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Hi

Say if you have/had kids (boys) and somehw u found out they were planning on seeing an escort, wud you discourage them, encorage them and maybe suggest a friend or ignore it and let them do wht thy want?

Just curious

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I've got sons who know what I do and we have discussed this in the past. I just said as long as you are practising safe sex, its entirely consensual on both sides and you are being respectful to the girl, then it doesn't matter who you are having sex with. I don't think I would recommend friends but would maybe point them in the direction of this site if they asked.

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I've got sons who know what I do and we have discussed this in the past. I just said as long as you are practising safe sex, its entirely consensual on both sides and you are being respectful to the girl, then it doesn't matter who you are having sex with. I don't think I would recommend friends but would maybe point them in the direction of this site if they asked.

And if I'd had a recommendation from a senior relative to visit a particular WG, I'd be very careful not to follow it up, because I wouldn't want any report going back up the chain!

Do any of my sons punt? I don't know, and I'm most certainly not going to ask either!

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I've got sons who know what I do and we have discussed this in the past. I just said as long as you are practising safe sex, its entirely consensual on both sides and you are being respectful to the girl, then it doesn't matter who you are having sex with. I don't think I would recommend friends but would maybe point them in the direction of this site if they asked.

wow you must have a really open relationship! How did they react first, were they ashamed, do they tell their mates?? I cant get my head around tht tbh, being able to discuss/get tips from ur mum!

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wow you must have a really open relationship! How did they react first, were they ashamed, do they tell their mates?? I cant get my head around tht tbh, being able to discuss/get tips from ur mum!

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My son is in his second relationship and is not a virgin. I would not be too happy if he saw an escort while he is dating, as I personally don't think it is fair on the partner, especially if they are young and there are no responsibilities to consider, ie, if it isn't working he could easily just walk away. However, if he were single and for what ever reason didn't want to date, then I would prefer him to see an Escort than a one night stand as that way no one gets hurt, no mixed messages and she is far less likely to be carrying an std, plus practising safe sex.

I doubt very much he would come to me about this though, as he prefers to keep things private and is a very independent character. I have given him condoms though, as I found some of mine in his bedroom and told him to stop invading my privacy lol. Kids!

He has no idea what I do.

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I have met three escorts who have been quite open with their family about what they do. Two in particular were 'driven' by the need to provide for family.

One (with stable marriage) discussd it openly with her sons and husband.

Another, in particular, impressed me with her determination. With several children, deserted by her husband, she was open with them about what she proposed to do to make a living for them all rather than live on benefits. Result: children well grown up and moved away, she does incall from her rural home (having previously been outcall only while children at home).

Done very well for herself - owns oher properties she rents out. Good on her, I say. Nothing to be ashamed of.

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I thnk in any situation as long as safe sex is practised at all times then problems there shouldn't be!!!!

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