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Punting Versus Meeting Women In Bars And Clubs

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I believe seeing a w/g outweighs trying to chat up girls in bars all things considered.

There just seems so many advantages.

You can find just your type of lady.

Guaranteed sex.

Fantasy role play.

A W/G girl doesn't expect you to text or call afterwards.

A W/G girl doesn't assume this is the start of a relationship.

You can spend £100 on a night out in a bar/club and have precisely nothing in return.

You can spend £100 on a few dates with a girl and have precisely nothing in return.

Fantasy role play.

No games and stringing you along.

No gold diggers as you pay a set fee up front.

The girlfriend experience without the long and boring conversations in the hope that at the end of you have sex.

Takes the stress out of the dating scene because you have W/G to fall back on.

Please feel free to add your own reasons.

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Isn't this largely a variation on the old maxim that sex you pay for is a lot less expensive than sex you get for free?

Still true though :)

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Isn't this largely a variation on the old maxim that sex you pay for is a lot less expensive than sex you get for free?

Still true though :)

Exactly. There is no such thing as free sex

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You can spend £100 on a night out in a bar/club and have precisely nothing in return.

You can spend £100 on a few dates with a girl and have precisely nothing in return.

I can enjoy myself for far less than that and not give a second thought towards sex. Occasionally it's nice to have a meal at a good restaurant and just chat. Sex complicates so many things and my days of immediately jumping into bed with anybody that will are long gone. The difficult part however is finding a girl and that won't happen if you're with a WG.

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You need really good local knowledge to be able to check the FRs of girls in a pub.

Clubs are easier as the DJ has normally had most of them.

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It's still no substitute for being in love, if your in a bar or a club and you know about punting and how easy it is to have sex with the women of your choice, then you're in there looking for something other than sex.

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I believe seeing a w/g outweighs trying to chat up girls in bars all things considered.

There just seems so many advantages.

You can find just your type of lady.

Guaranteed sex.

Fantasy role play.

A W/G girl doesn't expect you to text or call afterwards.

A W/G girl doesn't assume this is the start of a relationship.

You can spend £100 on a night out in a bar/club and have precisely nothing in return.

You can spend £100 on a few dates with a girl and have precisely nothing in return.

Fantasy role play.

No games and stringing you along.

No gold diggers as you pay a set fee up front.

The girlfriend experience without the long and boring conversations in the hope that at the end of you have sex.

Takes the stress out of the dating scene because you have W/G to fall back on.

Please feel free to add your own reasons.

My advice to you is try punting for six months, you obviously know nothing about it and the pit falls involved. Also, do the maths, if you want sex for 1 hour a week, every week, think £500-600 a month. Having sex with a girl that wants to be there is not something that should be overlooked too.

Punting is something you do when all else fails or for one reason or another, you don't have another option!

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Best sex I ever had was with the woman who I thought loved me (or atleast she did love me at that point).

For the first year we had sex 1-3 times a day and it was great. That eventually turned to once a month and we argued 1-3 times a day instead :lol:

I pay for sex because I don't get out much these days, I am either doing Uni work or training for boxing. The few times I do go out I never seem to pull anyway, although I might get the odd kiss and fondle but nothing more :P

If I could find a gorgeous girl, who obeys my every command, both in bed and out of bed and I can have sex with her whenever I want without being tied down to her, but she is 100% faithful to me, then I will have found heaven and punting will become a thing of the past. But that aint gonna happen, so I'm staying single and paying for it like a mug is what I do B)

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I'm sure the safety of seeing a wg and just picking someone up at a bar.... At least you know the wg is clean where as a total stranger is just that!! :mellow:

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I'm sure the safety of seeing a wg and just picking someone up at a bar.... At least you know the wg is clean where as a total stranger is just that!! :mellow:

How do you know an escort is clean? I've never seen one with a certificate to say.

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The great thing about a punt is you do what you want and how you want to. My experience of sex with a stranger when not paying made me wish it was a punt! Don't like it when things don't go my way!

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How do you know an escort is clean? I've never seen one with a certificate to say.

99% of the ones I've seen are clean and I don't need a certificate to know that; good WGs keep themselves clean and hygieneic. I'm sure you know what its like to have a "not fresh" pussy in your mouth/face.

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99% of the ones I've seen are clean and I don't need a certificate to know that; good WGs keep themselves clean and hygieneic. I'm sure you know what its like to have a "not fresh" pussy in your mouth/face.

