Jonnybgood

One For The Ladies, Older Punters.

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I think this ties in with some recent threads about ages of punters and escorts. Im in my late fifties and with one exception all the girls Ive seen have been less than half my age. With all the girls Ive seen there has been no indication that my age has been a problem, in fact they have made me very welcome and dare I say it have been very professional. My query is do you girls find older punters either, hard work, easy money, prefer them to younger punters or they are no different to younger punters. Hopefully, ladies you wont be shooting yourselves in the foot by answering my questions. Guys have you ever had problems with the ladies because of your age, be it young or old.

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On balance I prefer older chaps, they are on the whole, more respectful, easy to talk to, usually happy to tell you exactly what they want and know what they're doing and are usually very reliable and unlikely to be timewasters.

Give me an older guy over an under 30 any day. I guess my preferred age bracket would be 30-50 but I certainly am more than happy to have clients older than that but I just don't have many of them.

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I think this ties in with some recent threads about ages of punters and escorts. Im in my late fifties and with one exception all the girls Ive seen have been less than half my age. With all the girls Ive seen there has been no indication that my age has been a problem, in fact they have made me very welcome and dare I say it have been very professional. My query is do you girls find older punters either, hard work, easy money, prefer them to younger punters or they are no different to younger punters. Hopefully, ladies you wont be shooting yourselves in the foot by answering my questions. Guys have you ever had problems with the ladies because of your age, be it young or old.

I think 20-something girls prefer the more mature punter. In general we're more polite and respectful.

I think I'm easy to service, I generally manage 2 orgasms but I prefer gentle love making rather than hard fucking. Younger, fitter customers may put more physical demands on the girl thus limiting the number of customers she can comfortably see in a day.

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I prefer my older punters.

The problem with saying that is that the cynics amongst us tend to pick up on it and announce that it's because I don't want to work etc.

It's not that at all. I just find that on a longer appointment, things will run more smoothly with an older guy, we just seem to be on the same wavelength. We get along.

On a short booking, it doesn't make a great deal of difference to be honest, it's not the sex side of things that makes me say I prefer older guys. The sex is different with everyone, some men are more demanding than others. Age doesn't seem to come into that.

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I think this ties in with some recent threads about ages of punters and escorts. Im in my late fifties and with one exception all the girls Ive seen have been less than half my age. With all the girls Ive seen there has been no indication that my age has been a problem, in fact they have made me very welcome and dare I say it have been very professional. My query is do you girls find older punters either, hard work, easy money, prefer them to younger punters or they are no different to younger punters. Hopefully, ladies you wont be shooting yourselves in the foot by answering my questions. Guys have you ever had problems with the ladies because of your age, be it young or old.

A coupleof the girls have said to me that I am very' traditiona ' in the bedroom ( dont think its necessarily a compliment !:o ) -- they say the youger guys throw them around a bit involving some gymnastic type moves ! Hard to know what the girls really think tho' because they aint going to tell you ! I did start a thread about interpreting tell tale signs from the WG that all was not going very well but als it was not really supported, so its learn the hard way !

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So far as the punters on this forum are concerned I am probably the "oldest swinger in town" :) Suppose I have been very lucky but nearly all of the ladies I have punted with have been at least half my (advanced!!) age and only on one occasion have I experienced any problem so far as my age is concerned. I have met some really lovely ladies (especially those from HOD. i.e. Sally, Juliet, Natasha etc.) who seem to me to have gone out of their way to make me feel comfortable. Call me a "fluffy" if you like but the majority of ladies I have come across in my 20 odd years in punting have been delightful. I'm glad to have the opportunity of saying a big "thank you" to all those ladies (they know who they are).

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Because of my age I prefer older gents.

I find I have very little in common with younger men these days.

IMHO older men have more of an idea what they want and how to treat a lady in the bedroom.

I'm not sure if it's just me or if any other older ladies find it strange having sex with someone around the same age as my offspring (early 20's)

It weirds me out for some reason so now I don't see anyone under 25.

My ideal age group is 40 - 65.

