Sign in to follow this  
Followers 0
cumandgo

Knowing You Will Never See Her Or (indeed Him )again

25 posts in this topic

Yes, I know that one of the reasons why we book escorts is that everybody walks away into the dark of the distance . I dont do regulars but it is nice to know that if you wanted to see a certain WG again you could do so easily if she is geographically reasonably close but there are other punts where, for whatever reason, you are most unlikely to get the opportunity to see her again and that I find I can be difficult sometimes. Maybe there was an experience that you shared, maybe there was a mad incident or funny moment that occurred during the booking, maybe in hindsight you think you ought to have said something or done something and now you know that chance has gone. Anyone else ever felt like that, even if only for a few days or week ?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, I know that one of the reasons why we book escorts is that everybody walks away into the dark of the distance . I dont do regulars but it is nice to know that if you wanted to see a certain WG again you could do so easily if she is geographically reasonably close but there are other punts where, for whatever reason, you are most unlikely to get the opportunity to see her again and that I find I can be difficult sometimes. Maybe there was an experience that you shared, maybe there was a mad incident or funny moment that occurred during the booking, maybe in hindsight you think you ought to have said something or done something and now you know that chance has gone. Anyone else ever felt like that, even if only for a few days or week ?

I consider that's probably the biggest downside in this game. When you find someone you really like a lot, it can be rather sad when they just vanish after a few meetings. Given the turnover among the girls, it's not surprising I guess. Or maybe it's something I said. :huh:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Angel from Kandys in Telford - sigh ......

I know what you mean - you think they'll always be there, so there's no rush ... then they disappear .....

Doc

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Personally I've become good friends with a lady I used to visit quite regularly and as such I don't think I could see her again in a 'working' sense as I think it would just be weird. There's no possibility of us ever being more than friends so I've had to accept that there will never be any sexual intimacy between us again. It's kind of sad to realise that but balances out with the good friendship

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I never see my punts as anything other than an 'arms length' transaction (for want of a better phrase!) so have never formed any emotional attachments with a WG.

For me the whole point of a punt is to keep emotional ties and attachments out of it - yes, enjoy the moment and the pleasure that you get from another human being on a one to one basis, but when you walk away afterwards it's time to switch off the sentiment - I've split up with too many exes on the past to want to keep experiencing heartache when a favoured WG retires!

Edit: spelling

Edited by DancinDannyD

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

See the Sarah Jones thread. For whatever the real reason, she has suddenly gone, and while I only saw her a few times, I will miss her. Part of it is selfish, and knowing I won't see her again, but it is also not knowing why she has gone, and hoping that everything is alright.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

See the Sarah Jones thread. For whatever the real reason, she has suddenly gone, and while I only saw her a few times, I will miss her. Part of it is selfish, and knowing I won't see her again, but it is also not knowing why she has gone, and hoping that everything is alright.

I wonder if the WGs get it worse than us in this respect. Between every booking, we punters can at least see if WGs we like are still advertising. We choose when and if we call again after every meeting. If we don't call, is it because the WG said something wrong, or didn't try hard enough, we found a better girl, maybe died or, worse, got caught out by the wife?

But then again, maybe most WGs are glad to see the back of me :lol:

Edited by tomdavies

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It is sad when you've known someone for a while and consider them a friend. It's not like you can say 'keep in touch' as you might if your hairdresser was changing career.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There is always somebody new and equally delightful around the corner. In any case I'm sure she would keep in touch if we meant anything to them. That realisation soon evaporates the delusion.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

simplest thing is not to fall for a WG - keep everything as a business transaction, the same philosophy they use on us punters - we're just cash, they're just physical relief.

once getting in to the metal side of things with a WG - that is usually how they will end up - mental! It will usually (99.9% of the time - and, yes, I've just plucked that number from the air) go tits up for at least one of you - that's just the nature of punting and working I suppose.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I wonder if the WGs get it worse than us in this respect. Between every booking, we punters can at least see if WGs we like are still advertising. We choose when and if we call again after every meeting. If we don't call, is it because the WG said something wrong, or didn't try hard enough, we found a better girl, maybe died or, worse, got caught out by the wife?

But then again, maybe most WGs are glad to see the back of me :lol:

Yes I wonder what goes on in the ladies' heads on that one. The ladies lead us to believe that in their eyes provided there is no negative issues that we are all equal in their eyes. Humans being humans, I find this hard to believe.If I were a WG I am sure that there are those clients who I would really want to return again, whilst there are others I would be more relaxed or dispassionate about. But I accept I am not a WG.

simplest thing is not to fall for a WG - keep everything as a business transaction, the same philosophy they use on us punters - we're just cash, they're just physical relief.

once getting in to the metal side of things with a WG - that is usually how they will end up - mental! It will usually (99.9% of the time - and, yes, I've just plucked that number from the air) go tits up for at least one of you - that's just the nature of punting and working I suppose.

