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Nervous When Calling To Book?

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Does anyone else get scared when ringing to book an escort, and do you talk about anything other than booking times/availability?

Iv only ever rang 3 women, 2 sounded slutty so i didnt feel intimidated but one sounded quite normal/posh so i just put the phone down!

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Does anyone else get scared when ringing to book an escort, and do you talk about anything other than booking times/availability?

Iv only ever rang 3 women, 2 sounded slutty so i didnt feel intimidated but one sounded quite normal/posh so i just put the phone down!

As someone who doesn't like using the phone, I get bervous when calling to book. I stick to the basics - I've already decided if they are available that I'll go for it. It works for me, and I guess the girl with whom I book.

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Enjoy the nerves fella - if it becomes mundane half the fun is gone. Lots of fella's get nervous - it's no big thing.

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So try texting . I have arranged many punts by text, some girls prefer it .

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Agree with Big John, nerves = adrenalin = excitement.

I make sure I know what I'm asking before I dial the number. I usually plan on a short conversation: Say hello. Ask day, time, address, confirmation procedure. Say thanks very much & bye bye. Obviously if the WG wants to know more she's welcome, but I don't try to start a conversation in case I go in her phone book under "Time waster" or "W***er wants free phone sex"

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It's interesting you say you didn't feel intimidated with the ones who sounded slutty... I always sound very normal and friendly when answering the phone as I've always thought that makes chaps feel more at ease. I'd feel very odd being 'slutty' on the phone to a new client.

(Hi all btw... am new here!)

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Yep

Whilst I do now accept bookings via text methods, I think it's wise for both parties to have vocal contact before meeting. It ensures both are real, and that both are actually contactable. A lot also are of the opinion that if you are too nervous to speak, then you are likely to be so nervous that you might not turn up on the day. As such it's also an ice breaker too - one less hurdle to get over.

What interests me is that you liked the slutty girls, yet when you got someone that sounded "normal" you still didn't like it. It's obvious the type of girl you need to be going for!People putting the phone down do it for several reasons, nerves, because they think they have the wrong number(my voice can be a bit misleading, since it's a little deeper than most expect. I simply don't have a teensy, girlie voice and I do get the odd caller who thinks I'm not the person I actually am!They should try reading some reports). If it happens a lot it can make you look a bit odd. You can ask questions then say "I'll call back" you aren't obliged to make a booking just because you have made an enquiry.

Regards the phone call, I personally just want to hear that you are a normal person(not a child or woman with a mission), it also rules out some TWs since to text a girl is easy for anyone, but to go through with a phone call is that bit extra most if they aren't serious wouldn't do.

Anyway during the call as I say I just want to hear that you are real, that we can communicate(useful for directions etc) I'll surmise the confirmation times as well as explain about parking etc. I'm also happy to back that up via email or SMS as I am aware it's a lot to remember.

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Does anyone else get scared when ringing to book an escort, and do you talk about anything other than booking times/availability?

Iv only ever rang 3 women, 2 sounded slutty so i didnt feel intimidated but one sounded quite normal/posh so i just put the phone down!

C'mon be serious - how can anyone be scared ringing an escort? What sort of life have you had if you've only ever rung three women :blink: ?? I can remember in my youth I was given a number to ring for a woman with a posh voice - I tried to get an appointment but all she ever did was tell me the time.

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It's interesting you say you didn't feel intimidated with the ones who sounded slutty... I always sound very normal and friendly when answering the phone as I've always thought that makes chaps feel more at ease. I'd feel very odd being 'slutty' on the phone to a new client.

(Hi all btw... am new here!)

Welcome. :)

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I'm the same - I deliberately booked via the other site my first few WGs so I could do it all via email and text, and another girl after that because she stated that she preferred to correspond via text.

It took me 4 attempts to call one girl I really wanted to book as I kept hanging up before the call went through. It's strange as I can talk to 'regular' girls I've pulled or met via match.com etc no problem on the phone. I even then had to write down what I wanted to say to the WG (including my own address!) in case I forgot any of it...

Having said that, it's nothing compared to how I am just before they arrive - I'm prowling around and can't sit still, and I'm shaking like a leaf. Even if the girl has texted me from the lobby to tell me she'll be there in 2 minutes, I still jump out of my skin when there's a knock at the door.

But the previous poster was right - those squirts of adrenaline are part of what makes it all so exciting!

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C'mon be serious - how can anyone be scared ringing an escort? What sort of life have you had if you've only ever rung three women :blink: ?? I can remember in my youth I was given a number to ring for a woman with a posh voice - I tried to get an appointment but all she ever did was tell me the time.

only ever rung 3 escort women!

i dunno wht it was about the woman who sounded posh it just scared me abit cos it seemed more real if tht even makes sense.

