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Recently a fav working girl of mine introduced me to some rough play - including slapping in the face while she sucked my cock !

I got off on this big time - should I be ashamed - alarmed - or just enjoy it - I have already rebooked !!!

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I thought this was more of a 1950's thing - you know... go out on saturday night to the pub, get a skinful, come home, slap the wife about a bit. Not allowed nowadays (unless you are paying to do it by the sound of things)

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Recently a fav working girl of mine introduced me to some rough play - including slapping in the face while she sucked my cock !

I got off on this big time - should I be ashamed - alarmed - or just enjoy it - I have already rebooked !!!

why ask the question? You have already booked again, and you said you enjoyed it. If you were bothered, presumably you wouldn't have booked.

Can't see the attraction myself though, I have to say

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How did she manage to reach your face if she was blowing you?

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How did she manage to reach your face if she was blowing you?

I think he was slapping her !

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I think he was slapping her !

Aha :huh: Thinks of bitten willy now!

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Recently a fav working girl of mine introduced me to some rough play - including slapping in the face while she sucked my cock !

I got off on this big time - should I be ashamed - alarmed - or just enjoy it - I have already rebooked !!!

A dangerous road to go down methinks. Easy to continue to up the anti. not too many women want to be slapped on the face. Why does she allow this ? If she is unstable and decides one day to call it assault, you could be in for big trouble. Any rough stuff should be given by the WG not received imho. If it goes wrong it could go horribly wrong.

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How about tit slapping and bum slapping?

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If she asked for it and you can bring yourself to do it, go for it, after all you are trying to make it fun for her too aren't you? Its not something I can bring myself to do even in a consensual GF situation. But I can totally understand how some men get off on it. I met a petite little thing at a sex party last weekend who was saying she gets off on dominating women while showing me her strap on so its not only restricted to men.

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If she asked for it and you can bring yourself to do it, go for it, after all you are trying to make it fun for her too aren't you? Its not something I can bring myself to do even in a consensual GF situation. But I can totally understand how some men get off on it. I met a petite little thing at a sex party last weekend who was saying she gets off on dominating women while showing me her strap on so its not only restricted to men.

Last year this stunner brought her own fluffy handcuffs and light whip with her on her own accord. She kept asking me to whip her bum harder and harder during doggy--- I dutifully obeyed, it was quite surreal. I wonder what was going on in her head at the time ? Not so sure if I would do it again and I'm sure I must have left spome marks which I was not happy about.

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Some women like to be abused you have only to visit the kink sites to see that. I can understand it being part of the feeling of being taken and used and also that the pain creates a much more powerful orgasm. But I don't get any pleasure from hurting a woman and after all I'm paying for my pleasure not so!

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My very first booking as an independent was with a foreign man

and he slapped my face.

I slapped him back harder. He got a shock and I told him nicely that it was not allowed.

He apologised. I know I took a chance of the situation becoming unpleasant by retaliating

but it was just an instant reaction. Things were fine after that.

My thoughts at that moment were.... if he had a wife and she put up with him

then she must have had a miserable life.

If a client asked if it was ok to slap me then I would not mind the question but

the answer would be no.

Doing it without warning or permission is just not on.

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I had a GF once who on our second date came to my place with a box full of tricks - including handcuffs/restraints, gag, cane, paddle.....and I thought oh no what is she wanting to do to me....turned out they were for her. She got right off on being completely dominated - loved being chocked, smacked and spanked. She instructed anytime she said no or stop to just carry on twice as hard (was she really the one in control?)- only on the word BANANAS should I stop.....she never said bananas! (I have now concluded she was in fact bananas!) :P

It's not something that particularly did it for me - although I did like seeing her enjoy herself - she told me that her previous BFs had not really given it to her as she wanted.

Back on topic - is it something I'd do to a WG - nah, mot without an administration discount, and I can't see that ever happening.....

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You would have to be a brave escort, I think, to bring personal desires like that to work with you.

I am naturally very submissive, and enjoy certain types of pain including face slapping and choking. I very rarely talk about this on escort/client boards but as I am now seeing less clients and am taking more security measures I feel safe referencing it, but still I would never do anything rough with a client, except that I allow a little gentle spanking as it is a very mainstream kink, and doesn't usually imply that the woman is particularly submissive.

Many men and women do enjoy this kind of play and if it is between adults who have given informed consent and everyone enjoys it then there is nothing wrong. My worry with offering it as a paid service would be that the trust you get with a long term partner (whether romantic or just a good friend) is not there, and I do not know their motivations (whether they are just dominant, if they are doing it to please me, or if they are doing it because they are misogynistic and think it's an appropriate way to treat women in general). I wouldn't want to encourage a prejudiced mindset, and I wouldn't want to let a dangerous client think that I would take any kind of rough treatment he wanted to dish out. Also, aside from that, I need to be in a particular mood to want rough play and with my husband or a close friend I can say 'no, just vanilla stuff today thanks' and it's all good. With a client, who had read a list of services and made a booking and paid good money to enjoy himself... I would feel some pressure to perform even if I wasn't interested. Even if you say 'at discretion', many clients either don't understand or ignore that (which is why I stopped offering anal completely, it is too awkward having to have that conversation) and get upset or think you don't like them if you say it's not on offer.

I think if she is offering it of her own free will (which it would seem she is, if she asked you for it when you didn't bring it up first) and you enjoy it then there is nothing wrong with it at all :) If you continue to see her just bear in mind that you should still ask first and make sure she's comfortable with it every time as people's moods shift and tastes change and some day she might feel it's not something she's comfortable doing any more. I would be careful to avoid leaving marks incase as someone else says, she becomes unstable and decides to accuse you of assault, and even more so because it could effect her work and her personal life and I'm sure you want to avoid doing harm, especially to an escort who is putting quite a lot of trust in you :)

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slightly off topic but - I recently saw a girl and I asked her to slap my face whilst we were having sex, I had tried it before with a very petite girl and it was such a turn on, however this was more of a woman than a girl and she slapped me a few time and I said harder a few times so she slapped me quite hard however during the sex we had moved further up the bed and the slap was so hard I smashed the back of my head against the wall and nearly knocked myself out...try explaining the server head ache (I think I was actually concused) when I went back to the office then later at home.

Slapping a girl - not my thing but it takes all sorts and if she asked for it.....

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Aha :huh: Thinks of bitten willy now!

Would it be possible (if messy with all that blood) to do a 'bobbit' just with one's teeth? Eeek!

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What you do in your appointments is up to you, but i would strongly recommend you not to pursue this activity. I don't see the attraction of slapping a woman, but as cumandgo has said, if she suddenely thinks you have gone too far, or you mark her, you are in big trouble if she goes to the police.

I sort of feel like i am preaching, but i don't think it is worth it to be honest.

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I was seeing a housewife/working woman for a while who said she needed to be slapped during sex to orgasm. Her preference was having her tits slapped, then her face. I obliged a few times, but it really isn't my thing. I didn't continue to see her

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Consenting adults=fine

Exactly, so long as the boundaries/limits are made clear up front.

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