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What Makes A Great Escort Or Escorting Appointment?

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This has likely been done before but I cant find owt lol.

Having taken the plunge and joined my agency and been working a little while now, all nerves have long since subsided etc and I find myself much more chilled out and relaxed about it all. Not that I was ever worried but used to get a little... mild butterflies shall we say :)

I've read a lot on here (I lurk a lot lol) and pay attention to what people say makes a good or a bad booking.

I'm interested to know what the guys think makes a good escort (I dont mean physical appearance as thats subject to personal tastes and none of us can become what we are not) and what makes the appointment enjoyable enough to want to repeat, and perhaps what THEY do to make sure that things are pleasant for the girl :)

From the girls am curious to know what they think is good/bad in a client (suspect this will be obvious but there may be some surprises) and also what they do/don't to in order to try make themselves/their service that cut above the rest? :)

This is prob really basic stuff I'm about to write but am just starting the conversation off... someone else may write useful things I can learn from :)

For me personally....

* I always dress the best I can... everything freshly laundered each day, and aim for "respectable on the outside" incase I am seen arriving or leaving. For me this is usually a black pencil skirt with stockings and heels and a slightly sexy top underneath which will be hidden usually by a classic style trench coat or similar. Legs and *other* bits are shaved every single morning, tans always done, nails always immaculate, hair always freshly washed and I always wear nice perfume.

* Sounds daft but I keep my car washed... dont want a scruffy looking car drawing attention in a nice neighbourhood....

* I always wear nice lingerie and TRY to remember to not wear same thing twice in a row if a client makes repeat bookings(s).

* I try to be prepared for all eventualities... I carry a smart bag with a couple of different lingerie outfits incase the client wants something totally different to what I am wearing (being with an agency, clients often dont ask). In it I also have a toiletries purse with travel sized "everything" ie shower gel, deodorant (male and female), baby wipes, baby oil, baby powder, mouthwash etc, plus a "fun" bag with a few different types of toys, few types of lube, massage oil and several types of condom inc XL and latex-free.

* I try my best to assess at the start how confident the client is... if they are cracking on getting undressed or seem very self assured then fine but if not I'll ask if they want anything in particular and try to crack a joke or two or have a laugh at the start to relax them.

* I always offer a shower when at an incall and I do the clean up myself whether incall or outcall.... and carry a pack of baby wipes and nappy bags for the purpose.

* I say goodbye fondly and tell the client they are welcome to call again etc. Just manners I guess.

From the clients:

* Please dont ask me personal questions about my life/where in the city I live/do I have a boyfriend etc.... I'll lie if I have to but I'd rather not be asked. Chit chat/likes etc are fine but not anything personal.

* ASK if there is a specific thing you want or way you want things thats not been mentioned.

* If something says "at discretion" on profile it means exactly that so please ask at the start and it can be explained then.

* Leave feedback! The majority of people dont bother even when they say they will and it helps us immeasurably if you do! You may find us even more welcoming in future as a thank you ;)

Thats it really I think..... :)

* Be clean, polite etc (obvious that I know).

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Good Hygiene, Laughter, polite, don't piss take, punctuality :D

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This has likely been done before but I cant find owt lol.

Having taken the plunge and joined my agency and been working a little while now, all nerves have long since subsided etc and I find myself much more chilled out and relaxed about it all. Not that I was ever worried but used to get a little... mild butterflies shall we say :)

I've read a lot on here (I lurk a lot lol) and pay attention to what people say makes a good or a bad booking.

I'm interested to know what the guys think makes a good escort (I dont mean physical appearance as thats subject to personal tastes and none of us can become what we are not) and what makes the appointment enjoyable enough to want to repeat, and perhaps what THEY do to make sure that things are pleasant for the girl :)

From the girls am curious to know what they think is good/bad in a client (suspect this will be obvious but there may be some surprises) and also what they do/don't to in order to try make themselves/their service that cut above the rest? :)

This is prob really basic stuff I'm about to write but am just starting the conversation off... someone else may write useful things I can learn from :)

For me personally....

* I always dress the best I can... everything freshly laundered each day, and aim for "respectable on the outside" incase I am seen arriving or leaving. For me this is usually a black pencil skirt with stockings and heels and a slightly sexy top underneath which will be hidden usually by a classic style trench coat or similar. Legs and *other* bits are shaved every single morning, tans always done, nails always immaculate, hair always freshly washed and I always wear nice perfume.

