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The Age Of Decision

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There have been several polls and threads about the age of punters, the age they started etc. but I don't remember seeing one that asked the ladies

1 At what age did you decide to take up escorting as a career?

2 How much later did you take the plunge and meet your first guest

I hope this is not seen as being too intrusive. If it is I am sure that the ladies will not respond.

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I was 60

14 months ago for me and it took me 3 months to muster up the courage and the first 2 or 3 were not the best in the world. I had one that I travelled to Birmingham to see only to discover when he took off his dressing gown he had awful body odour and was far too shy and inexperienced to ask him to do anything about it. He extended to 2 hours while I was with him too, so spent most of my time at the bottom end avoiding his armpits. The next one was taking coke and had a bottle of wine. I accepted one small glass of wine as I was driving home after, but he kept putting it in his mouth and feeding it into mine after I had told him no more and tried to give me coke by putting it on my private parts after I had said no.

To be honest, if I had not got the support of a dear friend of mine I think I would have stopped there and then, but my ex stopped my CSA payments and my regular job was not paying enough. It was either that or sell the house just as my son was about to take his GCSEs and become homeless. My maternal instincts took over.

Happy to say that it's nothing like that now though. Learning the hard way at least paves your way to becoming shrewd and having gut instincts that steer you away from trouble. I would also have no problems asking a gent to freshen up now if needed.

So in answer to your question I was late 30s and no, I had never considered doing it before the situation arose.

Edited by kissxkate

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I was just approaching 32 and started within a week of making the decision.

Massive debt was the reason for starting and the plan was to work to pay it all off.

I was debt free after around 12 months but enjoyed the work so I carried on.

That was 13 years ago and I'm still here. smile.gif

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Well I started nearly 2 months ago but I'd thought about doing it for about 6 months prior to that. I'm 23. I quite like it so far. I'm doing it to support myself while studying.

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I'm sorry this thread hasn't had more of a response-

In the past, ladies who have given extremely interesting accounts of their early years have included Michela Minx, Sunni Tara and Nadia Irmani. They were worth saving and keeping (if only to pass on to the research students who sometimes turn up wanting information), and I regret not doing so.

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I'm sorry this thread hasn't had more of a response-

In the past, ladies who have given extremely interesting accounts of their early years have included Michela Minx, Sunni Tara and Nadia Irmani. They were worth saving and keeping (if only to pass on to the research students who sometimes turn up wanting information), and I regret not doing so.

Thanks Mr B. I thought there would be more interest too. Perhaps moving it up to the top again may help. I hope so.

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I'm sorry this thread hasn't had more of a response-

In the past, ladies who have given extremely interesting accounts of their early years have included Michela Minx, Sunni Tara and Nadia Irmani. They were worth saving and keeping (if only to pass on to the research students who sometimes turn up wanting information), and I regret not doing so.

I too remember all of those accounts, and like many others I imagine, miss both Micheala and Sunni. Shiraz is another that springs to mind (beautiful woman in every respect) along with Angie Riley and Jo Of Leeds all of whom facinated me with their stories. I think the industry has changed a little bit since their day (remember they started right at the beginning of the internet boom), its a lot easier to slip into the industry now and certainly with the growth of other sites, there do seem to be a lot more BBW and mature escorts getting into it and a hell of a lot just doing it for a little bit of pin money while hubbie is at work (thanks to the purple site).

I had a bit of a dabble in my late teens but didn't do it properly until I was in my late 30's. That was ten years ago (I too took advantage of the internet boom). I've seen so so many girls come and go, some of us go and come back again, some manage to stay away perminantly.

I have a disabled son that needed lazer treatment in the States, thats why I built a site and got going ten years back. He's had his treatment now and much more besides. Then I decided that we would save up for our Spanish Villa, have that now too. Now hubby and I have gone our seperate ways, I'm back again, only this time its as much for the fun as the money. If I can afford to buy myself another canal boat along the way then all the better.

My first client was absolutely adorable, kind and gentle, knew it was my first time and acted accordingly, which I am so grateful for, because I was that nervous I probably would have bolted if he hadn't been and never worked again.

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Thanks Mr B. I thought there would be more interest too. Perhaps moving it up to the top again may help. I hope so.

From the ones who have responded, a common theme seems to be emerging along the lines of circumstance over personal choice. Thus a topic like this, that IMO seems rather innocent or naive from the outset, is bound to be unpopular because it can reveal too much of the wrong info.

Shame really.

Edited by SpoksEyebrows

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It's not "the wrong" info, it's just that getting started must be at best nerve wracking. At worst it's going against everything you know your friends and family would want for you. Either way, it takes some extreme personal circumstances to make that first leap for many ladies. But if there was a common theme in what I saw it was that circumstance is needed to bring some girls into the industry, but personal choice keeps many here.

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I was 19 when I decided to go down the sex work path, and 20 when I first seen a client.

Like Kate, my first client was not good. It was an outcall at a really dingy flat and he tried to underpay me. I have met lots of lovely interesting gents through this line of work since though.

The Sex Industry has always fascinated me ever since I was very young watching Pretty Woman (although we all know now it's nothing like that).

It was not bad circumstances which led me into this, mainly it was a desire to save and do less hours for more money. I was in a minimum-wage job but could still make ends meet. I totally understand the maternal instinct thing myself though.