Are you serious??? 90% of STD's have no taste/smell whatsoever :huh:

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My advice to you is try punting for six months, you obviously know nothing about it and the pit falls involved. Also, do the maths, if you want sex for 1 hour a week, every week, think £500-600 a month. Having sex with a girl that wants to be there is not something that should be overlooked too.

Punting is something you do when all else fails or for one reason or another, you don't have another option!

Speak for yourself :rolleyes::rolleyes:

(what a load of nonsense !!...........are you sure you shouldnt be on 'mumsnet' ?)

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I agree it has many advantages, unless you're single like me, if you get on and actually both fancy each other great sex.. can't then date them can you like most girls in bars/clubs. Lets be honest finding a date/gf/bf is a crapshoot however you go about it :D.

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Punting for me is the quick fix solution. Bottom line is that I find it hard these days to get out and meet women through the conventional means, and I'm getting too old for the bar/ nightclub scene.

It's definitely no substitute for the real thing though, and the bottom line is that it's just a transaction and when all's said and done, wgs are in this game to make money, and that's the end of it.

I'm a realist not a fantasist...a wg is a very good actress, and that is all part of the job.

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Fairly comprehensive list of reasons given by the original poster. In my case, I'm not interested in an affair, so not even fair to start something off. Paying means I can choose the girl ( within reason ) guaranteeing she is my preferred body type when she disrobes ( slim but busty ) and will not give me dirty looks when I ask for sexy lingerie/stockings/suspenders etc which garments I prefer.

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Speak for yourself :rolleyes::rolleyes:

(what a load of nonsense !!...........are you sure you shouldnt be on 'mumsnet' ?)

So, you like to pay, just for the hell of it....

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So, you like to pay, just for the hell of it....

Paying for it for me is part of the satisfaction, bizarrely. I've been very very poor at times in my life, poor enough to worry about where my next meal is coming from. Knowing I have enough money left over after I've paid into my pension, covered all my bills etc etc. to pay a girl for an afternoon's diversion is part of the satisfaction I get, just as going on holiday does, or splurging on that latest bit of tech I don't really need.

I read a very interesting article a while back about why people buy very expensive bottles of wine in restaurants. Only part of it is the pleasure of drinking it; indeed a lot of the people who do, truth be told, don't have the tastebuds to appreciate just how special that wine is. Where those people get the buzz is knowing that they can afford to spend all that money on something that will be gone in a couple of hours.

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Paying for it for me is part of the satisfaction, bizarrely.

But the question is, could you have got it for free by pulling in a bar/club? That's the issue for me. If I could pull on a night out, granted it can take time/money and still end in failure,I wouldn't bother with punting. The other point here is, if you are already in a relationship and can't go out on the pull, that is a separated issue and a separated reason to punt.

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Isn't this largely a variation on the old maxim that sex you pay for is a lot less expensive than sex you get for free?

Still true though :)

Exactly. There is no such thing as free sex

Do the Math(s) : http://www.costofsex.com

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So, you like to pay, just for the hell of it....

This 'reasons for punting' thing has been done to death recently and I'll be repeating myself yet again

I could most likely 'pull' in pubs/bars/clubs etc but really I just cant be arsed with all the effort it would take and the other associated BS and hassles that often accompany one night stands

Punting is so easy : surf the web, browse the girls on the agency pages, pick your chosen service provider, make the call, meet her, pay her, enjoy, leave........and thats it.

Easy, quick, convenient, satisfying.

Also I am in a relationship with a lovely woman who I love very much, and the sex is good, but I crave sex and sexual activity with other women too and so punting satisfies those urges in the easiest and most convenient and hassle free way possible.

For me punting is really just a form of self indulgent pampering.

Punting is no reflection on my feelings for my partner or on the state of the relationship (which is very good), but is purely a reflection of my, as one 'objector' put it 'wanting to have my cake and eat it too'.......DAMN STRAIGHT.......THATS ME !!

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This 'reasons for punting' thing has been done to death recently and I'll be repeating myself yet again

I could most likely 'pull' in pubs/bars/clubs etc but really I just cant be arsed with all the effort it would take and the other associated BS and hassles that often accompany one night stands

Punting is so easy : surf the web, browse the girls on the agency pages, pick your chosen service provider, make the call, meet her, pay her, enjoy, leave........and thats it.

Easy, quick, convenient, satisfying.