I'm not talking about falling for a WG here. If you take the character and personality out of WGs and just have a sex machine, I for one wouldnt bother punting. Of course its business but the personality of the lady is a critical factor, especially on the longer punts which I much prefer.Its those factors which give the quality to the sex.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm not talking about falling for a WG here. If you take the character and personality out of WGs and just have a sex machine, I for one wouldnt bother punting. Of course its business but the personality of the lady is a critical factor, especially on the longer punts which I much prefer.Its those factors which give the quality to the sex.

QFT. I have a perfectly serviceable sex machine on the end of my right arm, but it's not much of a conversationalist!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think the answer to this regretting not doing something or not seeing someone enough when she was around.....is to make hay when the sun shines!!!

Oh, and don't look back and live a life full of regrets. While you're moping about missing that girl that did this or that so well you may be overlooking someone that would do it even better!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Live life to the max and don't put off doing something you want to do :P

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Better to regret something you have done, than something you haven't.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

One of the drawbacks of punting is phoning the parlour, to be told that so and so , no longer works here. Mind you, they often reappear. Its a difficult job to leave.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

In summer 2010 I had to say goodbye to a gent I had been seeing since 2002. I was very fond of him so it wasn't easy and I do still miss him.

I have to say goodbye to someone else I have been seeing for a while today. He is leaving the country [not on my account might I add] to start up business elsewhere. It's the first time where I'm not looking forward to seeing him, but only because I hate goodbyes :(

It is sad but you have no choice but to deal with it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

people come and go in and out of our lives regardless of our profession though some say it is a positive side of the industry in that variety is the spice of life and given my lust for new partners of the sexual variety I would have to agree on that .

Sadie

xx

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There's been girls I've only had the opportunity to see once and then never again. Some of them I'd really have like a few more sessions with. But I look at it pragmatically, at least I got to enjoy some time with her and she left on a high note.

What I miss more though is when establishments I like go. I really should have gone there more times before they closed.

It's a fine line, go too much and you'll get punting fatigue not enough and there's a little regret.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I consider that's probably the biggest downside in this game. When you find someone you really like a lot, it can be rather sad when they just vanish after a few meetings. Given the turnover among the girls, it's not surprising I guess. Or maybe it's something I said. :huh:

I'm in that place at the moment. A regular I had been seeing for years has dropped off the planet. A two word reply to one of my texts or messages ("Sorry. Retired") would do fine, but a blank is a bit depressing.

Now i know she is getting back into the family business, she has daughters reaching that knowing age, and the house has been done up; lot's of good reasons to stop now. But it would be nice to know that stopping was her plan and everything is OK.

For comparision, when I retired and my tax simplified I stopped paying an accountant. I took the lady who had done my stuff for years out to a final lunch. I sort of feel it's much the same - a pretty initimate yet non-involved relationship of mutual advantage.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

For comparision, when I retired and my tax simplified I stopped paying an accountant. I took the lady who had done my stuff for years out to a final lunch. I sort of feel it's much the same - a pretty initimate yet non-involved relationship of mutual advantage.

Nice thing to do, I am sure that most do not and that she saw it as an indication of your appreciation of her help over the years. Professionals usually want to be appreciated for their services.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think the answer to this regretting not doing something or not seeing someone enough when she was around.....is to make hay when the sun shines!!!

Oh, and don't look back and live a life full of regrets. While you're moping about missing that girl that did this or that so well you may be overlooking someone that would do it even better!

Yes thats very good advice and so right. A week later and everything is different !!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, I know that one of the reasons why we book escorts is that everybody walks away into the dark of the distance . I dont do regulars but it is nice to know that if you wanted to see a certain WG again you could do so easily if she is geographically reasonably close but there are other punts where, for whatever reason, you are most unlikely to get the opportunity to see her again and that I find I can be difficult sometimes. Maybe there was an experience that you shared, maybe there was a mad incident or funny moment that occurred during the booking, maybe in hindsight you think you ought to have said something or done something and now you know that chance has gone. Anyone else ever felt like that, even if only for a few days or week ?

Sadly i have sometimes let a gem slip away for various reasons and regretted it, only to find her gone when trying to get back in touch. I just mentally thank her for the experience/s she gave me and move on. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Experience has taught me that as soon as I start thanking my god for letting me find a beautiful, kind and understanding lady I should start preparing myself for the time when she's no longer around.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I only felt like that after my first ever meet with an escort back in Michigan, I took the strands of her blonde hairs from the bed and saved it in an envelope.. :lol: Well, I don't think I would ever feel that again...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now
Sign in to follow this  
Followers 0