* Sounds daft but I keep my car washed... dont want a scruffy looking car drawing attention in a nice neighbourhood....

* I always wear nice lingerie and TRY to remember to not wear same thing twice in a row if a client makes repeat bookings(s).

* I try to be prepared for all eventualities... I carry a smart bag with a couple of different lingerie outfits incase the client wants something totally different to what I am wearing (being with an agency, clients often dont ask). In it I also have a toiletries purse with travel sized "everything" ie shower gel, deodorant (male and female), baby wipes, baby oil, baby powder, mouthwash etc, plus a "fun" bag with a few different types of toys, few types of lube, massage oil and several types of condom inc XL and latex-free.

* I try my best to assess at the start how confident the client is... if they are cracking on getting undressed or seem very self assured then fine but if not I'll ask if they want anything in particular and try to crack a joke or two or have a laugh at the start to relax them.

* I always offer a shower when at an incall and I do the clean up myself whether incall or outcall.... and carry a pack of baby wipes and nappy bags for the purpose.

* I say goodbye fondly and tell the client they are welcome to call again etc. Just manners I guess.

From the clients:

* Please dont ask me personal questions about my life/where in the city I live/do I have a boyfriend etc.... I'll lie if I have to but I'd rather not be asked. Chit chat/likes etc are fine but not anything personal.

* ASK if there is a specific thing you want or way you want things thats not been mentioned.

* If something says "at discretion" on profile it means exactly that so please ask at the start and it can be explained then.

* Leave feedback! The majority of people dont bother even when they say they will and it helps us immeasurably if you do! You may find us even more welcoming in future as a thank you ;)

Thats it really I think..... :)

* Be clean, polite etc (obvious that I know).

For me the lady must have enthusiasm and be friendly and welcoming. Without these qualities i would prefer to stay at home and have a sherman. The lady must offer the services she has confirmed she offers with me ensuring i am clean, respectful and have the agreed money. ;)

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I'm interested to know what the guys think makes a good escort (I dont mean physical appearance as thats subject to personal tastes and none of us can become what we are not) and what makes the appointment enjoyable enough to want to repeat

I'll take a girl who's a passionate kisser over just about anything else.

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For me, it's a sense that the girl wants you to be there with her for the time you have paid for. The fact that she appears to be enjoying my company as well as offering sex is what turns an OK punt into a blinding one for me. I am well aware that it is a job for the girls and that some of the camaraderie may simply be down to great acting, but as long as I can't tell .... ;) .

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For me, it's a sense that the girl wants you to be there with her for the time you have paid for. The fact that she appears to be enjoying my company as well as offering sex is what turns an OK punt into a blinding one for me. I am well aware that it is a job for the girls and that some of the camaraderie may simply be down to great acting, but as long as I can't tell .... ;) .

Yep, its all so simple really. There is nothing more enjoyable than being with a hot lady who you believe is happy to share the experience with you. When the lady stays on, on her own time , you get the Carlsberg experience.!! Wheres the fun in booking someone whom you sense is just putting in the time, no matter what technical proficiency she might have.? Give me a good fench kisser any day as well.!!

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A full refund followed by mutual love and affection.

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Totally agree with the other responses here. It's about the passion & enthusiasm. You can be the hottest girl in the world, but if you don't want to be doing your job, it won't be an enjoyable punt.

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Totally agree with the other responses here. It's about the passion & enthusiasm. You can be the hottest girl in the world, but if you don't want to be doing your job, it won't be an enjoyable punt.

You've hit the nail on the head here. If the girl enjoys her job everyone's a winner .If she's not, that ease,that spark will be missing abd you end up with an ordinary meet --- I'd prefer a decent massage in those situations.!!

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Yep, its all so simple really. There is nothing more enjoyable than being with a hot lady who you believe is happy to share the experience with you. When the lady stays on, on her own time , you get the Carlsberg experience.!! Wheres the fun in booking someone whom you sense is just putting in the time, no matter what technical proficiency she might have.? Give me a good fench kisser any day as well.!!

The only thing I'd say about the time thing.... If I dont call my agency and tell them I am safe inside my car when the times up, they'd be out looking for me lol!