Also I am in a relationship with a lovely woman who I love very much, and the sex is good, but I crave sex and sexual activity with other women too and so punting satisfies those urges in the easiest and most convenient and hassle free way possible.

For me punting is really just a form of self indulgent pampering.

Punting is no reflection on my feelings for my partner or on the state of the relationship (which is very good), but is purely a reflection of my, as one 'objector' put it 'wanting to have my cake and eat it too'.......DAMN STRAIGHT.......THATS ME !!

The best sex is the one were the two (or three or four) involved are doing it because they are completely into each other. There's nothing better than experiencing how your partner/buddy is having as much fun as you. Knowing that he/she would rather be fucking your brains than be any were else in that moment is a huge turn-on (it also works wonders for your self -esteem!).

Also discovering what "ticks" each other and going madly for it can be very exciting. Sex is a two way street were watching the other person getting off is a very erotic experience.

But it looks like sex for you is a "one way street" (you'd rather pay a girl to play a "role" than find a woman who is REALLY into you and thus no need put up a performance whatsoever). So what you do is not really "sex". Call it "paying someone to masturbate inside her body". Meaning: if thats how you envision good sex I have serious doubts about that "good sex life you have with your wife". As a woman me thinks she musnt' be very happy with that "one street way sex hi! its all about me". But of course I forgot that in this forum we're only getting one side of the story. Would be interesting what she has to say. I just hope she's not on mumsnet complaining about it.

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99% of the ones I've seen are clean and I don't need a certificate to know that; good WGs keep themselves clean and hygieneic. I'm sure you know what its like to have a "not fresh" pussy in your mouth/face.

By "clean", I mean diseases and infections. All the girls I've met have indeed been clean in the hygienic sense of the word.

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The best sex is the one were the two (or three or four) involved are doing it because they are completely into each other. There's nothing better than experiencing how your partner/buddy is having as much fun as you. Knowing that he/she would rather be fucking your brains than be any were else in that moment is a huge turn-on (it also works wonders for your self -esteem!).

Also discovering what "ticks" each other and going madly for it can be very exciting. Sex is a two way street were watching the other person getting off is a very erotic experience.

But it looks like sex for you is a "one way street" (you'd rather pay a girl to play a "role" than find a woman who is REALLY into you and thus no need put up a performance whatsoever). So what you do is not really "sex". Call it "paying someone to masturbate inside her body". Meaning: if thats how you envision good sex I have serious doubts about that "good sex life you have with your wife". As a woman me thinks she musnt' be very happy with that "one street way sex hi! its all about me". But of course I forgot that in this forum we're only getting one side of the story. Would be interesting what she has to say. I just hope she's not on mumsnet complaining about it.

The first type of sex youre talking about I'm very familiar with and thats the type of sex I have with my partner - 2 way street, both love each other, both totally 'into' each other as you put it - emotionally and physically fulfilling.....yeah yeah yeah.....know all about it, love it, love her.

Why would I try and 'pull' a woman in a bar/club/pub, then try and discover what 'ticks her boxes', form some deep emotional connection with her and hope to have that incredible 'getting to know and discover you' type of sex you have at the beginning of a relationship, when I've already experienced that with my current partner, who provides me with all the emotional fulfilment I need (and hopefully I return the favour - she often says words to the effect that I do) and who i have no intention at all of being emotionally unfaithful to ??

I'm not looking for, nor am I expecting, that type of sex when I book an escort.

However, regardless of what you say/think and how much you may WISH it wasnt the case, sex with an escort CAN be passionate, sweaty, erotic, genuine and mutually very enjoyable - ask any of the wgs posting on these forums

I see escorts purely for the physical release and the unparalleled convenience and ease of arranging such a sexual liaison.

Hopefully my chosen escort enjoys it too.......its physically obvious that sometimes they do, sometimes maybe they dont, if it involves some acting, so be it....I'm under no illusions.........acting/real/bit of both, I'm not concerned, and I have no self-esteem issues, as long as she's attractive, pleasant company, dedicated, professional and skilled then I'm happy.

It sounds to me as though you have a problem with 'sex for cash', both with the punters who pay and the wgs who provide - if so then why are you posting on this forum ?

Are you a 'sex missionary' hoping to convert sinners or someone with an inferiority complex who makes themselves feel briefly superior by lurking on forums like this and then posting judgemental (and highly prejudiced and typically uninformed) comments ?

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