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Being paid for sex always fascinated me, but I just didn't know how to get into it and was driven to get a conventional career. When that didn't take off for a few personal reasons I was fed up of being restricted financially, I'd always been happy having different boyfriends(not necessarily at the same time!), having sex etc and it wasn't a huge leap at all. I'd tried the swinging scene and found the behaviour of some single men pretty bad. Took me quite some time though to pick up the business, most of my knowledge came from reading internet sites as well as trial and error. It's only relatively recently I've found the best way of arranging my liaisons, wish I'd known that from the start but I didn't have the confidence or nouse back then.

There is more behind my story, but I'm not at a point where I wish to air it publically - would be too much detail.

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My entrance into this industry was borne out of extreme circumstances too.

Nothing to do with being in debt, that was not the case at all with me.

After several years of chosen celibacy when I thought my sex drive had buggered

off for good.... what did it do?

Came back with a vengeance and I mean a real vengeance! It is still there.

Rather than have a succession of one night stands and/or

a trail of risky romances .... I plunged into escorting and

am still here 7 years later.

I was already a mature lady when I had my first appointment and I believe that

this job keeps me feeling and looking younger than my age.

There is a little more to my story of course but that's all you lot are getting just now.

<_<

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had originally joined the other site a couple of years ago for the phonechatting as i had done that for years, kept receiving emails asking if i had considered escorting got curious n took the plunge, always had a extremely high sex drive, never done it for the money as the job i was in when i started earned me over 2k a week, only encountered one really bad experience where i nearly lost my sight due to someone being a dickhead n not taking no for a answer, the other 99.9% guys have been terrific

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My entrance into this industry was borne out of extreme circumstances too.

Nothing to do with being in debt, that was not the case at all with me.

After several years of chosen celibacy when I thought my sex drive had buggered

off for good.... what did it do?

Came back with a vengeance and I mean a real vengeance! It is still there.

Rather than have a succession of one night stands and/or

a trail of risky romances .... I plunged into escorting and

am still here 7 years later.

I was already a mature lady when I had my first appointment and I believe that

this job keeps me feeling and looking younger than my age.

There is a little more to my story of course but that's all you lot are getting just now.

<_<

That's a good start though!

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38. wish I'd done it years ago. A set of varied circumstances put it in my head. Complete lack of money! sorry Guys, no matter how much we love it when we've taken the plunge - it's a HUGE decision because of attitudes towards us and the job. 2nd was being shown a site as a possible market for selling lingerie - I looked at the profiles and thought 'I could do that'. 3rd - A friend who I would never have dreamt it of, started swinging and I was her safety contact. I started looking at those sites thinking I might copy her. instead ended up thinking 'Should I do that for free when I haven't got a pot to p**s in. And the final element was finding the SAAFE site (I was obviously researching by then, but hadn't made a firm decision in my head). I had what I call the 'Mail Readers' perception of prostitution before. It was either drugged out young victims controlled by vicious pimps or Arab Princes and Posh Birds. The SAAFE site showed me a whole world in between - all these intelligent, canny and 'normal' women - just like me.

I recieved an enquiry within hours of putting an ad out and took a booking for 2 hours later! I didn't have time to get nervous or even have a glass of wine! Half hour before saw me legging it round the shops to buy condoms!

Six months later, I think I've found my niche in life! xx ;)

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Thank you to all the ladies for very interesting posts and a real eye-opener. This is one discussion that every punter on this board should read. I hope more ladies will post their stories here.

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38. wish I'd done it years ago. A set of varied circumstances put it in my head. Complete lack of money! sorry Guys, no matter how much we love it when we've taken the plunge - it's a HUGE decision because of attitudes towards us and the job. 2nd was being shown a site as a possible market for selling lingerie - I looked at the profiles and thought 'I could do that'. 3rd - A friend who I would never have dreamt it of, started swinging and I was her safety contact. I started looking at those sites thinking I might copy her. instead ended up thinking 'Should I do that for free when I haven't got a pot to p**s in. And the final element was finding the SAAFE site (I was obviously researching by then, but hadn't made a firm decision in my head). I had what I call the 'Mail Readers' perception of prostitution before. It was either drugged out young victims controlled by vicious pimps or Arab Princes and Posh Birds. The SAAFE site showed me a whole world in between - all these intelligent, canny and 'normal' women - just like me.

I recieved an enquiry within hours of putting an ad out and took a booking for 2 hours later! I didn't have time to get nervous or even have a glass of wine! Half hour before saw me legging it round the shops to buy condoms!

Six months later, I think I've found my niche in life! xx

HA! This was exactly my situation kizzielily. I think finding SAAFE was the real eye opener. Knowing that intelligent, stable and independent ladies were out there doing this day after day made me realise I could give it a go. I created my ** profile and got a booking that day, nipping into Sainsbury's to buy condoms on my way to my first client. He was so nice and such a gentleman I decided to continue. I've only been at this 2 months but am loving it so far. Once I created my website things really took off and now I wouldn't want to do anything different!

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Thank you to all the ladies for very interesting posts and a real eye-opener. This is one discussion that every punter on this board should read. I hope more ladies will post their stories here.

I thought so when I started it, and was a bit surprised to see how slowly it went. Thanks for your cemments. This may push it up near the top again

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I started when I was 32 - not driven by neccessity but the idea of sex with a stranger, in exchange for cash had been a turn on for a long while and then I was dared. I found an agency, went for an interview and decided to start a few days later. I sat glued to the sofa, watching my phone for 2 evenings, dressed to go, clutching my hand bag before I got the first call on night 3. Hilarious thinking back. Ended up with a 3hr appointment with the most fabulous client anyone could meet for their first time.

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