I noticed people complain about clock watching too but again, if theres not a clock easily visible you need to keep track of these things.... sometimes if only to make sure that you wont run out before... well you know lol. Its not rudeness or unwillingness to be there, more making sure that the client gets what they want within the time allowed. Sometimes I use an ipod which has 1hr of songs on a list but if there is already music or tv or something on then I cant :)

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I think as you go along you do get that certain sense of timing.

Regards a good appointment for me, I like good communication before arrival and the chap to arrive clean and with the correct fee. I have a bath/shower which can be used as required if someone feels the need to freshen up. I think other ladies have touched on this before but not every man knows how to clean his vitals correctly. I'm not OCD in this department, but there are bits and pieces underwhich cleaning needs to occur if you are liking attention in that area.

Regards outcalls I often take a large bag full of anything I would ever require, yet hardly ever have call to use a lot of the items!I have recently had to add a mini-towel, plus soap since I had one or two home visits last year where I was faced with no soap, cold water and a dirty rag in the bathroom( and that was thrown in the bath). The other thing is heating. Sat at home in your cosy woolly jumper, you probably have your heating on low and fair play in the interests of efficiency/lean times. If I'm to be encouraged to whip my clothes of however I do require a slightly warmer atmosphere. I do understand it's not an automatic thought for most guys, I have the advantage of knowing the right temperature for bedroom activities and I often get comments about how warm it is at my place(although even I can sometimes get it wrong, especially with short notice on cold days). I had a few incidents last year driving home, trying to warm up with the car heater on.

I'm a fairly tolerant person really!

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There is nothing worse than being shown the door early. I don't mean overtly, I mean covertly. If the SP wants time between appointments she should schedule it so.

On the positive side there's that chemistry which cannot be predicted. It's not easy to achieve perfect timing when having sex I've found but when achieved it pushes the appointment into the awesome category.

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For me, it's a sense that the girl wants you to be there with her for the time you have paid for. The fact that she appears to be enjoying my company as well as offering sex is what turns an OK punt into a blinding one for me. I am well aware that it is a job for the girls and that some of the camaraderie may simply be down to great acting, but as long as I can't tell .... ;) .

Good post. For me it certainly is about the lady appearing to enjoy the punt and offering what i require, if she is acting then that is just fine with me as long as i am convinced.

If you also click its happy days as i have been lucky enough to discover on many occassions. :)

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Yeh, pretty much agree with all said so far. Musts for me are:

* The girl knows what she is doing and is comfortable

* Enthusiasm

* Ability to make me feel the most important guy in the world,if only for the time alloted

* Personality

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For me a good punt includes enthusiatic kissing and a girl that is up for it and not just going through the motions.

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The answers to this would be legion. Everyone has different ideas about what they want. Still; someone who at least makes you think she's positively enjoyed you being there (even if it's secretly good acting), who kisses and likes to be kissed, who can know when to take the lead and when to follow, who can suggest stuff and be open to suggestions, who enjoys what she does to you and what you do to her.

Not everybody wants to receive feedback - some positively don't want it.

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+1 for great kissing and for the lady to appear genuinely happy to be there with you. Using my name rather than hunni or babe (which I detest).

After my most recent hotel punt, we were dressing and I mentioned to the lady that I was off to get something to eat. She asked if she could join me and we spend the rest of the evening drinking, eating, chatting and cuddling in the hotel bar. Perhaps she'd nothing better to do, but that made a good punt great.

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For me, the only thing that spoils an appointment for me and makes me uncomfortable is when gentlemen do not speak/interact.

I am not talking about the nervous one, they tend to open up and it is fun coaxing them.. I am referring to the "seasoned", lie down on the bed, arms behind the head, planks that want an hour of non-stop action from me with no participation or conversation back. I know it is my "job" to please you, but I am not a line 'em up and bonk all day lady, and would like some fun myself, (please).

A really good appointment, (that stays in the mind), is one where both parties click, you have a great laugh, great fun and shared interests to chat over.

I am lucky I have had more than my fair share of those. I think it comes from a well-written honest profile, and gentlemen that read them.

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For me the elusive quality that I seek, and do find from time to time is one of trust. I don't mean being able to (or wanting to) confide loads of personal info, but rather finding someone with whom I can feel relaxed, and consequently everything else feels more natural and hence enjoyable.

