I were you I would 'knock one out' every time and save yourself the dosh. Personally where masturbation can be a relief and enjoyable, or even help control pain on occasion, it just doesn't replace the 'real thing', which is why I enjoy my job so much. I don't stop thinking about it after 'knocking one out' but feel more inclined to work.

I rather envy you!

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Luckily I live an hour or so's drive from my usual parlour so quite often the urge to punt is overcome by thinking 'can I be bothere'd to drive there tonight'. So I knock one out, open a nice bottle of wine and order in a takeaway. Must have saved me 1000's over the years.

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Luckily I live an hour or so's drive from my usual parlour so quite often the urge to punt is overcome by thinking 'can I be bothere'd to drive there tonight'. So I knock one out, open a nice bottle of wine and order in a takeaway. Must have saved me 1000's over the years.

Oh Bert, you need to change your signature to this then: It's not the sex you pay for but for driving away afterwards..........

Otherwise you really would be knackered lol.

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The only thing that stops me punting more is lack of funds/being sensible with money. Wanking dulls the urges for about 15 mins afterwards, but that's about it!

I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

Many addicts will truthfully tell you they like their fags, booze, junk etc. Even though they also truthfully say they want to be free from the compulsion. That's one of the things that makes quitting so hard to do.

Your post makes me wonder whether you are constantly attracted sexually to women as a sort of substitute for a 'real' rounded relationship based on love, compassion and all that stuff that the majority of the world seems to enjoy. Or am I talking about me?

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Lol this thread did make me giggle, it's kind of cute haha.

If I were you I would 'knock one out' every time and save yourself the dosh. Personally where masturbation can be a relief and enjoyable, or even help control pain on occasion, it just doesn't replace the 'real thing', which is why I enjoy my job so much. I don't stop thinking about it after 'knocking one out' but feel more inclined to work.

I rather envy you!

I've found that "knocking one out" in anticipation of a punt can be counter productive as with a little self control it's possible to give so much more during the punt itself.

Knocking one out after an enjoyable and fulfilling liaison is so much more rewarding as one can re-enact and reflect on the earlier proceedings! I don't subscribe to the theory that a pre punt wank can make me last longer during the "real thing" as it would, at my age, probably deprive me of the opportunity of having a leisurely "round two"!

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The only thing that stops me punting more is lack of funds/being sensible with money. Wanking dulls the urges for about 15 mins afterwards, but that's about it!

I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

I'm the same. I can't remember what the oft quoted statistic is about men thinking about sex (every 10 seconds?) but much of the time, it seems I'm not far from it. :P

However, I try to see punting as a special treat so I usually go at least 6-8 weeks between punts although recently it's been a bit more frequent. I'm in a relationship though so when I go to see a WG it's not because of a lack of sex at home.

I think the OP needs to try a bit more self control (or a bit more masturbating anyway, unless he can afford to punt weekly.)

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Maybe its y iv only visited 2 wgs!

:blink: When did that happen ?!

I thought with all your concerns you'd yet to partake

Well done !

I thought you were all talk :)

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I have to say when I was younger I would knock one out in the toilet just before the punt so I could enjoy the session without cumming too soon and still be good for 2 goes. Ah those were the days. My GF is like KissxKate and gets right perky straight after her first orgasm. Women definitely have some advantages.

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It sounds to me like you are totally dominated by your cock. If he feels horny then he tells you to see a WG. You need to take control of your body don't let him tell you what to do and when to go see a WG. You decide!

Balls, more like, that's where testosterone is made, and we can't control how much is made! Not sure if there are any drugs to take to reduce it if our libido is too high...

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The only thing that stops me punting more is lack of funds/being sensible with money. Wanking dulls the urges for about 15 mins afterwards, but that's about it!

I constantly think about sex. Anywhere I go that women are present, I'm eyeing them up and mentally undressing them. I do think I have a problem, perhaps I need to be on bromide? But then again, feeling horny and being attracted to girls is something I like!

Agree with this.. it's only natural (for secular people).

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:blink: When did that happen ?!

I thought with all your concerns you'd yet to partake

Well done !

I thought you were all talk :)

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Sorry for the delayed reply

I realise its a treat but i dont like the idea of doing this unless i absolutely have to and at the moment this isnt the case

I had 2 30min but we didnt have sex or anything unprotected apart frm kissing

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If you dont like the idea of doing it and at the moment you dont have to do it why bother doing it then? :confused:

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