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A coupleof the girls have said to me that I am very' traditiona ' in the bedroom ( dont think its necessarily a compliment !:o ) -- they say the youger guys throw them around a bit involving some gymnastic type moves ! Hard to know what the girls really think tho' because they aint going to tell you ! I did start a thread about interpreting tell tale signs from the WG that all was not going very well but als it was not really supported, so its learn the hard way !

Had to say that made me laugh. I am sure I have read before that you are into spanking and watersports? :lol:

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A coupleof the girls have said to me that I am very' traditiona ' in the bedroom ( dont think its necessarily a compliment !:o ) -- they say the youger guys throw them around a bit involving some gymnastic type moves ! Hard to know what the girls really think tho' because they aint going to tell you ! I did start a thread about interpreting tell tale signs from the WG that all was not going very well but als it was not really supported, so its learn the hard way !

Had to say that made me laugh. I am sure I have read before that you are into spanking and watersports? :lol:

Ha,ha Pia -- No, I have never sought 'spanking '-- what did take place , only once mind you, was where this girl brought along fluffy handcuffs and a soft whip and got me to whip her bum during shagging and at her continued insistence, quite hard. I obliged rather reluctantly at first but admit I did it then quite freely continue as a result her vociferous encouragement. As I said before, I am not sure I would do this again -- I would be concerned if marks were left and I had to subsequently explain them !:o

WS -- yes I do seek this service every now and again. I need to be in the mood but more importantly I need the lady to be happy with offering it as well. I guess that many WGs may not like this service even if they technically offer it and therefore I find that in the vast majority of bookings I dont seek it. I havent really worked out how to identify those ladies who happily provide the service , so therefore I tend to steer clear most of the time. I tried non-sensual light dom once but that was so unconvincing I giggled thru it -- not my scene. Lots of Massage, DFK and RO and I'm a happy camper !:)

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I really don't mind the age of a client as long as he doesn't look as if he could peg out during the appointment - I hate to think about having to explain that one to the family. And to be honest after having spent time with quite a few clients under the age of 30, I do think they get a bit of a bad press when it comes to booking escorts. There's something good about how they appreciate mature women with what some would see as their flaws, and far from wanting to bang you all over, they want to learn from you and be seduced and for some reason feel comfortable chatting about what floats their boat, naughty fantasies and stuff they probably wouldn't feel right telling others.

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clients under the age of 30...for some reason feel comfortable chatting about what floats their boat, naughty fantasies and stuff they probably wouldn't feel right telling others.

They probably wrongly assume that any mature escort has been working since she was 18 and therefore you will have seen it all before and be totally unshockable :rolleyes: But hey, as long as they're happy and talking!

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I'm in my early 50s and usually go for ladies in their late 20s to late 30s. I contacted one 28 year old a few months back and did not get a reply. Checking her website a week or so later I saw that she had added a statement to the effect that she would not see men older than 40-something as she could not get her head round having sex with men who were old enough to be her father.

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They probably wrongly assume that any mature escort has been working since she was 18 and therefore you will have seen it all before and be totally unshockable :rolleyes: But hey, as long as they're happy and talking!

I don't think they do, more decided to take control of things after a little life experience. :D

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WS -- yes I do seek this service every now and again. I need to be in the mood but more importantly I need the lady to be happy with offering it as well. I guess that many WGs may not like this service even if they technically offer it and therefore I find that in the vast majority of bookings I dont seek it. I havent really worked out how to identify those ladies who happily provide the service , so therefore I tend to steer clear most of the time. I tried non-sensual light dom once but that was so unconvincing I giggled thru it -- not my scene. Lots of Massage, DFK and RO and I'm a happy camper !:)

I think if WG is set up for it, might be a sign she likes it. Protective cover for the bed or a small kids paldling pool almost anything uther than the bathroom.

If she says yes but it will have to be in the bath and you will have to wash straight after then I assume she is only paying lip service to WS and not really in to it.

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I no longer have an age preference any more. For quite some time I found myself preferring older chaps, since I've always found older males more attractive. By older I mean 40s and then 50s. Now I'm heading across my mid 30s I'm finding men of my own age suddenly becoming of interest, and sometimes even slightly younger.