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Enjoy the nerves fella - if it becomes mundane half the fun is gone. Lots of fella's get nervous - it's no big thing.

Agree with Big John, nerves = adrenalin = excitement.

Got to agree with these guys. I hate the phone call, but the buzz, the adrenalin!

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First time I did and first time with a different agency, now not at all.

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I find it strange how the phone call makes me nervous, but face to face I don't seem to have any nerves at all now.

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I find it strange how the phone call makes me nervous, but face to face I don't seem to have any nerves at all now.

I love making the phone call - it is so exciting - terrific buzz- especially if you speak to the girl direct

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Maybe it's because I'm not sure how to be on the phone with an escort, it's not like I've ever overheard anyone else making a booking.

You're calling the girl because you fancy her and want to shag her and she knows that. So maybe you should be flirty with her? I'm sure some do, but it doesn't seem right for me. If you overheard one of my calls you might think I'm booking a dental appointment or something.

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Maybe it's because I'm not sure how to be on the phone with an escort, it's not like I've ever overheard anyone else making a booking.

You're calling the girl because you fancy her and want to shag her and she knows that. So maybe you should be flirty with her? I'm sure some do, but it doesn't seem right for me. If you overheard one of my calls you might think I'm booking a dental appointment or something.

I love the buzz when we agree time/dates to meet over the phone because we both know that is the time I shall have her and penetrate her - absolute magic!!

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C'mon be serious - how can anyone be scared ringing an escort? What sort of life have you had if you've only ever rung three women :blink: ?? I can remember in my youth I was given a number to ring for a woman with a posh voice - I tried to get an appointment but all she ever did was tell me the time.

Ha ha, very droll!

I usually make the first approach by email and it seems to work very well for me but I have no hesitation speaking on the phone if needed. It's amazing how the voice can sometimes be totally different to what you might expect after seeing a lady's photos.

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I am also not comfortable over the phone unless it is a good friend. That plus the flood of hormones when you actually pick up the phone because you know for sure its going to happen does make the call difficult. I don't have any problems when the girl is about to knock on the door though just a quiet contentment that I am about to experience a brand new female or unite again with a favourite. Incalls can generate more excitement though I guess because the surroundings will be unfamiliar.

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Maybe it's because I'm not sure how to be on the phone with an escort, it's not like I've ever overheard anyone else making a booking.

You're calling the girl because you fancy her and want to shag her and she knows that. So maybe you should be flirty with her? I'm sure some do, but it doesn't seem right for me. If you overheard one of my calls you might think I'm booking a dental appointment or something.

There is a lot of confusion about this, and yes you are booking an appointment just as you would anything else - except our service is a lot more personal. If you would like to flirt that's fine, as long as it's polite but generally we just want to know the details required for the booking.

I know that can sound very business-like but it's common sense, after all there are some funny folk out there. Once arrived certainly for me the business side of me disappears(once we've got the paperwork out of the way - which by the way is code for payment!).

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One of the benfits to me of booking an independent is that you get the chance to speak to her on the phone. Mostly girls want to do this so they can check you out but I do it for that reason too. If they sound nice and normal than I know they are the sort of person I want to meet. If they sound slutty then there it indicates a problem becuase I would not have selected someone like that.

The only nervousness I get on the phone is remebering to use my 'punting identity' - a couple of weeks ago the arrangements were to phone when I arrived in the street for last minute directions. I had already had a nice chat with her on the phone when booking so felt comfortable and familiar, so when I called I said Hi its *** using the fisrt letters of my real name, quickly correcting myself!. She was sharp enough to spot this and we had a good laugh about it. As a result we both told each other our real names and this helped a very fun meeting.

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Does anyone else get scared when ringing to book an escort, and do you talk about anything other than booking times/availability?

Good lord, it's a phone call. You're prepared to walk into a stranger's room, drop your clothes within minutes and put your dick in her mouth, but are scared of calling her or her agent?

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i like to call the lady even if i have booked by text or online. i think you can tell a lot about a ladies personality etc from her voice.

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Does anyone else get scared when ringing to book an escort, and do you talk about anything other than booking times/availability?

Iv only ever rang 3 women, 2 sounded slutty so i didnt feel intimidated but one sounded quite normal/posh so i just put the phone down!

If this is the way you feel then email the lady or agency with your enquiry and when you get a feel of what they are like and your comfortable with that then call them.

Shelly

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i always email a few times and text a bit, gets to know each other and then the calls are easy, i find if i send them fun cheeky and sweet emails the girls seem to get a feel of you, i know maybe this sounds odd but it dose make them feel at ease if they think the guy can be sweet with them,

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