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+1 for great kissing and for the lady to appear genuinely happy to be there with you. Using my name rather than hunni or babe (which I detest).

After my most recent hotel punt, we were dressing and I mentioned to the lady that I was off to get something to eat. She asked if she could join me and we spend the rest of the evening drinking, eating, chatting and cuddling in the hotel bar. Perhaps she'd nothing better to do, but that made a good punt great.

now that's a dream punt!

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This has likely been done before but I cant find owt lol.

Having taken the plunge and joined my agency and been working a little while now, all nerves have long since subsided etc and I find myself much more chilled out and relaxed about it all. Not that I was ever worried but used to get a little... mild butterflies shall we say :)

I've read a lot on here (I lurk a lot lol) and pay attention to what people say makes a good or a bad booking.

I'm interested to know what the guys think makes a good escort (I dont mean physical appearance as thats subject to personal tastes and none of us can become what we are not) and what makes the appointment enjoyable enough to want to repeat, and perhaps what THEY do to make sure that things are pleasant for the girl :)

From the girls am curious to know what they think is good/bad in a client (suspect this will be obvious but there may be some surprises) and also what they do/don't to in order to try make themselves/their service that cut above the rest? :)

This is prob really basic stuff I'm about to write but am just starting the conversation off... someone else may write useful things I can learn from :)

For me personally....

* I always dress the best I can... everything freshly laundered each day, and aim for "respectable on the outside" incase I am seen arriving or leaving. For me this is usually a black pencil skirt with stockings and heels and a slightly sexy top underneath which will be hidden usually by a classic style trench coat or similar. Legs and *other* bits are shaved every single morning, tans always done, nails always immaculate, hair always freshly washed and I always wear nice perfume.

* Sounds daft but I keep my car washed... dont want a scruffy looking car drawing attention in a nice neighbourhood....

* I always wear nice lingerie and TRY to remember to not wear same thing twice in a row if a client makes repeat bookings(s).

* I try to be prepared for all eventualities... I carry a smart bag with a couple of different lingerie outfits incase the client wants something totally different to what I am wearing (being with an agency, clients often dont ask). In it I also have a toiletries purse with travel sized "everything" ie shower gel, deodorant (male and female), baby wipes, baby oil, baby powder, mouthwash etc, plus a "fun" bag with a few different types of toys, few types of lube, massage oil and several types of condom inc XL and latex-free.

* I try my best to assess at the start how confident the client is... if they are cracking on getting undressed or seem very self assured then fine but if not I'll ask if they want anything in particular and try to crack a joke or two or have a laugh at the start to relax them.

* I always offer a shower when at an incall and I do the clean up myself whether incall or outcall.... and carry a pack of baby wipes and nappy bags for the purpose.

* I say goodbye fondly and tell the client they are welcome to call again etc. Just manners I guess.

From the clients:

* Please dont ask me personal questions about my life/where in the city I live/do I have a boyfriend etc.... I'll lie if I have to but I'd rather not be asked. Chit chat/likes etc are fine but not anything personal.

* ASK if there is a specific thing you want or way you want things thats not been mentioned.

* If something says "at discretion" on profile it means exactly that so please ask at the start and it can be explained then.

* Leave feedback! The majority of people dont bother even when they say they will and it helps us immeasurably if you do! You may find us even more welcoming in future as a thank you ;)

Thats it really I think..... :)

* Be clean, polite etc (obvious that I know).

I do mainly outcalls and always take a good selection of underwear with me. It is good to have good communication from a client as that leads to an enjoyable experience for both sides. Good manners and good hygiene on both sides( I think that goes without saying).

Shelly

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I find that it is the things (good or bad) that are said that I remember many months after the appointment. Particularly memorable were "I want your juice" just before a fabulous CIM, "Ooh you are a good licker", "what a good cock", "I came twice, I didn't think I would" and "you're so charming" from the good meetings (it's always nice to be shown some appreciation). Conversely, some phrases from the bad meetings are "don't you want to come yet", "isn't this a bit of an expensive addiction" and "well you had a good time didn't ya" (the latter from a girl leaving 30 minutes early from an outcall). Most memorable exchange of all was with a Madam after leaving a Dutch Prive Huis "she is REALLY good", reply "yes, I know!". Says it all.

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