Regards clients themselves I find older, are actually just as likely to have a bad attitude as those younger. You will always get the "Would you give discount for a young, stud?" type enquiries, to which I often reply "No I actually charge MORE". I've also had requests for 18 and 21st birthday parties, where they think I'll be ok giving details to a group of males so they can point their unsuspecting mate in my direction. Most of the time however younger men who do get to see me, are just as clean and polite as my older clients.

So I guess I'm enjoying all ages at the moment. I wonder if I'll become a Cougar at some point?Perhaps a Lioness with my gingery mane!

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I no longer have an age preference any more. For quite some time I found myself preferring older chaps, since I've always found older males more attractive. By older I mean 40s and then 50s. Now I'm heading across my mid 30s I'm finding men of my own age suddenly becoming of interest, and sometimes even slightly younger.

Regards clients themselves I find older, are actually just as likely to have a bad attitude as those younger. You will always get the "Would you give discount for a young, stud?" type enquiries, to which I often reply "No I actually charge MORE". I've also had requests for 18 and 21st birthday parties, where they think I'll be ok giving details to a group of males so they can point their unsuspecting mate in my direction. Most of the time however younger men who do get to see me, are just as clean and polite as my older clients.

So I guess I'm enjoying all ages at the moment. I wonder if I'll become a Cougar at some point?Perhaps a Lioness with my gingery mane!

That made me giggle Strawberry. I've found since I returned and started marketing myself as a mature escort that the amount of younger guys that are booking is far higher (and very nice it is too), so there really is something in this cougar thing..lol

Having said that I really do prefer my older gentlemen.

Edited by Holly Maddison

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As long as the guys I see are over 25 and respectful I really dont mind what age I see,I have been lucky up to present and seen a lovely variety of ages. Oh and the oldest was in his early 80's and as fit as a fiddle and masses of fun.

Shelly

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From the punters perspective I agree with Karen's comments earlier - I try to only visit ladies who are older than my daughter (30) as it feels a bit pervy otherwise. This doesn't always happen as I do occasionally use a couple of parlours and see whoever is available, often ladies below 30. however when booking an independant I always look for ladies over 30 - don't know what I'll do in 10 years time (assuming i'm still trying to punt!)

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From the punters perspective I agree with Karen's comments earlier - I try to only visit ladies who are older than my daughter (30) as it feels a bit pervy otherwise. This doesn't always happen as I do occasionally use a couple of parlours and see whoever is available, often ladies below 30. however when booking an independant I always look for ladies over 30 - don't know what I'll do in 10 years time (assuming i'm still trying to punt!)

My step dau is nearly 40. You just have to ignore it as you get older. :(

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I don't really mind either way but most of my gents seem to be older guys. I think someowhere in his 70s was the oldest and 21 has been the youngest. I can't say that older men are all more respectful because there are all types in all age groups.

There is something very flattering about being 'chosen' by a younger man but then I guess being chosen by anyone at all is a compliment!

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I think this ties in with some recent threads about ages of punters and escorts. Im in my late fifties and with one exception all the girls Ive seen have been less than half my age. With all the girls Ive seen there has been no indication that my age has been a problem, in fact they have made me very welcome and dare I say it have been very professional. My query is do you girls find older punters either, hard work, easy money, prefer them to younger punters or they are no different to younger punters. Hopefully, ladies you wont be shooting yourselves in the foot by answering my questions. Guys have you ever had problems with the ladies because of your age, be it young or old.

Although not a lady or old, to add my 2 cents.... Ive actually found that most WGs seem to prefer the older guy.

Sometimes had a off punt and been told later that she actually prefers the older punters.

Wish they sometimes put that on their profile and save me the hassle if thats the case... Doesnt mean Im rude or impolite, just that they just dont seem to click with a younger punter (dont know why, somehow they feel lost about what they need to do? Like theres a difference?)...

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Ha,ha Pia -- Lots of Massage, DFK and RO and I'm a happy camper !:)

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I stand to be 'corrected' :D

Offering BDSM now, Pia? :P Edited by Tiggy 7

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